I started dating my boyfriend just over two months. We were drinking alot the other night and I finally decided to tell him how turned on I would be watching him with another woman!
His reaction wasn't what I thought. He said yeah that sounds fun but I don't think i'm man enough to please two women. |
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"I started dating my boyfriend just over two months. We were drinking alot the other night and I finally decided to tell him how turned on I would be watching him with another woman!
His reaction wasn't what I thought. He said yeah that sounds fun but I don't think i'm man enough to please two women."
That's man-speak for "fuck yeah, bring it on!"
By saying it the way he did he makes you think even more of him.  |
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Not all men are into threesomes or sharing!! 
I know, I know, I'm saying the unsayable on a swingers site! Be careful honey, don't destroy what you have.
(and people, would you be so gung ho if this was a single male proposing the same??) |
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As a man (apparently) I'm prepared to wager that the man kept a straight face and pulled off nonchalance very well.
While at the same time he was having a big fuck-off mardi gras in his head, with big banners saying "who's the fucking daddy?" while a marching band plays Happy birthday to you and the crowd cheers "Your girlfriend is the bomb!"
Something like that..... |
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"As a man (apparently) I'm prepared to wager that the man kept a straight face and pulled off nonchalance very well.
While at the same time he was having a big fuck-off mardi gras in his head, with big banners saying "who's the fucking daddy?" while a marching band plays Happy birthday to you and the crowd cheers "Your girlfriend is the bomb!"
Something like that....."
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Its not easy for a man at times having two woman that are both looking for loads of everything in a meet .. why i find if the lady is bi it helps. He can rest and look at two woman and get back to it after . lol |
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"Its not easy for a man at times having two woman that are both looking for loads of everything in a meet .. why i find if the lady is bi it helps. He can rest and look at two woman and get back to it after . lol "
Exactly. Like a visual can of redbull!
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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If this was a man posting this there would be many people asking why the OP has a profile on here and does the OH know etc etc.....but it seems pretty tame up to now and even giving advice.
Funny how a gender makes a difference to what answers people get.
To the OP.....if you arrange, I hope you both enjoy |
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"Its not easy for a man at times having two woman that are both looking for loads of everything in a meet .. why i find if the lady is bi it helps. He can rest and look at two woman and get back to it after . lol
Exactly. Like a visual can of redbull!
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sure is , lol and as good as viagra , |
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"I started dating my boyfriend just over two months. We were drinking alot the other night and I finally decided to tell him how turned on I would be watching him with another woman!
His reaction wasn't what I thought. He said yeah that sounds fun but I don't think i'm man enough to please two women."
your fella is doing something that I call "under promise....over deliver" |
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"Its not easy for a man at times having two woman that are both looking for loads of everything in a meet .. why i find if the lady is bi it helps. He can rest and look at two woman and get back to it after . lol "
would tend to agree from a personal perspective..
initially the 'pressure to perform' etc can be a little bit off putting..
what us guys need are more opportunities to allay any such little doubts..  |
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But seriously guys, there are men who this does not appeal to.
If it was a girlfriend we'd be advising to be sure and not to do something you can't take back. Why should the advice be any different because most men would love if their girlfriend suggested this - most!
I have been in a relationship that imploded after my boyfriend persuaded me to try a threesome. I enjoyed it, he did not.
Noone should be persuaded or bullied or steamrollered into something just because so many would love it. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"But seriously guys, there are men who this does not appeal to.
If it was a girlfriend we'd be advising to be sure and not to do something you can't take back. Why should the advice be any different because most men would love if their girlfriend suggested this - most!
I have been in a relationship that imploded after my boyfriend persuaded me to try a threesome. I enjoyed it, he did not.
Noone should be persuaded or bullied or steamrollered into something just because so many would love it."
I agree with your points. My thoughts also went to 'and what happens if you find you don't like seeing him playing with another woman?' More open and honest conversation needed and taking it slowly. |
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When we first got together I hid my profile but I let him see it etc. There is a reason i'm still on here. I'm spying on a mate's boyfriend I found on here.
My bf is happy for me to keep my profile as long as i'm not meeting. I normally only come on here when he's with me. |
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"If this was a man posting this there would be many people asking why the OP has a profile on here and does the OH know etc etc.....but it seems pretty tame up to now and even giving advice.
Funny how a gender makes a difference to what answers people get.
To the OP.....if you arrange, I hope you both enjoy "
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"When we first got together I hid my profile but I let him see it etc. There is a reason i'm still on here. I'm spying on a mate's boyfriend I found on here.
My bf is happy for me to keep my profile as long as i'm not meeting. I normally only come on here when he's with me."
You don't have to explain, no one asked you anyway |
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By *eaboMan
over a year ago
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"When we first got together I hid my profile but I let him see it etc. There is a reason i'm still on here. I'm spying on a mate's boyfriend I found on here.
My bf is happy for me to keep my profile as long as i'm not meeting. I normally only come on here when he's with me."
totally honest. Totally open. The guy knew what he was getting into from the start. Go for it and enjoy. Stay open, stay honest and be prepared to stop half way thru if it's not working for him. Don't see it's an issue. |
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