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Head (no, not THAT one!) or heart?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can be rational but I can seem to be unable to follow what I say, like I know it’s wrong I know it’s probably
Gonna Fuck me up, but I do it anyway like a silly girl and yeah. So heart wins over for me… sadly
, sometimes … as I end up being hurt over and over and it’s entirely my fault |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I try and follow my head...but heart always wins 
If your heart always wins, why do you still try making decisions with your head? Genuine (not facetious) question. "
Because my head tells me what is logically right.....but my heart tells me what feels right... |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I can be rational but I can seem to be unable to follow what I say, like I know it’s wrong I know it’s probably
Gonna Fuck me up, but I do it anyway like a silly girl and yeah. So heart wins over for me… sadly
, sometimes … as I end up being hurt over and over and it’s entirely my fault "
In what way would you visualise yourself as a happier person if this were not so? |
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"Ignore the heart for it’s easily fooled
Where would we be as humans if we did not use the heart at times? "
Probably way better off. Use of pure logic and science would see the end of things like racism, sexism, religious wars, all sorts.
The heart acts on emotion, which isn’t always rooted in the because cause |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
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"I try and follow my head...but heart always wins
If your heart always wins, why do you still try making decisions with your head? Genuine (not facetious) question.
Because my head tells me what is logically right.....but my heart tells me what feels right..."
And there is a conflict between the two at times, for sure...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would say your head makes logical decisions and your heart makes good ones What if they are in conflict with each other? "
It means your youre human and have feelings!
Head telling you not to meet that married guy? Heart telling you to do so by any chance? |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Ignore the heart for it’s easily fooled
Where would we be as humans if we did not use the heart at times?
Probably way better off. Use of pure logic and science would see the end of things like racism, sexism, religious wars, all sorts.
The heart acts on emotion, which isn’t always rooted in the because cause "
I can see the sense in what you are saying, completely.
And yet, I feel we would miss out on so much beauty, figuratively speaking, so many rewards... if the heart did not play a part? It would be a rather grey world perhaps? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can be rational but I can seem to be unable to follow what I say, like I know it’s wrong I know it’s probably
Gonna Fuck me up, but I do it anyway like a silly girl and yeah. So heart wins over for me… sadly
, sometimes … as I end up being hurt over and over and it’s entirely my fault In what way would you visualise yourself as a happier person if this were not so? "
I don’t know I guess with people I tend to follow what makes me feel good at present even if logically, it might not be the case in the long run… when I should have thought logically and I do , I just decide to ignore.
Having said that , if u remove boys out of the equation, I did amazing things following my heart and passion and switching off my head saying : but its silly don’t do it
Anyway heart wins for me x |
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"Ignore the heart for it’s easily fooled
Where would we be as humans if we did not use the heart at times?
Probably way better off. Use of pure logic and science would see the end of things like racism, sexism, religious wars, all sorts.
The heart acts on emotion, which isn’t always rooted in the because cause
I can see the sense in what you are saying, completely.
And yet, I feel we would miss out on so much beauty, figuratively speaking, so many rewards... if the heart did not play a part? It would be a rather grey world perhaps? "
The head is for making decisions
The heart is for loving
Don’t mix the two up |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
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"I would say your head makes logical decisions and your heart makes good ones What if they are in conflict with each other?
It means your youre human and have feelings!
Head telling you not to meet that married guy? Heart telling you to do so by any chance? "
You touched a nerve there... from many years ago when I was young and very foolish! |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Ignore the heart for it’s easily fooled
Where would we be as humans if we did not use the heart at times?
Probably way better off. Use of pure logic and science would see the end of things like racism, sexism, religious wars, all sorts.
The heart acts on emotion, which isn’t always rooted in the because cause
I can see the sense in what you are saying, completely.
And yet, I feel we would miss out on so much beauty, figuratively speaking, so many rewards... if the heart did not play a part? It would be a rather grey world perhaps?
The head is for making decisions
The heart is for loving
Don’t mix the two up "
I sometimes wish it were that easy. Do you think, broadly speaking, men are better at compartmentalising than women? |
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