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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've been exploring my dominant side a little bit lately and I'm surprised by some of the things that I'll do in that frame of mind that I wouldn't do in my usual submissive mindframe. Has anyone else found they have different limits in these two different sexual personas? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rimming!
Never thought I’d enjoy receiving but turns out I do! 
Would love to try it whilst in a threesome with 2 lovely ladies. Being rimmed by one whilst fucking the other  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Apart from the 3 p’s I’d give anything a try once 
No pain at all? Not even a tiny bit?
Pee , poo and puke "
Oooooooh puke. I didn't realise that's what the third P stood for lol. All this time I thought everyone was just a bit wimpy  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Pegging a guy.
Did absolutely zero for me.
Won't be doing it again.
Mrs M."
Yes I've tried it once very recently. While it didn't turn me on as such and obviously did nothing for my body, I did find the responsibility, control and power an interesting mix of feelings. |
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"Apart from the 3 p’s I’d give anything a try once
No pain at all? Not even a tiny bit?
Pee , poo and puke
Oooooooh puke. I didn't realise that's what the third P stood for lol. All this time I thought everyone was just a bit wimpy "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apart from the 3 p’s I’d give anything a try once
No pain at all? Not even a tiny bit?
Pee , poo and puke
Oooooooh puke. I didn't realise that's what the third P stood for lol. All this time I thought everyone was just a bit wimpy "
I thought it was pain too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been exploring my dominant side a little bit lately and I'm surprised by some of the things that I'll do in that frame of mind that I wouldn't do in my usual submissive mindframe. Has anyone else found they have different limits in these two different sexual personas?"
I find I have different wants/needs/interests depending on the dynamic with a person. Different dynamics with different people.
It changes, it's fluid.
I never ever thought I would be capable of being a Domme but I have been under the right dynamic
It is fascinating what you are capable of with the right person guiding.
Never thought I could go to clubs and play in group scenarios but I do and love that.
I think if you can find a person to explore with to help push you out of a comfort zone it can be exhilarating and empowering, that is how it makes me feel anyway |
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Never thought I’d enjoy spanking someone - found the whole BDSM scene off-putting as pain or control wasn’t something I connect sex with.
However after researching and connecting with people that enjoy it and realising that the pleasure overrides any temporary pain, that they enjoy all aspects of it then I’ve found it such a turn on.
C can cum from the anticipation of my touch - blindfolded and her mind not knowing whether the touch is going to be light or heavy, she’s completely at my mercy and wanting to be and that’s the sexiest thing
K |
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Yes I have tried loads of stuff I always said I would never do and enjoyed each experience. Until you try things you have no idea if you will like them or not and I have been pleasantly surprised on many occasions. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes I have tried loads of stuff I always said I would never do and enjoyed each experience. Until you try things you have no idea if you will like them or not and I have been pleasantly surprised on many occasions."
Yeah I agree, I have lots left to explore, but with the right person I don't feel nervous, I feel curious. |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
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I never thought that I would if given watersports a try, I used to find the idea quite strange and off putting.
Met a lady who was very into it so took the plunge. It didn't do much for me sexually but glad I gave it a go all the same.
There's a few things left that I would try (in the right circumstances and right person) that I would of dismissed entirely pre-Fab. It's funny how you get more open minded as you get older |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I never thought that I would if given watersports a try, I used to find the idea quite strange and off putting.
Met a lady who was very into it so took the plunge. It didn't do much for me sexually but glad I gave it a go all the same.
There's a few things left that I would try (in the right circumstances and right person) that I would of dismissed entirely pre-Fab. It's funny how you get more open minded as you get older"
Yeah I never thought I'd try waterspout watersports but I did a few years ago. Although I wouldn't say it was sexually stimulating, there was a certain appeal in seeing how aroused it made him, and it added a level of power play which wasn't there before, so it was interesting.
I wasn't overly keen on the smell though lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Letting someone take control, took a lot of trust"
Yes I imagine it would if you're used to having it. I was the opposite, I'm used to releasing the control after I build a bit of trust, but to take on the role of being in charge was unusual for me.
How did you find it when you finally relinquished the control? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apart from the 3 p’s I’d give anything a try once
No pain at all? Not even a tiny bit?
Pee , poo and puke
Oooooooh puke. I didn't realise that's what the third P stood for lol. All this time I thought everyone was just a bit wimpy "
The third might be pain to others but mines defo puke.
Makes you wonder about folks though hey |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever surprised yourself by choosing to do something sexually that you thought you'd NEVER want to try?
How did you feel after trying it?
Xx"
My First Lady on lady fun , never looked back it’s so erotic & sensual |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, watersports. I'm not even sure how that started between us both but I really enjoy it in the right moments. "
Me too. It’s something I never thought I’d even try, let alone enjoy, but I find it really intimate and intense. |
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You would think after being together 27 years we couldn’t get surprised..We decided to try deep throat a few months back much to mine and my husbands surprise we found out I have no gag reflex and I quite enjoyed it ..your never to old to try something new . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Gangbangs and anal, didn't think I'd enjoy either but was very wrong
Mrs "
I've yet to try a gang bang. Can't even organise an mfm so I've no idea how I'd find even more men  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gangbangs and anal, didn't think I'd enjoy either but was very wrong
Mrs
I've yet to try a gang bang. Can't even organise an mfm so I've no idea how I'd find even more men "
I'm surprised at that with the amount of men on here, thought they'd be jumping over themselves for you. The key for us is mainly with people we've met before. It helps having Mr to keep an eye on things too x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Gangbangs and anal, didn't think I'd enjoy either but was very wrong
Mrs
I've yet to try a gang bang. Can't even organise an mfm so I've no idea how I'd find even more men
I'm surprised at that with the amount of men on here, thought they'd be jumping over themselves for you. The key for us is mainly with people we've met before. It helps having Mr to keep an eye on things too x "
I'm quite particular about what I'm looking for I guess. |
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"Gangbangs and anal, didn't think I'd enjoy either but was very wrong
Mrs
I've yet to try a gang bang. Can't even organise an mfm so I've no idea how I'd find even more men "
You may be experiencing paralysis by analysis due to, what I imagine, is a surfeit of choice. You might be better served by identifying the partners first and then marshalling them for an MFM. You might find that men who wouldn't put themselves forward for an MFM might be better candidates once you've established a rapport with them. |
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"Gangbangs and anal, didn't think I'd enjoy either but was very wrong
Mrs
I've yet to try a gang bang. Can't even organise an mfm so I've no idea how I'd find even more men "
Well I’d certainly put my name on the list for that  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Gangbangs and anal, didn't think I'd enjoy either but was very wrong
Mrs
I've yet to try a gang bang. Can't even organise an mfm so I've no idea how I'd find even more men
You may be experiencing paralysis by analysis due to, what I imagine, is a surfeit of choice. You might be better served by identifying the partners first and then marshalling them for an MFM. You might find that men who wouldn't put themselves forward for an MFM might be better candidates once you've established a rapport with them."
"Marshalling them" |
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"Gangbangs and anal, didn't think I'd enjoy either but was very wrong
Mrs
I've yet to try a gang bang. Can't even organise an mfm so I've no idea how I'd find even more men
You may be experiencing paralysis by analysis due to, what I imagine, is a surfeit of choice. You might be better served by identifying the partners first and then marshalling them for an MFM. You might find that men who wouldn't put themselves forward for an MFM might be better candidates once you've established a rapport with them.
"Marshalling them" "
Men can get confused and bump into stuff when the blood flow is diverted from their brains. A little cockherding can be required. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Gangbangs and anal, didn't think I'd enjoy either but was very wrong
Mrs
I've yet to try a gang bang. Can't even organise an mfm so I've no idea how I'd find even more men
You may be experiencing paralysis by analysis due to, what I imagine, is a surfeit of choice. You might be better served by identifying the partners first and then marshalling them for an MFM. You might find that men who wouldn't put themselves forward for an MFM might be better candidates once you've established a rapport with them.
"Marshalling them"
Men can get confused and bump into stuff when the blood flow is diverted from their brains. A little cockherding can be required."
Hahahaha I'll put up signs and being a whistle |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"2 women, i was unsure if i would be able to entertain 2 ladies so thought i best give it a go and after a rather good session i can confirm i bloody loved it
T"
Hope you had a hearty breakfast beforehand |
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"2 women, i was unsure if i would be able to entertain 2 ladies so thought i best give it a go and after a rather good session i can confirm i bloody loved it
T
Hope you had a hearty breakfast beforehand "
I certainly needed one the next day!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Before joining Fab, LITERALLY EVERYTHING was something I thought I'd never try, nor had ever done ...but now, with still more I can learn and experience, I'd say it's a big yes, I've done plenty, and loved every second of it! Apart from this one time where.... (actually, no, that'd be oversharing) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Managed to tick something off today...
Have wanted to try sploshing for a while but it's not something that's easy to do.
Was great fun and have shared some pics... so very happy and will be doing it again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Managed to tick something off today...
Have wanted to try sploshing for a while but it's not something that's easy to do.
Was great fun and have shared some pics... so very happy and will be doing it again"
Wow, gorgeous pics, but now I want custard!
It sounds interesting |
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"Apart from the 3 p’s I’d give anything a try once
No pain at all? Not even a tiny bit?
Pee , poo and puke
Oooooooh puke. I didn't realise that's what the third P stood for lol. All this time I thought everyone was just a bit wimpy "
That could have proved awkward if someone asked for the third P and you punched him in the face |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Managed to tick something off today...
Have wanted to try sploshing for a while but it's not something that's easy to do.
Was great fun and have shared some pics... so very happy and will be doing it again
Wow, gorgeous pics, but now I want custard!
It sounds interesting "
Definitely one to try |
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"Gangbangs and anal, didn't think I'd enjoy either but was very wrong
Mrs
I've yet to try a gang bang. Can't even organise an mfm so I've no idea how I'd find even more men "
A gangbang was something we tried in early 2020 - loved it and the reclaim sex was
We used a guy who organises regular gangbangs to sort it out..... |
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