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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a sex site so May as well teach you’s all here virgins aren’t real if you break the hymen you’re doing it wrong fella "
Most girls hymen’s are already not in tact by the time they have sex due to non sexual activities ie tampon use etc.
If it was intact, then sexually intimacy is sure to break it. So mot sure what the fellas would be doing wrong? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a sex site so May as well teach you’s all here virgins aren’t real if you break the hymen you’re doing it wrong fella
Most girls hymen’s are already not in tact by the time they have sex due to non sexual activities ie tampon use etc.
If it was intact, then sexually intimacy is sure to break it. So mot sure what the fellas would be doing wrong?"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im just trying to describe that virginity is just an abstract construct created to divide men and women, The word itself brings different meaning in men and women it also gives men the ability to take something from women already adding to there inflating egos while also the vast majority of population shame the opposite sex for having said virginity “taken” hope that better describes what I mean |
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"Im just trying to describe that virginity is just an abstract construct created to divide men and women, The word itself brings different meaning in men and women it also gives men the ability to take something from women already adding to there inflating egos while also the vast majority of population shame the opposite sex for having said virginity “taken” hope that better describes what I mean"
Well not exactly it’s about paternal confidence for the men.
To have sex with a virgin leads to the highest chance that the child will be yours. This then branches out into religious ideas about purity
This is a guys best bet of gathering his own children where hypergamy exists. That’s why the very rich would pay for virgins |
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"Im just trying to describe that virginity is just an abstract construct created to divide men and women, The word itself brings different meaning in men and women it also gives men the ability to take something from women already adding to there inflating egos while also the vast majority of population shame the opposite sex for having said virginity “taken” hope that better describes what I mean"
Got ya.
It's true some cultures do value virginity in a woman more highly than in a man.
I read a book once in which the bloodied sheets from the wedding night were displayed the morning after as proof the woman was a virgin. The guy in this case knew and accepted that his new wife was no more a virgin than he was so cut himself and smeared it on the sheet. That's my mind of man. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m just all about equality and think sometimes words, cultures and religions can be bit predated and cause a divide between most when we should all be loving it’s why I support spirituality more than any religion |
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Look ..........
I never had a hymen okay ? and if I did ..... then I never noticed it breaking.... okay
The vagina is NEVER like a smartie tube. Ever.....
Some vaggies may be slightly tight but it 's not a bloody pringle ...... you don't pop and don't stop..... fucks sake.......
NO ONE can prove that someone else is not a virgin.
Girls are menstruating for many years before having sex.
And for those with hymen e.g. a thin , half moon , membrane of skin ...... it can be altered with sport , horse riding and any such activity. It's not made of cast iron.
ANOTHER fucking aspect of women's bodies and sexuality that men think they know best about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a sex site so May as well teach you’s all here virgins aren’t real if you break the hymen you’re doing it wrong fella "
A virgin is a person (male or female) who has not had sex before. The hymen has fk all to do with it.
So virgins ARE real...
Sorry to burst your educational bubble OP.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a sex site so May as well teach you’s all here virgins aren’t real if you break the hymen you’re doing it wrong fella "
Classic mansplaining.
‘Having a stretched or torn hymen does not necessarily mean a woman has lost her virginity.’
Maybe do some research first before you try and ‘teach’ us something |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Topical. Royal College of ObsGyn have recently come out saying they want the gov to ban hymenoplasty & 'virginity testing'.
I had no idea that this was even a thing in the UK.
Personally I think the whole premise of trad. marriage & the white virginal bride is outdated patriarchal bull, but I guess that is a whole other thread.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine broke 3 times. I imagine it was 3 partial breaks. Once masturbating, once being fingered by someone else and finally the first time I had sex."
once, twice ... Three times a virgin.  |
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"This is a sex site so May as well teach you’s all here virgins aren’t real if you break the hymen you’re doing it wrong fella "
Why are they doing it wrong? Are you saying that the hymen should stay intact? |
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"Why hs no one told him this isn't a sex site yet?!  "
This isn't a sex site. It's a swingers site. We love the way of life. We live the lifestyle. It's about this n that and not all about sex yada yada..........
That okey ? |
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"Why hs no one told him this isn't a sex site yet?!
This isn't a sex site. It's a swingers site. We love the way of life. We live the lifestyle. It's about this n that and not all about sex yada yada..........
That okey ?"
Yes. thank you, granny  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a sex site so May as well teach you’s all here virgins aren’t real if you break the hymen you’re doing it wrong fella
Why are they doing it wrong? Are you saying that the hymen should stay intact? "
It's virgin on the ridiculous what he says  |
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Question
So if you don’t happen to have sex for like a decade does your “virginity” grow back?
(Asking for a friend)
And does it mean the reuse of L plates when with the next person, a bit like re taking your driving test after a ban etc?  |
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"Question
So if you don’t happen to have sex for like a decade does your “virginity” grow back?
(Asking for a friend)
And does it mean the reuse of L plates when with the next person, a bit like re taking your driving test after a ban etc? "
The hymen doesn't grow back if that's what you mean. It can feel tighter after a long time without sex as the area is less used to being stretched and before any guys get excited, from my experience it isn't very fun for the woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Question
So if you don’t happen to have sex for like a decade does your “virginity” grow back?
(Asking for a friend)
And does it mean the reuse of L plates when with the next person, a bit like re taking your driving test after a ban etc? "
I'd you baptise your cock at lordes you become a born again virgin.
Note: you can only do this once as the fuckers will ban you. |
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"Question
So if you don’t happen to have sex for like a decade does your “virginity” grow back?
(Asking for a friend)
And does it mean the reuse of L plates when with the next person, a bit like re taking your driving test after a ban etc?
The hymen doesn't grow back if that's what you mean. It can feel tighter after a long time without sex as the area is less used to being stretched and before any guys get excited, from my experience it isn't very fun for the woman."
Noted thank you
But I was meaning from the male side of the equation……can ours grow back from no use??
Or do women just not want someone that’s not done it for a long time or ever? |
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"Question
So if you don’t happen to have sex for like a decade does your “virginity” grow back?
(Asking for a friend)
And does it mean the reuse of L plates when with the next person, a bit like re taking your driving test after a ban etc?
The hymen doesn't grow back if that's what you mean. It can feel tighter after a long time without sex as the area is less used to being stretched and before any guys get excited, from my experience it isn't very fun for the woman.
Noted thank you
But I was meaning from the male side of the equation……can ours grow back from no use??
Or do women just not want someone that’s not done it for a long time or ever? "
Men don't have a hymen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Question
So if you don’t happen to have sex for like a decade does your “virginity” grow back?
(Asking for a friend)
And does it mean the reuse of L plates when with the next person, a bit like re taking your driving test after a ban etc?
The hymen doesn't grow back if that's what you mean. It can feel tighter after a long time without sex as the area is less used to being stretched and before any guys get excited, from my experience it isn't very fun for the woman.
Noted thank you
But I was meaning from the male side of the equation……can ours grow back from no use??
Or do women just not want someone that’s not done it for a long time or ever?
Men don't have a hymen. "
Erm, but it has "men" in the word  |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
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"Question
So if you don’t happen to have sex for like a decade does your “virginity” grow back?
[ ... ]
Men don't have a hymen. "
In fairness, he didn't say they did.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine broke 3 times. I imagine it was 3 partial breaks. Once masturbating, once being fingered by someone else and finally the first time I had sex."
Really wish I had something clever to say about a hymen..
But you really do have a beautiful smile! |
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"Look ..........
I never had a hymen okay ? and if I did ..... then I never noticed it breaking.... okay
The vagina is NEVER like a smartie tube. Ever.....
Some vaggies may be slightly tight but it 's not a bloody pringle ...... you don't pop and don't stop..... fucks sake.......
NO ONE can prove that someone else is not a virgin.
Girls are menstruating for many years before having sex.
And for those with hymen e.g. a thin , half moon , membrane of skin ...... it can be altered with sport , horse riding and any such activity. It's not made of cast iron.
ANOTHER fucking aspect of women's bodies and sexuality that men think they know best about."
Saggie Vaggie is now in my head  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Question
So if you don’t happen to have sex for like a decade does your “virginity” grow back?
(Asking for a friend)
And does it mean the reuse of L plates when with the next person, a bit like re taking your driving test after a ban etc?
The hymen doesn't grow back if that's what you mean. It can feel tighter after a long time without sex as the area is less used to being stretched and before any guys get excited, from my experience it isn't very fun for the woman.
Noted thank you
But I was meaning from the male side of the equation……can ours grow back from no use??
Or do women just not want someone that’s not done it for a long time or ever?
Men don't have a hymen.
Erm, but it has "men" in the word "
hymxn |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a sex site so May as well teach you’s all here virgins aren’t real if you break the hymen you’re doing it wrong fella "
So are we to bang it up her fartpipe?
Is that where I've been going wrong? |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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What I don't understand is why, when we are (allegedly) sexually liberated and enlightened people the OP felt we needed education on how virginity as purity and sexual chasteness is a patriarchal construct.
I mean props to you for trying to educate yourself OP but I feel you're still missing the mark here somewhat. |
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"Question
So if you don’t happen to have sex for like a decade does your “virginity” grow back?
(Asking for a friend)
And does it mean the reuse of L plates when with the next person, a bit like re taking your driving test after a ban etc?
The hymen doesn't grow back if that's what you mean. It can feel tighter after a long time without sex as the area is less used to being stretched and before any guys get excited, from my experience it isn't very fun for the woman.
Noted thank you
But I was meaning from the male side of the equation……can ours grow back from no use??
Or do women just not want someone that’s not done it for a long time or ever?
Men don't have a hymen.
Erm, but it has "men" in the word "
Most words that refer to things that are painful or irritating do
MENstruation
MENopause
MENial tasks in the home
Ummmmmmm and MEN
*Scarpers*  |
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You started a thread earlier saying you’re a newbie and you wanted someone to teach you,and now you come out with this billy big ball shit.
Word of advice OP,people on the forums can smell bullshit pretty easily |
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"Look ..........
I never had a hymen okay ? and if I did ..... then I never noticed it breaking.... okay
The vagina is NEVER like a smartie tube. Ever.....
Some vaggies may be slightly tight but it 's not a bloody pringle ...... you don't pop and don't stop..... fucks sake.......
NO ONE can prove that someone else is not a virgin.
Girls are menstruating for many years before having sex.
And for those with hymen e.g. a thin , half moon , membrane of skin ...... it can be altered with sport , horse riding and any such activity. It's not made of cast iron.
ANOTHER fucking aspect of women's bodies and sexuality that men think they know best about.
Saggie Vaggie is now in my head "
Why Steve? Why ?
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"Look ..........
I never had a hymen okay ? and if I did ..... then I never noticed it breaking.... okay
The vagina is NEVER like a smartie tube. Ever.....
Some vaggies may be slightly tight but it 's not a bloody pringle ...... you don't pop and don't stop..... fucks sake.......
NO ONE can prove that someone else is not a virgin.
Girls are menstruating for many years before having sex.
And for those with hymen e.g. a thin , half moon , membrane of skin ...... it can be altered with sport , horse riding and any such activity. It's not made of cast iron.
ANOTHER fucking aspect of women's bodies and sexuality that men think they know best about.
Saggie Vaggie is now in my head
Why Steve? Why ?
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Because I saw a vid of a guy getting his head in one (although I suspect it was totally faked as the sheets were artfully posed as to cover the join). |
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I heard The hymen was made of inch thick steel and could only be broken with a safecrackers drill and dynamite?? And that behind that was a flower garden where you could pick the flowers - hence ‘deflowering’ a virgin
Are you saying my life is built on a lie!!?? |
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"This is a sex site so May as well teach you’s all here virgins aren’t real if you break the hymen you’re doing it wrong fella
So are we to bang it up her fartpipe?
Is that where I've been going wrong?"
You smooth talking bastard! You must be knee deep in clunge |
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By *igmaMan
over a year ago
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"This is a sex site so May as well teach you’s all here virgins aren’t real if you break the hymen you’re doing it wrong fella
So are we to bang it up her fartpipe?
Is that where I've been going wrong?"
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"I heard The hymen was made of inch thick steel and could only be broken with a safecrackers drill and dynamite?? And that behind that was a flower garden where you could pick the flowers - hence ‘deflowering’ a virgin
Are you saying my life is built on a lie!!?? "
A stick of dynamite does the job, or so I'm told |
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"Im just trying to describe that virginity is just an abstract construct created to divide men and women, The word itself brings different meaning in men and women it also gives men the ability to take something from women already adding to there inflating egos while also the vast majority of population shame the opposite sex for having said virginity “taken” hope that better describes what I mean"
I agree with you. I don't understand why we talk about "losing" virginity. When I first had sex, I don't think I "lost" anything. I did something I hadn't done before. I gained experience in something. That's not "losing" anything.
Describing having sex as losing something paints sex as something negative, and I think that's wrong. There are plenty of things I haven't done. I don't need a word like "virgin" to indicate my state of not having done them. I don't need to be told I've lost something if I do something for the first time. I don't get why sex should be any different. Luke |
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