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By *an4funMan
over a year ago
london |
"May I be the first to post
You may. I take it you’re not a fan?"
It really depends on who is doing it.
So yes I am a fan as long as it's done to the way I like it. I guess that's a statement of the obvious |
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"May I be the first to post
You may. I take it you’re not a fan?
It really depends on who is doing it.
So yes I am a fan as long as it's done to the way I like it. I guess that's a statement of the obvious"
Ah I see. Are you more a slow and sloppy or a fast and deep? What about the balls? Do they like some mouth attention? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"May I be the first to post
You may. I take it you’re not a fan?
It really depends on who is doing it.
So yes I am a fan as long as it's done to the way I like it. I guess that's a statement of the obvious"
I can go along with this. But I guess that goes for anything - no ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm really not fussed, I suppose that's why we've adapted our profile accordingly 
For me, it's the Woman I enjoy, rather than my own pleasure.
They're ok for a moment as we're moving around, and pretty good when I'm a group session.
Mrs loves to be spitroasted.
But I'm happy to go without. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m curious as to why too "
Yeh. I took it personally for a while but there was clearly something underlying. So I didn’t push it.
It shall forever remain a mystery ….. |
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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago
shropshire |
"May I be the first to post
You may. I take it you’re not a fan?
It really depends on who is doing it.
So yes I am a fan as long as it's done to the way I like it. I guess that's a statement of the obvious"
What's the way you like it?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's only been a couple of guys I've met that haven't been fans and wouldn't let me at all"
I'm interested - does it bother you that some guys are not into blow jobs ? |
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"May I be the first to post
You may. I take it you’re not a fan?
It really depends on who is doing it.
So yes I am a fan as long as it's done to the way I like it. I guess that's a statement of the obvious
I can go along with this. But I guess that goes for anything - no ?"
I think it does. I read some threads where women comment and I think oh no that wouldn’t work on me at all! Everyone is so different in what they like. Some men (and maybe women I guess) don’t seem to get that. |
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"There's only been a couple of guys I've met that haven't been fans and wouldn't let me at all
I'm interested - does it bother you that some guys are not into blow jobs ?"
It would bother me I think. But I’d know that before I met them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"May I be the first to post
You may. I take it you’re not a fan?
It really depends on who is doing it.
So yes I am a fan as long as it's done to the way I like it. I guess that's a statement of the obvious
I can go along with this. But I guess that goes for anything - no ?
I think it does. I read some threads where women comment and I think oh no that wouldn’t work on me at all! Everyone is so different in what they like. Some men (and maybe women I guess) don’t seem to get that. "
Exactly - I've had blow jobs, and they were a delight. Equally had some , that I've just had to say no to. |
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By *eardybobMan
over a year ago
the Goldilocks Zone |
"Hi Nora
I have to be honest, I'd prefer a snog to get things started, but as you wont kiss a man with a beard...
Go on then - if you must 
Beardy Bob! You said you didn’t have the beard anymore!"
I didn't then  - I have proof! |
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"Hi Nora
I have to be honest, I'd prefer a snog to get things started, but as you wont kiss a man with a beard...
Go on then - if you must
Beardy Bob! You said you didn’t have the beard anymore!
I didn't then - I have proof!"
Is it back?  . Send me a before and after  |
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I’m not fussed I’d happily say no to one!
Never done anything for me
A few times I’ve relented coz the women really wanted to do it, but they just felt like I was washing my cock with a flannel tbh!!
I like teasing the women’s body that does more for me |
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"I met a guy that didn’t like being woken for a bj at 4.30am
. No way! He’d be no good for me then!
Best way to be woken up, in my opinion "
I always require written consent first. I’d hate to be arrested  |
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By *eardybobMan
over a year ago
the Goldilocks Zone |
"Hi Nora
I have to be honest, I'd prefer a snog to get things started, but as you wont kiss a man with a beard...
Go on then - if you must
Beardy Bob! You said you didn’t have the beard anymore!
I didn't then - I have proof!
Is it back? . Send me a before and after "
On in there will be a beard and a baldy face in your box reeeeal soon... |
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"I’m not fussed I’d happily say no to one!
Never done anything for me
A few times I’ve relented coz the women really wanted to do it, but they just felt like I was washing my cock with a flannel tbh!!
I like teasing the women’s body that does more for me "
Is that from a few different women? Or did one put you off and that was it? |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
"There's only been a couple of guys I've met that haven't been fans and wouldn't let me at all
I'm interested - does it bother you that some guys are not into blow jobs ?"
Not really, I mean I like giving them but if the guy doesn't like it then I'm good with that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met a guy that didn’t like being woken for a bj at 4.30am
. No way! He’d be no good for me then!
He was an older guy, traded him in for a younger model
Must admit I prefer younger "
Just putting it out there , you'd have no issues / complaints from me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My husband isn't overly fussed with them... maybe that says something about my skills "
I doubt that very much. He obviously doesn't enjoy them in general
You welcome to try your skills with me ....just to saying |
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"I met a guy that didn’t like being woken for a bj at 4.30am
. No way! He’d be no good for me then!
He was an older guy, traded him in for a younger model
Must admit I prefer younger "
I didn’t until stamina started to become an issue with older guys |
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"I met a guy that didn’t like being woken for a bj at 4.30am
. No way! He’d be no good for me then!
He was an older guy, traded him in for a younger model
Must admit I prefer younger
I didn’t until stamina started to become an issue with older guys "
I like stamina |
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"Any men not keen on them?
Not unless done badly, even then, there’s a chance to turn it around. 
What is a bad one? In your opinion "
Stop, start, stop start, no attention to balls, no rhythm teeth, I’m sure the same kind of things women could substitute clit for balls for.
The best I’ve ever had was an out of body experience, the worst, contemplating who would be up front for Chelsea on Saturday. |
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"Any men not keen on them?
Not unless done badly, even then, there’s a chance to turn it around.
What is a bad one? In your opinion
Stop, start, stop start, no attention to balls, no rhythm teeth, I’m sure the same kind of things women could substitute clit for balls for.
The best I’ve ever had was an out of body experience, the worst, contemplating who would be up front for Chelsea on Saturday. "
Never neglect the balls |
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"Any men not keen on them?
Not unless done badly, even then, there’s a chance to turn it around.
What is a bad one? In your opinion
Stop, start, stop start, no attention to balls, no rhythm teeth, I’m sure the same kind of things women could substitute clit for balls for.
The best I’ve ever had was an out of body experience, the worst, contemplating who would be up front for Chelsea on Saturday.
Never neglect the balls "
It’s a top tip! |
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"Any men not keen on them?
Not unless done badly, even then, there’s a chance to turn it around.
What is a bad one? In your opinion
Stop, start, stop start, no attention to balls, no rhythm teeth, I’m sure the same kind of things women could substitute clit for balls for.
The best I’ve ever had was an out of body experience, the worst, contemplating who would be up front for Chelsea on Saturday.
Never neglect the balls
It’s a top tip! "
And never neglect the tip |
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"Any men not keen on them?
Not unless done badly, even then, there’s a chance to turn it around.
What is a bad one? In your opinion
Stop, start, stop start, no attention to balls, no rhythm teeth, I’m sure the same kind of things women could substitute clit for balls for.
The best I’ve ever had was an out of body experience, the worst, contemplating who would be up front for Chelsea on Saturday.
Never neglect the balls
It’s a top tip!
And never neglect the tip "
You’re playing my song Nora! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some birds have no idea how to do them or at least how i like it haha you would think a bj is a bj but it aint many different styles some are great others arent but the type i like someone else will hate and the ones i hate they might like |
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" Nora was right, there are men who don't like blowjobs. What happened?
This is news to you? Some people don’t like some things others do like? "
no I was just taking the piss. I thought that was evident |
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"I’m not fussed I’d happily say no to one!
Never done anything for me
A few times I’ve relented coz the women really wanted to do it, but they just felt like I was washing my cock with a flannel tbh!!
I like teasing the women’s body that does more for me
Is that from a few different women? Or did one put you off and that was it? "
That’s from 4/5 different women I’ve been seeing!
Maybe I’ve just never had a good one?
But then I’ve not been near anyone for a very long time now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My husband isn't overly fussed with them... maybe that says something about my skills "
I feel there are a lot of “In the name of science…” comments to follow this.
(quietly joins the queue ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any men not keen on them? "
I absolutely love them but you have got me thinking about why some men don’t.
When being given one, the best ones are when you give yourself to it completely and let the woman have full control over what happens. So I wonder if some men can’t relinquish that control/power aspect |
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"Any men not keen on them?
I absolutely love them but you have got me thinking about why some men don’t.
When being given one, the best ones are when you give yourself to it completely and let the woman have full control over what happens. So I wonder if some men can’t relinquish that control/power aspect "
Yes I’m curious as to why. Only because most men do seem to love them. There are plenty things I don’t like that others do though so we’re all different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy oral but depending on my headspace. If I'm particularly toppy I don't want a blowjob, I want a mouth to fuck.
Also I have had oral from women who are really good at blowjobs and they have done nothing for me.
I find it very difficult to just sit back and enjoy a blow job.
Maybe I'm weird. Idk |
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"I enjoy oral but depending on my headspace. If I'm particularly toppy I don't want a blowjob, I want a mouth to fuck.
Also I have had oral from women who are really good at blowjobs and they have done nothing for me.
I find it very difficult to just sit back and enjoy a blow job.
Maybe I'm weird. Idk"
Not weird at all. Plenty people don’t like certain things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any men not keen on them?
I absolutely love them but you have got me thinking about why some men don’t.
When being given one, the best ones are when you give yourself to it completely and let the woman have full control over what happens. So I wonder if some men can’t relinquish that control/power aspect
Yes I’m curious as to why. Only because most men do seem to love them. There are plenty things I don’t like that others do though so we’re all different. "
This is a better worded way of what I was trying to say.
I once allowed myself to be tied up and pleasured orally. I broke the bed getting free to move her head to the right position ... |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
Passed Beyond Reach |
"There are guys who don't like them? Sometimes I prefer them over sex. Depending how good ofcourse
Hmm maybe that’s another thread. Penetrative sex or BJ "
There are surprisingly a lot of women that do not like penetrative sex for many different reasons. |
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"Any men not keen on them?
I absolutely love them but you have got me thinking about why some men don’t.
When being given one, the best ones are when you give yourself to it completely and let the woman have full control over what happens. So I wonder if some men can’t relinquish that control/power aspect
Yes I’m curious as to why. Only because most men do seem to love them. There are plenty things I don’t like that others do though so we’re all different.
This is a better worded way of what I was trying to say.
I once allowed myself to be tied up and pleasured orally. I broke the bed getting free to move her head to the right position ...
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I would love to be tied up and given bj. Blindfolded too. Never had that yet |
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"There are guys who don't like them? Sometimes I prefer them over sex. Depending how good ofcourse
Hmm maybe that’s another thread. Penetrative sex or BJ
There are surprisingly a lot of women that do not like penetrative sex for many different reasons. "
Maybe that’s another thread too haven’t really heard of many that don’t to be honest x |
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"Any men not keen on them?
I absolutely love them but you have got me thinking about why some men don’t.
When being given one, the best ones are when you give yourself to it completely and let the woman have full control over what happens. So I wonder if some men can’t relinquish that control/power aspect
Yes I’m curious as to why. Only because most men do seem to love them. There are plenty things I don’t like that others do though so we’re all different.
This is a better worded way of what I was trying to say.
I once allowed myself to be tied up and pleasured orally. I broke the bed getting free to move her head to the right position ...
I would love to be tied up and given bj. Blindfolded too. Never had that yet "
My favourite |
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"Any men not keen on them?
I absolutely love them but you have got me thinking about why some men don’t.
When being given one, the best ones are when you give yourself to it completely and let the woman have full control over what happens. So I wonder if some men can’t relinquish that control/power aspect
Yes I’m curious as to why. Only because most men do seem to love them. There are plenty things I don’t like that others do though so we’re all different.
This is a better worded way of what I was trying to say.
I once allowed myself to be tied up and pleasured orally. I broke the bed getting free to move her head to the right position ...
I would love to be tied up and given bj. Blindfolded too. Never had that yet
My favourite "
You'll need to show me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any men not keen on them?
I absolutely love them but you have got me thinking about why some men don’t.
When being given one, the best ones are when you give yourself to it completely and let the woman have full control over what happens. So I wonder if some men can’t relinquish that control/power aspect
Yes I’m curious as to why. Only because most men do seem to love them. There are plenty things I don’t like that others do though so we’re all different.
This is a better worded way of what I was trying to say.
I once allowed myself to be tied up and pleasured orally. I broke the bed getting free to move her head to the right position ... "
Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any men not keen on them?
I absolutely love them but you have got me thinking about why some men don’t.
When being given one, the best ones are when you give yourself to it completely and let the woman have full control over what happens. So I wonder if some men can’t relinquish that control/power aspect
Yes I’m curious as to why. Only because most men do seem to love them. There are plenty things I don’t like that others do though so we’re all different.
This is a better worded way of what I was trying to say.
I once allowed myself to be tied up and pleasured orally. I broke the bed getting free to move her head to the right position ...
I would love to be tied up and given bj. Blindfolded too. Never had that yet "
I have control issues.
I slept for 14 hours after that attempt. I was mentally destroyed.
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"Any men not keen on them?
I absolutely love them but you have got me thinking about why some men don’t.
When being given one, the best ones are when you give yourself to it completely and let the woman have full control over what happens. So I wonder if some men can’t relinquish that control/power aspect
Yes I’m curious as to why. Only because most men do seem to love them. There are plenty things I don’t like that others do though so we’re all different.
This is a better worded way of what I was trying to say.
I once allowed myself to be tied up and pleasured orally. I broke the bed getting free to move her head to the right position ...
I would love to be tied up and given bj. Blindfolded too. Never had that yet I have control issues.
I slept for 14 hours after that attempt. I was mentally destroyed.
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Interesting. Do you prefer to be in control? |
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"Any men not keen on them?
I absolutely love them but you have got me thinking about why some men don’t.
When being given one, the best ones are when you give yourself to it completely and let the woman have full control over what happens. So I wonder if some men can’t relinquish that control/power aspect
Yes I’m curious as to why. Only because most men do seem to love them. There are plenty things I don’t like that others do though so we’re all different.
This is a better worded way of what I was trying to say.
I once allowed myself to be tied up and pleasured orally. I broke the bed getting free to move her head to the right position ...
I would love to be tied up and given bj. Blindfolded too. Never had that yet
My favourite
You'll need to show me! "
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By *eardybobMan
over a year ago
the Goldilocks Zone |
"Any men not keen on them?
I absolutely love them but you have got me thinking about why some men don’t.
When being given one, the best ones are when you give yourself to it completely and let the woman have full control over what happens. So I wonder if some men can’t relinquish that control/power aspect
Yes I’m curious as to why. Only because most men do seem to love them. There are plenty things I don’t like that others do though so we’re all different. "
Hi Nora
I have been musing on this one since you first posted it...
a question for yourself and the others who have had their kind offers declined (sorry... not a particularly sexy one for a lazy saturday, but I think I may have the answer...)
When you go down on a guy, do you make him suit up first?
It occurred to me that the issue here may be germophobia; and or a fear that they may take something home to wifee... especially if she doesn't know...
kinda disrespectful to the provider of the BJ in my mind, as it would suggest that they dont have confidence in how careful you are... but I could understand if it was with a complete unknown.
A quick google revealed that in fact genital herpes and gonorrhea are most commonly transmitted through oral sex...
I reckon that might just be it. |
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" Nora was right, there are men who don't like blowjobs. What happened?
Nora’s always right
In that case I'll be asking you some very searching questions later
Didn’t say I knew everything! "
Well we'll find out what you do know (slaps paddle into hand suggestively) |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"There are guys who don't like them? Sometimes I prefer them over sex. Depending how good ofcourse
Hmm maybe that’s another thread. Penetrative sex or BJ
There are surprisingly a lot of women that do not like penetrative sex for many different reasons.
Maybe that’s another thread too haven’t really heard of many that don’t to be honest x"
FAB is probably not the the place to talk about such subjects - especially as it very cockcentric - even this post highlights the way people view guys that don't like BJ as being abnormal |
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"Any men not keen on them?
I absolutely love them but you have got me thinking about why some men don’t.
When being given one, the best ones are when you give yourself to it completely and let the woman have full control over what happens. So I wonder if some men can’t relinquish that control/power aspect
Yes I’m curious as to why. Only because most men do seem to love them. There are plenty things I don’t like that others do though so we’re all different.
Hi Nora
I have been musing on this one since you first posted it...
a question for yourself and the others who have had their kind offers declined (sorry... not a particularly sexy one for a lazy saturday, but I think I may have the answer...)
When you go down on a guy, do you make him suit up first?
It occurred to me that the issue here may be germophobia; and or a fear that they may take something home to wifee... especially if she doesn't know...
kinda disrespectful to the provider of the BJ in my mind, as it would suggest that they dont have confidence in how careful you are... but I could understand if it was with a complete unknown.
A quick google revealed that in fact genital herpes and gonorrhea are most commonly transmitted through oral sex...
I reckon that might just be it."
It could be one of the reasons beardy Bob for sure. It’s certainly not 100% safe. I’m not sure as I’ve never met someone who doesn’t like it, perhaps that’s why I’m curious. I’m also not a swinger and tend to only meet people long term and only one person usually so I’m as safe as I can be. I wonder if people do use condoms for blow jobs. That would be interesting to know x |
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I was indifferent to them previously. I'd never cum from a blow job and I couldn't see why other guys were so obsessed with them, thought it was probably a power thing for them that I never really got.
Later in life I did start cumming with a good bj. And now I do like them. |
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By *eardybobMan
over a year ago
the Goldilocks Zone |
"Any men not keen on them?
I absolutely love them but you have got me thinking about why some men don’t.
When being given one, the best ones are when you give yourself to it completely and let the woman have full control over what happens. So I wonder if some men can’t relinquish that control/power aspect
Yes I’m curious as to why. Only because most men do seem to love them. There are plenty things I don’t like that others do though so we’re all different.
Hi Nora
I have been musing on this one since you first posted it...
a question for yourself and the others who have had their kind offers declined (sorry... not a particularly sexy one for a lazy saturday, but I think I may have the answer...)
When you go down on a guy, do you make him suit up first?
It occurred to me that the issue here may be germophobia; and or a fear that they may take something home to wifee... especially if she doesn't know...
kinda disrespectful to the provider of the BJ in my mind, as it would suggest that they dont have confidence in how careful you are... but I could understand if it was with a complete unknown.
A quick google revealed that in fact genital herpes and gonorrhea are most commonly transmitted through oral sex...
I reckon that might just be it.
It could be one of the reasons beardy Bob for sure. It’s certainly not 100% safe. I’m not sure as I’ve never met someone who doesn’t like it, perhaps that’s why I’m curious. I’m also not a swinger and tend to only meet people long term and only one person usually so I’m as safe as I can be. I wonder if people do use condoms for blow jobs. That would be interesting to know x"
Well, flavoured ones are available... |
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"There are guys who don't like them? Sometimes I prefer them over sex. Depending how good ofcourse
Hmm maybe that’s another thread. Penetrative sex or BJ
There are surprisingly a lot of women that do not like penetrative sex for many different reasons.
Maybe that’s another thread too haven’t really heard of many that don’t to be honest x
FAB is probably not the the place to talk about such subjects - especially as it very cockcentric - even this post highlights the way people view guys that don't like BJ as being abnormal"
I think it is the perfect place really. You’re always gonna get people who thing their way is the only way. I’ve never been ashamed or embarrassed to say what I do or don’t like on here. We’re all different. x |
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"Any men not keen on them?
I absolutely love them but you have got me thinking about why some men don’t.
When being given one, the best ones are when you give yourself to it completely and let the woman have full control over what happens. So I wonder if some men can’t relinquish that control/power aspect
Yes I’m curious as to why. Only because most men do seem to love them. There are plenty things I don’t like that others do though so we’re all different.
Hi Nora
I have been musing on this one since you first posted it...
a question for yourself and the others who have had their kind offers declined (sorry... not a particularly sexy one for a lazy saturday, but I think I may have the answer...)
When you go down on a guy, do you make him suit up first?
It occurred to me that the issue here may be germophobia; and or a fear that they may take something home to wifee... especially if she doesn't know...
kinda disrespectful to the provider of the BJ in my mind, as it would suggest that they dont have confidence in how careful you are... but I could understand if it was with a complete unknown.
A quick google revealed that in fact genital herpes and gonorrhea are most commonly transmitted through oral sex...
I reckon that might just be it.
It could be one of the reasons beardy Bob for sure. It’s certainly not 100% safe. I’m not sure as I’ve never met someone who doesn’t like it, perhaps that’s why I’m curious. I’m also not a swinger and tend to only meet people long term and only one person usually so I’m as safe as I can be. I wonder if people do use condoms for blow jobs. That would be interesting to know x
Well, flavoured ones are available... "
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By *eardybobMan
over a year ago
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"Any men not keen on them?
I absolutely love them but you have got me thinking about why some men don’t.
When being given one, the best ones are when you give yourself to it completely and let the woman have full control over what happens. So I wonder if some men can’t relinquish that control/power aspect
Yes I’m curious as to why. Only because most men do seem to love them. There are plenty things I don’t like that others do though so we’re all different.
Hi Nora
I have been musing on this one since you first posted it...
a question for yourself and the others who have had their kind offers declined (sorry... not a particularly sexy one for a lazy saturday, but I think I may have the answer...)
When you go down on a guy, do you make him suit up first?
It occurred to me that the issue here may be germophobia; and or a fear that they may take something home to wifee... especially if she doesn't know...
kinda disrespectful to the provider of the BJ in my mind, as it would suggest that they dont have confidence in how careful you are... but I could understand if it was with a complete unknown.
A quick google revealed that in fact genital herpes and gonorrhea are most commonly transmitted through oral sex...
I reckon that might just be it.
It could be one of the reasons beardy Bob for sure. It’s certainly not 100% safe. I’m not sure as I’ve never met someone who doesn’t like it, perhaps that’s why I’m curious. I’m also not a swinger and tend to only meet people long term and only one person usually so I’m as safe as I can be. I wonder if people do use condoms for blow jobs. That would be interesting to know x
Well, flavoured ones are available...
Must admit I personally would rather give it a miss than do that. "
Same. If you can't feel safe and enjoy the intimacy for fear of consequences, what's the point?!? |
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"Any men not keen on them?
I absolutely love them but you have got me thinking about why some men don’t.
When being given one, the best ones are when you give yourself to it completely and let the woman have full control over what happens. So I wonder if some men can’t relinquish that control/power aspect
Yes I’m curious as to why. Only because most men do seem to love them. There are plenty things I don’t like that others do though so we’re all different.
Hi Nora
I have been musing on this one since you first posted it...
a question for yourself and the others who have had their kind offers declined (sorry... not a particularly sexy one for a lazy saturday, but I think I may have the answer...)
When you go down on a guy, do you make him suit up first?
It occurred to me that the issue here may be germophobia; and or a fear that they may take something home to wifee... especially if she doesn't know...
kinda disrespectful to the provider of the BJ in my mind, as it would suggest that they dont have confidence in how careful you are... but I could understand if it was with a complete unknown.
A quick google revealed that in fact genital herpes and gonorrhea are most commonly transmitted through oral sex...
I reckon that might just be it.
It could be one of the reasons beardy Bob for sure. It’s certainly not 100% safe. I’m not sure as I’ve never met someone who doesn’t like it, perhaps that’s why I’m curious. I’m also not a swinger and tend to only meet people long term and only one person usually so I’m as safe as I can be. I wonder if people do use condoms for blow jobs. That would be interesting to know x
Well, flavoured ones are available...
Must admit I personally would rather give it a miss than do that.
Same. If you can't feel safe and enjoy the intimacy for fear of consequences, what's the point?!?"
Only for that though. Wouldn’t ever give condoms a miss for sex. I wouldn’t trust anyone that much! |
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By *eardybobMan
over a year ago
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"Any men not keen on them?
I absolutely love them but you have got me thinking about why some men don’t.
When being given one, the best ones are when you give yourself to it completely and let the woman have full control over what happens. So I wonder if some men can’t relinquish that control/power aspect
Yes I’m curious as to why. Only because most men do seem to love them. There are plenty things I don’t like that others do though so we’re all different.
Hi Nora
I have been musing on this one since you first posted it...
a question for yourself and the others who have had their kind offers declined (sorry... not a particularly sexy one for a lazy saturday, but I think I may have the answer...)
When you go down on a guy, do you make him suit up first?
It occurred to me that the issue here may be germophobia; and or a fear that they may take something home to wifee... especially if she doesn't know...
kinda disrespectful to the provider of the BJ in my mind, as it would suggest that they dont have confidence in how careful you are... but I could understand if it was with a complete unknown.
A quick google revealed that in fact genital herpes and gonorrhea are most commonly transmitted through oral sex...
I reckon that might just be it.
It could be one of the reasons beardy Bob for sure. It’s certainly not 100% safe. I’m not sure as I’ve never met someone who doesn’t like it, perhaps that’s why I’m curious. I’m also not a swinger and tend to only meet people long term and only one person usually so I’m as safe as I can be. I wonder if people do use condoms for blow jobs. That would be interesting to know x
Well, flavoured ones are available...
Must admit I personally would rather give it a miss than do that.
Same. If you can't feel safe and enjoy the intimacy for fear of consequences, what's the point?!?
Only for that though. Wouldn’t ever give condoms a miss for sex. I wouldn’t trust anyone that much!"
In a way, I guess it is tough to strike the distinction - back to my original point, to a true germophobe, I'm guessing that the same concern would apply for them regardless of which end of you they were in... just a thought |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"There are guys who don't like them? Sometimes I prefer them over sex. Depending how good ofcourse
Hmm maybe that’s another thread. Penetrative sex or BJ
There are surprisingly a lot of women that do not like penetrative sex for many different reasons.
Maybe that’s another thread too haven’t really heard of many that don’t to be honest x
FAB is probably not the the place to talk about such subjects - especially as it very cockcentric - even this post highlights the way people view guys that don't like BJ as being abnormal
I think it is the perfect place really. You’re always gonna get people who thing their way is the only way. I’ve never been ashamed or embarrassed to say what I do or don’t like on here. We’re all different. x "
That I think is the point it should be a place where such matters are discussed but it is far from that. There is too much shaming and underhanded side-swiping in the forums. Can you image what would happen if a woman came into Forums and said she didn't like penetration, how she would be treated?
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I think it is the perfect place really. You’re always gonna get people who thing their way is the only way. I’ve never been ashamed or embarrassed to say what I do or don’t like on here. We’re all different. x
That I think is the point it should be a place where such matters are discussed but it is far from that. There is too much shaming and underhanded side-swiping in the forums. Can you image what would happen if a woman came into Forums and said she didn't like penetration, how she would be treated?
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It was probably before your time on here but I recall a thread exactly like that and people were actually quite supportive and nice about it - it was interesting to read a different viewpoint. I've seen threads where women have discussed vaginismus, the inability to have orgasms etc. They can happen and in a positive way. |
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"I’m more surprised that this many people are surprised… I know plenty of women who don’t really like oral and that somehow appears less shocking.. "
Yes there’s loads of women who don’t like it and plenty of threads x |
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"There are guys who don't like them? Sometimes I prefer them over sex. Depending how good ofcourse
Hmm maybe that’s another thread. Penetrative sex or BJ
There are surprisingly a lot of women that do not like penetrative sex for many different reasons.
Maybe that’s another thread too haven’t really heard of many that don’t to be honest x
FAB is probably not the the place to talk about such subjects - especially as it very cockcentric - even this post highlights the way people view guys that don't like BJ as being abnormal
I think it is the perfect place really. You’re always gonna get people who thing their way is the only way. I’ve never been ashamed or embarrassed to say what I do or don’t like on here. We’re all different. x
That I think is the point it should be a place where such matters are discussed but it is far from that. There is too much shaming and underhanded side-swiping in the forums. Can you image what would happen if a woman came into Forums and said she didn't like penetration, how she would be treated?
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Do you feel shamed on this thread though? A few people have said a jokey what? Who wouldn’t like BJs type comments but I didn’t really see those as shaming x |
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By *eardybobMan
over a year ago
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"There are guys who don't like them? Sometimes I prefer them over sex. Depending how good ofcourse
Hmm maybe that’s another thread. Penetrative sex or BJ
There are surprisingly a lot of women that do not like penetrative sex for many different reasons.
Maybe that’s another thread too haven’t really heard of many that don’t to be honest x
FAB is probably not the the place to talk about such subjects - especially as it very cockcentric - even this post highlights the way people view guys that don't like BJ as being abnormal
I think it is the perfect place really. You’re always gonna get people who thing their way is the only way. I’ve never been ashamed or embarrassed to say what I do or don’t like on here. We’re all different. x
That I think is the point it should be a place where such matters are discussed but it is far from that. There is too much shaming and underhanded side-swiping in the forums. Can you image what would happen if a woman came into Forums and said she didn't like penetration, how she would be treated?
Do you feel shamed on this thread though? A few people have said a jokey what? Who wouldn’t like BJs type comments but I didn’t really see those as shaming x"
Gonna put my hand up and say that in some ways this applies directly to me (like yourself Nora, I dont actively swing, and consider myself very very careful) but no - I dont feel in any way shamed... a really interestimg thread actually - really got me thinking.  |
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"Any men not keen on them?
I absolutely love them but you have got me thinking about why some men don’t.
When being given one, the best ones are when you give yourself to it completely and let the woman have full control over what happens. So I wonder if some men can’t relinquish that control/power aspect
Yes I’m curious as to why. Only because most men do seem to love them. There are plenty things I don’t like that others do though so we’re all different.
This is a better worded way of what I was trying to say.
I once allowed myself to be tied up and pleasured orally. I broke the bed getting free to move her head to the right position ...
I would love to be tied up and given bj. Blindfolded too. Never had that yet I have control issues.
I slept for 14 hours after that attempt. I was mentally destroyed.
Interesting. Do you prefer to be in control?"
yeah.
It's something I'm working on. Control is a very simple thing and it's also incredibly complicated.
I cannot give up control. I trust no one, except my wife, that much and even with her it's uncomfortable and alien. I have learned that at times I can share control. If it's only me in control then it's only my vision that gets realised. But if I can share control then something new and better can be achieved.
In the walk around world it's not a problem. I dislike people telling me to do things, but if they tell me what needs to be done then I'm OK.
I'm learning that control isn't a bad thing. It's kit something I should be ashamed of. It's not something I need to cure. It's just something I do and as long as its consensual and comes from a place of respect then its all ok |
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"There are guys who don't like them? Sometimes I prefer them over sex. Depending how good ofcourse
Hmm maybe that’s another thread. Penetrative sex or BJ
There are surprisingly a lot of women that do not like penetrative sex for many different reasons.
Maybe that’s another thread too haven’t really heard of many that don’t to be honest x
FAB is probably not the the place to talk about such subjects - especially as it very cockcentric - even this post highlights the way people view guys that don't like BJ as being abnormal
I think it is the perfect place really. You’re always gonna get people who thing their way is the only way. I’ve never been ashamed or embarrassed to say what I do or don’t like on here. We’re all different. x
That I think is the point it should be a place where such matters are discussed but it is far from that. There is too much shaming and underhanded side-swiping in the forums. Can you image what would happen if a woman came into Forums and said she didn't like penetration, how she would be treated?
Do you feel shamed on this thread though? A few people have said a jokey what? Who wouldn’t like BJs type comments but I didn’t really see those as shaming x"
I can honestly say I was only having a bit of craic and hope my comments weren't misconstrued as serious. Each to their own is my motto |
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"There are guys who don't like them? Sometimes I prefer them over sex. Depending how good ofcourse
Hmm maybe that’s another thread. Penetrative sex or BJ
There are surprisingly a lot of women that do not like penetrative sex for many different reasons.
Maybe that’s another thread too haven’t really heard of many that don’t to be honest x
FAB is probably not the the place to talk about such subjects - especially as it very cockcentric - even this post highlights the way people view guys that don't like BJ as being abnormal
I think it is the perfect place really. You’re always gonna get people who thing their way is the only way. I’ve never been ashamed or embarrassed to say what I do or don’t like on here. We’re all different. x
That I think is the point it should be a place where such matters are discussed but it is far from that. There is too much shaming and underhanded side-swiping in the forums. Can you image what would happen if a woman came into Forums and said she didn't like penetration, how she would be treated?
Do you feel shamed on this thread though? A few people have said a jokey what? Who wouldn’t like BJs type comments but I didn’t really see those as shaming x
I can honestly say I was only having a bit of craic and hope my comments weren't misconstrued as serious. Each to their own is my motto "
Good  and yes, the phrase each to their own is used a lot and can get repetitive and slightly annoying but it’s very true x |
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"Any men not keen on them?
I absolutely love them but you have got me thinking about why some men don’t.
When being given one, the best ones are when you give yourself to it completely and let the woman have full control over what happens. So I wonder if some men can’t relinquish that control/power aspect
Yes I’m curious as to why. Only because most men do seem to love them. There are plenty things I don’t like that others do though so we’re all different.
This is a better worded way of what I was trying to say.
I once allowed myself to be tied up and pleasured orally. I broke the bed getting free to move her head to the right position ...
I would love to be tied up and given bj. Blindfolded too. Never had that yet I have control issues.
I slept for 14 hours after that attempt. I was mentally destroyed.
Interesting. Do you prefer to be in control?yeah.
It's something I'm working on. Control is a very simple thing and it's also incredibly complicated.
I cannot give up control. I trust no one, except my wife, that much and even with her it's uncomfortable and alien. I have learned that at times I can share control. If it's only me in control then it's only my vision that gets realised. But if I can share control then something new and better can be achieved.
In the walk around world it's not a problem. I dislike people telling me to do things, but if they tell me what needs to be done then I'm OK.
I'm learning that control isn't a bad thing. It's kit something I should be ashamed of. It's not something I need to cure. It's just something I do and as long as its consensual and comes from a place of respect then its all ok"
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"There are guys who don't like them? Sometimes I prefer them over sex. Depending how good ofcourse
Hmm maybe that’s another thread. Penetrative sex or BJ
There are surprisingly a lot of women that do not like penetrative sex for many different reasons.
Maybe that’s another thread too haven’t really heard of many that don’t to be honest x
FAB is probably not the the place to talk about such subjects - especially as it very cockcentric - even this post highlights the way people view guys that don't like BJ as being abnormal
I think it is the perfect place really. You’re always gonna get people who thing their way is the only way. I’ve never been ashamed or embarrassed to say what I do or don’t like on here. We’re all different. x
That I think is the point it should be a place where such matters are discussed but it is far from that. There is too much shaming and underhanded side-swiping in the forums. Can you image what would happen if a woman came into Forums and said she didn't like penetration, how she would be treated?
Do you feel shamed on this thread though? A few people have said a jokey what? Who wouldn’t like BJs type comments but I didn’t really see those as shaming x"
No because if I was ashamed I wouldn't say anything which was my point, but that's just me. I'm just saying from experience that there are those that exist, would not dare say anything especially in these forums.
You hit the nail on the head as they say - when you said about jokey comments - are they not the vehicle they use to give underhanded shaming, insults and abuse - "it was only a joke" - "why do people take things so seriously?" - "its only a bit of fun or banter".
This is a entire other subject - yes there forums should be place to discuss such matters but they are not.
No I'm a guy and BJ does nothing for me.
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"There are guys who don't like them? Sometimes I prefer them over sex. Depending how good ofcourse
Hmm maybe that’s another thread. Penetrative sex or BJ
There are surprisingly a lot of women that do not like penetrative sex for many different reasons.
Maybe that’s another thread too haven’t really heard of many that don’t to be honest x
FAB is probably not the the place to talk about such subjects - especially as it very cockcentric - even this post highlights the way people view guys that don't like BJ as being abnormal
I think it is the perfect place really. You’re always gonna get people who thing their way is the only way. I’ve never been ashamed or embarrassed to say what I do or don’t like on here. We’re all different. x
That I think is the point it should be a place where such matters are discussed but it is far from that. There is too much shaming and underhanded side-swiping in the forums. Can you image what would happen if a woman came into Forums and said she didn't like penetration, how she would be treated?
Do you feel shamed on this thread though? A few people have said a jokey what? Who wouldn’t like BJs type comments but I didn’t really see those as shaming x
I can honestly say I was only having a bit of craic and hope my comments weren't misconstrued as serious. Each to their own is my motto
Good and yes, the phrase each to their own is used a lot and can get repetitive and slightly annoying but it’s very true x"
I'd actually hate for my joking to cause anybody shame or pain. There are times I have to check myself before I post because I'm aware my humour doesn't always translate well in text
It's definitely overused but the sentiment in it is golden. |
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"There are guys who don't like them? Sometimes I prefer them over sex. Depending how good ofcourse
Hmm maybe that’s another thread. Penetrative sex or BJ
There are surprisingly a lot of women that do not like penetrative sex for many different reasons.
Maybe that’s another thread too haven’t really heard of many that don’t to be honest x
FAB is probably not the the place to talk about such subjects - especially as it very cockcentric - even this post highlights the way people view guys that don't like BJ as being abnormal
I think it is the perfect place really. You’re always gonna get people who thing their way is the only way. I’ve never been ashamed or embarrassed to say what I do or don’t like on here. We’re all different. x
That I think is the point it should be a place where such matters are discussed but it is far from that. There is too much shaming and underhanded side-swiping in the forums. Can you image what would happen if a woman came into Forums and said she didn't like penetration, how she would be treated?
Do you feel shamed on this thread though? A few people have said a jokey what? Who wouldn’t like BJs type comments but I didn’t really see those as shaming x
I can honestly say I was only having a bit of craic and hope my comments weren't misconstrued as serious. Each to their own is my motto
Good and yes, the phrase each to their own is used a lot and can get repetitive and slightly annoying but it’s very true x
I'd actually hate for my joking to cause anybody shame or pain. There are times I have to check myself before I post because I'm aware my humour doesn't always translate well in text
It's definitely overused but the sentiment in it is golden. "
Yeah I know what you mean. I’ve probably done it as I am quite sarky but I’d be mortified if I hurt someone by my comments x |
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"There are guys who don't like them? Sometimes I prefer them over sex. Depending how good ofcourse
Hmm maybe that’s another thread. Penetrative sex or BJ
There are surprisingly a lot of women that do not like penetrative sex for many different reasons.
Maybe that’s another thread too haven’t really heard of many that don’t to be honest x
FAB is probably not the the place to talk about such subjects - especially as it very cockcentric - even this post highlights the way people view guys that don't like BJ as being abnormal
I think it is the perfect place really. You’re always gonna get people who thing their way is the only way. I’ve never been ashamed or embarrassed to say what I do or don’t like on here. We’re all different. x
That I think is the point it should be a place where such matters are discussed but it is far from that. There is too much shaming and underhanded side-swiping in the forums. Can you image what would happen if a woman came into Forums and said she didn't like penetration, how she would be treated?
Do you feel shamed on this thread though? A few people have said a jokey what? Who wouldn’t like BJs type comments but I didn’t really see those as shaming x
I can honestly say I was only having a bit of craic and hope my comments weren't misconstrued as serious. Each to their own is my motto
Good and yes, the phrase each to their own is used a lot and can get repetitive and slightly annoying but it’s very true x
I'd actually hate for my joking to cause anybody shame or pain. There are times I have to check myself before I post because I'm aware my humour doesn't always translate well in text
It's definitely overused but the sentiment in it is golden.
Yeah I know what you mean. I’ve probably done it as I am quite sarky but I’d be mortified if I hurt someone by my comments x"
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"There are guys who don't like them? Sometimes I prefer them over sex. Depending how good ofcourse
Hmm maybe that’s another thread. Penetrative sex or BJ
There are surprisingly a lot of women that do not like penetrative sex for many different reasons.
Maybe that’s another thread too haven’t really heard of many that don’t to be honest x
FAB is probably not the the place to talk about such subjects - especially as it very cockcentric - even this post highlights the way people view guys that don't like BJ as being abnormal
I think it is the perfect place really. You’re always gonna get people who thing their way is the only way. I’ve never been ashamed or embarrassed to say what I do or don’t like on here. We’re all different. x
That I think is the point it should be a place where such matters are discussed but it is far from that. There is too much shaming and underhanded side-swiping in the forums. Can you image what would happen if a woman came into Forums and said she didn't like penetration, how she would be treated?
Do you feel shamed on this thread though? A few people have said a jokey what? Who wouldn’t like BJs type comments but I didn’t really see those as shaming x
I can honestly say I was only having a bit of craic and hope my comments weren't misconstrued as serious. Each to their own is my motto
Good and yes, the phrase each to their own is used a lot and can get repetitive and slightly annoying but it’s very true x
I'd actually hate for my joking to cause anybody shame or pain. There are times I have to check myself before I post because I'm aware my humour doesn't always translate well in text
It's definitely overused but the sentiment in it is golden.
Yeah I know what you mean. I’ve probably done it as I am quite sarky but I’d be mortified if I hurt someone by my comments x
Unfortunately there's no context or facial expression in text "
Jokes are great, except my jokes they are terrible. Jokes they walk a fine line between good and bad taste, occasionally jokes may offend unintentionally, but is is the side swipes and the digs at people disguised as jokes or jest which are the ones that stop people discussing subjects in the Forum that may be more common than people realise, unfortunately Forums is just really one big pissing contest. My response was to the post about women who don't like penetration and guys that don't like BJ and why they don't come forward on a platform like FAB or forums. Only people can change that, hasn't happened yet and not likely to either.
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"There are guys who don't like them? Sometimes I prefer them over sex. Depending how good ofcourse
Hmm maybe that’s another thread. Penetrative sex or BJ
There are surprisingly a lot of women that do not like penetrative sex for many different reasons.
Maybe that’s another thread too haven’t really heard of many that don’t to be honest x
FAB is probably not the the place to talk about such subjects - especially as it very cockcentric - even this post highlights the way people view guys that don't like BJ as being abnormal
I think it is the perfect place really. You’re always gonna get people who thing their way is the only way. I’ve never been ashamed or embarrassed to say what I do or don’t like on here. We’re all different. x
That I think is the point it should be a place where such matters are discussed but it is far from that. There is too much shaming and underhanded side-swiping in the forums. Can you image what would happen if a woman came into Forums and said she didn't like penetration, how she would be treated?
Do you feel shamed on this thread though? A few people have said a jokey what? Who wouldn’t like BJs type comments but I didn’t really see those as shaming x
I can honestly say I was only having a bit of craic and hope my comments weren't misconstrued as serious. Each to their own is my motto
Good and yes, the phrase each to their own is used a lot and can get repetitive and slightly annoying but it’s very true x
I'd actually hate for my joking to cause anybody shame or pain. There are times I have to check myself before I post because I'm aware my humour doesn't always translate well in text
It's definitely overused but the sentiment in it is golden.
Yeah I know what you mean. I’ve probably done it as I am quite sarky but I’d be mortified if I hurt someone by my comments x
Unfortunately there's no context or facial expression in text
Jokes are great, except my jokes they are terrible. Jokes they walk a fine line between good and bad taste, occasionally jokes may offend unintentionally, but is is the side swipes and the digs at people disguised as jokes or jest which are the ones that stop people discussing subjects in the Forum that may be more common than people realise, unfortunately Forums is just really one big pissing contest. My response was to the post about women who don't like penetration and guys that don't like BJ and why they don't come forward on a platform like FAB or forums. Only people can change that, hasn't happened yet and not likely to either.
People generally only raise personal feeling in forums for attention and sympathy - not understanding and acceptance"
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I'm not fussy, getting there now though. The reason being that I was seeing someone about 3 years ago who seemed to be addicted.
As in wake up to a blow job, get home from work get blown, go to bed blow job ( had sex too but always had to involve a bj ) woken up the next day by ? Yes a blow job.
Sounds ideal doesn't it ? Well after 6 months of this day in and day out it happens to wear pretty thin. Its the old proverb of " too much of a good thing " even the most enjoyable of things can just become habit and not fun anymore  |
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over a year ago
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it can be difficult to cum just from a bj and if the sucker is not into then it kills the mood.
much prefer gentle, edged, handjob sessions to be honest. |
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