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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been with my mr 11 years told him when we met I would never cheat with a man but couldn’t promise I wouldn’t with a woman! I get best of both worlds ?? |
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"Been with my mr 11 years told him when we met I would never cheat with a man but couldn’t promise I wouldn’t with a woman! I get best of both worlds ??"
Hmm, I’m not sure that you have the best of both worlds if you have to cheat to get it.
Perhaps another discussion with your husband is in order, you could then check he’s still ok with you seeing other ladies and then set out some boundaries you’re both comfortable with. |
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"Been with my mr 11 years told him when we met I would never cheat with a man but couldn’t promise I wouldn’t with a woman! I get best of both worlds ??"
That's quite a statement OP and I'm not sure of the discussion point but I will say that I am bisexual and I get to live my sexual life without the need to cheat.
I couldn't even start a relationship with someone if they even mentioned that there's a probability of cheating on me.
I much prefer to honesty, clear and open communication and trust. For me having "the best of both worlds" means enjoying a loving and swinging sex life with my partner even when I play solo as a hotwife that scenario is still very much about him and I.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is cheating honest ?
It's not cheating if your other half knows your bi from the start
No one can change who you are
I meant it's cheating if she meets other women behind his back"
If it's behind his back it's cheating. If she tells him beforehand she's doing it, it's cheating. If she ASKS him and he is completely free to veto it then it's not. |
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