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over a year ago
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A couple came over to mine last night (not off fab)
The smell of BO was over powering I made my excuses they left
I even changed my clothes after
Am I being picky
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Some people have more sensitive sense of smell than others. If the BO was so bad, nobody can blame you for not going ahead with the meet.
Perhaps stipulate freshly showered in future?. sometimes people go to meets after work or after a ride on public transport, which can lead to all sorts of odours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A couple came over to mine last night (not off fab)
The smell of BO was over powering I made my excuses they left
I even changed my clothes after
Am I being picky
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Why did you change your clothes?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A couple came over to mine last night (not off fab)
The smell of BO was over powering I made my excuses they left
I even changed my clothes after
Am I being picky
Why did you change your clothes?
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Because the thought of it being on my clothes was to much
I just had to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How did you meet them
Other people use the site I meet them off so I won't say"
That doesn't make any sense, you've not identified the people so why would it matter. |
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Are you sure they're not off fab? I think you're allowed to say - it's not shaming to say you didn't like the smell of a person. Some people smell awful, sometimes the don't know, sometimes they don't care  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Rather judgemental no, OP ?
He hasn't judged them. He said the smell they gave off was too much for him, and he got them to leave.
OP, did you tell them why?"
And who knows the truth? Very easy to start threads aimed at shaming unnamed individuals. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Rather judgemental no, OP ?
He hasn't judged them. He said the smell they gave off was too much for him, and he got them to leave.
OP, did you tell them why?"
No that would have been offensive |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Rather judgemental no, OP ?
He hasn't judged them. He said the smell they gave off was too much for him, and he got them to leave.
OP, did you tell them why?
And who knows the truth? Very easy to start threads aimed at shaming unnamed individuals. "
You can only shame someone if you name them that was not my intention
As to judging I have not judged them I'm just stating fact
Some people like it some dont
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you think you're being picky?
I don't think so
So why do you care what we think about the situation? "
It nice to get others views on your thoughts
So just maybe you might walk away with a different view |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Rather judgemental no, OP ?
Not seen any judgement at all... Just they had bo and he didn't go any further with plans. What's he supposed to do? "
Thank you
I do not like being judged so I will not judge others
If you can't take judgement
Dont give judgement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Rather judgemental no, OP ?
Not seen any judgement at all... Just they had bo and he didn't go any further with plans. What's he supposed to do?
Thank you
I do not like being judged so I will not judge others
If you can't take judgement
Dont give judgement"
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