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Does every meet have too be fully planned
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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Yes. I like to have a carefully thought out schedule for every meet, printed and signed so that all parties know exactly what their duties are and precisely how long they are expected to perform them for.
I always have a stopwatch and any deviance from the timeline incurs a penalty. 2 penalties per person are accepted but 3 strikes and you're quite frankly out.
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"Does every meet have too be fully planned ,wheres the spontaneous people at ...."
a lot peeps put on their profile "cant meet at drop of a hat" peeps have work and families.But single ladies have to be careful who and where they meet so spontaneity maybe gives way to safety concerns... but within the meet it should be full of fun.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does every meet have too be fully planned ,wheres the spontaneous people at .... a lot peeps put on their profile "cant meet at drop of a hat" peeps have work and families.But single ladies have to be careful who and where they meet so spontaneity maybe gives way to safety
Yes ofcourse,we mean sometimes we are horny and would love too be able too sort a meet randomly,nore exciting sometimes,we have had messers abd time wasters after planning a week or 2 ahead ,it gets boring
concerns... but within the meet it should be full of fun."
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"Does every meet have too be fully planned ,wheres the spontaneous people at ...."
Depends on the individuals, our meets were always planned - 1) We were busy people 2) Nice hotel or campsite, meal, plan to either whole evening/night or weekend.
We always found that quick or spontaneous meets were always disappointing and very unfulfilling. Planned meets, say weekend seem to end up with regular and quality meets.
But each to their own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. I like to have a carefully thought out schedule for every meet, printed and signed so that all parties know exactly what their duties are and precisely how long they are expected to perform them for.
I always have a stopwatch and any deviance from the timeline incurs a penalty. 2 penalties per person are accepted but 3 strikes and you're quite frankly out.
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"We love some spontaneous fun. We would rather be out for a nice walk or out for drinks and meet people and just fuck   Molly Xx"
That kind of spontaneity can be amazing but that is where things just happen, and has quite few times but that was not associated with a meet, just random encounters.
For us there is a big difference between FAF meet spontaneity for us would be a non starter |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We love some spontaneous fun. We would rather be out for a nice walk or out for drinks and meet people and just fuck Molly Xx"
We are excactly the same,dont mind a planned meet ,but spontaneous meets are always more fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like spontaneity with someone I know and trust.
But to meet a total stranger at the drop of a hat, without thinking the safety logistics through and getting to know them? No thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Planned.
I did a lot of spontaneous hook-ups with men off tinder and pulling in clubs etc when I was younger. It was fun, but when you're that age most people you meet are just looking for some harmless fun. I'm older and wiser now and realise I shouldn't be putting myself in those situations anymore, for my own safety. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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Spontaneous meets with people we know sure, but not with people we haven’t met or discussed anything.
It would likely end up a disappointing meeting for all involved as we need to agree up front what we are going to do. |
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"Yes. I like to have a carefully thought out schedule for every meet, printed and signed so that all parties know exactly what their duties are and precisely how long they are expected to perform them for.
I always have a stopwatch and any deviance from the timeline incurs a penalty. 2 penalties per person are accepted but 3 strikes and you're quite frankly out.
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I always time how long the guy is expected to fuck me for, but the second hand on my watch broke  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Yes. I like to have a carefully thought out schedule for every meet, printed and signed so that all parties know exactly what their duties are and precisely how long they are expected to perform them for.
I always have a stopwatch and any deviance from the timeline incurs a penalty. 2 penalties per person are accepted but 3 strikes and you're quite frankly out.
I always time how long the guy is expected to fuck me for, but the second hand on my watch broke "
Ahh, see.... stopwatch and a back up. That's the key. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The time and place has to be, but what happens, no.
This for me too.
I cannot be doing with preplanned sexual expectations. Sex should be spontaneous, and fun for all. "
Excactly what we think |
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A bit of both for us…well actually planned for me but I like to surprise C now and again with a meet she knows nothing about.
But a lot of time, the fun is in the build up and working yourselves up so when you meet it’s electric.
We never plan it to the nth degree and know what position is happening but like to talk about what we want to see.
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
All my best meets have been planned, a social first then fun after/later date.
I did one quicker meet and it wasn't the same and wasn't that enjoyable.
Each to their own, but I wouldn't meet a stranger spontaneously. |
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