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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Which one has top priority with you when seeking to or deciding to meet someone here?
For me it's the body.
If I like the body the face can/has come along to a meet having been previously undisclosed to me.
It HAS happened.
I have never been disappointed yet!
Why would I be disappointed in someone whose body and sexual interests I like?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Spend more time looking at the face than the body, but I also want the sexy body! To get anywhere near anything happening though you need the personality and connection. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are we talking like very ugly face amazing bod and vice versa or more like
Avarage body amazing face / or avarage face amazing body?
its important  "
I think the first example is a bit of a myth especially in our natural forms...and tends to be made a reality WHEN the body is changed or enhanced and the face is in a great contrast to that.
The other example is far more true and
within that much fun and pleasure is to be had.
We've all been there.
Of course we each make our own assessments as to what is average or amazing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would much prefer IF it was at all possible for everyone to have face photo(s) up permanently on their profile, but that is not possible."
Made a correction...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Face always for me. I’d I don’t like the face nothing else matters. But if I do like the face other things still matter  "
 How much would you have to like the face? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Face, personality - attraction is a must. I also cannot be doing with a banter vacuum or someone up there own arse regardless of the body these will always come first xx"
So here you have connected someone being up their own ass with their body?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"On here it's generally the body that catches my eye (it's mostly what you see) then the face,followed by how we connect that will be the clincher for me "
Yes the body is mostly what we first see on here.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Face always for me. I’d I don’t like the face nothing else matters. But if I do like the face other things still matter How much would you have to like the face?
I’d have to want to snog it off "
I comprehend that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Face attracts me far more than a body… and after the initial attraction it’s the connection that drives my desire to meet x "
I would ideally like to be VERY attracted to both. Not always my top priority on here, but I know what I do not like at all.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Face attracts me far more than a body… and after the initial attraction it’s the connection that drives my desire to meet x I would ideally like to be VERY attracted to both. Not always my top priority on here, but I know what I do not like at all."
You can be… it’s personal
Choice after all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why would I be disappointed in someone whose body and sexual interests I like?
I doubt anyone would if they were purely meeting for a quick shag "
That's a very easy say...but if you were to see the attractiveness of some I have met on here and the mutual sexual pleasure shared a quick shag DOES THAT NO JUSTICE! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Face attracts me far more than a body… and after the initial attraction it’s the connection that drives my desire to meet x I would ideally like to be VERY attracted to both. Not always my top priority on here, but I know what I do not like at all.
You can be… it’s personal
Choice after all "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have we reached a time when bodily attraction is declining?
Do bodily enhancements and the like make it more difficult to discern what you do truly like? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm uber picky so not sure I can say either way. Based on dating I know the body does matter. But I've never met someone who has just given body shots ... And haven't dated since Photoshop apps became so good at their job ... |
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"Have we reached a time when bodily attraction is declining?
Do bodily enhancements and the like make it more difficult to discern what you do truly like?"
No I don’t think so. I know what I like and don’t like. There are certain body shapes I don’t like, male and female. I’m sure that goes for most people. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have we reached a time when bodily attraction is declining?
Do bodily enhancements and the like make it more difficult to discern what you do truly like?
No I don’t think so. I know what I like and don’t like. There are certain body shapes I don’t like, male and female. I’m sure that goes for most people. "
A man who likes natural breasts having to discern if those are real?
Are her lips real?
Is that backside real?
Has she had botox?
I'm sure women etc can come up with their own examples of increased challenges to discern a true liking of. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm uber picky so not sure I can say either way. Based on dating I know the body does matter. But I've never met someone who has just given body shots ... And haven't dated since Photoshop apps became so good at their job ..."
Photoshop.
An interesting point...reality or unreality?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have we reached a time when bodily attraction is declining?
Do bodily enhancements and the like make it more difficult to discern what you do truly like?
No I don’t think so. I know what I like and don’t like. There are certain body shapes I don’t like, male and female. I’m sure that goes for most people. A man who likes natural breasts having to discern if those are real?
Are her lips real?
Is that backside real?
Has she had botox?
I'm sure women etc can come up with their own examples of increased challenges to discern a true liking of."
I get to ... Why do you care? If you like the look of a pair of boobs, you like the look. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personality/face/body
If you're fugly inside I'll see fugly on the outside no matter what you look like The Twits Philosophy"
Some people to me remain beautiful but personally lose appeal to me and my appreciation of that beauty by their behaviour. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have we reached a time when bodily attraction is declining?
Do bodily enhancements and the like make it more difficult to discern what you do truly like?
No I don’t think so. I know what I like and don’t like. There are certain body shapes I don’t like, male and female. I’m sure that goes for most people. A man who likes natural breasts having to discern if those are real?
Are her lips real?
Is that backside real?
Has she had botox?
I'm sure women etc can come up with their own examples of increased challenges to discern a true liking of.I get to ... Why do you care? If you like the look of a pair of boobs, you like the look. "
I'm a fan of everything as natural as possible.
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"I'm uber picky so not sure I can say either way. Based on dating I know the body does matter. But I've never met someone who has just given body shots ... And haven't dated since Photoshop apps became so good at their job ..."
It’s rife on here.. really sad. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personality/face/body
If you're fugly inside I'll see fugly on the outside no matter what you look like The Twits Philosophy Some people to me remain beautiful but personally lose appeal to me and my appreciation of that beauty by their behaviour."
In my haste to not appear too opinionated I added the first to me...get rid of it please. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm uber picky so not sure I can say either way. Based on dating I know the body does matter. But I've never met someone who has just given body shots ... And haven't dated since Photoshop apps became so good at their job ...
It’s rife on here.. really sad."
I think it's sad too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have we reached a time when bodily attraction is declining?
Do bodily enhancements and the like make it more difficult to discern what you do truly like?
No I don’t think so. I know what I like and don’t like. There are certain body shapes I don’t like, male and female. I’m sure that goes for most people. A man who likes natural breasts having to discern if those are real?
Are her lips real?
Is that backside real?
Has she had botox?
I'm sure women etc can come up with their own examples of increased challenges to discern a true liking of.I get to ... Why do you care? If you like the look of a pair of boobs, you like the look. I'm a fan of everything as natural as possible.
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do you take make up remover with you too?
I'm being a bit of a dick on purposes, but it's part of a spectrum
See also: shaving.
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"Have we reached a time when bodily attraction is declining?
Do bodily enhancements and the like make it more difficult to discern what you do truly like?
No I don’t think so. I know what I like and don’t like. There are certain body shapes I don’t like, male and female. I’m sure that goes for most people. A man who likes natural breasts having to discern if those are real?
Are her lips real?
Is that backside real?
Has she had botox?
I'm sure women etc can come up with their own examples of increased challenges to discern a true liking of."
Ooooh where do I get me a new backside? |
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"I'm uber picky so not sure I can say either way. Based on dating I know the body does matter. But I've never met someone who has just given body shots ... And haven't dated since Photoshop apps became so good at their job ...
It’s rife on here.. really sad."
Yep. Deceitful |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have we reached a time when bodily attraction is declining?
Do bodily enhancements and the like make it more difficult to discern what you do truly like?
No I don’t think so. I know what I like and don’t like. There are certain body shapes I don’t like, male and female. I’m sure that goes for most people. A man who likes natural breasts having to discern if those are real?
Are her lips real?
Is that backside real?
Has she had botox?
I'm sure women etc can come up with their own examples of increased challenges to discern a true liking of.I get to ... Why do you care? If you like the look of a pair of boobs, you like the look. I'm a fan of everything as natural as possible.
do you take make up remover with you too?
I'm being a bit of a dick on purposes, but it's part of a spectrum
See also: shaving.
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Tell me more...I don't exactly get it.
Are you thinking of pubic shaving off? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have we reached a time when bodily attraction is declining?
Do bodily enhancements and the like make it more difficult to discern what you do truly like?
No I don’t think so. I know what I like and don’t like. There are certain body shapes I don’t like, male and female. I’m sure that goes for most people. A man who likes natural breasts having to discern if those are real?
Are her lips real?
Is that backside real?
Has she had botox?
I'm sure women etc can come up with their own examples of increased challenges to discern a true liking of.I get to ... Why do you care? If you like the look of a pair of boobs, you like the look. I'm a fan of everything as natural as possible.
do you take make up remover with you too?
I'm being a bit of a dick on purposes, but it's part of a spectrum
See also: shaving.
Tell me more...I don't exactly get it.
Are you thinking of pubic shaving off? "
hair is natural. Taking it off is unnatural so (by taking your position to its extreme) you'd want unshaven. And no make up.
As I say, I'm arguing like a dick for no reason here other than to maybe give pause for thought. It's each their won either which way, but is sueoct many judge a gal with filler but not a gal with lippy... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Facial attraction is most important then personality, body I couldn't give too hoots about, it is what it is"
I presume you have shared your body at times with another.
Does it not AT ALL matter what that body looks like to you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have we reached a time when bodily attraction is declining?
Do bodily enhancements and the like make it more difficult to discern what you do truly like?
No I don’t think so. I know what I like and don’t like. There are certain body shapes I don’t like, male and female. I’m sure that goes for most people. A man who likes natural breasts having to discern if those are real?
Are her lips real?
Is that backside real?
Has she had botox?
I'm sure women etc can come up with their own examples of increased challenges to discern a true liking of.I get to ... Why do you care? If you like the look of a pair of boobs, you like the look. I'm a fan of everything as natural as possible.
do you take make up remover with you too?
I'm being a bit of a dick on purposes, but it's part of a spectrum
See also: shaving.
Tell me more...I don't exactly get it.
Are you thinking of pubic shaving off? hair is natural. Taking it off is unnatural so (by taking your position to its extreme) you'd want unshaven. And no make up.
As I say, I'm arguing like a dick for no reason here other than to maybe give pause for thought. It's each their won either which way, but is sueoct many judge a gal with filler but not a gal with lippy... "
If the world became a place where no one shaved a hair off their body again.
I would adjust to it because I would say well at least its natural.
That's me.
I in my ideal world would prefer no forms of make up...my preference.
I have seen many a person hiding their real undoubted beauty beneath a mask applied/ or too heavily. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I vote Body 100% .. I’m not shallow either by the way, you don’t have to have a what people aspire to be a perfect body, if your gym ready then congratulations, but I find women that has natural curves or maybe a tum etc there is nothing more attractive than a woman that is comfortable in her own skin/body. People may agree or disagree with my preference but each to their own. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I vote Body 100% .. I’m not shallow either by the way, you don’t have to have a what people aspire to be a perfect body, if your gym ready then congratulations, but I find women that has natural curves or maybe a tum etc there is nothing more attractive than a woman that is comfortable in her own skin/body. People may agree or disagree with my preference but each to their own."
I love what you wrote about people being comfortable within their own body. |
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Both. It’s impossible to say what comes first as the face and body have to do it for us. That said, we aren’t super models and don’t expect others to be. Sexy is sexy in the eye of the beholder and that is different for everyone here. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Face first if anything. I don't really feel sexual attraction until I know someone a bit (yeah, I'm that wanky type of person) and the body (as long as not extremes) doesn't matter too much to me. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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Usually on here the body is the first thing you see, so that often catches the eye. But it's more about the words than that for me.... here in the forum, or a message, or a profile. So personality.
Then face, because if I don't want to kiss the lips and hold eye contact then sex is off the table.
Then body. I'm not going to pretend that a body doesn't make a difference because it does, but I don't believe I have a type when it comes to body.
Personality and face I do though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Face first if anything. I don't really feel sexual attraction until I know someone a bit (yeah, I'm that wanky type of person) and the body (as long as not extremes) doesn't matter too much to me. "
No, I can see your whole description and understand it, I don't personally find that part wanky because sometimes that is part of a great journey...not always.
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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"Face, personality - attraction is a must. I also cannot be doing with a banter vacuum or someone up there own arse regardless of the body these will always come first xx So here you have connected someone being up their own ass with their body?"
Not what I said at all- I said I don’t like people who are devoid of banter or up there own arse as in arrogant - regardless of how great someone’s body is these would put me off |
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"Facial attraction is most important then personality, body I couldn't give too hoots about, it is what it is I presume you have shared your body at times with another.
Does it not AT ALL matter what that body looks like to you?"
It might matter to someone else Huey, but not to me, face and personality are my top priorities |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Face everytime,if it doesn't appeal nothing would happen.
I've had messages from profiles with a nice bod, then I see their face and there's sometimes been no attraction for me. "
I'm interested to know what is the stark difference in the faces and bodies of those you end up not being attracted to.
Is there a pattern? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Facial attraction is most important then personality, body I couldn't give too hoots about, it is what it is I presume you have shared your body at times with another.
Does it not AT ALL matter what that body looks like to you?
It might matter to someone else Huey, but not to me, face and personality are my top priorities "
Thanks dear, the question was not intended to sound demeaning in any way. |
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Will always be face for me first and foremost. That's what draws me in.then I need to get to know you & like you & be able to have a conversation. Obviously it helps if the body is beautiful too, but this doesn't have to be the case at all.
It's frustrating on here as people don't often show their faces, so I lust over s particularly attractive torso, etc but don't message as I'd hate their face to not be attractive to me. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Face, personality - attraction is a must. I also cannot be doing with a banter vacuum or someone up there own arse regardless of the body these will always come first xx So here you have connected someone being up their own ass with their body?
Not what I said at all- I said I don’t like people who are devoid of banter or up there own arse as in arrogant - regardless of how great someone’s body is these would put me off "
No ones body should sweep all before them without some decency behind it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Will always be face for me first and foremost. That's what draws me in.then I need to get to know you & like you & be able to have a conversation. Obviously it helps if the body is beautiful too, but this doesn't have to be the case at all.
It's frustrating on here as people don't often show their faces, so I lust over s particularly attractive torso, etc but don't message as I'd hate their face to not be attractive to me. X"
Message (torsos) and retreat if their (face) is not what you want...but I agree the lack of a face shown in conjunction is not at all helpful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Face for me I see it like if I where on a night out and saw someone I fancyd the thing I'd be basing that on would be there face then if I got on with them even better there body would be the last thing I would see. |
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"Will always be face for me first and foremost. That's what draws me in.then I need to get to know you & like you & be able to have a conversation. Obviously it helps if the body is beautiful too, but this doesn't have to be the case at all.
It's frustrating on here as people don't often show their faces, so I lust over s particularly attractive torso, etc but don't message as I'd hate their face to not be attractive to me. X"
This is why I prefer to "pull" in real life, the socials are a much easier place to find attractive men, than risk offending them on here as you don't like their face |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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Stimulation comes in many forms ...thank goodness!
Otherwise then would there likely be just one woman and/or one man (delete as applicable given personal preference) absolutely knackered out??!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Usually on here the body is the first thing you see, so that often catches the eye. But it's more about the words than that for me.... here in the forum, or a message, or a profile. So personality.
Then face, because if I don't want to kiss the lips and hold eye contact then sex is off the table.
Then body. I'm not going to pretend that a body doesn't make a difference because it does, but I don't believe I have a type when it comes to body.
Personality and face I do though."
The first mention of words as an important factor along with face and body matters. |
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"Facial attraction is most important then personality, body I couldn't give too hoots about, it is what it is I presume you have shared your body at times with another.
Does it not AT ALL matter what that body looks like to you?
It might matter to someone else Huey, but not to me, face and personality are my top priorities Thanks dear, the question was not intended to sound demeaning in any way."
Xxx |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Question; How comfortable are you IF someone REALLY likes your body?"
Very comfortable. I don't like being fetishized but I love that feeling of someone adoring every inch of me, unashamedly and gleefully. It's hot. But I think that those I meet really like my body because I inhabit it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Will always be face for me first and foremost. That's what draws me in.then I need to get to know you & like you & be able to have a conversation. Obviously it helps if the body is beautiful too, but this doesn't have to be the case at all.
It's frustrating on here as people don't often show their faces, so I lust over s particularly attractive torso, etc but don't message as I'd hate their face to not be attractive to me. X
This is why I prefer to "pull" in real life, the socials are a much easier place to find attractive men, than risk offending them on here as you don't like their face"
That's quite something to be worried about causing offence. Let them grow up I say.
It's doubtful if many of us are beloved of all...but again I understand your reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Question; How comfortable are you IF someone REALLY likes your body?
Very comfortable. I don't like being fetishized but I love that feeling of someone adoring every inch of me, unashamedly and gleefully. It's hot. But I think that those I meet really like my body because I inhabit it. "
I don't go with the being fetishized thing either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Question; How comfortable are you IF someone REALLY likes your body?"
I used to be very uncomfortable when getting compliments and went as far as writing the person off as being a bit of a charmer ...
Now I've got to a place where I believe them to be true and live with the attention. But not abuse it. (I used to be a nob, now I just provide life support to one) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like a comforting face but also strength in the body but.... I have found too that what's between someone's ears is more of a deciding factor in the end. We all have our ideals but then a curveball can be thrown into the mix that either enhances someone's appeal or detracts from it.
Flippin complex innit  |
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"Will always be face for me first and foremost. That's what draws me in.then I need to get to know you & like you & be able to have a conversation. Obviously it helps if the body is beautiful too, but this doesn't have to be the case at all.
It's frustrating on here as people don't often show their faces, so I lust over s particularly attractive torso, etc but don't message as I'd hate their face to not be attractive to me. X
This is why I prefer to "pull" in real life, the socials are a much easier place to find attractive men, than risk offending them on here as you don't like their face That's quite something to be worried about causing offence. Let them grow up I say.
It's doubtful if many of us are beloved of all...but again I understand your reasons."
Its the whole rejection dance, in real life men will generally take the hint of "not interested" online its list 50 reasons why...
I am grateful that many are not beloved by all as that means we all get a little time for some fun |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Stimulation comes in many forms ...thank goodness!
Otherwise then would there likely be just one woman and/or one man (delete as applicable given personal preference) absolutely knackered out??!! "
It's true that stimulation comes in many forms but when dealing with others how many of those forms will be applicable. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Will always be face for me first and foremost. That's what draws me in.then I need to get to know you & like you & be able to have a conversation. Obviously it helps if the body is beautiful too, but this doesn't have to be the case at all.
It's frustrating on here as people don't often show their faces, so I lust over s particularly attractive torso, etc but don't message as I'd hate their face to not be attractive to me. X
This is why I prefer to "pull" in real life, the socials are a much easier place to find attractive men, than risk offending them on here as you don't like their face That's quite something to be worried about causing offence. Let them grow up I say.
It's doubtful if many of us are beloved of all...but again I understand your reasons.
Its the whole rejection dance, in real life men will generally take the hint of "not interested" online its list 50 reasons why...
I am grateful that many are not beloved by all as that means we all get a little time for some fun "
I get it.
It's sad/silly when a person can't take a hint too easily.
Also your second response says it all, and |
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"I like a comforting face but also strength in the body but.... I have found too that what's between someone's ears is more of a deciding factor in the end. We all have our ideals but then a curveball can be thrown into the mix that either enhances someone's appeal or detracts from it.
Flippin complex innit "
Aimee, it's flipping complex! |
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"I like a comforting face but also strength in the body but.... I have found too that what's between someone's ears is more of a deciding factor in the end. We all have our ideals but then a curveball can be thrown into the mix that either enhances someone's appeal or detracts from it.
Flippin complex innit Aimee, it's flipping complex! "
As twisted as the arse of a whelk lol
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"Question; How comfortable are you IF someone REALLY likes your body?I used to be very uncomfortable when getting compliments and went as far as writing the person off as being a bit of a charmer ...
Now I've got to a place where I believe them to be true and live with the attention. But not abuse it. (I used to be a nob, now I just provide life support to one)"
I think there is a lot of understanding to be gained in what you have just written.
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"I like a comforting face but also strength in the body but.... I have found too that what's between someone's ears is more of a deciding factor in the end. We all have our ideals but then a curveball can be thrown into the mix that either enhances someone's appeal or detracts from it.
Flippin complex innit Aimee, it's flipping complex!
As twisted as the arse of a whelk lol
Hope you're well x"
Hope you are well too and nice to see you around x |
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"I like a comforting face but also strength in the body but.... I have found too that what's between someone's ears is more of a deciding factor in the end. We all have our ideals but then a curveball can be thrown into the mix that either enhances someone's appeal or detracts from it.
Flippin complex innit Aimee, it's flipping complex!
As twisted as the arse of a whelk lol
Hope you're well x
Hope you are well too and nice to see you around x"
You too sweetcheeks  |
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Face... If I don't like that and the attitude then it doesn't matter how beautiful your body is... If I do then your body is beautiful... Whatever type it is |
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Firstly it’s a nice face & clean teeth & nice smile
Then personality….
Then body.
And….If you can spell and write in full sentences, that shit is sexy AF!!  |
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"Face for me I see it like if I where on a night out and saw someone I fancyd the thing I'd be basing that on would be there face then if I got on with them even better there body would be the last thing I would see."
In the non fab world for me it's the impression of a person face, body and its movements.
One thing this thread has shown me is that I may start asking for more face photos to be sent my way. |
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I will also ask do people ask for face pics as a way of testing the reality/ genuiness of those they communicate with on here?
Beyond wanting to gauge their appeal? |
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"Personality first for me, hence I always read profile text before I look at pictures. In terms of physical attraction, a nice friendly face is far more important than the body. "
The reading of the profile text! Not to be overlooked!! |
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I wouldn’t particularly prioritise any of them. And I’d personally never meet somebody without seeing their face
I’ve got to be attracted to the face, body and personality |
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"For me it's face first, then personality, then body!"
Between your face and your body which one do you think men would like more about you?
May be a ticklish question? |
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"I wouldn’t particularly prioritise any of them. And I’d personally never meet somebody without seeing their face
I’ve got to be attracted to the face, body and personality "
What about the mystery aspect within not seeing a face...yet?
Could it not add to the excitement? |
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