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"I guess bi or gay guys would."
You will outrage the don't give us labels brigade. Plenty of guys out there who have sucked many more cocks than I have and will argue to their death that they are 100 percent straight. |
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"I guess bi or gay guys would.
You will outrage the don't give us labels brigade. Plenty of guys out there who have sucked many more cocks than I have and will argue to their death that they are 100 percent straight. "
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I was pondering this issue about their saying they are straight but like to suck cocks.
I think it might be that being gay is a sexual orientation, a preference for men in general.
Sucking cock is merely a sexual act, like a man enjoying being pegged by a woman and perhaps, by the same token, ducked by a man. It doesn’t mean he likes men sexually overall. He gets sexual gratification from the act but he doesn’t find a man arousing in the way a woman or gay man would and certainly not in the way a woman arouses him.
His sexual orientation isn’t gay. |
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I wouldn't for a minute think of a man who likes to suck cock as gay but at least bi curious. If I liked licking a woman's pussy whether I fancy women or not I would feel deceiving to think of myself as completely straight |
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"I guess bi or gay guys would.
You will outrage the don't give us labels brigade. Plenty of guys out there who have sucked many more cocks than I have and will argue to their death that they are 100 percent straight.
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I was pondering this issue about their saying they are straight but like to suck cocks.
I think it might be that being gay is a sexual orientation, a preference for men in general.
Sucking cock is merely a sexual act, like a man enjoying being pegged by a woman and perhaps, by the same token, ducked by a man. It doesn’t mean he likes men sexually overall. He gets sexual gratification from the act but he doesn’t find a man arousing in the way a woman or gay man would and certainly not in the way a woman arouses him.
His sexual orientation isn’t gay."
Very well said! I’ve played with woman in couples but consider myself completely straight |
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"I guess bi or gay guys would.
You will outrage the don't give us labels brigade. Plenty of guys out there who have sucked many more cocks than I have and will argue to their death that they are 100 percent straight.
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I was pondering this issue about their saying they are straight but like to suck cocks.
I think it might be that being gay is a sexual orientation, a preference for men in general.
Sucking cock is merely a sexual act, like a man enjoying being pegged by a woman and perhaps, by the same token, ducked by a man. It doesn’t mean he likes men sexually overall. He gets sexual gratification from the act but he doesn’t find a man arousing in the way a woman or gay man would and certainly not in the way a woman arouses him.
His sexual orientation isn’t gay."
Exactly this....I've no problem and rather enjoy licking pussy but I know I'm not bi and 100% gay |
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"I wouldn't for a minute think of a man who likes to suck cock as gay but at least bi curious. If I liked licking a woman's pussy whether I fancy women or not I would feel deceiving to think of myself as completely straight "
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I did think the same as you, about it being bi. I’m still of the mind that it is merely a sexual act, like a kink perhaps.
I don’t find men arousing the way a woman arouses me and that’s because I enjoy the woman’s entire being; from the way she moves to how she moans even. Men have zero effect on me in that sense. That is why I classify myself as straight. Men can be merely aesthetic without it arousing me.
If I enjoy being pegged, by a woman or a man because I like the sensation of being pegged, would I be bi or gay? I still don’t think I could be aroused by a man the way a woman arouses me. The act itself arouses me, not the man.
I can’t profess to knowing much about this because I have never thought of sucking a man’s cock nor been pegged but that’s down to my lack of experience. However, I would imagine a sexual act is unlikely to change my orientation in how I perceive a man sexually. I can’t tell until I’ve experienced it. |
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"I wouldn't for a minute think of a man who likes to suck cock as gay but at least bi curious. If I liked licking a woman's pussy whether I fancy women or not I would feel deceiving to think of myself as completely straight
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I did think the same as you, about it being bi. I’m still of the mind that it is merely a sexual act, like a kink perhaps.
I don’t find men arousing the way a woman arouses me and that’s because I enjoy the woman’s entire being; from the way she moves to how she moans even. Men have zero effect on me in that sense. That is why I classify myself as straight. Men can be merely aesthetic without it arousing me.
If I enjoy being pegged, by a woman or a man because I like the sensation of being pegged, would I be bi or gay? I still don’t think I could be aroused by a man the way a woman arouses me. The act itself arouses me, not the man.
I can’t profess to knowing much about this because I have never thought of sucking a man’s cock nor been pegged but that’s down to my lack of experience. However, I would imagine a sexual act is unlikely to change my orientation in how I perceive a man sexually. I can’t tell until I’ve experienced it."
Its the realm of sexuality where it’s rare just black or white or pure grey ahha x
But yeah I kind of agree that if u like an act in itself then it’s fetishising the act, people can detach parts and pieces and be aroused entirely by … I don’t know, knickers or glasses.
So I kind of see your point, what I think when someone says he/she is bisexual it’d mean they are really attracted by both sexes, so anything that a man has to offer and equally anything that a woman has to offer (it can sway 70% 30% or 50% 50%)
But I kinda see ur point. X  |
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"I wouldn't for a minute think of a man who likes to suck cock as gay but at least bi curious. If I liked licking a woman's pussy whether I fancy women or not I would feel deceiving to think of myself as completely straight
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I did think the same as you, about it being bi. I’m still of the mind that it is merely a sexual act, like a kink perhaps.
I don’t find men arousing the way a woman arouses me and that’s because I enjoy the woman’s entire being; from the way she moves to how she moans even. Men have zero effect on me in that sense. That is why I classify myself as straight. Men can be merely aesthetic without it arousing me.
If I enjoy being pegged, by a woman or a man because I like the sensation of being pegged, would I be bi or gay? I still don’t think I could be aroused by a man the way a woman arouses me. The act itself arouses me, not the man.
I can’t profess to knowing much about this because I have never thought of sucking a man’s cock nor been pegged but that’s down to my lack of experience. However, I would imagine a sexual act is unlikely to change my orientation in how I perceive a man sexually. I can’t tell until I’ve experienced it."
Also I think this happens a lot when people tend to have threesomes maybe?
When kind of any sexual energy takes over and I’ve heard stories of like guy fucking the girl then he’d shoot and maybe it’d end up on the guys face …
Does that make them suddently bisexual? I don’t know the answer
But apparently they all enjoyed themselves  |
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"I guess bi or gay guys would.
You will outrage the don't give us labels brigade. Plenty of guys out there who have sucked many more cocks than I have and will argue to their death that they are 100 percent straight.
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I was pondering this issue about their saying they are straight but like to suck cocks.
I think it might be that being gay is a sexual orientation, a preference for men in general.
Sucking cock is merely a sexual act, like a man enjoying being pegged by a woman and perhaps, by the same token, ducked by a man. It doesn’t mean he likes men sexually overall. He gets sexual gratification from the act but he doesn’t find a man arousing in the way a woman or gay man would and certainly not in the way a woman arouses him.
His sexual orientation isn’t gay."
Spot on you  |
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"I'm long past giving myself a label on here . I've put bi for the purposes of fab as I adore cock but would never have a " relationship " with a guy .
I just am what I am "
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I think this is the way it needs to be. It’s a broad spectrum and as others have said above, they enjoy playing with both sexes but their preference in who arouses them tends to be more one and not at all the other.
I can be aroused by a woman with merely a look from her but a beautiful naked man can parade all sorts of sexy poses in front of me and I’ll appreciate it for his beauty but it certainly won’t be arousing.
If I enjoyed being pegged and was horny, I might enjoy being pegged by him but he, as a man, still wouldn’t arouse me. |
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"I wouldn't for a minute think of a man who likes to suck cock as gay but at least bi curious. If I liked licking a woman's pussy whether I fancy women or not I would feel deceiving to think of myself as completely straight
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I did think the same as you, about it being bi. I’m still of the mind that it is merely a sexual act, like a kink perhaps.
I don’t find men arousing the way a woman arouses me and that’s because I enjoy the woman’s entire being; from the way she moves to how she moans even. Men have zero effect on me in that sense. That is why I classify myself as straight. Men can be merely aesthetic without it arousing me.
If I enjoy being pegged, by a woman or a man because I like the sensation of being pegged, would I be bi or gay? I still don’t think I could be aroused by a man the way a woman arouses me. The act itself arouses me, not the man.
I can’t profess to knowing much about this because I have never thought of sucking a man’s cock nor been pegged but that’s down to my lack of experience. However, I would imagine a sexual act is unlikely to change my orientation in how I perceive a man sexually. I can’t tell until I’ve experienced it.
Also I think this happens a lot when people tend to have threesomes maybe?
When kind of any sexual energy takes over and I’ve heard stories of like guy fucking the girl then he’d shoot and maybe it’d end up on the guys face …
Does that make them suddently bisexual? I don’t know the answer
But apparently they all enjoyed themselves "
I’ve heard the same thing. I haven’t been in that scenario but I can imagine that sexual energy taking over in a sexualised atmosphere. I don’t think the act changes ones orientation in what he finds arousing about a gender. |
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"I wouldn't for a minute think of a man who likes to suck cock as gay but at least bi curious. If I liked licking a woman's pussy whether I fancy women or not I would feel deceiving to think of myself as completely straight
.
I did think the same as you, about it being bi. I’m still of the mind that it is merely a sexual act, like a kink perhaps.
I don’t find men arousing the way a woman arouses me and that’s because I enjoy the woman’s entire being; from the way she moves to how she moans even. Men have zero effect on me in that sense. That is why I classify myself as straight. Men can be merely aesthetic without it arousing me.
If I enjoy being pegged, by a woman or a man because I like the sensation of being pegged, would I be bi or gay? I still don’t think I could be aroused by a man the way a woman arouses me. The act itself arouses me, not the man.
I can’t profess to knowing much about this because I have never thought of sucking a man’s cock nor been pegged but that’s down to my lack of experience. However, I would imagine a sexual act is unlikely to change my orientation in how I perceive a man sexually. I can’t tell until I’ve experienced it.
Also I think this happens a lot when people tend to have threesomes maybe?
When kind of any sexual energy takes over and I’ve heard stories of like guy fucking the girl then he’d shoot and maybe it’d end up on the guys face …
Does that make them suddently bisexual? I don’t know the answer
But apparently they all enjoyed themselves
I’ve heard the same thing. I haven’t been in that scenario but I can imagine that sexual energy taking over in a sexualised atmosphere. I don’t think the act changes ones orientation in what he finds arousing about a gender."
It probably wouldn’t even cross their minds it’s kinda like the joke of “does touching balls make you gay?”
Of course not, I think it might enter the equation if it becomes a constant thought and u might start questioning why u keep going back for a certain experience
But that’s my opinion x haha |
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"I wouldn't for a minute think of a man who likes to suck cock as gay but at least bi curious. If I liked licking a woman's pussy whether I fancy women or not I would feel deceiving to think of myself as completely straight
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I did think the same as you, about it being bi. I’m still of the mind that it is merely a sexual act, like a kink perhaps.
I don’t find men arousing the way a woman arouses me and that’s because I enjoy the woman’s entire being; from the way she moves to how she moans even. Men have zero effect on me in that sense. That is why I classify myself as straight. Men can be merely aesthetic without it arousing me.
If I enjoy being pegged, by a woman or a man because I like the sensation of being pegged, would I be bi or gay? I still don’t think I could be aroused by a man the way a woman arouses me. The act itself arouses me, not the man.
I can’t profess to knowing much about this because I have never thought of sucking a man’s cock nor been pegged but that’s down to my lack of experience. However, I would imagine a sexual act is unlikely to change my orientation in how I perceive a man sexually. I can’t tell until I’ve experienced it.
Also I think this happens a lot when people tend to have threesomes maybe?
When kind of any sexual energy takes over and I’ve heard stories of like guy fucking the girl then he’d shoot and maybe it’d end up on the guys face …
Does that make them suddently bisexual? I don’t know the answer
But apparently they all enjoyed themselves
I’ve heard the same thing. I haven’t been in that scenario but I can imagine that sexual energy taking over in a sexualised atmosphere. I don’t think the act changes ones orientation in what he finds arousing about a gender.
It probably wouldn’t even cross their minds it’s kinda like the joke of “does touching balls make you gay?”
Of course not, I think it might enter the equation if it becomes a constant thought and u might start questioning why u keep going back for a certain experience
But that’s my opinion x haha "
If it’s a certain thought about an act and you’d like to repeat it, would that change your orientation or make it even ‘bi’.
The issue, it seems, is that we have been told men like women and vice versa with any thought beyond this idea is labelled at least ‘bi’. I think this needs to be revisited perhaps. |
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"I wouldn't for a minute think of a man who likes to suck cock as gay but at least bi curious. If I liked licking a woman's pussy whether I fancy women or not I would feel deceiving to think of myself as completely straight "
This
As a self identifying straight woman I have no inclination to sexually touch or be touched by another woman, In a straight FMF there is no urge for us to sexually play with each other, we are both comfortable with each other and that means we can happily lay naked side by side without worrying that boundaries will be crossed |
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We really need a face palm emoji 
If you involve yourself in a sexual act with another person of the same gender then that means you are not straight, it's at least bi curious unless you do it on more than one occasion as your curiosity has been sated, at which point you're bi.
If you often have sex with men and women then by its very definition you're bisexual.
It doesn't matter if you're attracted to that person or not, the acts themselves define your sexuality, being attracted to people of both genders would/could be classed as bi-amorous.
I've no idea why anyone would claim to be straight while having sex with people of their own gender, it simply means you're not straight and the reality of it is does it really matter if you're bi? Who is it going to make a difference to? I know many women who would choose not to get involved with a man because he isn't honest about his sexual orientation rather than because he openly says he is bi.
Less often will a man choose not to get involved with a bi woman, its just the way it is. |
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Rhe English language has words and definitions and these are clearly explained.
Just because you don't want to class yourself as something doesn't mean that the words need to have their meaning changed because you don't want to align yourself with these words.
Jesus christ, the amount of so called straight guys who want to be fucked by a tv (man in a dress) while their opening line is 'I'm straight but will you fuck my arse' beggars belief....dude if I fucked you you're not straight.
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"Rhe English language has words and definitions and these are clearly explained.
Just because you don't want to class yourself as something doesn't mean that the words need to have their meaning changed because you don't want to align yourself with these words.
Jesus christ, the amount of so called straight guys who want to be fucked by a tv (man in a dress) while their opening line is 'I'm straight but will you fuck my arse' beggars belief....dude if I fucked you you're not straight.
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U killed me there
“No homo tho”
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"I’m 100% straight but will suck a penis if I’m lacking salt in my diet.
Dude, I’ll buy u some Himalayan salt rock for u to suckle on "
Thank fuck, my workmates are getting fed up of me asking to suck their cocks when my salt stores are low! |
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My 2p worth - i have been involved in MFM where some incidental contact with the other guy has happened - im straight but not paranoid - contact is inevitable but if that guy wanted to blow me I wouldn’t be comfortable.
Im not attracted to guys or interested in sexual contact with a guy - to me that is straight
If you directly seek contact with someone of the same gender you’re bi or bi curious.
For me it’s not about ‘labelling ’ it’s about choice snd identifying who you will be compatible with.
If i see a cple with a bi male I won’t bother messaging because in general they will be looking for something that im not.
I don’t make any judgment other than will we be compatible in what we want.
Just my 2p worth |
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"I’m 100% straight but will suck a penis if I’m lacking salt in my diet.
Dude, I’ll buy u some Himalayan salt rock for u to suckle on
Thank fuck, my workmates are getting fed up of me asking to suck their cocks when my salt stores are low! "
*dials 911*
Police, I need help… CJ is trying to murder me with his lines …
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"I guess bi or gay guys would.
You will outrage the don't give us labels brigade. Plenty of guys out there who have sucked many more cocks than I have and will argue to their death that they are 100 percent straight. "
Well put people don’t do labels these days!! I have no issues tagging myself as Bi, unfortunately it does seem to be a little more acceptable for women to be Bi than men. |
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I think the trouble is people see bisexual as being bang in the middle of straight and gay. And so if you are bi you have the same leanings towards men as women.
Whereas many of the examples are where a guy does not fancy men, wouldn't date a dude, may not even feel comfortable kissing a dude, but would do some sexual acts with them.
So they feel closer to staright than the middle defn of bi.
But if we use bi to mean anything that isn't 100pc staright or 100pc gay then that is a huge scale and doesn't really give an insight. I've seen some therapist say that very few people are 100pc one or the other.
On top of this is the anti bi man preference. Suddenly experimenting cuts out people. |
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"I think the trouble is people see bisexual as being bang in the middle of straight and gay. And so if you are bi you have the same leanings towards men as women.
Whereas many of the examples are where a guy does not fancy men, wouldn't date a dude, may not even feel comfortable kissing a dude, but would do some sexual acts with them.
So they feel closer to staright than the middle defn of bi.
But if we use bi to mean anything that isn't 100pc staright or 100pc gay then that is a huge scale and doesn't really give an insight. I've seen some therapist say that very few people are 100pc one or the other.
On top of this is the anti bi man preference. Suddenly experimenting cuts out people. "
I agree with all u said x x like I’m towards the straight end of the spectrum liking men, but I admit I’ve fantasised about playing with a MF couple maybe in the future, once I had all my ops. Do I obsess over it? No. Am I willing to experiment , possibly with the right people.
Will it make me bi or lesbian? I very much doubt so 
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So where would I got into this? PThe sight of a ripped guy makes me jealous, but does not turn my head.
A pretty female (any age) always does
But
I love the feel of a hard cock in my mouth and the taste of the guy's semen when he comes.
I label myself bicurious as I can't think of a better term. Or you could feel none is necessary. |
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"I love sucking cock
I’m a married father of two and my wife has seen me sucking cock
Nothing to do with anyone else
I love it!"
Same here. Attached and openly both openly Bi. Seen and done it together many times. |
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"I think the trouble is people see bisexual as being bang in the middle of straight and gay. And so if you are bi you have the same leanings towards men as women.
Whereas many of the examples are where a guy does not fancy men, wouldn't date a dude, may not even feel comfortable kissing a dude, but would do some sexual acts with them.
So they feel closer to staright than the middle defn of bi.
But if we use bi to mean anything that isn't 100pc staright or 100pc gay then that is a huge scale and doesn't really give an insight. I've seen some therapist say that very few people are 100pc one or the other.
On top of this is the anti bi man preference. Suddenly experimenting cuts out people.
I agree with all u said x x like I’m towards the straight end of the spectrum liking men, but I admit I’ve fantasised about playing with a MF couple maybe in the future, once I had all my ops. Do I obsess over it? No. Am I willing to experiment , possibly with the right people.
Will it make me bi or lesbian? I very much doubt so
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For me that would make you curious as you're wondering what it would be like.
If you never go with a woman again then you can safely say you're straight, do it again and again though and you've got the Bi lurgy
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"I have sucked a few cocks in my time and consider myself straight. I'm not attracted to men but sucking on a cock in the right situation can be fun. "
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"If we are sticking to traditional labels then a man who sucks cock is at least bi/bi curious. That’s like me saying I’m straight but I lick pussy! However, I don’t like labels. "
Some don't like labels and thats their perogative, some say the world is flat too and don't like having the round ball shape of the earth described as a sphere.
Not liking a label is fine but you can't argue that the label is wrong. |
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"If we are sticking to traditional labels then a man who sucks cock is at least bi/bi curious. That’s like me saying I’m straight but I lick pussy! However, I don’t like labels.
Some don't like labels and thats their perogative, some say the world is flat too and don't like having the round ball shape of the earth described as a sphere.
Not liking a label is fine but you can't argue that the label is wrong."
I know. It’s not wrong. That’s what I mean. If people are going to label then it’s bi or bi curious, not straight. |
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"If we are sticking to traditional labels then a man who sucks cock is at least bi/bi curious. That’s like me saying I’m straight but I lick pussy! However, I don’t like labels.
Some don't like labels and thats their perogative, some say the world is flat too and don't like having the round ball shape of the earth described as a sphere.
Not liking a label is fine but you can't argue that the label is wrong.
I know. It’s not wrong. That’s what I mean. If people are going to label then it’s bi or bi curious, not straight. "
The problem is is that so many run away and deny what they are so that the stigma continues and the label can be used as a weapon against people.
If we all stood up and said I'm straight/bi/gay/asexual/pansexual etc etc etc and normalised it all so there was no stigma anymore then it stops being a weapon to use to bring people down.
At that point nobody will feel the need to deny what they are and the label becomes purely a descriptor and not something that anyone can feel ashamed of.
So you suck dick/lick vagina.....so what, enjoy it because as has been said above, if someone is looking for bi/gay and your profile says straight then they're going to pass you by and it's you who could potentially lose out on a great time. |
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"If we are sticking to traditional labels then a man who sucks cock is at least bi/bi curious. That’s like me saying I’m straight but I lick pussy! However, I don’t like labels.
Some don't like labels and thats their perogative, some say the world is flat too and don't like having the round ball shape of the earth described as a sphere.
Not liking a label is fine but you can't argue that the label is wrong.
I know. It’s not wrong. That’s what I mean. If people are going to label then it’s bi or bi curious, not straight.
The problem is is that so many run away and deny what they are so that the stigma continues and the label can be used as a weapon against people.
If we all stood up and said I'm straight/bi/gay/asexual/pansexual etc etc etc and normalised it all so there was no stigma anymore then it stops being a weapon to use to bring people down.
At that point nobody will feel the need to deny what they are and the label becomes purely a descriptor and not something that anyone can feel ashamed of.
So you suck dick/lick vagina.....so what, enjoy it because as has been said above, if someone is looking for bi/gay and your profile says straight then they're going to pass you by and it's you who could potentially lose out on a great time."
Oh yeah definitely, in a perfect world. It’s mostly men who don’t seem to want to label themselves as bi/bicurious which I don’t really get as by far the majority of women on here prefer bi men. You’ve only got to look at all the threads. At least 80% I’d say. |
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In reply to the OP’s question, I do suck cock and I really enjoy it. I also enjoy going down on women.
As far as being bi/straight/whatever, I am bisexual. I am sexually attracted to women and to men and I enjoy sexual contact with both women and men. That being said, I only date women. I have no interest at all in dating men. |
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I know some men have bi tendencies up to and including sucking a cock (but I didn’t swallow, Guv!…)
and describe or label themselves as straight because they think some ladies won’t want to have sex with them if they are bi. I can assure you guys out there that a good number of ladies ONLY want bi guys. |
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"I think the trouble is people see bisexual as being bang in the middle of straight and gay. And so if you are bi you have the same leanings towards men as women.
Whereas many of the examples are where a guy does not fancy men, wouldn't date a dude, may not even feel comfortable kissing a dude, but would do some sexual acts with them.
So they feel closer to staright than the middle defn of bi.
But if we use bi to mean anything that isn't 100pc staright or 100pc gay then that is a huge scale and doesn't really give an insight. I've seen some therapist say that very few people are 100pc one or the other.
On top of this is the anti bi man preference. Suddenly experimenting cuts out people.
I agree with all u said x x like I’m towards the straight end of the spectrum liking men, but I admit I’ve fantasised about playing with a MF couple maybe in the future, once I had all my ops. Do I obsess over it? No. Am I willing to experiment , possibly with the right people.
Will it make me bi or lesbian? I very much doubt so
For me that would make you curious as you're wondering what it would be like.
If you never go with a woman again then you can safely say you're straight, do it again and again though and you've got the Bi lurgy
Oh and check your crazily busy inbox too "
Have I not replied back to you?? Omg please resend me a message as it’s probably gone in the sea on unreads! Ill try see if I can fish it out from the sent
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And yeah atm it’s just a thought , don’t even know if I’ll ever act on it but I’m open minded x |
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"I feel like there seems to be more men admitting to enjoying sucking dick on the side for “fun” than men admitting to being attracted to trans women …
Or is it just me having this perception? "
I am definitely attracted to trans women…and you!! |
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"I feel like there seems to be more men admitting to enjoying sucking dick on the side for “fun” than men admitting to being attracted to trans women …
Or is it just me having this perception? "
I think a lot keep that hidden more than they will sucking dick.
Not me though  |
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For me it’s an act of submission or at least it was. It’s sort of morphed into an act of humiliation sucking my wife’s bulls cock before he has sex with her |
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"We really need a face palm emoji
If you involve yourself in a sexual act with another person of the same gender then that means you are not straight, it's at least bi curious unless you do it on more than one occasion as your curiosity has been sated, at which point you're bi.
If you often have sex with men and women then by its very definition you're bisexual.
It doesn't matter if you're attracted to that person or not, the acts themselves define your sexuality, being attracted to people of both genders would/could be classed as bi-amorous.
I've no idea why anyone would claim to be straight while having sex with people of their own gender, it simply means you're not straight and the reality of it is does it really matter if you're bi? Who is it going to make a difference to? I know many women who would choose not to get involved with a man because he isn't honest about his sexual orientation rather than because he openly says he is bi.
Less often will a man choose not to get involved with a bi woman, its just the way it is."
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"If we are sticking to traditional labels then a man who sucks cock is at least bi/bi curious. That’s like me saying I’m straight but I lick pussy! However, I don’t like labels.
Some don't like labels and thats their perogative, some say the world is flat too and don't like having the round ball shape of the earth described as a sphere.
Not liking a label is fine but you can't argue that the label is wrong.
I know. It’s not wrong. That’s what I mean. If people are going to label then it’s bi or bi curious, not straight.
The problem is is that so many run away and deny what they are so that the stigma continues and the label can be used as a weapon against people.
If we all stood up and said I'm straight/bi/gay/asexual/pansexual etc etc etc and normalised it all so there was no stigma anymore then it stops being a weapon to use to bring people down.
At that point nobody will feel the need to deny what they are and the label becomes purely a descriptor and not something that anyone can feel ashamed of.
So you suck dick/lick vagina.....so what, enjoy it because as has been said above, if someone is looking for bi/gay and your profile says straight then they're going to pass you by and it's you who could potentially lose out on a great time.
Oh yeah definitely, in a perfect world. It’s mostly men who don’t seem to want to label themselves as bi/bicurious which I don’t really get as by far the majority of women on here prefer bi men. You’ve only got to look at all the threads. At least 80% I’d say. "
80pf of women on fab are men... 
Based on threads, I agree.
Based on profiles there is more"no bi men" than there are "bi men only" |
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over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
My other half is orally bi, with the right couple
We have it on our profile, as we feel it's important to be honest.
I get people don't like labels, but it's deceptive to say you're straight if you play with people of the same sex. |
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"If we are sticking to traditional labels then a man who sucks cock is at least bi/bi curious. That’s like me saying I’m straight but I lick pussy! However, I don’t like labels.
Some don't like labels and thats their perogative, some say the world is flat too and don't like having the round ball shape of the earth described as a sphere.
Not liking a label is fine but you can't argue that the label is wrong.
I know. It’s not wrong. That’s what I mean. If people are going to label then it’s bi or bi curious, not straight.
The problem is is that so many run away and deny what they are so that the stigma continues and the label can be used as a weapon against people.
If we all stood up and said I'm straight/bi/gay/asexual/pansexual etc etc etc and normalised it all so there was no stigma anymore then it stops being a weapon to use to bring people down.
At that point nobody will feel the need to deny what they are and the label becomes purely a descriptor and not something that anyone can feel ashamed of.
So you suck dick/lick vagina.....so what, enjoy it because as has been said above, if someone is looking for bi/gay and your profile says straight then they're going to pass you by and it's you who could potentially lose out on a great time.
Oh yeah definitely, in a perfect world. It’s mostly men who don’t seem to want to label themselves as bi/bicurious which I don’t really get as by far the majority of women on here prefer bi men. You’ve only got to look at all the threads. At least 80% I’d say. 80pf of women on fab are men...
Based on threads, I agree.
Based on profiles there is more"no bi men" than there are "bi men only""
Must admit I’ve never seen either of those on a profile. And I obviously look at women’s profiles. |
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"If we are sticking to traditional labels then a man who sucks cock is at least bi/bi curious. That’s like me saying I’m straight but I lick pussy! However, I don’t like labels.
Some don't like labels and thats their perogative, some say the world is flat too and don't like having the round ball shape of the earth described as a sphere.
Not liking a label is fine but you can't argue that the label is wrong.
I know. It’s not wrong. That’s what I mean. If people are going to label then it’s bi or bi curious, not straight.
The problem is is that so many run away and deny what they are so that the stigma continues and the label can be used as a weapon against people.
If we all stood up and said I'm straight/bi/gay/asexual/pansexual etc etc etc and normalised it all so there was no stigma anymore then it stops being a weapon to use to bring people down.
At that point nobody will feel the need to deny what they are and the label becomes purely a descriptor and not something that anyone can feel ashamed of.
So you suck dick/lick vagina.....so what, enjoy it because as has been said above, if someone is looking for bi/gay and your profile says straight then they're going to pass you by and it's you who could potentially lose out on a great time.
Oh yeah definitely, in a perfect world. It’s mostly men who don’t seem to want to label themselves as bi/bicurious which I don’t really get as by far the majority of women on here prefer bi men. You’ve only got to look at all the threads. At least 80% I’d say. 80pf of women on fab are men...
Based on threads, I agree.
Based on profiles there is more"no bi men" than there are "bi men only"
Must admit I’ve never seen either of those on a profile. And I obviously look at women’s profiles. "
on reflection maybe it's more in couples profiles. So could be man driven ... |
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"If we are sticking to traditional labels then a man who sucks cock is at least bi/bi curious. That’s like me saying I’m straight but I lick pussy! However, I don’t like labels.
Some don't like labels and thats their perogative, some say the world is flat too and don't like having the round ball shape of the earth described as a sphere.
Not liking a label is fine but you can't argue that the label is wrong.
I know. It’s not wrong. That’s what I mean. If people are going to label then it’s bi or bi curious, not straight.
The problem is is that so many run away and deny what they are so that the stigma continues and the label can be used as a weapon against people.
If we all stood up and said I'm straight/bi/gay/asexual/pansexual etc etc etc and normalised it all so there was no stigma anymore then it stops being a weapon to use to bring people down.
At that point nobody will feel the need to deny what they are and the label becomes purely a descriptor and not something that anyone can feel ashamed of.
So you suck dick/lick vagina.....so what, enjoy it because as has been said above, if someone is looking for bi/gay and your profile says straight then they're going to pass you by and it's you who could potentially lose out on a great time.
Oh yeah definitely, in a perfect world. It’s mostly men who don’t seem to want to label themselves as bi/bicurious which I don’t really get as by far the majority of women on here prefer bi men. You’ve only got to look at all the threads. At least 80% I’d say. 80pf of women on fab are men...
Based on threads, I agree.
Based on profiles there is more"no bi men" than there are "bi men only"
Must admit I’ve never seen either of those on a profile. And I obviously look at women’s profiles. on reflection maybe it's more in couples profiles. So could be man driven ..."
Ah yes. Could be. I never look at those x |
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"I guess bi or gay guys would.
You will outrage the don't give us labels brigade. Plenty of guys out there who have sucked many more cocks than I have and will argue to their death that they are 100 percent straight. "
Metrosexual darling, metrosexual ! A cock covered in lady juice is irresistible to many st8 fellas |
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"I guess bi or gay guys would.
You will outrage the don't give us labels brigade. Plenty of guys out there who have sucked many more cocks than I have and will argue to their death that they are 100 percent straight.
Metrosexual darling, metrosexual ! A cock covered in lady juice is irresistible to many st8 fellas"
Sucking that makes you bi. But eating out a cum filled pussy is probably still classed as straight. Maybe.
What about taking a faceful if you don't touch the guy. What if it's from a gal jerking him off.
Fuck it. Everyone is bi. |
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"I guess bi or gay guys would.
You will outrage the don't give us labels brigade. Plenty of guys out there who have sucked many more cocks than I have and will argue to their death that they are 100 percent straight.
Metrosexual darling, metrosexual ! A cock covered in lady juice is irresistible to many st8 fellas"
That’s me then. Metrosexual  and Bisexual on Mondays. |
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I'm a bi woman but I have no romantic feeling at all to women they are beautiful to look at and I may at times like to play with them but when I see/or play with a man it's completely different for me I get tingles and a completely different reaction to them from my brain I enjoy both acts but they are completely different experiences but for me both valid and worthwhile experiences I guess that's why they call it a scale. |
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"I guess bi or gay guys would.
You will outrage the don't give us labels brigade. Plenty of guys out there who have sucked many more cocks than I have and will argue to their death that they are 100 percent straight.
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I was pondering this issue about their saying they are straight but like to suck cocks.
I think it might be that being gay is a sexual orientation, a preference for men in general.
Sucking cock is merely a sexual act, like a man enjoying being pegged by a woman and perhaps, by the same token, ducked by a man. It doesn’t mean he likes men sexually overall. He gets sexual gratification from the act but he doesn’t find a man arousing in the way a woman or gay man would and certainly not in the way a woman arouses him.
His sexual orientation isn’t gay.
Very well said! I’ve played with woman in couples but consider myself completely straight"
As above well put. |
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Depends on the guy
If he is big built; tall, broad, thick set, big legs etc I enjoy being on my knees sucking them
If, however, the guy is younger and small framed I love having my cock sucked by them
Having a big 'manly man' suck me off doesn't compute in my head |
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