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over a year ago
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"Am I expecting too much from people? Or is it just acceptable now for people to plan a social and not turn up…
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It’s not nice but it’s very common I believe. Not a lot that can be done about it.  |
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over a year ago
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I thought it was just men that did this ! From what I hear from couples. Actually had something funny and not to far from this happen to me last night actually  |
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"Depends
If it’s a guy then no, it’s rude
If it’s a woman then yes, she’s allowed to have a last minute change of heart "
 . I’ve never let anyone down and never had it done to me. I’d bloody hunt them down if they did! So rude! |
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over a year ago
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No your not expecting too much OP, just part and parcel of being on here unfortunately. Just move on to someone else who will show you a little more respect and don't give them a second chance to do it again. There are some great people on here, just takes some finding that's all. |
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over a year ago
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"Am I expecting too much from people? Or is it just acceptable now for people to plan a social and not turn up…
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No turn up at a social, how shit!
Do you not have a plan B, incase that happens? If so, what is it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Tbh I don’t frequent fab as if I make a connection swap numbers or a platform to chat off here I leave here and focus on that. But I’m fully aware people carry on chatting to numerous others. I don’t expect them to do different but I do expect to be given a heads up if anything changes as I have to make changes to my day too to accommodate a social. Only fair and I’m not usually bitter about it that just happens. It’s the frustration of now having made my day free for it and not even a word in reply |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Am I expecting too much from people? Or is it just acceptable now for people to plan a social and not turn up…
No turn up at a social, how shit!
Do you not have a plan B, incase that happens? If so, what is it "
My plan b is now to go to IKEA and find something to cheer me up |
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"Am I expecting too much from people? Or is it just acceptable now for people to plan a social and not turn up…
No turn up at a social, how shit!
Do you not have a plan B, incase that happens? If so, what is it
My plan b is now to go to IKEA and find something to cheer me up "
Get one of their ice creams  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always take a book. Often the book is better than the meet !
I've also heard the idea of dog walking as a date ... as the dog always needs walk. May feel a bit too much like digging in this world tho !! |
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There’s no excuse in this day and age for people not to be able to contact you to let you know.
Were the signs there? Had the conversation started tailing off? No contact this morning?
Usually you start getting inklings.
At the end of the day, all you can do is try and make sure your red flag warnings are tight but they can never be watertight…
If it’s any consolation…you’re on our hotlist
K |
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"There’s no excuse in this day and age for people not to be able to contact you to let you know.
Were the signs there? Had the conversation started tailing off? No contact this morning?
Usually you start getting inklings.
At the end of the day, all you can do is try and make sure your red flag warnings are tight but they can never be watertight…
If it’s any consolation…you’re on our hotlist
K"
We had spoken about it then buttoned done the day time and place then carried on but today nothing. And I’ll take it as a compliment hahaha I’m not usually online much so if u don’t see me online it’s because I’ve given fab a wide birth |
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