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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Curious to see where people stand. Obviously looks pay a part but would you sleep with some one just for being smoking hot."
Connection every single time. Being sexy is what is inside not what you can see with your eyes |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
Connection is great, that can be attractive in it's own right.
Cracking looks would get me too, but if somebody isn't a nice person, then it's probably only ever going to be a one off.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the hot peope: “yeah connection, defo”
Everyone else: “yeah, it’s sort of whatever really. Sometimes it depends on my Mood. But generally anyone that’ll have me”
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Curious to see where people stand. Obviously looks pay a part but would you sleep with some one just for being smoking hot."
And yes absolutely. There's something really hot about catching the eye of someone in a club that you find so attractive that you just have to have them. When that is a mutual instant attraction that sex can be so hot. But that is all it is. So yes. I absolutely can have sex without that "connection". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve got all the connection with my fella so not looking for any emotional connections from strangers, regards to swinging I just want a dam good seeing to by a hot stud/female |
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By *rOralMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
"Curious to see where people stand. Obviously looks pay a part but would you sleep with some one just for being smoking hot. "
Yes I would. But in the end if there was not connection/spark whatsoever, It wouldn’t be a second time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks
Connections can be great at first
Then they say or do something and the connection is lost
It's too late then
You've already fucked the ugly guy you had no real connection to  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks. They don't have to speak to me."
Duuuude … yooo!!! 
Btw it has to be 50/50… I can’t do it if the looks aren’t there even if the connection is great. I can have sex with someone just on looks but after that first time it’d get boring fast I guess.
Now good looks + amazing connection = FIRE
So yeah, moral of the story, she’s a greedy bitch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks. They don't have to speak to me.
Duuuude … yooo!!!
Btw it has to be 50/50… I can’t do it if the looks aren’t there even if the connection is great. I can have sex with someone just on looks but after that first time it’d get boring fast I guess.
Now good looks + amazing connection = FIRE
So yeah, moral of the story, she’s a greedy bitch "
You just need pizza |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks. They don't have to speak to me.
Duuuude … yooo!!!
Btw it has to be 50/50… I can’t do it if the looks aren’t there even if the connection is great. I can have sex with someone just on looks but after that first time it’d get boring fast I guess.
Now good looks + amazing connection = FIRE
So yeah, moral of the story, she’s a greedy bitch
You just need pizza "
Come over u!!
(Ps: grab spicy pepperoni!!!) |
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"Curious to see where people stand. Obviously looks pay a part but would you sleep with some one just for being smoking hot."
No. Complete turn-off.
It implies an extreme level of artificial self-vanity, which is a red flag to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I need the looks for a initial connection to start but if they haven't got the personality and aren't on the same wavelength, it's not happening. They can be the most attractive person in the world but if they have got the personality of a sideboard.. I can't let them put their penis in me  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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Might have done in my twenties but then I did not really know what I was looking for deep down. I made many good decisions and millions of really bad ones. Having sex with the wrong kind of people was one of the latter.... but hey, I am what I am today because of all my decisions. Or maybe despite...  |
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It depends on the situation. In a club, I more than likely just want a good time with someone hot. For a one on one meet, probably a bit of both...I'd still say that looks are most important, but it's going to be a bit tedious if they have the personality of a wet blanket...it's not like I want to date them, but a bit of conversation makes it a much more pleasant experience. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
I don't necessarily need a full on connection, but I certainly need to like them as a person. Doesn't matter how stunningly good looking someone is, if they have an unattractive personality or give off a vibe that doesn't appeal to me, then I don't want to have sex with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks to get me interested and personality to make me stay. I’m all about the pillow talk and I could talk for Ireland but if I can’t do that with you - it’s bye Felicia |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The best way to see if you both have a spark is to chat openly before looks play a part. That’s the advantage of internet dating. Exactly why naked attraction never works. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have not felt this urge to do so but I can’t say what I’d do. I’m trying to open myself to new experiences and this may happen.
Hitherto, it doesn’t seem to be in my nature to do so without a connection first. |
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A little of one a lot of the other.
There needs to be a little attraction whether it's physical or something in a profile that makes us say 'yeah let's see where it goes'. Then there needs to be a connection built.
Well unless we are both in a state of raging horn, then you just need to be attractive enough or at least have a pulse lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks attract me first to a lady but ultimately it’ll be the connection that makes me want to arrange meeting up. It will always be both that sets my mind racing.  |
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"Curious to see where people stand. Obviously looks pay a part but would you sleep with some one just for being smoking hot."
I don't sleep with anyone I'm not sexually attracted to. I met a man who was the spitting image of Daniel Craig. I've never seen someone walk in a space where both women and men stopped to stare: he was absolutely gorgeous. When he saw me his face lit up.
I was excited until he got to me and spoke! Face and body of Daniel Craig, voice like Joe Pasquale! I couldn't get rid of him fast enough.
I made sure I always had a phone conversation after that. Good looks is not the be all for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't find out about the connection without the looks attracting me first. "
Absolutely...has to be initial attraction..but if they turn out to be a dick it wouldnt matter how good looking they were it wouldn't go any further. |
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