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Anyone ever met someone and they just smell horrible the type that don't realise it.
The type that live alone, but really they live with the ghost of shitmas past presence in every room.
Just had to get to the shops for a few drinks and it was so strong.
I'm not a mean person but that has to be the worst thing ever. |
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‘The ghost of shitmas past’ haha!
I went to the zoo on Thursday with my teenage son and we had the same conversation about somebody in the Komodo dragon house! Costs virtually nothing to be clean! |
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over a year ago
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Had a girl like this at school and at an office I used to work at. Office one was pulled up on it several times and never changed. The boss couldn't sack her for it either (idk if there was perhaps a medical reason for it...my inclination was probably not). I think it's only respectful to others to keep your hygiene in check. |
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"‘The ghost of shitmas past’ haha!
I went to the zoo on Thursday with my teenage son and we had the same conversation about somebody in the Komodo dragon house! Costs virtually nothing to be clean! "
Agreed imagine doing a meet off here.
Thing is there are some brutal people in this world who must say something.
Mean as it is... just think its the worst thing possible |
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"Anyone ever met someone and they just smell horrible the type that don't realise it.
The type that live alone, but really they live with the ghost of shitmas past presence in every room.
Just had to get to the shops for a few drinks and it was so strong.
I'm not a mean person but that has to be the worst thing ever. "
The ghost of Shitmas past hahahaha
I worked with a guy who smelled that bad it burned the inside of your nose. You could smell him even when he wasn't there. Felt sorry for him
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"Had a girl like this at school and at an office I used to work at. Office one was pulled up on it several times and never changed. The boss couldn't sack her for it either (idk if there was perhaps a medical reason for it...my inclination was probably not). I think it's only respectful to others to keep your hygiene in check."
Hot and steamy office jeeez.
Feel sorry for the girl at school
Its clearly the parent's |
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Yes, at the vaccine clinic. I have been a little surprised at the dishevelment and body odour of some people attending, I'll be honest. I've also had to speak to a member of staff about a similar issue in the past. |
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"Had a girl like this at school and at an office I used to work at. Office one was pulled up on it several times and never changed. The boss couldn't sack her for it either (idk if there was perhaps a medical reason for it...my inclination was probably not). I think it's only respectful to others to keep your hygiene in check."
Shouldn't bring up that! That's personal, should be more thinking other reason. |
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"I'm really really hoping you aren't referring to the person you had a meet with tonight "
The OP seems to suggest it was a person in a shop when they went to buy drinks. Doesn't suggest an identifiable person. |
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It's funny how people go straight to 'they just don't wash'. You don't know what their living conditions are like, what's going on in their lives or if anyone has ever taken care of them. I know its unpleasant for others to smell it but we don't see the bigger picture sometimes. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Anyone ever met someone and they just smell horrible the type that don't realise it.
The type that live alone, but really they live with the ghost of shitmas past presence in every room.
Just had to get to the shops for a few drinks and it was so strong.
I'm not a mean person but that has to be the worst thing ever. "
Some one
Might think the same about
Your undercrackers
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"I'm really really hoping you aren't referring to the person you had a meet with tonight
The OP seems to suggest it was a person in a shop when they went to buy drinks. Doesn't suggest an identifiable person."
Yeah, I saw the bloke comment after I posted
Ya just never know half the time with veiled stuff. Christ the cynic in me is strong.
Apologies OP, but I can't lie, I'd chuckle if your date was a whiffer after this |
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Some people don't wash and they don't change their clothes. Sometimes it's mental health problems other times they just aren't aware.
I worked with a woman whose b.o. was so bad I had to breathe through my mouth if I stood next to her. She was oblivious. We asked our boss to have a quiet word |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"It's funny how people go straight to 'they just don't wash'. You don't know what their living conditions are like, what's going on in their lives or if anyone has ever taken care of them. I know its unpleasant for others to smell it but we don't see the bigger picture sometimes."
Depression
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"It's funny how people go straight to 'they just don't wash'. You don't know what their living conditions are like, what's going on in their lives or if anyone has ever taken care of them. I know its unpleasant for others to smell it but we don't see the bigger picture sometimes.
Depression
Illness
Health
Money
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Can't be arsed getting washed |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"It's funny how people go straight to 'they just don't wash'. You don't know what their living conditions are like, what's going on in their lives or if anyone has ever taken care of them. I know its unpleasant for others to smell it but we don't see the bigger picture sometimes.
Depression
Illness
Health
Money
Can't be arsed getting washed"
Agree but some cant helo it |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"It's funny how people go straight to 'they just don't wash'. You don't know what their living conditions are like, what's going on in their lives or if anyone has ever taken care of them. I know its unpleasant for others to smell it but we don't see the bigger picture sometimes.
Depression
Illness
Health
Money
Can't be arsed getting washed
Agree but some cant helo it "
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"It's funny how people go straight to 'they just don't wash'. You don't know what their living conditions are like, what's going on in their lives or if anyone has ever taken care of them. I know its unpleasant for others to smell it but we don't see the bigger picture sometimes."
We had a lad in School who whiffed a bit. Not BO but had a certain smell about him and always looked a bit scruffy. Nobody said anything to him, because I think we all sort of sensed there was more to it.
And there was  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"It's funny how people go straight to 'they just don't wash'. You don't know what their living conditions are like, what's going on in their lives or if anyone has ever taken care of them. I know its unpleasant for others to smell it but we don't see the bigger picture sometimes.
We had a lad in School who whiffed a bit. Not BO but had a certain smell about him and always looked a bit scruffy. Nobody said anything to him, because I think we all sort of sensed there was more to it.
And there was "
Like??? |
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"I'm really really hoping you aren't referring to the person you had a meet with tonight
The OP seems to suggest it was a person in a shop when they went to buy drinks. Doesn't suggest an identifiable person.
Still got some lynx
Yeah, I saw the bloke comment after I posted
Ya just never know half the time with veiled stuff. Christ the cynic in me is strong.
Apologies OP, but I can't lie, I'd chuckle if your date was a whiffer after this"
Still got some lynx africa from Xmas.
About 4 cans.
Guys I know it can be deeper, truth is it happens on life like lots of things.
You could be the biggest arsehole on the planet and the reason for it is abuse, bad upbringing.
If someone is an arsehole to you people vent.
Could easily be a person with or without mental health
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"It's funny how people go straight to 'they just don't wash'. You don't know what their living conditions are like, what's going on in their lives or if anyone has ever taken care of them. I know its unpleasant for others to smell it but we don't see the bigger picture sometimes.
We had a lad in School who whiffed a bit. Not BO but had a certain smell about him and always looked a bit scruffy. Nobody said anything to him, because I think we all sort of sensed there was more to it.
And there was
Like???"
His mother neglected him and beat him. His home life was hell.
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"It's funny how people go straight to 'they just don't wash'. You don't know what their living conditions are like, what's going on in their lives or if anyone has ever taken care of them. I know its unpleasant for others to smell it but we don't see the bigger picture sometimes.
We had a lad in School who whiffed a bit. Not BO but had a certain smell about him and always looked a bit scruffy. Nobody said anything to him, because I think we all sort of sensed there was more to it.
And there was
Like???
His mother neglected him and beat him. His home life was hell.
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Exactly, if no one takes care of you as a child, it's hard to know how to take care of yourself as an adult. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"It's funny how people go straight to 'they just don't wash'. You don't know what their living conditions are like, what's going on in their lives or if anyone has ever taken care of them. I know its unpleasant for others to smell it but we don't see the bigger picture sometimes.
We had a lad in School who whiffed a bit. Not BO but had a certain smell about him and always looked a bit scruffy. Nobody said anything to him, because I think we all sort of sensed there was more to it.
And there was
Like???
His mother neglected him and beat him. His home life was hell.
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"It's funny how people go straight to 'they just don't wash'. You don't know what their living conditions are like, what's going on in their lives or if anyone has ever taken care of them. I know its unpleasant for others to smell it but we don't see the bigger picture sometimes.
We had a lad in School who whiffed a bit. Not BO but had a certain smell about him and always looked a bit scruffy. Nobody said anything to him, because I think we all sort of sensed there was more to it.
And there was
Like???
His mother neglected him and beat him. His home life was hell.
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One of the safeguarding criteria you look for in students is lack of personal hygiene. |
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had a ladie at work who had fell on hard time the staff reported her i had her in the office where she broke down as she was the only wage to the house hubs ill kids teens so i had to tell her the complaints but as she went back to work i nipped out and brought her a parcel of shower gels bubble bath deoaderents for the family and now i keep a box of stuff in my office for if this happens again sometimes its just a little nudge thats needed as she was blinded buy see everyone else was ok and not herself ..
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I used to work with an horrendous whiffer- big fat woman who looked like she applied makeup with a trowel and always stunk of BO, covered up with gallons of cheap perfume, which smelt as bad as the BO.
You knew when she was on shift before you saw her as it hung in the air like a fog.
She was a grade A nosey, interfering busybody too, so generally as popular as a turd in a swimming pool with the rest of the tight knit team |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I used to work with an horrendous whiffer- big fat woman who looked like she applied makeup with a trowel and always stunk of BO, covered up with gallons of cheap perfume, which smelt as bad as the BO.
You knew when she was on shift before you saw her as it hung in the air like a fog.
She was a grade A nosey, interfering busybody too, so generally as popular as a turd in a swimming pool with the rest of the tight knit team"
Wow great guy |
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"Anyone ever met someone and they just smell horrible the type that don't realise it.
The type that live alone, but really they live with the ghost of shitmas past presence in every room.
Just had to get to the shops for a few drinks and it was so strong.
I'm not a mean person but that has to be the worst thing ever. "
U do have some great lines u!
But yeah I get what u mean and some people really stink, people need to wash themselves more even when on the tube, I dread it sometimes…  |
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"Anyone ever met someone and they just smell horrible the type that don't realise it.
The type that live alone, but really they live with the ghost of shitmas past presence in every room.
Just had to get to the shops for a few drinks and it was so strong.
I'm not a mean person but that has to be the worst thing ever. "
Playing Devil's avocado..Just cos no one has told you you smell OP, doesn't mean that you don't too...
Just saying.
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"Everyone has a smell though don't they. Everyone's house smells different (well they did before those awful chemical plug in things) and each person smells slightly different.
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Yes like when you come back from a hotel and all the stuff in your suitcase smells like the hotel but you didn't notice it while you were there. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Everyone has a smell though don't they. Everyone's house smells different (well they did before those awful chemical plug in things) and each person smells slightly different.
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Exactly
My ex smelt gorgeous even his sweat but other guys sweat
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"Everyone has a smell though don't they. Everyone's house smells different (well they did before those awful chemical plug in things) and each person smells slightly different.
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Yes and I have a really strong sense of smell (makes up for being blind as a bat and nearly deaf in one year). But some people smell horrible and it's not that they are smelly just they don't smell good to me. And I hate the smell of chemicals which everyone is obsessed with at the moment. |
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"Everyone has a smell though don't they. Everyone's house smells different (well they did before those awful chemical plug in things) and each person smells slightly different.
Yes like when you come back from a hotel and all the stuff in your suitcase smells like the hotel but you didn't notice it while you were there."
Yes! |
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"Anyone ever met someone and they just smell horrible the type that don't realise it.
The type that live alone, but really they live with the ghost of shitmas past presence in every room.
But I wash my clothes, shower everyday with soap.
My flat is clean.
I have 2 young daughters who would say it stinks in here dad.
Also have a huge aftershave collection.
Could still smell I suppose.
Its not the first time I've met people who are the same.
Noone would sleep with someone who smelt like that would they?
I'm not offended by what anyone says to me, I get a lot of crap for my hair and looking like a "?hippie"
I'm just comfortable in myself couldn't give a tosss what anyone thinks. He might be the same, fact is he smelt horrendous
Just had to get to the shops for a few drinks and it was so strong.
I'm not a mean person but that has to be the worst thing ever.
Playing Devil's avocado..Just cos no one has told you you smell OP, doesn't mean that you don't too...
Just saying.
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"Everyone has a smell though don't they. Everyone's house smells different (well they did before those awful chemical plug in things) and each person smells slightly different.
Exactly
My ex smelt gorgeous even his sweat but other guys sweat
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I like Mr Ns smell.
My friends husband worked in a mill and she loved the smell of flour because that's what he smelled of when he came home |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Everyone has a smell though don't they. Everyone's house smells different (well they did before those awful chemical plug in things) and each person smells slightly different.
Exactly
My ex smelt gorgeous even his sweat but other guys sweat
I like Mr Ns smell.
My friends husband worked in a mill and she loved the smell of flour because that's what he smelled of when he came home "
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"Everyone has a smell though don't they. Everyone's house smells different (well they did before those awful chemical plug in things) and each person smells slightly different.
Yes and I have a really strong sense of smell (makes up for being blind as a bat and nearly deaf in one year). But some people smell horrible and it's not that they are smelly just they don't smell good to me. And I hate the smell of chemicals which everyone is obsessed with at the moment."
Yeah I worked with a woman who had a slightly tinny, milky smell. I really didn't like it but it wasn't b.o. |
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"Everyone has a smell though don't they. Everyone's house smells different (well they did before those awful chemical plug in things) and each person smells slightly different.
Yes and I have a really strong sense of smell (makes up for being blind as a bat and nearly deaf in one year). But some people smell horrible and it's not that they are smelly just they don't smell good to me. And I hate the smell of chemicals which everyone is obsessed with at the moment.
Yeah I worked with a woman who had a slightly tinny, milky smell. I really didn't like it but it wasn't b.o."
Lots of people smell metallic which I really don't like. Some have a really earthy smell which I find over bearing. |
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"Everyone has a smell though don't they. Everyone's house smells different (well they did before those awful chemical plug in things) and each person smells slightly different.
Yes and I have a really strong sense of smell (makes up for being blind as a bat and nearly deaf in one year). But some people smell horrible and it's not that they are smelly just they don't smell good to me. And I hate the smell of chemicals which everyone is obsessed with at the moment.
Yeah I worked with a woman who had a slightly tinny, milky smell. I really didn't like it but it wasn't b.o.
Lots of people smell metallic which I really don't like. Some have a really earthy smell which I find over bearing. "
Could it be a mineral they have an excess of I wonder.
My aunt and her house had a smell that I can only describe by colour and texture. I've never smelled it anywhere else. |
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"Everyone has a smell though don't they. Everyone's house smells different (well they did before those awful chemical plug in things) and each person smells slightly different.
Yes and I have a really strong sense of smell (makes up for being blind as a bat and nearly deaf in one year). But some people smell horrible and it's not that they are smelly just they don't smell good to me. And I hate the smell of chemicals which everyone is obsessed with at the moment."
I have a strong sense of smell too and agreed on the perfumery. Mr KC smells divine though  |
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"I still have no sense of smell because of covid 
Are you ok x"
No smell, taste very slowly returning although some things just taste weird. Wake up every morning with what feels like a bad hangover and tired all day. Apart from that I’m fine  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I still have no sense of smell because of covid
Are you ok x
No smell, taste very slowly returning although some things just taste weird. Wake up every morning with what feels like a bad hangover and tired all day. Apart from that I’m fine "
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Doe me, smell can be a real turn on or off putting depending on the smell. More people should use blue lenor! 
Why
Coz it makes them smell like a blue summer meadow, instead of like shit  "
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"Doe me, smell can be a real turn on or off putting depending on the smell. More people should use blue lenor!
Why
Coz it makes them smell like a blue summer meadow, instead of like shit
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Do you use lenor Yasmeen, or is that just your natural scent?  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Doe me, smell can be a real turn on or off putting depending on the smell. More people should use blue lenor!
Why
Coz it makes them smell like a blue summer meadow, instead of like shit
Do you use lenor Yasmeen, or is that just your natural scent? "
Comfort |
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"Doe me, smell can be a real turn on or off putting depending on the smell. More people should use blue lenor!
Why
Coz it makes them smell like a blue summer meadow, instead of like shit
Do you use lenor Yasmeen, or is that just your natural scent?
Comfort "
Comfort! The perfect fit! |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Doe me, smell can be a real turn on or off putting depending on the smell. More people should use blue lenor!
Why
Coz it makes them smell like a blue summer meadow, instead of like shit
Do you use lenor Yasmeen, or is that just your natural scent?
Comfort
Comfort! The perfect fit! "
Definitely xxx |
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"Doe me, smell can be a real turn on or off putting depending on the smell. More people should use blue lenor!
Why
Coz it makes them smell like a blue summer meadow, instead of like shit
Do you use lenor Yasmeen, or is that just your natural scent?
Comfort
Comfort! The perfect fit!
Definitely xxx"
Which colour? |
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"It's funny how people go straight to 'they just don't wash'. You don't know what their living conditions are like, what's going on in their lives or if anyone has ever taken care of them. I know its unpleasant for others to smell it but we don't see the bigger picture sometimes."
I was thinking the same  |
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"Sorry if this is a stupid question, but does anyone have any advice on how to get rid of a bad smell that seems to be clinging to my nostrils? "
Smell coffee beans. They put them out in candle shops for this reason. The strong smell resets your nose. |
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I can't say I ever met someone who smelled bad if I am honest except.one guy in Liverpool and it was his breath, and he had been drinking all day so maybe got sick, or something but it's the only time I thought someone smelled bad.
Not washing shouldn't cause such a smell. People like hippies etc usually smell just fine and dandy. They don't smell like a fragrances soap but also don't smell bad. Some clothes you're not supposed to wash either. Levi say you're not supposed to wash jeans ever.
I think only really boxer shorts could make such a smell, or some medical condition.
But maybe some people are just more sensitive to some smells. I dunno |
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"Sorry if this is a stupid question, but does anyone have any advice on how to get rid of a bad smell that seems to be clinging to my nostrils?
Smell coffee beans. They put them out in candle shops for this reason. The strong smell resets your nose."
Thank you. I have some. Should I leave them whole or grind them! I currently have dishes of various things around the flat...vinegar, fresh lemon juice. Tried vicks in my nostrils. Not working Very sadly it's the worst smell a person can ever experience |
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"Sorry if this is a stupid question, but does anyone have any advice on how to get rid of a bad smell that seems to be clinging to my nostrils?
Smell coffee beans. They put them out in candle shops for this reason. The strong smell resets your nose.
Thank you. I have some. Should I leave them whole or grind them! I currently have dishes of various things around the flat...vinegar, fresh lemon juice. Tried vicks in my nostrils. Not working Very sadly it's the worst smell a person can ever experience "
Whenever I have tried it, it's been coffee beans, but whichever smells stronger to you should work. If it doesn't work then it's probably gonna drive you insane. |
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"Sorry if this is a stupid question, but does anyone have any advice on how to get rid of a bad smell that seems to be clinging to my nostrils?
Smell coffee beans. They put them out in candle shops for this reason. The strong smell resets your nose.
Thank you. I have some. Should I leave them whole or grind them! I currently have dishes of various things around the flat...vinegar, fresh lemon juice. Tried vicks in my nostrils. Not working Very sadly it's the worst smell a person can ever experience
Whenever I have tried it, it's been coffee beans, but whichever smells stronger to you should work. If it doesn't work then it's probably gonna drive you insane."
I've ground some and left some whole. Fingers crossed it works. |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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One of my oldest friends from school has a medical condition that makes him smell.
He’s a super-fit mountaineer, cyclist etc, with not an ounce of fat on him. He’s always fastidious about changing his clothes and showering. It makes no difference - he steps out the showee and he still has that unusual smell.
Also, lots of medicstions can cause profuse sweating.
Please try to remember there are people who have this, and similar situations. |
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"Anyone ever met someone and they just smell horrible the type that don't realise it.
The type that live alone, but really they live with the ghost of shitmas past presence in every room.
Just had to get to the shops for a few drinks and it was so strong.
I'm not a mean person but that has to be the worst thing ever. "
Just get your pressure washer out. |
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