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"*takes off glasses, pinches bridge of nose* You can’t be straight if you like sucking a cock. " It's Saturday afternoon, it's nap time, don't you be waking the internalised homophobes | |||
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"Be your self Lust has no boundaries " Amen x | |||
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"*takes off glasses, pinches bridge of nose* You can’t be straight if you like sucking a cock. " Perhaps put those glasses back on and read more. Education is the key to enlightenment. Oh and stop pinching the bridge of your nose. | |||
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"*takes off glasses, pinches bridge of nose* You can’t be straight if you like sucking a cock. Perhaps put those glasses back on and read more. Education is the key to enlightenment. Oh and stop pinching the bridge of your nose. " Just to clarify, are we saying a man sucking another man’s cock is a heterosexual act ? | |||
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"*takes off glasses, pinches bridge of nose* You can’t be straight if you like sucking a cock. It's Saturday afternoon, it's nap time, don't you be waking the internalised homophobes " I didn't see anything homophobic in the comment, there was no suggestion that men sucking men is bad. Just that it's not, by definition, a 'straight' thing to do? | |||
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"*takes off glasses, pinches bridge of nose* You can’t be straight if you like sucking a cock. It's Saturday afternoon, it's nap time, don't you be waking the internalised homophobes " Hes not homophobic | |||
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"I consider myself ‘straight’ although find bi easier on my profile. But I love to suck dick. I don’t need anything in return. Huge turn on. Anyone else?" How could blame ya, they taste mighty good ;-p | |||
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"*takes off glasses, pinches bridge of nose* You can’t be straight if you like sucking a cock. Perhaps put those glasses back on and read more. Education is the key to enlightenment. Oh and stop pinching the bridge of your nose. Just to clarify, are we saying a man sucking another man’s cock is a heterosexual act ? " I'm bi and I love to suck. I agree with you. | |||
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"*takes off glasses, pinches bridge of nose* You can’t be straight if you like sucking a cock. Perhaps put those glasses back on and read more. Education is the key to enlightenment. Oh and stop pinching the bridge of your nose. Just to clarify, are we saying a man sucking another man’s cock is a heterosexual act ? " well yeah, but only if they’re both straight of course | |||
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"I consider myself ‘straight’ although find bi easier on my profile. But I love to suck dick. I don’t need anything in return. Huge turn on. Anyone else? How could blame ya, they taste mighty good ;-p " | |||
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"*takes off glasses, pinches bridge of nose* You can’t be straight if you like sucking a cock. It's Saturday afternoon, it's nap time, don't you be waking the internalised homophobes Hes not homophobic " I wasn't calling CJ out for being homophobic Quite the opposite actually I pretty much agree with his sentiment There is, however, a strata of men who internalise their 'true' sexuality because of their own internal quarrels and issues with labels and how they 'might' be viewed should their secret be known There also exists a large number of gay men who would deny that their predilection for 'straight' or curious guys as opposed to those that identify as gay men That, again, shows a degree of internalised homophobia in that they don't recognise gay men as 'real men' Of course, they may argue that it is a 'preference' or a 'kink' and they couldn't possibly be homophobic because they're gay, but it still is homophobic You don't need to be anti bi, anti gay, anti trans or whatever to demonstrate a phobia of others | |||
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"*takes off glasses, pinches bridge of nose* You can’t be straight if you like sucking a cock. It's Saturday afternoon, it's nap time, don't you be waking the internalised homophobes Hes not homophobic I wasn't calling CJ out for being homophobic Quite the opposite actually I pretty much agree with his sentiment There is, however, a strata of men who internalise their 'true' sexuality because of their own internal quarrels and issues with labels and how they 'might' be viewed should their secret be known There also exists a large number of gay men who would deny that their predilection for 'straight' or curious guys as opposed to those that identify as gay men That, again, shows a degree of internalised homophobia in that they don't recognise gay men as 'real men' Of course, they may argue that it is a 'preference' or a 'kink' and they couldn't possibly be homophobic because they're gay, but it still is homophobic You don't need to be anti bi, anti gay, anti trans or whatever to demonstrate a phobia of others " Ok xx | |||
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"To be fair, great comments. But I’m not bothered with labels. My point is; I love sucking a cock. Needs to be a nice big one though. I do like panties also and cd. I’ve even been fucked a few times although have to be in the mood. But sucking a dick is the ultimate. " But you consider yourself straight ? | |||
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"To be fair, great comments. But I’m not bothered with labels. My point is; I love sucking a cock. Needs to be a nice big one though. I do like panties also and cd. I’ve even been fucked a few times although have to be in the mood. But sucking a dick is the ultimate. " So dont label your self Whats the point of this thread | |||
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"My original post; does anyone else love sucking dick?" Yeah plenty of people | |||
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"Straight guys don't suck dick. That's not homophobic, just fact.Ask any gay guy if they think truly "straight" men suck cock. Unless you now want to change the definition of "straight" ? Sometimes things just are what they are. Sounds bi to me. " I've licked many a pussy while the partner is hanging out the back of me. I'm gay not interested in women and would never call myself "bi" because I don't fancy women (sorry ladies ). It's a sexual act very nice at the time but it doesn't define my sexuality because I identify as a gay man. That's a fact | |||
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"I consider myself ‘straight’ although find bi easier on my profile. But I love to suck dick. I don’t need anything in return. Huge turn on. Anyone else?" You can either say you don't believe in labelling people's sexuality and therefore sucking cock is just something you enjoy, or if you're saying you're "straight" you are labelling. Therefore if you suck cock you're really not straight, you are bisexual. Question is why are you concerned about not being considered "straight"? | |||
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"*takes off glasses, pinches bridge of nose* You can’t be straight if you like sucking a cock. Perhaps put those glasses back on and read more. Education is the key to enlightenment. Oh and stop pinching the bridge of your nose. " eh???? what he said is right not sure what books youre reading that suggest straight men suck cock nothing wrong with being gay or bi but call a spade a spade ffs you aint straight if you suck dick | |||
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"Straight guys don't suck dick. That's not homophobic, just fact.Ask any gay guy if they think truly "straight" men suck cock. Unless you now want to change the definition of "straight" ? Sometimes things just are what they are. Sounds bi to me. I've licked many a pussy while the partner is hanging out the back of me. I'm gay not interested in women and would never call myself "bi" because I don't fancy women (sorry ladies ). It's a sexual act very nice at the time but it doesn't define my sexuality because I identify as a gay man. That's a fact" Maybe some people are able to literally detach parts and pieces that they are so sure of their sexual identity that an act is just that , an act and feel no attraction to the person (so it’d become like I don’t know… massaging a persons back??) I assume you lick vajays when in a threesome situation with a guy? Or do you do it casually on your spare time when u got nothing to do? | |||
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"Straight guys don't suck dick. That's not homophobic, just fact.Ask any gay guy if they think truly "straight" men suck cock. Unless you now want to change the definition of "straight" ? Sometimes things just are what they are. Sounds bi to me. I've licked many a pussy while the partner is hanging out the back of me. I'm gay not interested in women and would never call myself "bi" because I don't fancy women (sorry ladies ). It's a sexual act very nice at the time but it doesn't define my sexuality because I identify as a gay man. That's a fact Maybe some people are able to literally detach parts and pieces that they are so sure of their sexual identity that an act is just that , an act and feel no attraction to the person (so it’d become like I don’t know… massaging a persons back??) I assume you lick vajays when in a threesome situation with a guy? Or do you do it casually on your spare time when u got nothing to do? " Haha...not totally detached enjoy the moment but always as a 3way/group | |||
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"Straight guys don't suck dick. That's not homophobic, just fact.Ask any gay guy if they think truly "straight" men suck cock. Unless you now want to change the definition of "straight" ? Sometimes things just are what they are. Sounds bi to me. " | |||
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"You could still be straight by some people’s standards. Is a penis the only thing that defines a man? If you like a penis does that mean you like men? Or is a man 1000 more things that just his appendage? There’s trans on here that are more attractive that 95% of the women. Is it gay if I fancy them, purely on the fact they’ve got a penis? Don’t worry about the label. You do what you enjoy " Well said xxx | |||
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"My hubby is Straight but likes to suck cock." I got news for you lol | |||
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"Its really not rocket science!!! Not that it matters a fuck but if a guy enjoys sucking cock hes bi and not straight " What if that cock is attached to a beautiful woman? | |||
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"Wow this forum got heated, gay if you do this, gay if you do that haha people are entitled to their own opinions. Personally I could never do anything to a guy. I feel that would be classed as gay but more importantly I just don't like the idea of it. " Didn't you just do the same thing? | |||
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"I consider myself ‘straight’ although find bi easier on my profile. But I love to suck dick. I don’t need anything in return. Huge turn on. Anyone else?" I'd say you're bi. It's all downhill from here. Sorry up. | |||
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"I consider myself ‘straight’ although find bi easier on my profile. But I love to suck dick. I don’t need anything in return. Huge turn on. Anyone else?" In similar situation here too . I don't find men attractive in normal life. Just during play it a guy is bi with a nice cock then I would suck him. It's fine to be bicurious I guess Surprisingly many single guys or male halves of a cpl who mention straight also wants to play bi . We don't judge them though | |||
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"Wow this forum got heated, gay if you do this, gay if you do that haha people are entitled to their own opinions. Personally I could never do anything to a guy. I feel that would be classed as gay but more importantly I just don't like the idea of it. Didn't you just do the same thing? " There is zero judgement on my part. I was just saying that I couldn't cos it wouldn't do anything for me. | |||
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"Wow this forum got heated, gay if you do this, gay if you do that haha people are entitled to their own opinions. Personally I could never do anything to a guy. I feel that would be classed as gay but more importantly I just don't like the idea of it. Didn't you just do the same thing? There is zero judgement on my part. I was just saying that I couldn't cos it wouldn't do anything for me. " You never been to a block party? | |||
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"I consider myself ‘straight’ although find bi easier on my profile. But I love to suck dick. I don’t need anything in return. Huge turn on. Anyone else? I'd say you're bi. It's all downhill from here. Sorry up. " What's wrong with being Bi? I find Bi men far more attractive | |||
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"My hubby is Straight but likes to suck cock. I got news for you lol " yesssss! | |||
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"Wow this forum got heated, gay if you do this, gay if you do that haha people are entitled to their own opinions. Personally I could never do anything to a guy. I feel that would be classed as gay but more importantly I just don't like the idea of it. Didn't you just do the same thing? There is zero judgement on my part. I was just saying that I couldn't cos it wouldn't do anything for me. " I meant the bit where you said it would be "classed as gay". That's all anyone above was saying too I think. | |||
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"I consider myself ‘straight’ although find bi easier on my profile. But I love to suck dick. I don’t need anything in return. Huge turn on. Anyone else? I'd say you're bi. It's all downhill from here. Sorry up. " Downhill??? | |||
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"I consider myself ‘straight’ although find bi easier on my profile. But I love to suck dick. I don’t need anything in return. Huge turn on. Anyone else? I'd say you're bi. It's all downhill from here. Sorry up. Downhill???" Surely it's uphill (gardening) from here ... | |||
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"Why are we (as a society) so obsessed with labels. If you enjoy it, do it, if you don’t, don’t." /thread. | |||
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"I consider myself ‘straight’ although find bi easier on my profile. But I love to suck dick. I don’t need anything in return. Huge turn on. Anyone else?" that’s not straight. | |||
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"I love women and I'm not attracted to men.. The thought of kissing a man and having anal sex does nothing for me at all. Infact it disgusts me, but having said this I do fantasise about what it would be like to suck a cock and apart from that I have no other atraction towards men so what does this make me? " Bicurious | |||
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"I love women and I'm not attracted to men.. The thought of kissing a man and having anal sex does nothing for me at all. Infact it disgusts me, but having said this I do fantasise about what it would be like to suck a cock and apart from that I have no other atraction towards men so what does this make me? Bicurious" Even though I don't find men attractive.. hmmm okay | |||
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"I love women and I'm not attracted to men.. The thought of kissing a man and having anal sex does nothing for me at all. Infact it disgusts me, but having said this I do fantasise about what it would be like to suck a cock and apart from that I have no other atraction towards men so what does this make me? Bicurious Even though I don't find men attractive.. hmmm okay " Yes, the bi-sexuality is in the act, not in the attraction Bi-sexuality isn't fixed on just anal and kissing You do know that a lot of guys in gay relationships don't have anal sex, they just suck or wank each other off? Them not having anal doesn't make them any less gay just as not having anal doesn't make you any less bi | |||
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"I love women and I'm not attracted to men.. The thought of kissing a man and having anal sex does nothing for me at all. Infact it disgusts me, but having said this I do fantasise about what it would be like to suck a cock and apart from that I have no other atraction towards men so what does this make me? Bicurious Even though I don't find men attractive.. hmmm okay " You say you fantasise about it so yes that does makes you bicurious as you have said you think about what it would be like | |||
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"I love women and I'm not attracted to men.. The thought of kissing a man and having anal sex does nothing for me at all. Infact it disgusts me, but having said this I do fantasise about what it would be like to suck a cock and apart from that I have no other atraction towards men so what does this make me? " To suck a floating cock or ? This thread escalated rather quickly | |||
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"Never in my life seen such confusion and delusion as on Fab Swingers forums with this topic. " Me neither. I think that every time I see a thread like this. It’s really not rocket science! Just wait for the I want to/have been pegged by a woman does that make me gay/bi threads. | |||
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"Be your self Lust has no boundaries " I thought that said “lunch has no boundaries”. | |||
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"I love women and I'm not attracted to men.. The thought of kissing a man and having anal sex does nothing for me at all. Infact it disgusts me, but having said this I do fantasise about what it would be like to suck a cock and apart from that I have no other atraction towards men so what does this make me? Bicurious Even though I don't find men attractive.. hmmm okay " Ok, see if you and some of the others can grasp this, it’s like someone saying they’re vegetarian cause they only eat wafer thin ham and don’t eat any other meat. It wouldn’t matter, that person is no longer a vegetarian. It’s really very very simple. | |||
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"Never in my life seen such confusion and delusion as on Fab Swingers forums with this topic. Me neither. I think that every time I see a thread like this. It’s really not rocket science! Just wait for the I want to/have been pegged by a woman does that make me gay/bi threads. " I think it’s just a lack of critical thinking and denial. | |||
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"Never in my life seen such confusion and delusion as on Fab Swingers forums with this topic. Me neither. I think that every time I see a thread like this. It’s really not rocket science! Just wait for the I want to/have been pegged by a woman does that make me gay/bi threads. I think it’s just a lack of critical thinking and denial. " Maybe. Or me being too pragmatic as usual but I don’t actually think so on this. Im not a fan of labels but if they’re going to be used a man sucking cock is not a straight man. | |||
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"Never in my life seen such confusion and delusion as on Fab Swingers forums with this topic. Me neither. I think that every time I see a thread like this. It’s really not rocket science! Just wait for the I want to/have been pegged by a woman does that make me gay/bi threads. I think it’s just a lack of critical thinking and denial. Maybe. Or me being too pragmatic as usual but I don’t actually think so on this. Im not a fan of labels but if they’re going to be used a man sucking cock is not a straight man. " I’m not arsed about labels, but men don’t tell me you’re ‘straight’ if you like sucking another man’s cock. | |||
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"I consider myself ‘straight’ although find bi easier on my profile. But I love to suck dick. I don’t need anything in return. Huge turn on. Anyone else? I'd say you're bi. It's all downhill from here. Sorry up. Downhill???" Apparently it's uphill if you're receiving and downhill for giving. But it all 'comes out the wash' any which way thus everyone is happy. So what's the problem Kitty? | |||
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"So I'd a man was to suck my cock in a cuck dynamic am I gay for letting him or is it control thing" I guess that would be on what aspect of it you enjoy. The Humiliation, or the thrill of a guys lips around your cock | |||
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"So I'd a man was to suck my cock in a cuck dynamic am I gay for letting him or is it control thing" At the very least it's a bit bi mate | |||
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"So I'd a man was to suck my cock in a cuck dynamic am I gay for letting him or is it control thing I guess that would be on what aspect of it you enjoy. The Humiliation, or the thrill of a guys lips around your cock" For me it's a power trip and there wife usually request it | |||
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"So I'd a man was to suck my cock in a cuck dynamic am I gay for letting him or is it control thing" Well it's definitely not something a straight guy would do, or you saying it's just the tip so doesn't count | |||
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"Suck what you want to suck, lick what you want to lick. Just enjoy yourself. Am I gay, bi, bicurious questions are just not important. It's no one else's business but your own and doesn't need to be disclosed to anyone if you don't want it to be. Well said! Have fun, life's to short to complicate things " | |||
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"I mean what don't you understand? Who?" 'Kitty likes to play' left a question mark on a reply I put here. Nora if you follow the responses you'll see. Honestly now. | |||
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"I mean what don't you understand? Who? 'Kitty likes to play' left a question mark on a reply I put here. Nora if you follow the responses you'll see. Honestly now. " Ah! Honestly now Bliss. You need to reply and quote dear. | |||
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"So I'd a man was to suck my cock in a cuck dynamic am I gay for letting him or is it control thing I guess that would be on what aspect of it you enjoy. The Humiliation, or the thrill of a guys lips around your cock For me it's a power trip and there wife usually request it" I'd say more Domination than Bi. | |||
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"Never in my life seen such confusion and delusion as on Fab Swingers forums with this topic. Me neither. I think that every time I see a thread like this. It’s really not rocket science! Just wait for the I want to/have been pegged by a woman does that make me gay/bi threads. I think it’s just a lack of critical thinking and denial. " I don't think it's denial because if I fancied men I would admit it, however if a man came on to me as they have in the past my immediate reaction would be like always to tell him to get lost! And I'm putting this politely for the forum. | |||
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"Never in my life seen such confusion and delusion as on Fab Swingers forums with this topic. Me neither. I think that every time I see a thread like this. It’s really not rocket science! Just wait for the I want to/have been pegged by a woman does that make me gay/bi threads. I think it’s just a lack of critical thinking and denial. I don't think it's denial because if I fancied men I would admit it, however if a man came on to me as they have in the past my immediate reaction would be like always to tell him to get lost! And I'm putting this politely for the forum. " See now that does come across as homophobic… | |||
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"Never in my life seen such confusion and delusion as on Fab Swingers forums with this topic. Me neither. I think that every time I see a thread like this. It’s really not rocket science! Just wait for the I want to/have been pegged by a woman does that make me gay/bi threads. I think it’s just a lack of critical thinking and denial. I don't think it's denial because if I fancied men I would admit it, however if a man came on to me as they have in the past my immediate reaction would be like always to tell him to get lost! And I'm putting this politely for the forum. " '... Get lost...'? I would say im really sorry but my ex is still stalking me, fully armed with... | |||
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"Never in my life seen such confusion and delusion as on Fab Swingers forums with this topic. Me neither. I think that every time I see a thread like this. It’s really not rocket science! Just wait for the I want to/have been pegged by a woman does that make me gay/bi threads. I think it’s just a lack of critical thinking and denial. I don't think it's denial because if I fancied men I would admit it, however if a man came on to me as they have in the past my immediate reaction would be like always to tell him to get lost! And I'm putting this politely for the forum. " You could just filter guys, makes it much easier if you aren't interested in them | |||
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"Never in my life seen such confusion and delusion as on Fab Swingers forums with this topic. Me neither. I think that every time I see a thread like this. It’s really not rocket science! Just wait for the I want to/have been pegged by a woman does that make me gay/bi threads. I think it’s just a lack of critical thinking and denial. I don't think it's denial because if I fancied men I would admit it, however if a man came on to me as they have in the past my immediate reaction would be like always to tell him to get lost! And I'm putting this politely for the forum. See now that does come across as homophobic… " Amendment - depending on whether you’re talking about on Fab or out in the world. Clearly it’s reasonable to expect men not to message you if your profile states that you’re straight. | |||
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"I’ve had a few blow jobs off men during heat of passion and enjoyed it but don’t consider myself bi" I agree with this | |||
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"Never in my life seen such confusion and delusion as on Fab Swingers forums with this topic. Me neither. I think that every time I see a thread like this. It’s really not rocket science! Just wait for the I want to/have been pegged by a woman does that make me gay/bi threads. I think it’s just a lack of critical thinking and denial. I don't think it's denial because if I fancied men I would admit it, however if a man came on to me as they have in the past my immediate reaction would be like always to tell him to get lost! And I'm putting this politely for the forum. See now that does come across as homophobic… Amendment - depending on whether you’re talking about on Fab or out in the world. Clearly it’s reasonable to expect men not to message you if your profile states that you’re straight." I was referring to real world experiences which I've had. For instance once when I was in a gym shower room and a lad asked me if I liked his cock and when I shook my head no, he asked me if I wanted him to suck my cock and it just freaked me out and I got out of there. | |||
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"Never in my life seen such confusion and delusion as on Fab Swingers forums with this topic. Me neither. I think that every time I see a thread like this. It’s really not rocket science! Just wait for the I want to/have been pegged by a woman does that make me gay/bi threads. I think it’s just a lack of critical thinking and denial. I don't think it's denial because if I fancied men I would admit it, however if a man came on to me as they have in the past my immediate reaction would be like always to tell him to get lost! And I'm putting this politely for the forum. See now that does come across as homophobic… " That's not homophobic at all. That's like saying a girl is bad for telling a guy trying to come onto her that she's wrong for doing it | |||
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"Never in my life seen such confusion and delusion as on Fab Swingers forums with this topic. Me neither. I think that every time I see a thread like this. It’s really not rocket science! Just wait for the I want to/have been pegged by a woman does that make me gay/bi threads. I think it’s just a lack of critical thinking and denial. I don't think it's denial because if I fancied men I would admit it, however if a man came on to me as they have in the past my immediate reaction would be like always to tell him to get lost! And I'm putting this politely for the forum. See now that does come across as homophobic… Amendment - depending on whether you’re talking about on Fab or out in the world. Clearly it’s reasonable to expect men not to message you if your profile states that you’re straight. I was referring to real world experiences which I've had. For instance once when I was in a gym shower room and a lad asked me if I liked his cock and when I shook my head no, he asked me if I wanted him to suck my cock and it just freaked me out and I got out of there. " Fair enough, that would definitely be deserving of a less-than-polite response. | |||
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"Never in my life seen such confusion and delusion as on Fab Swingers forums with this topic. Me neither. I think that every time I see a thread like this. It’s really not rocket science! Just wait for the I want to/have been pegged by a woman does that make me gay/bi threads. I think it’s just a lack of critical thinking and denial. I don't think it's denial because if I fancied men I would admit it, however if a man came on to me as they have in the past my immediate reaction would be like always to tell him to get lost! And I'm putting this politely for the forum. See now that does come across as homophobic… Amendment - depending on whether you’re talking about on Fab or out in the world. Clearly it’s reasonable to expect men not to message you if your profile states that you’re straight. I was referring to real world experiences which I've had. For instance once when I was in a gym shower room and a lad asked me if I liked his cock and when I shook my head no, he asked me if I wanted him to suck my cock and it just freaked me out and I got out of there. " That's a nicer reply than he would have got from me, I probably would have lobbed my shower gel at his crotch and asked if he liked that | |||
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"Why are you men so afraid /violent about a man coming onto you? You do realise women experience this constantly in our society? And yet don't go off about getting aggressive if an unwelcome advance is made? Why is your masculinity so fragile? Obviously coming onto a random guy in the showers is inappropriate but are you really so offended a man might fancy you? I don't get it. " Preach girl xxx They just want to look hard Pardon the pun xx | |||
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"*takes off glasses, pinches bridge of nose* You can’t be straight if you like sucking a cock. It's Saturday afternoon, it's nap time, don't you be waking the internalised homophobes I didn't see anything homophobic in the comment, there was no suggestion that men sucking men is bad. Just that it's not, by definition, a 'straight' thing to do? " Agreed | |||
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"I love women and I'm not attracted to men.. The thought of kissing a man and having anal sex does nothing for me at all. Infact it disgusts me, but having said this I do fantasise about what it would be like to suck a cock and apart from that I have no other atraction towards men so what does this make me? " Curious and if you try it and decide its not for you than that's all you are. If you like it and it becomes a regular thing you are bi. Either way just enjoy it. | |||
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"Why are you men so afraid /violent about a man coming onto you? You do realise women experience this constantly in our society? And yet don't go off about getting aggressive if an unwelcome advance is made? Why is your masculinity so fragile? Obviously coming onto a random guy in the showers is inappropriate but are you really so offended a man might fancy you? I don't get it. Second this!!! X I’ve noticed that quite a lot to be fair x and always wondered why.. " Some men seem to take pride in it. I find it really off putting tbh. Also I know you're straight but damn you are gorgeous! | |||
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"Why are you men so afraid /violent about a man coming onto you? You do realise women experience this constantly in our society? And yet don't go off about getting aggressive if an unwelcome advance is made? Why is your masculinity so fragile? Obviously coming onto a random guy in the showers is inappropriate but are you really so offended a man might fancy you? I don't get it. Preach girl xxx They just want to look hard Pardon the pun xx" Hahaha. It's so dumb. I find that so unattractive personally. I like guys who aren't afraid to be pretty, let themselves be vulnerable and aren't afraid of breaking gender norms 3 A nice fat cock as well ideally :P | |||
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"Why are you men so afraid /violent about a man coming onto you? You do realise women experience this constantly in our society? And yet don't go off about getting aggressive if an unwelcome advance is made? Why is your masculinity so fragile? Obviously coming onto a random guy in the showers is inappropriate but are you really so offended a man might fancy you? I don't get it. Second this!!! X I’ve noticed that quite a lot to be fair x and always wondered why.. Some men seem to take pride in it. I find it really off putting tbh. Also I know you're straight but damn you are gorgeous! " Aww thanks beaut! Trust me I have my own lesbian mini fantasies and girl crushes going on in my head | |||
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"https://www.idrlabs.com" I’m 100% heterosexual 67.8% homosexual, so bisexual according to that. | |||
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"Bisexuality was actually celebrated in Ancient Rome they were that comfortable with it, be what you want to be as people who don't like what you do will always judge you and thats OK too, it's if they try to push their judgement onto you thats wrong, no one is right and no one is wrong people just have different personal preferences whether they are sexual or not " The idea of hetero, homo or bi sexuality as the definition of a person rather than description of an act is a relatively recent phenomenon. Sucking another man's cock is a homosexual act (sex between same gender) by definition but other times and cultures would not necessarily have defined that person 'as' a homo or bi sexual man. | |||
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"Bisexuality was actually celebrated in Ancient Rome they were that comfortable with it, be what you want to be as people who don't like what you do will always judge you and thats OK too, it's if they try to push their judgement onto you thats wrong, no one is right and no one is wrong people just have different personal preferences whether they are sexual or not The idea of hetero, homo or bi sexuality as the definition of a person rather than description of an act is a relatively recent phenomenon. Sucking another man's cock is a homosexual act (sex between same gender) by definition but other times and cultures would not necessarily have defined that person 'as' a homo or bi sexual man. " This has been my point for ages. It doesn't go down well. You and I seem to agree on a fair bit I've noticed. | |||
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"There's so much more to sexuality than hetero, bi, and homosexual..... If you fantasise about guys, or play with guys, you're not fully straight, but it doesn't mean you're fully bi either; it's demeaning to genuinely bisexual people to suggest that because you suck cock you're fully bi, if you wouldn't consider having a relationship with a man. You're defining an identity just by a sexual act, there's so much more to sexuality than just this. Sexuality is a spectrum, for a quick insight take this oversimplified test, see where you sit: https://www.idrlabs.co I'd love society to realise it's a spectrum and move on from the limiting labels, but until people judging others by their sexuality ends, sadly this won't happen. " Just did it and I got "Your sexual orientation is 96.4% heterosexual, 53.6% homosexual, which places you in the bisexual quadrant." Quite surprised that my homosexual score was so high Adam | |||
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"It's an interesting little quiz isn't it. Just a shame the results aren't displayed on a linear table with straight at one extreme, homosexual the other bisexual in the middle with branches for pan/A sexual, and the result plotted along it. Rather than showing your result on a grid and then reverting back to three finite labels. " The Kinsey one does exactly that | |||
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"Bisexuality was actually celebrated in Ancient Rome they were that comfortable with it, be what you want to be as people who don't like what you do will always judge you and thats OK too, it's if they try to push their judgement onto you thats wrong, no one is right and no one is wrong people just have different personal preferences whether they are sexual or not The idea of hetero, homo or bi sexuality as the definition of a person rather than description of an act is a relatively recent phenomenon. Sucking another man's cock is a homosexual act (sex between same gender) by definition but other times and cultures would not necessarily have defined that person 'as' a homo or bi sexual man. This has been my point for ages. It doesn't go down well. You and I seem to agree on a fair bit I've noticed. " We must be right then ! The first person I remember pointing this out was the great writer Gore Vidal who was both incredibly knowledgeable about classical civilisations and lived for over 50 years in a same sex relationship. He resisted any definition of his sexuality as he said he was 'not an adjective'. | |||
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"It’s as non sensical as saying red is blue. No judgement on the merits or otherwise but if as a man you are attracted to cock in any way, you can not be wholly straight. " What if that cock is attached to a beautiful woman? There are plenty of straight guys who date and fuck trans women | |||
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"Why are you men so afraid /violent about a man coming onto you? You do realise women experience this constantly in our society? And yet don't go off about getting aggressive if an unwelcome advance is made? Why is your masculinity so fragile? Obviously coming onto a random guy in the showers is inappropriate but are you really so offended a man might fancy you? I don't get it. Second this!!! X I’ve noticed that quite a lot to be fair x and always wondered why.. Some men seem to take pride in it. I find it really off putting tbh. Also I know you're straight but damn you are gorgeous! Aww thanks beaut! Trust me I have my own lesbian mini fantasies and girl crushes going on in my head " You're very welcome! Ooooooh. I'm weird, I mostly lust after and date women but I absolutely love sucking and taking dick. I'd love to share one with you :P | |||
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"I figure my straight card was void the day I slipped my dick up a lads arse and let him suck me off " Hah! Slipped and fell inside huh? | |||
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"I figure my straight card was void the day I slipped my dick up a lads arse and let him suck me off Hah! Slipped and fell inside huh? " Was curious, enjoyed it, figured I was no longer curious | |||
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"If you suck cock you are no longer a straight man " Lol straight membership denied, call the police!!! | |||
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"Why are you men so afraid /violent about a man coming onto you? You do realise women experience this constantly in our society? And yet don't go off about getting aggressive if an unwelcome advance is made? Why is your masculinity so fragile? Obviously coming onto a random guy in the showers is inappropriate but are you really so offended a man might fancy you? I don't get it. " I wasn't being serious, violence is a last resort for me and would only use it if necessary. I don't get offended by it at all, there's definitely times where it can make you feel uncomfortable though and I'm sure while taking a shower at the gym would definitely be one of those times | |||
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"Why are you men so afraid /violent about a man coming onto you? You do realise women experience this constantly in our society? And yet don't go off about getting aggressive if an unwelcome advance is made? Why is your masculinity so fragile? Obviously coming onto a random guy in the showers is inappropriate but are you really so offended a man might fancy you? I don't get it. I wasn't being serious, violence is a last resort for me and would only use it if necessary. I don't get offended by it at all, there's definitely times where it can make you feel uncomfortable though and I'm sure while taking a shower at the gym would definitely be one of those times " I'm straight but that's why gay clubs are class. More chance of being hit on and boosting your ego haha. About the only times I get hit on recently | |||
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"Why are you men so afraid /violent about a man coming onto you? You do realise women experience this constantly in our society? And yet don't go off about getting aggressive if an unwelcome advance is made? Why is your masculinity so fragile? Obviously coming onto a random guy in the showers is inappropriate but are you really so offended a man might fancy you? I don't get it. I wasn't being serious, violence is a last resort for me and would only use it if necessary. I don't get offended by it at all, there's definitely times where it can make you feel uncomfortable though and I'm sure while taking a shower at the gym would definitely be one of those times " My main reaction when hearing these stories is "I wonder if anybody reflects on their own behaviour towards women, or men in general towards women". I can also see why ppl hide it. | |||
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"Why are you men so afraid /violent about a man coming onto you? You do realise women experience this constantly in our society? And yet don't go off about getting aggressive if an unwelcome advance is made? Why is your masculinity so fragile? Obviously coming onto a random guy in the showers is inappropriate but are you really so offended a man might fancy you? I don't get it. I wasn't being serious, violence is a last resort for me and would only use it if necessary. I don't get offended by it at all, there's definitely times where it can make you feel uncomfortable though and I'm sure while taking a shower at the gym would definitely be one of those times I'm straight but that's why gay clubs are class. More chance of being hit on and boosting your ego haha. About the only times I get hit on recently " Why would you go to a gay club in the first place and have straight and into tvs/TS on the profile | |||
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"Why are you men so afraid /violent about a man coming onto you? You do realise women experience this constantly in our society? And yet don't go off about getting aggressive if an unwelcome advance is made? Why is your masculinity so fragile? Obviously coming onto a random guy in the showers is inappropriate but are you really so offended a man might fancy you? I don't get it. I wasn't being serious, violence is a last resort for me and would only use it if necessary. I don't get offended by it at all, there's definitely times where it can make you feel uncomfortable though and I'm sure while taking a shower at the gym would definitely be one of those times I'm straight but that's why gay clubs are class. More chance of being hit on and boosting your ego haha. About the only times I get hit on recently Why would you go to a gay club in the first place and have straight and into tvs/TS on the profile " .maybe to relax and have fun | |||
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"Why are you men so afraid /violent about a man coming onto you? You do realise women experience this constantly in our society? And yet don't go off about getting aggressive if an unwelcome advance is made? Why is your masculinity so fragile? Obviously coming onto a random guy in the showers is inappropriate but are you really so offended a man might fancy you? I don't get it. I wasn't being serious, violence is a last resort for me and would only use it if necessary. I don't get offended by it at all, there's definitely times where it can make you feel uncomfortable though and I'm sure while taking a shower at the gym would definitely be one of those times I'm straight but that's why gay clubs are class. More chance of being hit on and boosting your ego haha. About the only times I get hit on recently Why would you go to a gay club in the first place and have straight and into tvs/TS on the profile .maybe to relax and have fun " Still why would a straight man have TV/TS on a profile and go to gay clubs | |||
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"Why are you men so afraid /violent about a man coming onto you? You do realise women experience this constantly in our society? And yet don't go off about getting aggressive if an unwelcome advance is made? Why is your masculinity so fragile? Obviously coming onto a random guy in the showers is inappropriate but are you really so offended a man might fancy you? I don't get it. I wasn't being serious, violence is a last resort for me and would only use it if necessary. I don't get offended by it at all, there's definitely times where it can make you feel uncomfortable though and I'm sure while taking a shower at the gym would definitely be one of those times I'm straight but that's why gay clubs are class. More chance of being hit on and boosting your ego haha. About the only times I get hit on recently Why would you go to a gay club in the first place and have straight and into tvs/TS on the profile .maybe to relax and have fun Still why would a straight man have TV/TS on a profile and go to gay clubs " Straight people go to gay clubs Ohhh shock horror | |||
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"I preferred to call myself straight'ish but thats not an option on Here. You cant be bi unless you have had cock up ya ass. Most people i know who are gay prefer knowing me as straight. Think its more a turn on. You are who you are. No labels. Just be you dude. " You do know plenty of gay and bi men don’t have anal sex don’t you ? | |||
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"Why are you men so afraid /violent about a man coming onto you? You do realise women experience this constantly in our society? And yet don't go off about getting aggressive if an unwelcome advance is made? Why is your masculinity so fragile? Obviously coming onto a random guy in the showers is inappropriate but are you really so offended a man might fancy you? I don't get it. I wasn't being serious, violence is a last resort for me and would only use it if necessary. I don't get offended by it at all, there's definitely times where it can make you feel uncomfortable though and I'm sure while taking a shower at the gym would definitely be one of those times I'm straight but that's why gay clubs are class. More chance of being hit on and boosting your ego haha. About the only times I get hit on recently Why would you go to a gay club in the first place and have straight and into tvs/TS on the profile .maybe to relax and have fun Still why would a straight man have TV/TS on a profile and go to gay clubs Straight people go to gay clubs Ohhh shock horror " I do sometimes in London! Drinks are cheaper and it’s great fun! | |||
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"I preferred to call myself straight'ish but thats not an option on Here. You cant be bi unless you have had cock up ya ass. Most people i know who are gay prefer knowing me as straight. Think its more a turn on. You are who you are. No labels. Just be you dude. " you can be gay or bi and never indulge in anal play of any sort. | |||
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"Why are you men so afraid /violent about a man coming onto you? You do realise women experience this constantly in our society? And yet don't go off about getting aggressive if an unwelcome advance is made? Why is your masculinity so fragile? Obviously coming onto a random guy in the showers is inappropriate but are you really so offended a man might fancy you? I don't get it. I wasn't being serious, violence is a last resort for me and would only use it if necessary. I don't get offended by it at all, there's definitely times where it can make you feel uncomfortable though and I'm sure while taking a shower at the gym would definitely be one of those times I'm straight but that's why gay clubs are class. More chance of being hit on and boosting your ego haha. About the only times I get hit on recently Why would you go to a gay club in the first place and have straight and into tvs/TS on the profile .maybe to relax and have fun Still why would a straight man have TV/TS on a profile and go to gay clubs Straight people go to gay clubs Ohhh shock horror I do sometimes in London! Drinks are cheaper and it’s great fun! " | |||
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"You could still be straight by some people’s standards. Is a penis the only thing that defines a man? If you like a penis does that mean you like men? Or is a man 1000 more things that just his appendage? There’s trans on here that are more attractive that 95% of the women. Is it gay if I fancy them, purely on the fact they’ve got a penis? Don’t worry about the label. You do what you enjoy " This | |||
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"Why are you men so afraid /violent about a man coming onto you? You do realise women experience this constantly in our society? And yet don't go off about getting aggressive if an unwelcome advance is made? Why is your masculinity so fragile? Obviously coming onto a random guy in the showers is inappropriate but are you really so offended a man might fancy you? I don't get it. I wasn't being serious, violence is a last resort for me and would only use it if necessary. I don't get offended by it at all, there's definitely times where it can make you feel uncomfortable though and I'm sure while taking a shower at the gym would definitely be one of those times I'm straight but that's why gay clubs are class. More chance of being hit on and boosting your ego haha. About the only times I get hit on recently Why would you go to a gay club in the first place and have straight and into tvs/TS on the profile " Literally I’m fading away like the little mermaid turning into foam , just from reading this | |||
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"Why are you men so afraid /violent about a man coming onto you? You do realise women experience this constantly in our society? And yet don't go off about getting aggressive if an unwelcome advance is made? Why is your masculinity so fragile? Obviously coming onto a random guy in the showers is inappropriate but are you really so offended a man might fancy you? I don't get it. I wasn't being serious, violence is a last resort for me and would only use it if necessary. I don't get offended by it at all, there's definitely times where it can make you feel uncomfortable though and I'm sure while taking a shower at the gym would definitely be one of those times I'm straight but that's why gay clubs are class. More chance of being hit on and boosting your ego haha. About the only times I get hit on recently Why would you go to a gay club in the first place and have straight and into tvs/TS on the profile .maybe to relax and have fun Still why would a straight man have TV/TS on a profile and go to gay clubs " I go to gay clubs because I’m tired of being mobbed by women, hounding me for sex, begging for my number, whenever I go to straight clubs I just wanna dance | |||
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"Why are you men so afraid /violent about a man coming onto you? You do realise women experience this constantly in our society? And yet don't go off about getting aggressive if an unwelcome advance is made? Why is your masculinity so fragile? Obviously coming onto a random guy in the showers is inappropriate but are you really so offended a man might fancy you? I don't get it. I wasn't being serious, violence is a last resort for me and would only use it if necessary. I don't get offended by it at all, there's definitely times where it can make you feel uncomfortable though and I'm sure while taking a shower at the gym would definitely be one of those times I'm straight but that's why gay clubs are class. More chance of being hit on and boosting your ego haha. About the only times I get hit on recently Why would you go to a gay club in the first place and have straight and into tvs/TS on the profile " I'm straight, and have been to Gay clubs. Great atmosphere with lots of dancing. #heaven | |||
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"You could still be straight by some people’s standards. Is a penis the only thing that defines a man? If you like a penis does that mean you like men? Or is a man 1000 more things that just his appendage? There’s trans on here that are more attractive that 95% of the women. Is it gay if I fancy them, purely on the fact they’ve got a penis? Don’t worry about the label. You do what you enjoy " | |||
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"Why are you men so afraid /violent about a man coming onto you? You do realise women experience this constantly in our society? And yet don't go off about getting aggressive if an unwelcome advance is made? Why is your masculinity so fragile? Obviously coming onto a random guy in the showers is inappropriate but are you really so offended a man might fancy you? I don't get it. I wasn't being serious, violence is a last resort for me and would only use it if necessary. I don't get offended by it at all, there's definitely times where it can make you feel uncomfortable though and I'm sure while taking a shower at the gym would definitely be one of those times I'm straight but that's why gay clubs are class. More chance of being hit on and boosting your ego haha. About the only times I get hit on recently Why would you go to a gay club in the first place and have straight and into tvs/TS on the profile " You can be straight and be into transgender/transexual women. Also just because you go to a gay club doesn't mean you're gay. Loads of straight women go to them. | |||
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"Why are you men so afraid /violent about a man coming onto you? You do realise women experience this constantly in our society? And yet don't go off about getting aggressive if an unwelcome advance is made? Why is your masculinity so fragile? Obviously coming onto a random guy in the showers is inappropriate but are you really so offended a man might fancy you? I don't get it. I wasn't being serious, violence is a last resort for me and would only use it if necessary. I don't get offended by it at all, there's definitely times where it can make you feel uncomfortable though and I'm sure while taking a shower at the gym would definitely be one of those times I'm straight but that's why gay clubs are class. More chance of being hit on and boosting your ego haha. About the only times I get hit on recently Why would you go to a gay club in the first place and have straight and into tvs/TS on the profile You can be straight and be into transgender/transexual women. Also just because you go to a gay club doesn't mean you're gay. Loads of straight women go to them. " and that is why smart straight guys also go ... | |||
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"Truly straight people do not engage in sexual acts with the opposite sex. They may experiment and decide that it isn't for them but if they continue, they're not exactly curious anymore. It isn't homophobic to state that, quite the opposite actually. All you people pretending that it isn't gay or bi for a straight man to suck dick are either delusional or have internalised homophobia. There's a problem if you feel the need to twist meanings and definitions to pretend that something is what it isn't, rather than admit it's actually a homosexual act. There's nothing wrong with either sex engaging in same sex play, be that occaionaal, regular, soft or full on but do own it and don't internalise any shame or embarrassment that you've been socialised to feel by pretending that straight people do it, too, so therefore you are straight." | |||
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