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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
Shushhhhhhyourmouthville |
Is it important to define folks as much as we do? And also why do you think we do that?
Do you like it when people define and group you with others or do you prefer to be thought of more as an individual with flexibility in your personality and beliefs from day to day? Or would you prefer they didn't even think about you or anyone else other than themselves, and solved world peace instead? Or is thinking and comparing the best thing ever invented? Is defining a positive experience for you?
What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
Also, do you have boobs or bum cheeks and if so are you happy to share them?  
What do you reckon?
...Bob x |
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"I’m me. That’s it. There’s probably no definition 
And I have boobs and a bum yes 
But are you going to share said boobs and bum with him 
Nope  "
I couldn't even formulate an answer to such a loaded bunch of questions |
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"I’m me. That’s it. There’s probably no definition
And I have boobs and a bum yes
But are you going to share said boobs and bum with him
Nope
I couldn't even formulate an answer to such a loaded bunch of questions "
I skimmed and did an overall answer |
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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago
Wellingborough |
"Ýeah what Nora said . I don't define myself, I am what I am and that's it , bollocks if ya don't like me "
Would agree with agreeing with Nora... no boobs though, well none of my own but wouldn't mind sharing those of a good lady
But open, honest and just being me, no labels |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just prefer it if people on here just block me if they dont like me
In, real life, where some of us live, I couldnt give a fuck what category anyone puts me in. That's their issue, not mine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
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Bored
Categorising and defining people sounds like far too much time than I am Willing to invest because that would mean actually having to have conversations with people |
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
Shushhhhhhyourmouthville |
"I’m me. That’s it. There’s probably no definition
And I have boobs and a bum yes
But are you going to share said boobs and bum with him
Nope
I couldn't even formulate an answer to such a loaded bunch of questions
I skimmed and did an overall answer "
* Offended * |
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
Shushhhhhhyourmouthville |
"Ýeah what Nora said . I don't define myself, I am what I am and that's it , bollocks if ya don't like me
Would agree with agreeing with Nora... no boobs though, well none of my own but wouldn't mind sharing those of a good lady
But open, honest and just being me, no labels"
Bum cheeks? |
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
Shushhhhhhyourmouthville |
"
What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
Bored
Categorising and defining people sounds like far too much time than I am Willing to invest because that would mean actually having to have conversations with people "
Sending boobs is easier, right?  |
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
Shushhhhhhyourmouthville |
"I think it's a useful starting point in as much as deciding if you're likely to get on with someone or enjoy their company "
Yeah, like if they have a 14 ft cock and you're quite snug, for example  |
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By *igmaMan
over a year ago
Yorkshire |
"What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
Arsehole
By that definition, you know what that makes you? (I don't make the rules  )"
I’m a prize one to say the least |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's a useful starting point in as much as deciding if you're likely to get on with someone or enjoy their company
Yeah, like if they have a 14 ft cock and you're quite snug, for example "
No, not like that at all |
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
Shushhhhhhyourmouthville |
"What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
Arsehole
By that definition, you know what that makes you? (I don't make the rules )
I’m a prize one to say the least "
Plenty of us in here  |
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
Shushhhhhhyourmouthville |
"I think it's a useful starting point in as much as deciding if you're likely to get on with someone or enjoy their company
Yeah, like if they have a 14 ft cock and you're quite snug, for example
No, not like that at all "
But, by my reply, you worked something out and classified me? |
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By *igmaMan
over a year ago
Yorkshire |
"What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
Arsehole
By that definition, you know what that makes you? (I don't make the rules )
I’m a prize one to say the least
Plenty of us in here "
Ten a penny  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it important to define folks as much as we do? And also why do you think we do that?
Do you like it when people define and group you with others or do you prefer to be thought of more as an individual with flexibility in your personality and beliefs from day to day? Or would you prefer they didn't even think about you or anyone else other than themselves, and solved world peace instead? Or is thinking and comparing the best thing ever invented? Is defining a positive experience for you?
What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
Also, do you have boobs or bum cheeks and if so are you happy to share them?
What do you reckon?
...Bob x"
No,
People are judgemental and like to put people in boxes,
No,
Yes,
Yes & Yes,
No, doggie style is best thing invented,
No,
No idea,
No idea
Yes (man boobs) and no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's a useful starting point in as much as deciding if you're likely to get on with someone or enjoy their company
Yeah, like if they have a 14 ft cock and you're quite snug, for example
No, not like that at all
But, by my reply, you worked something out and classified me?"
I already have you in a box |
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
Shushhhhhhyourmouthville |
"Is it important to define folks as much as we do? And also why do you think we do that?
Do you like it when people define and group you with others or do you prefer to be thought of more as an individual with flexibility in your personality and beliefs from day to day? Or would you prefer they didn't even think about you or anyone else other than themselves, and solved world peace instead? Or is thinking and comparing the best thing ever invented? Is defining a positive experience for you?
What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
Also, do you have boobs or bum cheeks and if so are you happy to share them?
What do you reckon?
...Bob x
No,
People are judgemental and like to put people in boxes,
No,
Yes,
Yes & Yes,
No, doggie style is best thing invented,
No,
No idea,
No idea
Yes (man boobs) and no."
My kinda reply! (except no boobs ) |
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
Shushhhhhhyourmouthville |
"I think it's a useful starting point in as much as deciding if you're likely to get on with someone or enjoy their company
Yeah, like if they have a 14 ft cock and you're quite snug, for example
No, not like that at all
But, by my reply, you worked something out and classified me?
I already have you in a box "
Bars on the windows? |
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"Is it important to define folks as much as we do? And also why do you think we do that?
Do you like it when people define and group you with others or do you prefer to be thought of more as an individual with flexibility in your personality and beliefs from day to day? Or would you prefer they didn't even think about you or anyone else other than themselves, and solved world peace instead? Or is thinking and comparing the best thing ever invented? Is defining a positive experience for you?
What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
Also, do you have boobs or bum cheeks and if so are you happy to share them?
What do you reckon?
...Bob x
No,
People are judgemental and like to put people in boxes,
No,
Yes,
Yes & Yes,
No, doggie style is best thing invented,
No,
No idea,
No idea
Yes (man boobs) and no."
Yipes, you did all ten |
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"I think it's a useful starting point in as much as deciding if you're likely to get on with someone or enjoy their company
Yeah, like if they have a 14 ft cock and you're quite snug, for example
No, not like that at all
But, by my reply, you worked something out and classified me?
I already have you in a box
Bars on the windows? "
And it is dark....very dark |
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
Shushhhhhhyourmouthville |
"I think it's a useful starting point in as much as deciding if you're likely to get on with someone or enjoy their company
Yeah, like if they have a 14 ft cock and you're quite snug, for example
No, not like that at all
But, by my reply, you worked something out and classified me?
I already have you in a box
Bars on the windows?
And it is dark....very dark "
Not... ... solitary! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it important to define folks as much as we do? And also why do you think we do that?
Do you like it when people define and group you with others or do you prefer to be thought of more as an individual with flexibility in your personality and beliefs from day to day? Or would you prefer they didn't even think about you or anyone else other than themselves, and solved world peace instead? Or is thinking and comparing the best thing ever invented? Is defining a positive experience for you?
What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
Also, do you have boobs or bum cheeks and if so are you happy to share them?
What do you reckon?
...Bob x
No,
People are judgemental and like to put people in boxes,
No,
Yes,
Yes & Yes,
No, doggie style is best thing invented,
No,
No idea,
No idea
Yes (man boobs) and no.
Yipes, you did all ten "
Best to be thorough |
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"Is it important to define folks as much as we do? And also why do you think we do that?
Do you like it when people define and group you with others or do you prefer to be thought of more as an individual with flexibility in your personality and beliefs from day to day? Or would you prefer they didn't even think about you or anyone else other than themselves, and solved world peace instead? Or is thinking and comparing the best thing ever invented? Is defining a positive experience for you?
What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
Also, do you have boobs or bum cheeks and if so are you happy to share them?
What do you reckon?
...Bob x
No,
People are judgemental and like to put people in boxes,
No,
Yes,
Yes & Yes,
No, doggie style is best thing invented,
No,
No idea,
No idea
Yes (man boobs) and no.
Yipes, you did all ten
Best to be thorough "
Yes, that's why it has been decided to put him in solitary |
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I’m fat… that’s obvious.. I’m over 50, old
To some young to others. I’m
A mother, a grandmother ,a twat and a good friend. I’m loyal, I’m two faced , I’m comical, im immature….. al these descriptions describe me but I am me. True to myself and beat to the sound of my own drum. I don’t need affirmation from other people I like me just as I am |
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
Shushhhhhhyourmouthville |
"I’m fat… that’s obvious.. I’m over 50, old
To some young to others. I’m
A mother, a grandmother ,a twat and a good friend. I’m loyal, I’m two faced , I’m comical, im immature….. al these descriptions describe me but I am me. True to myself and beat to the sound of my own drum. I don’t need affirmation from other people I like me just as I am "
Are those descriptions important to you? If someone described you differently, would it bother you or make you feel bad or good?
(btw, you forgot beautiful  ) |
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
Shushhhhhhyourmouthville |
"Is it important to define folks as much as we do? And also why do you think we do that?
Do you like it when people define and group you with others or do you prefer to be thought of more as an individual with flexibility in your personality and beliefs from day to day? Or would you prefer they didn't even think about you or anyone else other than themselves, and solved world peace instead? Or is thinking and comparing the best thing ever invented? Is defining a positive experience for you?
What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
Also, do you have boobs or bum cheeks and if so are you happy to share them?
What do you reckon?
...Bob x
No,
People are judgemental and like to put people in boxes,
No,
Yes,
Yes & Yes,
No, doggie style is best thing invented,
No,
No idea,
No idea
Yes (man boobs) and no.
Yipes, you did all ten
Best to be thorough
Yes, that's why it has been decided to put him in solitary "
Glory hole in the dark? |
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"Is it important to define folks as much as we do? And also why do you think we do that?
Do you like it when people define and group you with others or do you prefer to be thought of more as an individual with flexibility in your personality and beliefs from day to day? Or would you prefer they didn't even think about you or anyone else other than themselves, and solved world peace instead? Or is thinking and comparing the best thing ever invented? Is defining a positive experience for you?
What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
Also, do you have boobs or bum cheeks and if so are you happy to share them?
What do you reckon?
...Bob x
No,
People are judgemental and like to put people in boxes,
No,
Yes,
Yes & Yes,
No, doggie style is best thing invented,
No,
No idea,
No idea
Yes (man boobs) and no.
Yipes, you did all ten
Best to be thorough
Yes, that's why it has been decided to put him in solitary
Glory hole in the dark? "
Nope. Fun not included |
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
Shushhhhhhyourmouthville |
"Is it important to define folks as much as we do? And also why do you think we do that?
Do you like it when people define and group you with others or do you prefer to be thought of more as an individual with flexibility in your personality and beliefs from day to day? Or would you prefer they didn't even think about you or anyone else other than themselves, and solved world peace instead? Or is thinking and comparing the best thing ever invented? Is defining a positive experience for you?
What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
Also, do you have boobs or bum cheeks and if so are you happy to share them?
What do you reckon?
...Bob x
No,
People are judgemental and like to put people in boxes,
No,
Yes,
Yes & Yes,
No, doggie style is best thing invented,
No,
No idea,
No idea
Yes (man boobs) and no.
Yipes, you did all ten
Best to be thorough
Yes, that's why it has been decided to put him in solitary
Glory hole in the dark?
Nope. Fun not included "
You USED to be so much fun! |
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"Is it important to define folks as much as we do? And also why do you think we do that?
Do you like it when people define and group you with others or do you prefer to be thought of more as an individual with flexibility in your personality and beliefs from day to day? Or would you prefer they didn't even think about you or anyone else other than themselves, and solved world peace instead? Or is thinking and comparing the best thing ever invented? Is defining a positive experience for you?
What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
Also, do you have boobs or bum cheeks and if so are you happy to share them?
What do you reckon?
...Bob x
No,
People are judgemental and like to put people in boxes,
No,
Yes,
Yes & Yes,
No, doggie style is best thing invented,
No,
No idea,
No idea
Yes (man boobs) and no.
Yipes, you did all ten
Best to be thorough
Yes, that's why it has been decided to put him in solitary
Glory hole in the dark?
Nope. Fun not included
You USED to be so much fun! "
Do I know you ? It is Fred isn't it  |
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
Shushhhhhhyourmouthville |
"Is it important to define folks as much as we do? And also why do you think we do that?
Do you like it when people define and group you with others or do you prefer to be thought of more as an individual with flexibility in your personality and beliefs from day to day? Or would you prefer they didn't even think about you or anyone else other than themselves, and solved world peace instead? Or is thinking and comparing the best thing ever invented? Is defining a positive experience for you?
What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
Also, do you have boobs or bum cheeks and if so are you happy to share them?
What do you reckon?
...Bob x
No,
People are judgemental and like to put people in boxes,
No,
Yes,
Yes & Yes,
No, doggie style is best thing invented,
No,
No idea,
No idea
Yes (man boobs) and no.
Yipes, you did all ten
Best to be thorough
Yes, that's why it has been decided to put him in solitary
Glory hole in the dark?
Nope. Fun not included
You USED to be so much fun!
Do I know you ? It is Fred isn't it "
Do you? Do you REALLY?? x |
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"I’m fat… that’s obvious.. I’m over 50, old
To some young to others. I’m
A mother, a grandmother ,a twat and a good friend. I’m loyal, I’m two faced , I’m comical, im immature….. al these descriptions describe me but I am me. True to myself and beat to the sound of my own drum. I don’t need affirmation from other people I like me just as I am
Some of those are yes. I’m
A mother to me that’s been an adventure that’s both been pleasure and pain. A grandmother seeing my children move into adult status as a parent in there own right
By default gave me that one. Physically or personality ect then no simply because now in life I am Just only going to be unfiltered me with my own bar to set and not restricted by anyone else’s.
Beautiful..never give it a thought but I appreciate and thank those who think it. So thank you very much
Are those descriptions important to you? If someone described you differently, would it bother you or make you feel bad or good?
(btw, you forgot beautiful )"
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"Is it important to define folks as much as we do? And also why do you think we do that?
Do you like it when people define and group you with others or do you prefer to be thought of more as an individual with flexibility in your personality and beliefs from day to day? Or would you prefer they didn't even think about you or anyone else other than themselves, and solved world peace instead? Or is thinking and comparing the best thing ever invented? Is defining a positive experience for you?
What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
Also, do you have boobs or bum cheeks and if so are you happy to share them?
What do you reckon?
...Bob x
No,
People are judgemental and like to put people in boxes,
No,
Yes,
Yes & Yes,
No, doggie style is best thing invented,
No,
No idea,
No idea
Yes (man boobs) and no.
Yipes, you did all ten
Best to be thorough
Yes, that's why it has been decided to put him in solitary
Glory hole in the dark?
Nope. Fun not included
You USED to be so much fun!
Do I know you ? It is Fred isn't it "
Is that aimed at Bob or Me? |
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
Shushhhhhhyourmouthville |
"I’m fat… that’s obvious.. I’m over 50, old
To some young to others. I’m
A mother, a grandmother ,a twat and a good friend. I’m loyal, I’m two faced , I’m comical, im immature….. al these descriptions describe me but I am me. True to myself and beat to the sound of my own drum. I don’t need affirmation from other people I like me just as I am
Some of those are yes. I’m
A mother to me that’s been an adventure that’s both been pleasure and pain. A grandmother seeing my children move into adult status as a parent in there own right
By default gave me that one. Physically or personality ect then no simply because now in life I am Just only going to be unfiltered me with my own bar to set and not restricted by anyone else’s.
Beautiful..never give it a thought but I appreciate and thank those who think it. So thank you very much
Are those descriptions important to you? If someone described you differently, would it bother you or make you feel bad or good?
(btw, you forgot beautiful )"
I guess it depends on who's passing judgement and how much they mean to you? x |
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
Shushhhhhhyourmouthville |
"Is it important to define folks as much as we do? And also why do you think we do that?
Do you like it when people define and group you with others or do you prefer to be thought of more as an individual with flexibility in your personality and beliefs from day to day? Or would you prefer they didn't even think about you or anyone else other than themselves, and solved world peace instead? Or is thinking and comparing the best thing ever invented? Is defining a positive experience for you?
What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
Also, do you have boobs or bum cheeks and if so are you happy to share them?
What do you reckon?
...Bob x
No,
People are judgemental and like to put people in boxes,
No,
Yes,
Yes & Yes,
No, doggie style is best thing invented,
No,
No idea,
No idea
Yes (man boobs) and no.
Yipes, you did all ten
Best to be thorough
Yes, that's why it has been decided to put him in solitary
Glory hole in the dark?
Nope. Fun not included
You USED to be so much fun!
Do I know you ? It is Fred isn't it
Is that aimed at Bob or Me?"
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"Is it important to define folks as much as we do? And also why do you think we do that?
Do you like it when people define and group you with others or do you prefer to be thought of more as an individual with flexibility in your personality and beliefs from day to day? Or would you prefer they didn't even think about you or anyone else other than themselves, and solved world peace instead? Or is thinking and comparing the best thing ever invented? Is defining a positive experience for you?
What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
Also, do you have boobs or bum cheeks and if so are you happy to share them?
What do you reckon?
...Bob x
No,
People are judgemental and like to put people in boxes,
No,
Yes,
Yes & Yes,
No, doggie style is best thing invented,
No,
No idea,
No idea
Yes (man boobs) and no.
Yipes, you did all ten
Best to be thorough
Yes, that's why it has been decided to put him in solitary
Glory hole in the dark?
Nope. Fun not included
You USED to be so much fun!
Do I know you ? It is Fred isn't it
Is that aimed at Bob or Me?
You Fred "
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A lot of people get defined by others. Isn't that called stereotyping someone? All gay men are camp? All black men have massive cocks? Pigeon holing someone all sorts of reasons. Can't stand it myself I'm a person and so should everyone else be |
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"I’m fat… that’s obvious.. I’m over 50, old
To some young to others. I’m
A mother, a grandmother ,a twat and a good friend. I’m loyal, I’m two faced , I’m comical, im immature….. al these descriptions describe me but I am me. True to myself and beat to the sound of my own drum. I don’t need affirmation from other people I like me just as I am
Some of those are yes. I’m
A mother to me that’s been an adventure that’s both been pleasure and pain. A grandmother seeing my children move into adult status as a parent in there own right
By default gave me that one. Physically or personality ect then no simply because now in life I am Just only going to be unfiltered me with my own bar to set and not restricted by anyone else’s.
Beautiful..never give it a thought but I appreciate and thank those who think it. So thank you very much
Are those descriptions important to you? If someone described you differently, would it bother you or make you feel bad or good?
(btw, you forgot beautiful )
I guess it depends on who's passing judgement and how much they mean to you? x"
If the person means anything to me then clearly they would know me and accept me for who I am. The rest passing judgement… there opinions didn’t make me nor will they break me. I’m a recent bird and I’m good with that |
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
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"A lot of people get defined by others. Isn't that called stereotyping someone? All gay men are camp? All black men have massive cocks? Pigeon holing someone all sorts of reasons. Can't stand it myself I'm a person and so should everyone else be"
Exactly! My dick is HUGE too! |
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"Is it important to define folks as much as we do? And also why do you think we do that?
Do you like it when people define and group you with others or do you prefer to be thought of more as an individual with flexibility in your personality and beliefs from day to day? Or would you prefer they didn't even think about you or anyone else other than themselves, and solved world peace instead? Or is thinking and comparing the best thing ever invented? Is defining a positive experience for you?
What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
Also, do you have boobs or bum cheeks and if so are you happy to share them?
What do you reckon?
...Bob x
No,
People are judgemental and like to put people in boxes,
No,
Yes,
Yes & Yes,
No, doggie style is best thing invented,
No,
No idea,
No idea
Yes (man boobs) and no.
Yipes, you did all ten
Best to be thorough
Yes, that's why it has been decided to put him in solitary
Glory hole in the dark?
Nope. Fun not included
You USED to be so much fun!
Do I know you ? It is Fred isn't it
Is that aimed at Bob or Me?"
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Exactly! My dick is HUGE too! "
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"Is it important to define folks as much as we do? And also why do you think we do that?
Do you like it when people define and group you with others or do you prefer to be thought of more as an individual with flexibility in your personality and beliefs from day to day? Or would you prefer they didn't even think about you or anyone else other than themselves, and solved world peace instead? Or is thinking and comparing the best thing ever invented? Is defining a positive experience for you?
What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
Also, do you have boobs or bum cheeks and if so are you happy to share them?
What do you reckon?
...Bob x
No,
People are judgemental and like to put people in boxes,
No,
Yes,
Yes & Yes,
No, doggie style is best thing invented,
No,
No idea,
No idea
Yes (man boobs) and no.
Yipes, you did all ten
Best to be thorough
Yes, that's why it has been decided to put him in solitary
Glory hole in the dark?
Nope. Fun not included
You USED to be so much fun!
Do I know you ? It is Fred isn't it
Is that aimed at Bob or Me?
Fred (aka Bob)"
Got it now, confused as I'm Freddie too I'll go back to sleep |
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"Is it important to define folks as much as we do? And also why do you think we do that?
Do you like it when people define and group you with others or do you prefer to be thought of more as an individual with flexibility in your personality and beliefs from day to day? Or would you prefer they didn't even think about you or anyone else other than themselves, and solved world peace instead? Or is thinking and comparing the best thing ever invented? Is defining a positive experience for you?
What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
Also, do you have boobs or bum cheeks and if so are you happy to share them?
What do you reckon?
...Bob x
No,
People are judgemental and like to put people in boxes,
No,
Yes,
Yes & Yes,
No, doggie style is best thing invented,
No,
No idea,
No idea
Yes (man boobs) and no.
Yipes, you did all ten
Best to be thorough
Yes, that's why it has been decided to put him in solitary
Glory hole in the dark?
Nope. Fun not included
You USED to be so much fun!
Do I know you ? It is Fred isn't it
Is that aimed at Bob or Me?
Fred (aka Bob)
Got it now, confused as I'm Freddie too I'll go back to sleep "
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"Is it important to define folks as much as we do? And also why do you think we do that?
Do you like it when people define and group you with others or do you prefer to be thought of more as an individual with flexibility in your personality and beliefs from day to day? Or would you prefer they didn't even think about you or anyone else other than themselves, and solved world peace instead? Or is thinking and comparing the best thing ever invented? Is defining a positive experience for you?
What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
Also, do you have boobs or bum cheeks and if so are you happy to share them?
What do you reckon?
...Bob x
No,
People are judgemental and like to put people in boxes,
No,
Yes,
Yes & Yes,
No, doggie style is best thing invented,
No,
No idea,
No idea
Yes (man boobs) and no.
Yipes, you did all ten
Best to be thorough
Yes, that's why it has been decided to put him in solitary
Glory hole in the dark?
Nope. Fun not included
You USED to be so much fun!
Do I know you ? It is Fred isn't it
Is that aimed at Bob or Me?
Fred (aka Bob)
Got it now, confused as I'm Freddie too I'll go back to sleep
Silverfoxfreddie "
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"I’m fat… that’s obvious.. I’m over 50, old
To some young to others. I’m
A mother, a grandmother ,a twat and a good friend. I’m loyal, I’m two faced , I’m comical, im immature….. al these descriptions describe me but I am me. True to myself and beat to the sound of my own drum. I don’t need affirmation from other people I like me just as I am
Some of those are yes. I’m
A mother to me that’s been an adventure that’s both been pleasure and pain. A grandmother seeing my children move into adult status as a parent in there own right
By default gave me that one. Physically or personality ect then no simply because now in life I am Just only going to be unfiltered me with my own bar to set and not restricted by anyone else’s.
Beautiful..never give it a thought but I appreciate and thank those who think it. So thank you very much
Are those descriptions important to you? If someone described you differently, would it bother you or make you feel bad or good?
(btw, you forgot beautiful )
I guess it depends on who's passing judgement and how much they mean to you? x
If the person means anything to me then clearly they would know me and accept me for who I am. The rest passing judgement… there opinions didn’t make me nor will they break me. I’m a recent bird and I’m good with that "
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"Is it important to define folks as much as we do? And also why do you think we do that?
Do you like it when people define and group you with others or do you prefer to be thought of more as an individual with flexibility in your personality and beliefs from day to day? Or would you prefer they didn't even think about you or anyone else other than themselves, and solved world peace instead? Or is thinking and comparing the best thing ever invented? Is defining a positive experience for you?
What do you call a person who defines and compares people a lot? What's they're classification?
Also, do you have boobs or bum cheeks and if so are you happy to share them?
What do you reckon?
...Bob x
No,
People are judgemental and like to put people in boxes,
No,
Yes,
Yes & Yes,
No, doggie style is best thing invented,
No,
No idea,
No idea
Yes (man boobs) and no.
Yipes, you did all ten
Best to be thorough
Yes, that's why it has been decided to put him in solitary
Glory hole in the dark?
Nope. Fun not included
You USED to be so much fun!
Do I know you ? It is Fred isn't it
Is that aimed at Bob or Me?
Fred (aka Bob)
Got it now, confused as I'm Freddie too I'll go back to sleep
Silverfoxfreddie "
#newname
And from this day forward they referred to him as.... |
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I don't do lables or being put in to boxes. I hate it being done to me so won't do it to others. People are people. I am who I am although generally that's a huge pain in the arse |
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"I don't do lables or being put in to boxes. I hate it being done to me so won't do it to others. People are people. I am who I am although generally that's a huge pain in the arse "
Lables is that Spanish? |
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over a year ago
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"I don't do lables or being put in to boxes. I hate it being done to me so won't do it to others. People are people. I am who I am although generally that's a huge pain in the arse "
Pain for you or them? x |
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"I don't do lables or being put in to boxes. I hate it being done to me so won't do it to others. People are people. I am who I am although generally that's a huge pain in the arse
Lables is that Spanish? "
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"I don't do lables or being put in to boxes. I hate it being done to me so won't do it to others. People are people. I am who I am although generally that's a huge pain in the arse
Lables is that Spanish? "
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"I don't do lables or being put in to boxes. I hate it being done to me so won't do it to others. People are people. I am who I am although generally that's a huge pain in the arse
Lables is that Spanish?
Oooh Sparkle, are you going to slap, or shall I "
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"I don't do lables or being put in to boxes. I hate it being done to me so won't do it to others. People are people. I am who I am although generally that's a huge pain in the arse
Lables is that Spanish?
I'm tired, it's late and apparently my auto carrot is against me. "
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"I don't do lables or being put in to boxes. I hate it being done to me so won't do it to others. People are people. I am who I am although generally that's a huge pain in the arse
Pain for you or them? x"
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"I don't do lables or being put in to boxes. I hate it being done to me so won't do it to others. People are people. I am who I am although generally that's a huge pain in the arse
Lables is that Spanish?
Oooh Sparkle, are you going to slap, or shall I "
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
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"I don't do lables or being put in to boxes. I hate it being done to me so won't do it to others. People are people. I am who I am although generally that's a huge pain in the arse
Pain for you or them? x
Probably them, I'm okay with who I am but I know I can be a handful. "
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Lables is that Spanish?
Oooh Sparkle, are you going to slap, or shall I
You can. I'm too tired to aim "
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
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"#newname
And from this day forward they referred to him as....silverflashfoxfreddie
I dont think I've flashed 
Well on your photo 29/7, there is genitals banging about "
Pervert! (got your number!) |
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"#newname
And from this day forward they referred to him as....silverflashfoxfreddie
I dont think I've flashed
Well on your photo 29/7, there is genitals banging about "
Not banging about, playing hide and seek I'd say |
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"I don't do lables or being put in to boxes. I hate it being done to me so won't do it to others. People are people. I am who I am although generally that's a huge pain in the arse
Pain for you or them? x
Probably them, I'm okay with who I am but I know I can be a handful.
If you were easy, do you think you would be so enjoyable? "
I honestly have no idea. That's probably a question for the people that have to put up with me. |
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"#newname
And from this day forward they referred to him as....silverflashfoxfreddie
I dont think I've flashed
Well on your photo 29/7, there is genitals banging about
Not banging about, playing hide and seek I'd say "
Nope, very visible action shot. |
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
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"I don't do lables or being put in to boxes. I hate it being done to me so won't do it to others. People are people. I am who I am although generally that's a huge pain in the arse
Pain for you or them? x
Probably them, I'm okay with who I am but I know I can be a handful.
If you were easy, do you think you would be so enjoyable?
I honestly have no idea. That's probably a question for the people that have to put up with me. "
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"#newname
And from this day forward they referred to him as....silverflashfoxfreddie
I dont think I've flashed
Well on your photo 29/7, there is genitals banging about
Not banging about, playing hide and seek I'd say
Nope, very visible action shot."
Is it too rude and should be removed? |
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"#newname
And from this day forward they referred to him as....silverflashfoxfreddie
I dont think I've flashed
Well on your photo 29/7, there is genitals banging about
Pervert! (got your number!) "
Yeah, course you have........0978....those premium lines |
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"#newname
And from this day forward they referred to him as....silverflashfoxfreddie
I dont think I've flashed
Well on your photo 29/7, there is genitals banging about
Not banging about, playing hide and seek I'd say
Nope, very visible action shot.
Is it too rude and should be removed?"
It's your choice, your profile |
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
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"From the amount of threads and profile rules and regs, it seems most people do like to categorise and be in categories.
"
It's seems to me that the more diverse and accepting we become, the more folk try to categorise, but I'm not sure they're always so happy with how others see them Vs how they see themselves? It's almost like people are looking for value and worth in identity and belonging to something exclusive? And maybe it's not so popular when people classify us in broad negative terms? |
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
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"#newname
And from this day forward they referred to him as....silverflashfoxfreddie
I dont think I've flashed
Well on your photo 29/7, there is genitals banging about
Not banging about, playing hide and seek I'd say
Nope, very visible action shot.
Is it too rude and should be removed?
It's your choice, your profile "
Make sure someone comes first! |
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"#newname
And from this day forward they referred to him as....silverflashfoxfreddie
I dont think I've flashed
Well on your photo 29/7, there is genitals banging about
Pervert! (got your number!)
Yeah, course you have........0978....those premium lines "
I'm sure you used to send me premium messages on the green app |
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"I’m fat… that’s obvious.. I’m over 50, old
To some young to others. I’m
A mother, a grandmother ,a twat and a good friend. I’m loyal, I’m two faced , I’m comical, im immature….. al these descriptions describe me but I am me. True to myself and beat to the sound of my own drum. I don’t need affirmation from other people I like me just as I am
Some of those are yes. I’m
A mother to me that’s been an adventure that’s both been pleasure and pain. A grandmother seeing my children move into adult status as a parent in there own right
By default gave me that one. Physically or personality ect then no simply because now in life I am Just only going to be unfiltered me with my own bar to set and not restricted by anyone else’s.
Beautiful..never give it a thought but I appreciate and thank those who think it. So thank you very much
Are those descriptions important to you? If someone described you differently, would it bother you or make you feel bad or good?
(btw, you forgot beautiful )
I guess it depends on who's passing judgement and how much they mean to you? x
If the person means anything to me then clearly they would know me and accept me for who I am. The rest passing judgement… there opinions didn’t make me nor will they break me. I’m a recent bird and I’m good with that
People can mean something to you and still be hurtful though, sometimes x"
They fucking can to… ever had one of the nanas that are old school and say shit like like ohhhh you would be so pretty if you lost some weight. Young me replies by joining next diet fad. Old me replies bitch please the two can go together ya know. You can be fat and pretty. Truthin though didn’t call my nana a bitch bit old me If she sass alive would have stated that sentence more respectfully |
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
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"I’m fat… that’s obvious.. I’m over 50, old
To some young to others. I’m
A mother, a grandmother ,a twat and a good friend. I’m loyal, I’m two faced , I’m comical, im immature….. al these descriptions describe me but I am me. True to myself and beat to the sound of my own drum. I don’t need affirmation from other people I like me just as I am
Some of those are yes. I’m
A mother to me that’s been an adventure that’s both been pleasure and pain. A grandmother seeing my children move into adult status as a parent in there own right
By default gave me that one. Physically or personality ect then no simply because now in life I am Just only going to be unfiltered me with my own bar to set and not restricted by anyone else’s.
Beautiful..never give it a thought but I appreciate and thank those who think it. So thank you very much
Are those descriptions important to you? If someone described you differently, would it bother you or make you feel bad or good?
(btw, you forgot beautiful )
I guess it depends on who's passing judgement and how much they mean to you? x
If the person means anything to me then clearly they would know me and accept me for who I am. The rest passing judgement… there opinions didn’t make me nor will they break me. I’m a recent bird and I’m good with that
People can mean something to you and still be hurtful though, sometimes x
They fucking can to… ever had one of the nanas that are old school and say shit like like ohhhh you would be so pretty if you lost some weight. Young me replies by joining next diet fad. Old me replies bitch please the two can go together ya know. You can be fat and pretty. Truthin though didn’t call my nana a bitch bit old me If she sass alive would have stated that sentence more respectfully "
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over a year ago
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"WhatsApp ?
Is that an offer?
No, I wondered what premium messages were on WhatsApp
One way to find out!
Hmmmmmmm, thinks for a nanosecond.....nah
I'll wear you down x
That proper made me titter "
See, it's working already |
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"WhatsApp ?
Is that an offer?
No, I wondered what premium messages were on WhatsApp
One way to find out!
Hmmmmmmm, thinks for a nanosecond.....nah
I'll wear you down x
That proper made me titter
See, it's working already "
I love your glass half full attitude. I'm off to bed now. Nite |
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Shushhhhhhyourmouthville |
"WhatsApp ?
Is that an offer?
No, I wondered what premium messages were on WhatsApp
One way to find out!
Hmmmmmmm, thinks for a nanosecond.....nah
I'll wear you down x
That proper made me titter
See, it's working already
I love your glass half full attitude. I'm off to bed now. Nite "
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"I learned about bisexuality. I realized that people could be attracted to more than one gender.
After realizing I was literally attracted to people of all gender identities and expressions equally, I decided that pansexuality described my sexuality best.
Finding these “labels” was a relief for me. Learning about bisexuality and pansexuality made me feel like I was not alone. It made me feel validated.
The journey to self-acceptance was a tumultuous one, and it shaped much of who I am today. My sexual identity – or the “label” I use – is incredibly important as it represents this journey.". Sian Ferguson. |
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""I learned about bisexuality. I realized that people could be attracted to more than one gender.
After realizing I was literally attracted to people of all gender identities and expressions equally, I decided that pansexuality described my sexuality best.
Finding these “labels” was a relief for me. Learning about bisexuality and pansexuality made me feel like I was not alone. It made me feel validated.
The journey to self-acceptance was a tumultuous one, and it shaped much of who I am today. My sexual identity – or the “label” I use – is incredibly important as it represents this journey.". Sian Ferguson."
I'm glad to hear that, it can't have been easy I'm sure. Would it be ok if someone else defined you differently? x |
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""I learned about bisexuality. I realized that people could be attracted to more than one gender.
After realizing I was literally attracted to people of all gender identities and expressions equally, I decided that pansexuality described my sexuality best.
Finding these “labels” was a relief for me. Learning about bisexuality and pansexuality made me feel like I was not alone. It made me feel validated.
The journey to self-acceptance was a tumultuous one, and it shaped much of who I am today. My sexual identity – or the “label” I use – is incredibly important as it represents this journey.". Sian Ferguson.
I'm glad to hear that, it can't have been easy I'm sure. Would it be ok if someone else defined you differently? x"
This is a quote from someone else, but equally applicable to myself with few additions.
Folk will always define differently, especially that which they don't fully understand. Education is key however how others might define someone doesn't distract from their own journey of discovery. What will be, will be. |
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""I learned about bisexuality. I realized that people could be attracted to more than one gender.
After realizing I was literally attracted to people of all gender identities and expressions equally, I decided that pansexuality described my sexuality best.
Finding these “labels” was a relief for me. Learning about bisexuality and pansexuality made me feel like I was not alone. It made me feel validated.
The journey to self-acceptance was a tumultuous one, and it shaped much of who I am today. My sexual identity – or the “label” I use – is incredibly important as it represents this journey.". Sian Ferguson.
I'm glad to hear that, it can't have been easy I'm sure. Would it be ok if someone else defined you differently? x
This is a quote from someone else, but equally applicable to myself with few additions.
Folk will always define differently, especially that which they don't fully understand. Education is key however how others might define someone doesn't distract from their own journey of discovery. What will be, will be."
But if they assumed that because of THEIR classification (not yours) then they could define and predict your behaviours and worth? |
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""I learned about bisexuality. I realized that people could be attracted to more than one gender.
After realizing I was literally attracted to people of all gender identities and expressions equally, I decided that pansexuality described my sexuality best.
Finding these “labels” was a relief for me. Learning about bisexuality and pansexuality made me feel like I was not alone. It made me feel validated.
The journey to self-acceptance was a tumultuous one, and it shaped much of who I am today. My sexual identity – or the “label” I use – is incredibly important as it represents this journey.". Sian Ferguson.
I'm glad to hear that, it can't have been easy I'm sure. Would it be ok if someone else defined you differently? x
This is a quote from someone else, but equally applicable to myself with few additions.
Folk will always define differently, especially that which they don't fully understand. Education is key however how others might define someone doesn't distract from their own journey of discovery. What will be, will be.
But if they assumed that because of THEIR classification (not yours) then they could define and predict your behaviours and worth?"
Only I can define and predict my own behaviour and worth. Others try and change others but ultimately they fail, why? Because it's written into our code just who we will be. Some might hide what they are out of fear of others, but that still doesn't change who they are. |
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over a year ago
Shushhhhhhyourmouthville |
""I learned about bisexuality. I realized that people could be attracted to more than one gender.
After realizing I was literally attracted to people of all gender identities and expressions equally, I decided that pansexuality described my sexuality best.
Finding these “labels” was a relief for me. Learning about bisexuality and pansexuality made me feel like I was not alone. It made me feel validated.
The journey to self-acceptance was a tumultuous one, and it shaped much of who I am today. My sexual identity – or the “label” I use – is incredibly important as it represents this journey.". Sian Ferguson.
I'm glad to hear that, it can't have been easy I'm sure. Would it be ok if someone else defined you differently? x
This is a quote from someone else, but equally applicable to myself with few additions.
Folk will always define differently, especially that which they don't fully understand. Education is key however how others might define someone doesn't distract from their own journey of discovery. What will be, will be.
But if they assumed that because of THEIR classification (not yours) then they could define and predict your behaviours and worth?
Only I can define and predict my own behaviour and worth. Others try and change others but ultimately they fail, why? Because it's written into our code just who we will be. Some might hide what they are out of fear of others, but that still doesn't change who they are."
I honestly don't mean to offend, it's just this sounds a bit like a reproduced meme to me?
It's like saying "sticks and stones" right, but we all know that names CAN actually really hurt a person and spoil their day! Same with classification, grouping and behavioural assumptions, imo at least |
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""I learned about bisexuality. I realized that people could be attracted to more than one gender.
After realizing I was literally attracted to people of all gender identities and expressions equally, I decided that pansexuality described my sexuality best.
Finding these “labels” was a relief for me. Learning about bisexuality and pansexuality made me feel like I was not alone. It made me feel validated.
The journey to self-acceptance was a tumultuous one, and it shaped much of who I am today. My sexual identity – or the “label” I use – is incredibly important as it represents this journey.". Sian Ferguson.
I'm glad to hear that, it can't have been easy I'm sure. Would it be ok if someone else defined you differently? x
This is a quote from someone else, but equally applicable to myself with few additions.
Folk will always define differently, especially that which they don't fully understand. Education is key however how others might define someone doesn't distract from their own journey of discovery. What will be, will be.
But if they assumed that because of THEIR classification (not yours) then they could define and predict your behaviours and worth?
Only I can define and predict my own behaviour and worth. Others try and change others but ultimately they fail, why? Because it's written into our code just who we will be. Some might hide what they are out of fear of others, but that still doesn't change who they are.
I honestly don't mean to offend, it's just this sounds a bit like a reproduced meme to me?
It's like saying "sticks and stones" right, but we all know that names CAN actually really hurt a person and spoil their day! Same with classification, grouping and behavioural assumptions, imo at least "
It could well be written somewhere but its definitely how I feel. Names can hurt if you're young, but as adults we know they can't and can move past that |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
""I learned about bisexuality. I realized that people could be attracted to more than one gender.
After realizing I was literally attracted to people of all gender identities and expressions equally, I decided that pansexuality described my sexuality best.
Finding these “labels” was a relief for me. Learning about bisexuality and pansexuality made me feel like I was not alone. It made me feel validated.
The journey to self-acceptance was a tumultuous one, and it shaped much of who I am today. My sexual identity – or the “label” I use – is incredibly important as it represents this journey.". Sian Ferguson.
I'm glad to hear that, it can't have been easy I'm sure. Would it be ok if someone else defined you differently? x
This is a quote from someone else, but equally applicable to myself with few additions.
Folk will always define differently, especially that which they don't fully understand. Education is key however how others might define someone doesn't distract from their own journey of discovery. What will be, will be.
But if they assumed that because of THEIR classification (not yours) then they could define and predict your behaviours and worth?
Only I can define and predict my own behaviour and worth. Others try and change others but ultimately they fail, why? Because it's written into our code just who we will be. Some might hide what they are out of fear of others, but that still doesn't change who they are.
I honestly don't mean to offend, it's just this sounds a bit like a reproduced meme to me?
It's like saying "sticks and stones" right, but we all know that names CAN actually really hurt a person and spoil their day! Same with classification, grouping and behavioural assumptions, imo at least
It could well be written somewhere but its definitely how I feel. Names can hurt if you're young, but as adults we know they can't and can move past that "
Can’t message you as blocked because of age but hey night night... u sound fun |
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""I learned about bisexuality. I realized that people could be attracted to more than one gender.
After realizing I was literally attracted to people of all gender identities and expressions equally, I decided that pansexuality described my sexuality best.
Finding these “labels” was a relief for me. Learning about bisexuality and pansexuality made me feel like I was not alone. It made me feel validated.
The journey to self-acceptance was a tumultuous one, and it shaped much of who I am today. My sexual identity – or the “label” I use – is incredibly important as it represents this journey.". Sian Ferguson.
I'm glad to hear that, it can't have been easy I'm sure. Would it be ok if someone else defined you differently? x
This is a quote from someone else, but equally applicable to myself with few additions.
Folk will always define differently, especially that which they don't fully understand. Education is key however how others might define someone doesn't distract from their own journey of discovery. What will be, will be.
But if they assumed that because of THEIR classification (not yours) then they could define and predict your behaviours and worth?
Only I can define and predict my own behaviour and worth. Others try and change others but ultimately they fail, why? Because it's written into our code just who we will be. Some might hide what they are out of fear of others, but that still doesn't change who they are.
I honestly don't mean to offend, it's just this sounds a bit like a reproduced meme to me?
It's like saying "sticks and stones" right, but we all know that names CAN actually really hurt a person and spoil their day! Same with classification, grouping and behavioural assumptions, imo at least
It could well be written somewhere but its definitely how I feel. Names can hurt if you're young, but as adults we know they can't and can move past that
Can’t message you as blocked because of age but hey night night... u sound fun "
Oops sorry about that! No hard feelings |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
""I learned about bisexuality. I realized that people could be attracted to more than one gender.
After realizing I was literally attracted to people of all gender identities and expressions equally, I decided that pansexuality described my sexuality best.
Finding these “labels” was a relief for me. Learning about bisexuality and pansexuality made me feel like I was not alone. It made me feel validated.
The journey to self-acceptance was a tumultuous one, and it shaped much of who I am today. My sexual identity – or the “label” I use – is incredibly important as it represents this journey.". Sian Ferguson.
I'm glad to hear that, it can't have been easy I'm sure. Would it be ok if someone else defined you differently? x
This is a quote from someone else, but equally applicable to myself with few additions.
Folk will always define differently, especially that which they don't fully understand. Education is key however how others might define someone doesn't distract from their own journey of discovery. What will be, will be.
But if they assumed that because of THEIR classification (not yours) then they could define and predict your behaviours and worth?
Only I can define and predict my own behaviour and worth. Others try and change others but ultimately they fail, why? Because it's written into our code just who we will be. Some might hide what they are out of fear of others, but that still doesn't change who they are.
I honestly don't mean to offend, it's just this sounds a bit like a reproduced meme to me?
It's like saying "sticks and stones" right, but we all know that names CAN actually really hurt a person and spoil their day! Same with classification, grouping and behavioural assumptions, imo at least
It could well be written somewhere but its definitely how I feel. Names can hurt if you're young, but as adults we know they can't and can move past that
Can’t message you as blocked because of age but hey night night... u sound fun
Oops sorry about that! No hard feelings"
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
Shushhhhhhyourmouthville |
""I learned about bisexuality. I realized that people could be attracted to more than one gender.
After realizing I was literally attracted to people of all gender identities and expressions equally, I decided that pansexuality described my sexuality best.
Finding these “labels” was a relief for me. Learning about bisexuality and pansexuality made me feel like I was not alone. It made me feel validated.
The journey to self-acceptance was a tumultuous one, and it shaped much of who I am today. My sexual identity – or the “label” I use – is incredibly important as it represents this journey.". Sian Ferguson.
I'm glad to hear that, it can't have been easy I'm sure. Would it be ok if someone else defined you differently? x
This is a quote from someone else, but equally applicable to myself with few additions.
Folk will always define differently, especially that which they don't fully understand. Education is key however how others might define someone doesn't distract from their own journey of discovery. What will be, will be.
But if they assumed that because of THEIR classification (not yours) then they could define and predict your behaviours and worth?
Only I can define and predict my own behaviour and worth. Others try and change others but ultimately they fail, why? Because it's written into our code just who we will be. Some might hide what they are out of fear of others, but that still doesn't change who they are.
I honestly don't mean to offend, it's just this sounds a bit like a reproduced meme to me?
It's like saying "sticks and stones" right, but we all know that names CAN actually really hurt a person and spoil their day! Same with classification, grouping and behavioural assumptions, imo at least
It could well be written somewhere but its definitely how I feel. Names can hurt if you're young, but as adults we know they can't and can move past that
Can’t message you as blocked because of age but hey night night... u sound fun
Oops sorry about that! No hard feelings"
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To answer the original question, I hate the apparent need to define people to the Nth degree.
In one hand we preach freedom, inclusivity and fluidity, and then there is so much energy spent trying to fit people into categories and boxes.
Just enjoy life, do wait you want, be nice to people and be yourself ... life is too short for anything else |
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Was going to answer the OP, but it's far too long for my little brain.
We all use labels constantly, one that I attribute to me include. Caucasian, female, middle aged, mother. By others battle axe, thick, fat, ugly, friend. The list is endless and yes they are useful sometimes. But they don't define me as a person, I'm a complex human being.
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I'm not a label sort of person, yet society likes to define everything and everyone - it's part of making sense of the world, and remembering information.
In my youth, I once asked a shaman how I stop people labelling me. His answer was, "Ah, you're the person who doesn't like to be labelled."
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
Shushhhhhhyourmouthville |
"Was going to answer the OP, but it's far too long for my little brain.
We all use labels constantly, one that I attribute to me include. Caucasian, female, middle aged, mother. By others battle axe, thick, fat, ugly, friend. The list is endless and yes they are useful sometimes. But they don't define me as a person, I'm a complex human being.
https://youtu.be/bv4q4Kk0Qr0"
Words Vs opinion and guesswork, I guess. "I don't envy you" . My box is still as boobless as an upside down calculator of an 80's kid, js |
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By *ilent...Bob OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm not a label sort of person, yet society likes to define everything and everyone - it's part of making sense of the world, and remembering information.
In my youth, I once asked a shaman how I stop people labelling me. His answer was, "Ah, you're the person who doesn't like to be labelled."
(boobs and bum on the profile )
C"
Very nice they are too. I think I fabbed them recently - I'm a "fabber/joy bringer/cringey pervert" |
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"I'm not a label sort of person, yet society likes to define everything and everyone - it's part of making sense of the world, and remembering information.
In my youth, I once asked a shaman how I stop people labelling me. His answer was, "Ah, you're the person who doesn't like to be labelled."
(boobs and bum on the profile )
C
Very nice they are too. I think I fabbed them recently - I'm a "fabber/joy bringer/cringey pervert" "
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