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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So If you was chatting with someone on here and they say that can't accommodate due to living with parents at what age would you think nah that's a little weird? Or are people less judgmental than I think ?? |
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"So If you was chatting with someone on here and they say that can't accommodate due to living with parents at what age would you think nah that's a little weird? Or are people less judgmental than I think ??"
I have friends who live with there parents that are in there 30s |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I live at home, why would I move out ? House prices and rentals are so expensive in Devon.
I'd much rather still live at home and save as much money as I can before there becomes an essential need for me to move out.. |
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over a year ago
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Just to make it clear, I'm not judging, I am the one being judged, they didn't have a problem with me not being able to accommodate until they asked why |
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"Just to make it clear, I'm not judging, I am the one being judged, they didn't have a problem with me not being able to accommodate until they asked why "
I get that the other way around. I can't host because my son's 25,30 are still here at present. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like anyone who’s 24 and still lives at home I’m like… what do you even mean?
Ive lived away from my parents since I was 19 xx (and I love them to bits but man, I like my freedom) xx |
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"So If you was chatting with someone on here and they say that can't accommodate due to living with parents at what age would you think nah that's a little weird? Or are people less judgmental than I think ??"
Well I'm a "bit" older than you and one of my parents lives with us. That's the reason I can't. I wouldn't judge based on that everyone's circumstances are different |
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"When I met my partner he said he couldn't accommodate as he house shared with a couple. Which strictly speaking was true. It was a few months before I realised it was his parents !"
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"Just to make it clear, I'm not judging, I am the one being judged, they didn't have a problem with me not being able to accommodate until they asked why "
Bugger them, your circumstances are not their business...
I encouraged my boys to live at home for as long as possible and both know that this is a place they can always come back too regardless of age.
My youngest moved back from Edinburgh to work from home when his offices closed. He has been here for over a year and not due back until January...
Let people judge all they like, their opinions don't matter |
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"So If you was chatting with someone on here and they say that can't accommodate due to living with parents at what age would you think nah that's a little weird? Or are people less judgmental than I think ??
Well I'm a "bit" older than you and one of my parents lives with us. That's the reason I can't. I wouldn't judge based on that everyone's circumstances are different "
Just had parents move in as there getting older. So sometimes can be that parents move on with you. |
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Don’t sweat it.
Just don’t tell them you live with your parents. They don’t need to know, it’s of no negative consequence to literally anyone and your reasons for doing so are your own/nobody else’s business.
I lived at home with my folks 27-31 as I came back from abroad as my Dad was unwell. I got sick of explaining to judgemental/nosey people so just starting saying it was a house share. |
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