Good Morning Fab,
So we reply to every message even if it is a polite not this time or we are not your type, is it considered rude not replying to a wink if you find the profile appealing. A lot easier to just ignore the wink, no time wasted on either side, what is the norm.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Less rude than ignoring a message you have read. I feel a wink is a polite 'I find you appealing, if you reply we will chat' and keeps it low key but still showing interest. Sending a message that gets ignored can be a little deflating so a wink is a easier option. |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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It’s not rude to not reply to either an unsolicited wink or a message. Just because someone contacts you doesn’t mean you need to respond. I bet you don’t respond to every bit of junk mail that comes through your letterbox. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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so what is an unsolicited wink or message, so it's not asked for , then no one will ever talk to anyone as someone will be making contact either you or them , both either way it's unsolicited, or am i missing the point. |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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"so what is an unsolicited wink or message, so it's not asked for , then no one will ever talk to anyone as someone will be making contact either you or them , both either way it's unsolicited, or am i missing the point. "
Unsolicited just means not asked for. There should be no obligation to respond. But if you like what you see then of course you can. |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
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I only send a message if I receive a wink back, I think not winking back is a better way to politely say I'm not interested. I think you are being very polite by replying to every message but don't think people would be too upset if you did the normal thing and ignored them unless they were exceptionally good messages even though not suitable people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good Morning Fab,
So we reply to every message even if it is a polite not this time or we are not your type, is it considered rude not replying to a wink if you find the profile appealing. A lot easier to just ignore the wink, no time wasted on either side, what is the norm.
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That’s pretty much it , we do the same |
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