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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago
Chelmsford |
Tom read an article in the papers where a woman was on a date with a man and a man sat behind her discreetly passed her a pieced of paper with the words, "Too many red flags, leave and stay safe" or words to that affect.
Essex Tom is a bisexual. So how many men and women see red flags in his behaviours? |
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"Tom read an article in the papers where a woman was on a date with a man and a man sat behind her discreetly passed her a pieced of paper with the words, "Too many red flags, leave and stay safe" or words to that affect.
Essex Tom is a bisexual. So how many men and women see red flags in his behaviours?"
Talking about oneself in the third person is the first! |
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Are we talking red flags on a meet? Some examples I watch for if I’m meeting men include:
Trying to pressure me into bareback or complaining about having to wear a condom. It’s a deal breaker for me.
Agreeing to boundaries and then trying to push them. I had a guy who decided to rim me after I told him I didn’t want him to. End of meet.
Generally not respecting boundaries or pushing for things to progress further than I am comfortable. Not taking “no” for an answer unless it is said two or three times.
There are others, a lot of which are ‘gut instinct’ and hard to explain, but those are the main ones.
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over a year ago
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Reminds me of Tales of the Unexpected. Woman leaves with the safe man with the note, only to find the red flag man washing dishes at his kitchen sink when she arrives at note mans home. |
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Man hands her note and leaves, she reads it, excuses herself and leaves. Gets in car and drives home, looks in rear view mirror to see not man sitting behind her in rear seat, he passe her another note, it has "I'm a time traveller" written on it "but my voice is stuck in the future". She slams on the brakes and looks behind her but there is no one behind her.
She gets home and fills lots of cups up with water and leaves them stacked around the house. That night her house starts to shake as a bright light from outside blinds her. She sees the note man again but now he's only half an inch tall, and he's running through the house as the cups of water fall all around him.
It's at this point she notices she's holding a pen in her hand, she writes on a bit of paper "too many red flags" she looks up, she's in a restaurant, she passes the note to a woman sitting behind her. She stands up and leaves goes to her car and gets in the back seat, she looks at the rear view mirror from the back seat and sees a man looking back at her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the OP was asking if any fabsters see red flags in meeting Essex Tom"
Anyone that refers to themselves in the third person is a definite red flag. |
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"Without knowing the context of the private conversation which was eavesdropped on by the man trying to 'help', it's impossible to know whether there were any red flags at all."
Yep, this ^^
No conversation or behaviour revealed to give any sort of informed answer, unfortunately. |
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"Reminds me of Tales of the Unexpected. Woman leaves with the safe man with the note, only to find the red flag man washing dishes at his kitchen sink when she arrives at note mans home. "
Brrrrrr! |
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"Man hands her note and leaves, she reads it, excuses herself and leaves. Gets in car and drives home, looks in rear view mirror to see not man sitting behind her in rear seat, he passe her another note, it has "I'm a time traveller" written on it "but my voice is stuck in the future". She slams on the brakes and looks behind her but there is no one behind her.
She gets home and fills lots of cups up with water and leaves them stacked around the house. That night her house starts to shake as a bright light from outside blinds her. She sees the note man again but now he's only half an inch tall, and he's running through the house as the cups of water fall all around him.
It's at this point she notices she's holding a pen in her hand, she writes on a bit of paper "too many red flags" she looks up, she's in a restaurant, she passes the note to a woman sitting behind her. She stands up and leaves goes to her car and gets in the back seat, she looks at the rear view mirror from the back seat and sees a man looking back at her. "
Stop it; you’re twisting my melon, man!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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had a women keep looking up at me when i was getting a drink in costa.
i sat down and she kept doing it, so when the waitress come over with my drink i handed her a note to pass to her.
it read 'findus fish fingers 2 for 1 at iceland' she burst out laughing. |
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By *opinovMan
over a year ago
Point Nemo, Cumbria |
"Man hands her note and leaves, she reads it, excuses herself and leaves. Gets in car and drives home, looks in rear view mirror to see not man sitting behind her in rear seat, he passe her another note, it has "I'm a time traveller" written on it "but my voice is stuck in the future". She slams on the brakes and looks behind her but there is no one behind her.
She gets home and fills lots of cups up with water and leaves them stacked around the house. That night her house starts to shake as a bright light from outside blinds her. She sees the note man again but now he's only half an inch tall, and he's running through the house as the cups of water fall all around him.
It's at this point she notices she's holding a pen in her hand, she writes on a bit of paper "too many red flags" she looks up, she's in a restaurant, she passes the note to a woman sitting behind her. She stands up and leaves goes to her car and gets in the back seat, she looks at the rear view mirror from the back seat and sees a man looking back at her.
Stop it; you’re twisting my melon, man! "
Which one..?  |
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By *igmaMan
over a year ago
Yorkshire |
"Is this an exam question Tom?
If Tom reads 4 articles every 4 minutes
How many articles has Tom read in 45 minutes?
Show your working out!
45. Ask me another"
Setting exam questions is not Sigma’s forte! |
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"had a women keep looking up at me when i was getting a drink in costa.
i sat down and she kept doing it, so when the waitress come over with my drink i handed her a note to pass to her.
it read 'findus fish fingers 2 for 1 at iceland' she burst out laughing. "
Smooth… |
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"Man hands her note and leaves, she reads it, excuses herself and leaves. Gets in car and drives home, looks in rear view mirror to see not man sitting behind her in rear seat, he passe her another note, it has "I'm a time traveller" written on it "but my voice is stuck in the future". She slams on the brakes and looks behind her but there is no one behind her.
She gets home and fills lots of cups up with water and leaves them stacked around the house. That night her house starts to shake as a bright light from outside blinds her. She sees the note man again but now he's only half an inch tall, and he's running through the house as the cups of water fall all around him.
It's at this point she notices she's holding a pen in her hand, she writes on a bit of paper "too many red flags" she looks up, she's in a restaurant, she passes the note to a woman sitting behind her. She stands up and leaves goes to her car and gets in the back seat, she looks at the rear view mirror from the back seat and sees a man looking back at her.
Stop it; you’re twisting my melon, man!
Which one..? "
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"Tom read an article in the papers where a woman was on a date with a man and a man sat behind her discreetly passed her a pieced of paper with the words, "Too many red flags, leave and stay safe" or words to that affect.
Essex Tom is a bisexual. So how many men and women see red flags in his behaviours?"
Tom was trying to get rid of the woman to gain access to the man.
That to me is the seeming red flag.
That I believe is why it is stated Tom is a Bisexual.
What you may be looking for from us to determine what is possibly a red flag in Tom's behaviour can only be discerned by one who comes to the thread later after reading through what OP himself has written and what others have contributed.
So some have (unfortunately) had to play fall guy to get to this point.
PS I may be a fall guy too as someone may have got there first! |
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"Tom read an article in the papers where a woman was on a date with a man and a man sat behind her discreetly passed her a pieced of paper with the words, "Too many red flags, leave and stay safe" or words to that affect.
Essex Tom is a bisexual. So how many men and women see red flags in his behaviours?
Tom was trying to get rid of the woman to gain access to the man.
That to me is the seeming red flag.
That I believe is why it is stated Tom is a Bisexual.
What you may be looking for from us to determine what is possibly a red flag in Tom's behaviour can only be discerned by one who comes to the thread later after reading through what OP himself has written and what others have contributed.
So some have (unfortunately) had to play fall guy to get to this point.
PS I may be a fall guy too as someone may have got there first! "
PPS If it isn't that then it's a load of bullsh*t! |
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"had a women keep looking up at me when i was getting a drink in costa.
i sat down and she kept doing it, so when the waitress come over with my drink i handed her a note to pass to her.
it read 'findus fish fingers 2 for 1 at iceland' she burst out laughing. "
That's made my day Pat  |
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"Man hands her note and leaves, she reads it, excuses herself and leaves. Gets in car and drives home, looks in rear view mirror to see not man sitting behind her in rear seat, he passe her another note, it has "I'm a time traveller" written on it "but my voice is stuck in the future". She slams on the brakes and looks behind her but there is no one behind her.
She gets home and fills lots of cups up with water and leaves them stacked around the house. That night her house starts to shake as a bright light from outside blinds her. She sees the note man again but now he's only half an inch tall, and he's running through the house as the cups of water fall all around him.
It's at this point she notices she's holding a pen in her hand, she writes on a bit of paper "too many red flags" she looks up, she's in a restaurant, she passes the note to a woman sitting behind her. She stands up and leaves goes to her car and gets in the back seat, she looks at the rear view mirror from the back seat and sees a man looking back at her.
Stop it; you’re twisting my melon, man!
Which one..?
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