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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They're struggling i think
Struggling in relative silence? Single males you see almost daily decrying the lack of meeting anyone"
That's just another route they take, attention etc. Maybe it will work for them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends
If it’s just sex and not really bothering who it is then that’s easy
But finding someone I connect with this hard
It all depends on how you look at it
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By *jorkish OP Man
over a year ago
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"It’s a struggle on here for sure regardless of gender. Finding what you want that is."
Yes I see that, but the female is less prominent in creating threads regarding this, wheeras, there is at least one thread a day from single males |
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If I was happy to just pick a cock, any cock, I could have far more meets than I do.
Sadly what I want is proving far more elusive.
I suspect the disparity between men complaining and women not complaining is because if a woman complains she can't get a meet then her inbox is immediately full of cock pics attached to "pick me" messages. |
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By *jorkish OP Man
over a year ago
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"If I was happy to just pick a cock, any cock, I could have far more meets than I do.
Sadly what I want is proving far more elusive.
I suspect the disparity between men complaining and women not complaining is because if a woman complains she can't get a meet then her inbox is immediately full of cock pics attached to "pick me" messages."
I think your right, but I also think men deal with frustration worse |
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You must have to be pretty special to get a meet , I send out really polite messages , either to be deleted or left unread for weeks on end , I get woman are inundated. If my messages get unread I just leave it . I’m not a fully paid member because I don’t want my parents know I’m on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You must have to be pretty special to get a meet , I send out really polite messages , either to be deleted or left unread for weeks on end , I get woman are inundated. If my messages get unread I just leave it . I’m not a fully paid member because I don’t want my parents know I’m on here. "
Keep plodding along mate i'm sure someone will snap you up! It's a pain for everyone! |
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"It’s a struggle on here for sure regardless of gender. Finding what you want that is.
Yes I see that, but the female is less prominent in creating threads regarding this, wheeras, there is at least one thread a day from single males"
The single men posting threads about not getting meets are probably a big part of the reason why single women struggle to find someone decent… Far too many men thinking they’re entitled to a meet just because they’ve joined.
These guys are bombarding Women and couples with messages, usually far too many for people to get through and full off unimaginative and downright crass wording…
There’s a reason “fancy a fuck” is derided as a message type on here, it’s far too common |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
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There's a disproportionate number of men ( tens of thousands) to the number of women ( thousands) on this site. A woman wants a specific type of men, and that might not be as easy to find, but at the same time given the large number of men, I doubt that type of man is not amongst us. I think the women that make an effort and actively pursue to find that type of man, have a better chance in finding him, rather then to just expect to find him amongst the hundreds of messages they receive daily. I think (just my opinion!) that's where some women struggle |
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I couldn’t say to a woman fancy a fuck , I say something like Hey I’m ……… i’m .. and I come from ……… I’m looking for a woman for fun and would be interested in chatting at all . I can’t be crude as it’s not who iam . |
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"It’s a struggle on here for sure regardless of gender. Finding what you want that is.
Yes I see that, but the female is less prominent in creating threads regarding this, wheeras, there is at least one thread a day from single males"
If we made a thread there would be even more ‘hi’ messages in our inbox  |
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By *jorkish OP Man
over a year ago
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"It’s a struggle on here for sure regardless of gender. Finding what you want that is.
Yes I see that, but the female is less prominent in creating threads regarding this, wheeras, there is at least one thread a day from single males
The single men posting threads about not getting meets are probably a big part of the reason why single women struggle to find someone decent… Far too many men thinking they’re entitled to a meet just because they’ve joined.
These guys are bombarding Women and couples with messages, usually far too many for people to get through and full off unimaginative and downright crass wording…
There’s a reason “fancy a fuck” is derided as a message type on here, it’s far too common "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s a struggle on here for sure regardless of gender. Finding what you want that is.
Yes I see that, but the female is less prominent in creating threads regarding this, wheeras, there is at least one thread a day from single males"
What women do is create a thread about some message they have got, or some boring subject but at the same time they will have a new pic up.
Basically they are attention seeking and looking for fabs because they have very little going on in their own lives.
If you plug in your brain you can see this is what they do and most men respond and give then what they seek.
Women will deny this of course but they will start a thread, which will knock a group or about something boring about an experience no one honestly cares about except the weak adoring men wanking in there mums front room telling them how lovely they are.
When in truth they are more desperately lonely than the man who has his life in order.
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"It’s a struggle on here for sure regardless of gender. Finding what you want that is.
Yes I see that, but the female is less prominent in creating threads regarding this, wheeras, there is at least one thread a day from single males
What women do is create a thread about some message they have got, or some boring subject but at the same time they will have a new pic up.
Basically they are attention seeking and looking for fabs because they have very little going on in their own lives.
If you plug in your brain you can see this is what they do and most men respond and give then what they seek.
Women will deny this of course but they will start a thread, which will knock a group or about something boring about an experience no one honestly cares about except the weak adoring men wanking in there mums front room telling them how lovely they are.
When in truth they are more desperately lonely than the man who has his life in order.
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I think there is a grain of truth in your statement but it applies to SOME, not all men and women. I sometimes think when I read a post that it sounds like there is more going on for that person than we see.
I think men and women have their lives in order in different ways. And it is not something absolute - sometimes I have mine in perfect order and harmony... and the next day I am stressed out about something. |
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I think as a total number we see more threads like this from men, but as a percentage of members of a particular gender there's possibly a higher proportion of threads of this ilk from women...it just seems more because there are a heck of a lot more men than women on here. Plus the menfolk seem to be more straightforward in their lamenting, thereby making it more obvious, whereas the ladies go about it in a more roundabout way..."I can't find anyone who will let me use them as a sperm receptacle" versus "decent men are so hard to find on here, I only have a checklist of 72 things that they need to match perfectly, it's not me being unreasonable".
Personally, I think it's all about attitude and finding a way to use the tools available on the site to make it work how you want it to work. I've certainly never struggled to meet people who fit my criteria, and I rarely get any unpleasant or abusive messages from men. |
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