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Does fabbing a photo mean you want to fuck someone? Discuss...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I fabbed a fair few single guy photos this morning. I was bored and nosed through the "all new updates" and fabbed the ones I thought were attractive, fun or interesting, to show my appreciation.
90% of these guys have subsequently inboxed me expecting to set the date for a meet. Despite my profile being very clear I only meet at events, and some of these chaps were at the other end of the country!
Some have got quite nasty when don't share face photos back and tell them I don't want to meet.... I have had the word timewaster chucked at me a few times today!
To me, fabbing a photo is like a thumbs up, I liked your photo. Not that I am inviting you round mine for a shag. What do other people think? Single guys, do you follow up photo fabs with a message? Do you interpreted a fab as sexual interest?? I've been somewhat put off fabbing men's photos after today!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100% agree with your logic
I look at pictures and if I like them regardless of any intention to meet up or do anything a good picture or an exciting picture is still an exciting picture. It doesn’t mean that you want to drop your pants straight away with those people.
Sadly it happens too often and it probably mirrors some peoples experiences in clubs as well particularly sadly with a lot of single guys |
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"I fabbed a fair few single guy photos this morning. I was bored and nosed through the "all new updates" and fabbed the ones I thought were attractive, fun or interesting, to show my appreciation.
90% of these guys have subsequently inboxed me expecting to set the date for a meet. Despite my profile being very clear I only meet at events, and some of these chaps were at the other end of the country!
Some have got quite nasty when don't share face photos back and tell them I don't want to meet.... I have had the word timewaster chucked at me a few times today!
To me, fabbing a photo is like a thumbs up, I liked your photo. Not that I am inviting you round mine for a shag. What do other people think? Single guys, do you follow up photo fabs with a message? Do you interpreted a fab as sexual interest?? I've been somewhat put off fabbing men's photos after today!
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This exactly .
I now only fab pics of people I know , people I’d like to get to know  or when taking part in a Fabathon .
No more Fabbing for just the appreciation of a nice pic. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"To me, fabbing a photo is like a thumbs up, I liked your photo. Not that I am inviting you round mine for a shag.
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This.
I may reach out if someone fabs one of ours if I feel there may be mutual interests, but more often the most I will do is fab some of theirs back if they have any that I like.
I do not take someone fabbing our photos as an invitation to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This exactly .
I now only fab pics of people I know , people I’d like to get to know or when taking part in a Fabathon .
No more Fabbing for just the appreciation of a nice pic. "
Think I am going the same way!
Now off to remove all this mornings fabs and block the gobshites who are having tantrums that I have not leapt in my car to drive up to Newcastle / Preston / Wales etc to bang their brains out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is why men don't get many photos fabbed, because many will misinterpret it as interest.
I use your logic, I'm showing appreciation of a photo. But I've had the same experience as you, where guys then message me expecting a meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with you. It's just a like of their photo. But I guess guys don't get fabbed much so when they do they'll message as they view it as a potential interest at the very least. It's a catch 22 situation though. Guys don't get fabbed because guys will message thinking it's interest and its puts us women off fabbing. Shame really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always though it was a sign of appreciation of a photo. One you found hot, interesting or you just really like. Nothing more, nothing less.
For more interest, a wink was a polite way to say hi I like your profile, have a look at mine and see what you think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fabbing a photo is just that...nothing else...no inner motives etc...
I love a good tasteful photo & I will fab one when I see it regardless of gender. It's just nice to show appreciation by Fabbing 
It has happened to me before too OP... silly men misinterpreting the Fab  |
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"I fabbed a fair few single guy photos this morning. I was bored and nosed through the "all new updates" and fabbed the ones I thought were attractive, fun or interesting, to show my appreciation.
90% of these guys have subsequently inboxed me expecting to set the date for a meet. Despite my profile being very clear I only meet at events, and some of these chaps were at the other end of the country!
Some have got quite nasty when don't share face photos back and tell them I don't want to meet.... I have had the word timewaster chucked at me a few times today!
To me, fabbing a photo is like a thumbs up, I liked your photo. Not that I am inviting you round mine for a shag. What do other people think? Single guys, do you follow up photo fabs with a message? Do you interpreted a fab as sexual interest?? I've been somewhat put off fabbing men's photos after today!
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I’ve been on the receiving end of this from bi and gay guys who I have fabbed in the past and it put me off of fabbing pics of guys. I fab photos for the same reason as you. It’s a thumbs up to say I like the photo. I will fab because I find the person attractive or because the photo is fun and interesting, or both.
I am flattered when I receive a fab, and I will always check out the profile of the person who left it, but even if I would like to shag the person sending the fab I do not see them fabbing my picture as an invitation to message them demanding to set up a meet. I may occasionally send something to say thank you for the fab and to try and start a conversation, but it will just be a social message, never straight in with an insistence on meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's just a sign that someone likes the photo. I'll have a look to see who did it and fab some of their photos if I like them. That's the end of it unless they message or wink me. |
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I politely say I`m not meeting at the moment on my status banner, seems to go down well.
It comes with the territory to certain extent. I take it as a compliment if someone reciprocates a fab by me.
Don`t respond if someones being stupid about it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sadly, a fab from a lady doesn’t mean we get to fuck… if only it were that simple. "
Sadly it seems many of your fellow blokes don't quite understand that
One told me that I must think I'm some kind of supermodel for declining their demand to drive to mine right now after I had the gall to fab one of their photos |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reading your post OP, I conducted my own little experiment….. and it has proven you are absolutely correct. I change my message filters so I can be contacted by anyone….. this opening up the flood gates 
I posted a new picture, and made some other pictures public such as myself having straight sex.
The result, a few fabs and messages from men enquiring, requesting sex….. the odd demand in there too.
Conclusion, different ways of looking at it…. I may come across as gay ( having straight sex ) , or as I am regularly told this is a ‘swinging site’ for sexual encounters only! Well, it’s all open to interpretation…… I am obviously bi/gay …… because I have sex with woman!
Makes perfect sense!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Reading your post OP, I conducted my own little experiment….. and it has proven you are absolutely correct. I change my message filters so I can be contacted by anyone….. this opening up the flood gates
I posted a new picture, and made some other pictures public such as myself having straight sex.
The result, a few fabs and messages from men enquiring, requesting sex….. the odd demand in there too.
Conclusion, different ways of looking at it…. I may come across as gay ( having straight sex ) , or as I am regularly told this is a ‘swinging site’ for sexual encounters only! Well, it’s all open to interpretation…… I am obviously bi/gay …… because I have sex with woman!
Makes perfect sense!
Happy Monday "
How dare you not be hosting an all male gangbang today! Outrageous!! |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
I have had a few pics dabbed, and I take it for what it is, someone likes the pic, I know it doesn't mean they want to jump on my cock and fuck, and I don't take it as a foot in the door, if a woman was that interested in me she would probably message first (in my dreams anyway) |
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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago
London/ South West (Devon, Somerset). |
"Sadly, a fab from a lady doesn’t mean we get to fuck… if only it were that simple.
It can be . . . Fab gods, are you reading? "
Well hopefully! I’ve just fabbed a couple of your pics, so let’s see. I’m keeping the faith! |
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We FAB pics we love to look at. Definately doesn’t mean there’s anything more to it. I mean some we might want to be more friendly with but we’ll message them.
Now and again we look at who’s FABBED our pics and might notice someone we like the look of but we’d also assume that they’d message if they meant for it to be more than they like that pic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I politely say I`m not meeting at the moment on my status banner, seems to go down well.
It comes with the territory to certain extent. I take it as a compliment if someone reciprocates a fab by me.
Don`t respond if someones being stupid about it. "
^^^^^^^ I do exactly the seem thing "I'm not meeting at the min" it doesn't sound personal then |
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"Sadly, a fab from a lady doesn’t mean we get to fuck… if only it were that simple.
It can be . . . Fab gods, are you reading?
Well hopefully! I’ve just fabbed a couple of your pics, so let’s see. I’m keeping the faith!"
Lol so you have
Unfortunately it's the male half that posts in the forum and you didn't fab any of mine 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been accused of sending out "mixed messages" because I've fabbed a photo but not replied to a message. Naturally that makes me less likely to respond to a message. Most of the photos I fab (and the photos on fab) are headless. Unless your location is "sleepy hollow" then I dont wish to meet anyone if I've not seen a head shot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes I will follow a fab up with a thank you message. But that’s all.
I fab photos out of appreciation more than anything. If I’m attracted to someone I will let them know a different way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reading your post OP, I conducted my own little experiment….. and it has proven you are absolutely correct. I change my message filters so I can be contacted by anyone….. this opening up the flood gates
I posted a new picture, and made some other pictures public such as myself having straight sex.
The result, a few fabs and messages from men enquiring, requesting sex….. the odd demand in there too.
Conclusion, different ways of looking at it…. I may come across as gay ( having straight sex ) , or as I am regularly told this is a ‘swinging site’ for sexual encounters only! Well, it’s all open to interpretation…… I am obviously bi/gay …… because I have sex with woman!
Makes perfect sense!
Happy Monday
How dare you not be hosting an all male gangbang today! Outrageous!! "
I know , I’m such a cock tease!  |
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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago
London/ South West (Devon, Somerset). |
"Sadly, a fab from a lady doesn’t mean we get to fuck… if only it were that simple.
It can be . . . Fab gods, are you reading?
Well hopefully! I’ve just fabbed a couple of your pics, so let’s see. I’m keeping the faith!
Lol so you have
Unfortunately it's the male half that posts in the forum and you didn't fab any of mine
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See I’m fucked again….only in a different way! |
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"I fabbed a fair few single guy photos this morning. I was bored and nosed through the "all new updates" and fabbed the ones I thought were attractive, fun or interesting, to show my appreciation.
90% of these guys have subsequently inboxed me expecting to set the date for a meet. Despite my profile being very clear I only meet at events, and some of these chaps were at the other end of the country!
Some have got quite nasty when don't share face photos back and tell them I don't want to meet.... I have had the word timewaster chucked at me a few times today!
To me, fabbing a photo is like a thumbs up, I liked your photo. Not that I am inviting you round mine for a shag. What do other people think? Single guys, do you follow up photo fabs with a message? Do you interpreted a fab as sexual interest?? I've been somewhat put off fabbing men's photos after today!
This exactly .
I now only fab pics of people I know , people I’d like to get to know or when taking part in a Fabathon .
No more Fabbing for just the appreciation of a nice pic. "
Don't say that!
It's bad enough as a bloke on here. A fab or two is a real boost. |
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"Sadly, a fab from a lady doesn’t mean we get to fuck… if only it were that simple.
It can be . . . Fab gods, are you reading?
Well hopefully! I’ve just fabbed a couple of your pics, so let’s see. I’m keeping the faith!
Lol so you have
Unfortunately it's the male half that posts in the forum and you didn't fab any of mine
See I’m fucked again….only in a different way!"
I like your banter my friend, just showed the other half this thread and she likes it too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to fab photos to show my appreciation if a picture that’s well taken/composed, especially at the moment as I’m stuck home with nothing to do, but I’m hesitant to fab men for this exact reason. |
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By *egoMan
over a year ago
Preston |
I sometimes will message a lady that fabbed a pic with a thank you. As fabs have a positive affect on my MH.
Who knows where it’ll lead. But as ever predictable, guys ruin it for everyone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will usually send a thank you message, but more out of manners than anything else!
Who knows if it leads somewhere, but like the guy above me said, most guys ruin it for us all lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I fab for different things. Sometimes it’s an appreciation of the body in view, sometimes it’s the act happening. Other times I’ve fabbed for artistic merit of the picture and once or twice the sheer audacity of the way someone’s managed to position themselves fucking or got the shot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabbings just a like of their pic nothing more , at least that’s how I see it lol "
Same here, i fab pics i like, men women couples TV's. Its just appreciation. Doesnt mean I fancy them. |
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I fab a photo because I like it or can see the effort, creativity that has gone in to it.
Nothing to do with wanting to have sex with them, you can appreciate a good body without wanting to climb it. |
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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago
Wellingborough |
Damn... you mean its not an invite? I thought that was the only reason I didn't get many...
Or not...
Sad that it can be misconstrued I'll always check who's fabbed and often fab any pics I like in return and then those that I spot on the forums etc Yes, it'd be nice to think their was mutual interest and were it so if anything came from a mutual fabbing and even just chat, then so much the better but... more than happy to accept them for what they are and just an appreciation of a pic and not an invite or foot in the door.
Surely we're all more than just a pic anyway? |
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
Blackpool, Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield |
"To me, fabbing a photo is like a thumbs up, I liked your photo. "
Yes, this. It's just a way to say 'I like your image'.
I might fab it because it's something photographically special rather than just a quick phone shot. Or I might fab it because I like the look of the person in it. But it's nothing more than a quick compliment. |
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I do confess to messaging the odd lady that has fabbed my pisc with the hope of maybe carrying forward to chatting and flirting more. If they were happy to carry it on fine but I certainly wouldnt be pushy or expect any instant meets out of it. |
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"I fabbed a fair few single guy photos this morning. I was bored and nosed through the "all new updates" and fabbed the ones I thought were attractive, fun or interesting, to show my appreciation.
90% of these guys have subsequently inboxed me expecting to set the date for a meet. Despite my profile being very clear I only meet at events, and some of these chaps were at the other end of the country!
Some have got quite nasty when don't share face photos back and tell them I don't want to meet.... I have had the word timewaster chucked at me a few times today!
To me, fabbing a photo is like a thumbs up, I liked your photo. Not that I am inviting you round mine for a shag. What do other people think? Single guys, do you follow up photo fabs with a message? Do you interpreted a fab as sexual interest?? I've been somewhat put off fabbing men's photos after today!"
It is a pity that fabbing a photo seems to be taken as an open invitation to shag here sometimes almost with a sense of entitlement!
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If/when I receive a FAB on a pic I see it as just liking my pic
I defiantly don’t see it as a women wanting me (far from it)
It does really help my self confidence and MH though.
I’ve had men fab and then message me telling me how they’d do stuff!! (I don’t fab or even look at men’s pics as I’m straight) then they get nasty/abusive sometimes when I point out I’m not into blokes!!
So I feel for you ladies I do
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By *stoppMan
over a year ago
Durham |
I see a fab from female or male as definitely not an invite to message or wink at them, it’s an appreciation of the photo, be that the content, the style or the quality of said image..
it’s a sort of speak if your spoken to in my book regarding photos.. |
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Nope, it just means I appreciate the picture. I might not even be in to the thing in the picture, I just appreciate other people doing the things that they enjoy.
Sadly I have had the same experience - men seem to take it as some sort of expectation of me delivering a service. so I mostly now only fab women's pictures or not bother at all. |
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While I have certainly Fabbed pics of people I would love to sleep with its not the only reason I do so. Sometimes the person just looks hot, sometimes it makes me laugh or something else entirely.
I just use it as a little acknowledgement of said pic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I fabbed a fair few single guy photos this morning. I was bored and nosed through the "all new updates" and fabbed the ones I thought were attractive, fun or interesting, to show my appreciation.
90% of these guys have subsequently inboxed me expecting to set the date for a meet. Despite my profile being very clear I only meet at events, and some of these chaps were at the other end of the country!
Some have got quite nasty when don't share face photos back and tell them I don't want to meet.... I have had the word timewaster chucked at me a few times today!
To me, fabbing a photo is like a thumbs up, I liked your photo. Not that I am inviting you round mine for a shag. What do other people think? Single guys, do you follow up photo fabs with a message? Do you interpreted a fab as sexual interest?? I've been somewhat put off fabbing men's photos after today!
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It does not mean you want to fuck, people have no right to think that just because your on a swingers site. By the I have fabbed your pics there very nice and sexy |
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I must admit, I’m occasionally guilty of the ‘thanks for the fab’ messages. It tends to be to those whom profile I have been keeping an eye on though, in an attempt to open dialogue.
But more often than not I just take the ego boost and run with it. It’s always nice to have your photos fabbed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had similar, fabbed gorgeous pictures to be hurled abuse at because I’m not interested in them following their amazing message of “hi” accompanied by a cock pic.
It might do it for some women, but not for me! |
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By *KloganMan
over a year ago
Ramsbottom |
A “fab” is a nice compliment to get, to me, it means someone has taken the time to look at your photo and like it… which helps the self esteem and confidence and you produce better photos on the back of it..win win..
Shame it’s taken out of context and used to instigate something entirely different. Maybe it’s worth looking at a profile before a fab? If people seem more genuine then it might help? |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
No - fabbing a picture (and I do not only fab men's pictures) means just that I like the picture because it depicts a beautiful, interesting person or it demonstrates visual literacy or it is just a good photo to look at and enjoy.
It does not mean anything else in my books - and by and large I have not had any issues as a result of my fabbing. |
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By *i4twoMan
over a year ago
Taunton |
I fab photos I like. It could be the person, their smile, their body or just because it's a dirty pic lol. Either way I fab it as a compliment.
If someone fabs a pic of mine (not that I have many), I assume they've read my profile and would've messaged me if they were interested, so I take the fab as a compliment and carry on with my day
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By *KloganMan
over a year ago
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"I fab photos I like. It could be the person, their smile, their body or just because it's a dirty pic lol. Either way I fab it as a compliment.
If someone fabs a pic of mine (not that I have many), I assume they've read my profile and would've messaged me if they were interested, so I take the fab as a compliment and carry on with my day
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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago
Reading |
I only fab photo’s that are on my friends, hotlist. If searching etc. Then once read profile and yes in age range etc. I will fab some photo’s of that profile. Then send a wink. Sometimes send message. My profile is open to all. Viewers are over 90% male . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I Fab pics if I like them and that being the case, I’d probably be happy to engage in something physical unless we really didn’t get on or didn’t share common sexual interests (I don’t just Fab peeps with the same tastes as me).
But I don’t normally follow up a Fab with a message. |
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This exactly .
I now only fab pics of people I know , people I’d like to get to know or when taking part in a Fabathon .
No more Fabbing for just the appreciation of a nice pic.
Think I am going the same way!
Now off to remove all this mornings fabs and block the gobshites who are having tantrums that I have not leapt in my car to drive up to Newcastle / Preston / Wales etc to bang their brains out "
What’s wrong with Preston? We could have had lunch. There’d be no shagging though I only like tinky winkies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's purely a .
Why so many guys see it as something different to what happens on any other social media/networking type site boggles the mind.
It's the same reason so many women view profiles in stealth. Even on couples profiles I've been part of if we happened to fab a pic or came up on their looked@me list we'd get a message almost instantly if they were online, or first thing the next time they were.
Unfortunately, with a lot of guys on here there is little difference between fabbing their pic and dropping a chip within eyesight of a seagull! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single guy I don't get an awful lot of fabs. I have always assumed that those that fab do so for the same reason I do, which seems to align with yours. A fab = I like your face/body or I like your underwear or I think the pose is interesting and not "I want to fuck you now, so make it happen".
Once again as a single male I feel I need to apologise to everyone else for the actions of some bellends.
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I was scrolling through the updates couple days ago and unintentionally looked at a guys profile. Within 2 mins had a message say when we fucking ? I apologised and said sorry to far away , he sent a very nasty reply saying timewasting slag ?? Baffles me it really does it why they automatically thinks it's the green light to a meet |
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"I was scrolling through the updates couple days ago and unintentionally looked at a guys profile. Within 2 mins had a message say when we fucking ? I apologised and said sorry to far away , he sent a very nasty reply saying timewasting slag ?? "
Tbh he just sounds like an arsehole. |
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
Blackpool, Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield |
"I was scrolling through the updates couple days ago and unintentionally looked at a guys profile. Within 2 mins had a message say when we fucking ? I apologised and said sorry to far away , he sent a very nasty reply saying timewasting slag ?? Baffles me it really does it why they automatically thinks it's the green light to a meet "
Baffles me even more why guys would answer like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't say I do just fab photos because of how beautiful they are.
Sometimes my quim takes over and I'll fab photos so they'll see my name pop up and inevitably end up balls deep in me."
Still waiting…..is there any update on that? |
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I fab friends pictures because friends
When I'm reading the forums, I sometimes look at the profiles and photos of people that make interesting points or just strike me as nice people. I then fab pictures if they are well composed, or good looking folk, or nicely presented, or seem to be enjoying life. I don't particularly enjoy the more graphic pictures and seldom fab those. Pictures of ladies I often fab if I think their dresses or lingerie are fabulous and wish that they belonged to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fabbing a photo is simply a convenient way of showing appreciation, it's not (for me) any expectation to meet or even requiring a response.
Strange how some folk think a wink or response means anything else.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I fabbed a fair few single guy photos this morning. I was bored and nosed through the "all new updates" and fabbed the ones I thought were attractive, fun or interesting, to show my appreciation.
90% of these guys have subsequently inboxed me expecting to set the date for a meet. Despite my profile being very clear I only meet at events, and some of these chaps were at the other end of the country!
Some have got quite nasty when don't share face photos back and tell them I don't want to meet.... I have had the word timewaster chucked at me a few times today!
To me, fabbing a photo is like a thumbs up, I liked your photo. Not that I am inviting you round mine for a shag. What do other people think? Single guys, do you follow up photo fabs with a message? Do you interpreted a fab as sexual interest?? I've been somewhat put off fabbing men's photos after today!
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Only from forum threads, I got the impression some thought they were entitled to smut chat.
Maybe I had more filters on than you at the time, so eliminated those contacting me after fabbing.
Not a great experience for you though, totally understand. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
I fab pictures that I like that stand out in a special way which also gives the other person acknowledgement they are doing something right which also helps them doing more along those lines and even complement them via a message to say so if it leads further then we're both to blame but I respect people's wishes. |
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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago
North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester |
100% agree with you op...I fab and wink at profiles and photos I like...doesn't mean I want to meet them particularly...it's just a appreciation of a good profile or photo... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I Fab a photo becuas I like it or because it has an artistic element to or I find something in attractive (yeah even a cock!). However, it does not mean its an immediate and open invite to meet up for a shag. Ha hah then I'd soon then be blocking them! |
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