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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Right so today I was working at a older guys house I have known for a while he was my local barber when I was young he now sells cars and I am doing his central heating anyways. I worked late and his daughter came home which I didn’t know he had one, she was around 30 I would say. Introduced me and instantly I thought very very pretty. So working away and she’s flirting with me when the old man goes out, asking me if I want tea but very touchy feelie, when he came back she stopped. I have to go again do I openly ask her, see if she flirts again or just full on say no. Long para I know |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you like her, say something.
What’s the worst that happens, she says no
Or she could say yes and you have a good time
Good luck x"
It’s also the fact of knowing the old man as well, I felt like it was a role play scenario about to happen haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just ask her if she fancies going for a drink sometime
That sounds like good advice.
If both are interested then why not see where it goes.
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Hmmm I will see what the atmosphere is like next time, not sure if it’s a flirt with intention of drinks or sex or just moment of spontaneous |
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"Just ask her if she fancies going for a drink sometime
That sounds like good advice.
If both are interested then why not see where it goes.
Hmmm I will see what the atmosphere is like next time, not sure if it’s a flirt with intention of drinks or sex or just moment of spontaneous "
Flirting doesn’t always mean sex
But asking her could lead to some sort of potential. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you absolutely sure she was flirting as opposed to just making you a cup of tea and making chit chat?"
Yeah it was more the touching and closeness of it |
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"Just ask her if she fancies going for a drink sometime
That sounds like good advice.
If both are interested then why not see where it goes.
Hmmm I will see what the atmosphere is like next time, not sure if it’s a flirt with intention of drinks or sex or just moment of spontaneous
Flirting doesn’t always mean sex
But asking her could lead to some sort of potential. "
I know that’s why I gave a few suggestions |
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"Just ask her if she fancies going for a drink sometime
That sounds like good advice.
If both are interested then why not see where it goes.
Hmmm I will see what the atmosphere is like next time, not sure if it’s a flirt with intention of drinks or sex or just moment of spontaneous
Flirting doesn’t always mean sex
But asking her could lead to some sort of potential.
I know that’s why I gave a few suggestions "
Suggestion to have sex??
You’re a forward one aren’t you Paul |
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"Just ask her if she fancies going for a drink sometime
That sounds like good advice.
If both are interested then why not see where it goes.
Hmmm I will see what the atmosphere is like next time, not sure if it’s a flirt with intention of drinks or sex or just moment of spontaneous "
You've been watching too many pornos! |
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over a year ago
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"Right so today I was working at a older guys house I have known for a while he was my local barber when I was young he now sells cars and I am doing his central heating anyways. I worked late and his daughter came home which I didn’t know he had one, she was around 30 I would say. Introduced me and instantly I thought very very pretty. So working away and she’s flirting with me when the old man goes out, asking me if I want tea but very touchy feelie, when he came back she stopped. I have to go again do I openly ask her, see if she flirts again or just full on say no. Long para I know "
Personally I'd keep it totally professional an keep total detachment. Your there to do some work your being paid for i'm assuming ever way, not screw the daughter- it's not a 70s confessions film or Ben Dover porn. But that's just me the way I have always worked and that is the essence of professional integrity. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just ask her if she fancies going for a drink sometime
That sounds like good advice.
If both are interested then why not see where it goes.
Hmmm I will see what the atmosphere is like next time, not sure if it’s a flirt with intention of drinks or sex or just moment of spontaneous
Flirting doesn’t always mean sex
But asking her could lead to some sort of potential.
I know that’s why I gave a few suggestions
Suggestion to have sex??
You’re a forward one aren’t you Paul "
No always about sex with you I meant different outcomes |
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"Just ask her if she fancies going for a drink sometime
That sounds like good advice.
If both are interested then why not see where it goes.
Hmmm I will see what the atmosphere is like next time, not sure if it’s a flirt with intention of drinks or sex or just moment of spontaneous
Flirting doesn’t always mean sex
But asking her could lead to some sort of potential.
I know that’s why I gave a few suggestions
Suggestion to have sex??
You’re a forward one aren’t you Paul
No always about sex with you I meant different outcomes "
It’s never all about sex for me.
I do know where you mind goes though….
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just ask her if she fancies going for a drink sometime
That sounds like good advice.
If both are interested then why not see where it goes.
Hmmm I will see what the atmosphere is like next time, not sure if it’s a flirt with intention of drinks or sex or just moment of spontaneous
Flirting doesn’t always mean sex
But asking her could lead to some sort of potential.
I know that’s why I gave a few suggestions
Suggestion to have sex??
You’re a forward one aren’t you Paul
No always about sex with you I meant different outcomes
It’s never all about sex for me.
I do know where you mind goes though….
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Haha and it’s not where you want my mind to go |
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"Just ask her if she fancies going for a drink sometime
That sounds like good advice.
If both are interested then why not see where it goes.
Hmmm I will see what the atmosphere is like next time, not sure if it’s a flirt with intention of drinks or sex or just moment of spontaneous
Flirting doesn’t always mean sex
But asking her could lead to some sort of potential.
I know that’s why I gave a few suggestions
Suggestion to have sex??
You’re a forward one aren’t you Paul
No always about sex with you I meant different outcomes
It’s never all about sex for me.
I do know where you mind goes though….
Haha and it’s not where you want my mind to go "
Your mind can go wherever it wants to. As long as you’re happy |
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Personally I'd keep it totally professional an keep total detachment. Your there to do some work your being paid for i'm assuming ever way, not screw the daughter- it's not a 70s confessions film or Ben Dover porn. But that's just me the way I have always worked and that is the essence of professional integrity."
Spot on.
I'll also add that the OP is not working in "neutral territory".
I think the father might be quite put out as well. Finish the job, all professional like.
You may had misread the situation so make no assumptions.
You'll no doubt leave your business card when you finish the job, so if the daughter wishes to contact you, she knows how to. |
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