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 everything you write is like orgasmic for my feeble brain!! 
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Much love to you dude | |||
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"Devon you need to write a book everything you write is like orgasmic for my feeble brain!!
"Even with all the spelling/grammar mistakes? Aww bless you | |||
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"Or she might actually secretly feel the same, and magic might occur. Women aren’t daft, when a fella says they’ve written you a letter you know they’re either telling you bad things or good. She took that risk. So did you. This could all completely work out. And I hope it does. "Yes yes yes! This! Cringe not P - what will be will be, but regardless of the outcome you have been true to yourself, and honest with her, so you can truly hold your head up high. Good luck man!  | |||
"Or she might actually secretly feel the same, and magic might occur. Women aren’t daft, when a fella says they’ve written you a letter you know they’re either telling you bad things or good. She took that risk. So did you. This could all completely work out. And I hope it does. " | |||
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aww you are all so lovely. It will go hideously wrong and end up as a tale of carnage, but hey! It’s another tale is it not? Now back to getting squiffy. I’ll probably put my riding breeches on back-to-front tomorrow morning. | |||
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"Oh my days.. Can you pretend you were hacked "It was hand written . The flow of ink on paper conveys so much more than a cold hard screen ever could, don’t you think?
Please note I didn’t splash the paper with Brut before sending | |||
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"Brave I'd say. I've done cringeworthy stuff that still wakes me up sweating and screaming at 2am. "  | |||
"Brave I'd say. I've done cringeworthy stuff that still wakes me up sweating and screaming at 2am. " See now that’s the ship I CAN sail | |||
"Oh my days.. Can you pretend you were hacked
It was hand written . The flow of ink on paper conveys so much more than a cold hard screen ever could, don’t you think?
Please note I didn’t splash the paper with Brut before sending "Did you use Old Spice instead? | |||
"Oh my days.. Can you pretend you were hacked
It was hand written . The flow of ink on paper conveys so much more than a cold hard screen ever could, don’t you think?
Please note I didn’t splash the paper with Brut before sending
Did you use Old Spice instead? "Hai Karate, too much? | |||
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"Oh my days.. Can you pretend you were hacked
It was hand written . The flow of ink on paper conveys so much more than a cold hard screen ever could, don’t you think?
Please note I didn’t splash the paper with Brut before sending
Did you use Old Spice instead?
Hai Karate, too much? "Not if it's from the Pound Shop | |||
"Oh my days.. Can you pretend you were hacked
It was hand written . The flow of ink on paper conveys so much more than a cold hard screen ever could, don’t you think?
Please note I didn’t splash the paper with Brut before sending
Did you use Old Spice instead?
Hai Karate, too much?
Not if it's from the Pound Shop "Is there any other type of shop? Confused of Devon | |||
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"Oh my days.. Can you pretend you were hacked
It was hand written . The flow of ink on paper conveys so much more than a cold hard screen ever could, don’t you think?
Please note I didn’t splash the paper with Brut before sending
Did you use Old Spice instead?
Hai Karate, too much?
Not if it's from the Pound Shop
Is there any other type of shop?
Confused of Devon "Sounds like your lady friend is in excellent hands
Chicks dig those plastic flowers you know? Last forever | |||
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"Oh my days.. Can you pretend you were hacked
It was hand written . The flow of ink on paper conveys so much more than a cold hard screen ever could, don’t you think?
Please note I didn’t splash the paper with Brut before sending "Omg it would make my knees go weak!! How amazing and special! | |||
"Oh my days.. Can you pretend you were hacked
It was hand written . The flow of ink on paper conveys so much more than a cold hard screen ever could, don’t you think?
Please note I didn’t splash the paper with Brut before sending
Omg it would make my knees go weak!! How amazing and special!
"I’m getting a hint of sarcasm with the faint berry notes of my Beaujolais 
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"Oh my days.. Can you pretend you were hacked
It was hand written . The flow of ink on paper conveys so much more than a cold hard screen ever could, don’t you think?
Please note I didn’t splash the paper with Brut before sending
Omg it would make my knees go weak!! How amazing and special!
I’m getting a hint of sarcasm with the faint berry notes of my Beaujolais
"No it was genuine lol! | |||
"A word of caution: Now don’t go messaging her squiffy messages of regret for sending it etc once you’ve had some wine. Just give space. Big news takes digesting. " Oh I’ve never been one for pressure or d*unken messages Luna, but wise advice indeed. I think fingerprint readers on phones should be able to measure the amount of alcohol in your blood stream and refuse to open over a certain amount. I have waited 2 years to know. If it takes another 2 years then that’s what it will be x | |||
"A word of caution: Now don’t go messaging her squiffy messages of regret for sending it etc once you’ve had some wine. Just give space. Big news takes digesting. Oh I’ve never been one for pressure or d*unken messages Luna, but wise advice indeed. I think fingerprint readers on phones should be able to measure the amount of alcohol in your blood stream and refuse to open over a certain amount. I have waited 2 years to know. If it takes another 2 years then that’s what it will be x " 3xxx | |||
"I’ve made a whopper, a mistake, poor judgement has occurred. You see I have been enamoured of someone for a few years now, it started as all things do as a friendship, but over time, well even a stony old goat like me succumbs to feelings of the heart. I knew/felt she didn’t feel the same so I tempered my emotions, put greater distance between us. Well they distance shortened over the last few weeks, but once again a crescendo of feelings manifest in me and so I wrote a letter. I never really intended to send it, but it was a way to put those feelings to one side, to nail them down and free them from within. And so I put the distance between us again (in fact this thread would have been entitled, “is it okay to ghost a friend you have fallen for if you know they don’t feel the same way”, but a few days ago). But messages were sent and I told her I had written her a letter. She said nothing for a few days and I reasoned that the distance would grow wider. However, last night she asked me whether I would send her the letter, so I have and now……. Now I know I should have not, I have put her in a terrible position I think. So….. I’m a bit daft really. Silly old goat. I am now experimenting with how much wine it takes me to stop cringing. Bless. I don’t really know the point of this thread, take the piss, ignore, chastise or support , I’ll just sit here and get squiffy eek! " I know it feels like 'the end of the world' right now. These things always do at the time but 'this too shall pass'. 'If a problem is fixable, if a situation is such that you can do something about it, then there is no need to worry. If it's not fixable, then there is no help in worrying. There is no benefit in worrying whatsoever.' Dalai Lama XIV | |||
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"Well since some of you were so nice and supportive I thought I would give you an update, or rather, if I am honest, the conclusion to this little saga. It is with a heavy heart that I must say that the outcome I desired was not to be. It is worth noting that the woman in question did ask me to send the letter, once she was aware of its existence, it wasn’t unsolicited. And 12 days ago she sent a message saying the letter had been received and that she “will digest”. To which I simply replied “okay” Since then all has been quiet and no, I have not chased. Today I have decided that enough time has passed and that there will not be a response, I accept that with both grace and, of course, a little sadness. However one cannot dwell or wallow. To me, at least, it was worth the risk. And that I have an answer of sorts to my sleepless nights. Many would say I was foolish and that I have lost a friend, and yes, I will mourn that loss, but being true to yourself, being “brave” is sometimes the only way to quiet the nagging questions, and turn thumping heart back to stoic beat, ready, perhaps one day, to roar again. This is not meant to be a sad post, a part of my is proud to once again have put my heart on my sleeve, to give in to hope and know the a part of me, is still a daft old romantic sod, that still believes in fairy tales. Have a great Saturday you lovely people x" I think you should take the positive that you let yourself be vulnerable and true to your feelings, you probably needed to release these thoughts to the world and to her. Maybe it was the best way for you to also move on. Who knows, maybe you haven’t lost her as a friend, but maybe for now you need that time for yourself to move forward and close this chapter (at least romantically from your side as it was one sided) Sending you big hugs OP! And be proud for being courageous x | |||
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"Well since some of you were so nice and supportive I thought I would give you an update, or rather, if I am honest, the conclusion to this little saga. It is with a heavy heart that I must say that the outcome I desired was not to be. It is worth noting that the woman in question did ask me to send the letter, once she was aware of its existence, it wasn’t unsolicited. And 12 days ago she sent a message saying the letter had been received and that she “will digest”. To which I simply replied “okay” Since then all has been quiet and no, I have not chased. Today I have decided that enough time has passed and that there will not be a response, I accept that with both grace and, of course, a little sadness. However one cannot dwell or wallow. To me, at least, it was worth the risk. And that I have an answer of sorts to my sleepless nights. Many would say I was foolish and that I have lost a friend, and yes, I will mourn that loss, but being true to yourself, being “brave” is sometimes the only way to quiet the nagging questions, and turn thumping heart back to stoic beat, ready, perhaps one day, to roar again. This is not meant to be a sad post, a part of my is proud to once again have put my heart on my sleeve, to give in to hope and know the a part of me, is still a daft old romantic sod, that still believes in fairy tales. Have a great Saturday you lovely people x" | |||
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"Well since some of you were so nice and supportive I thought I would give you an update, or rather, if I am honest, the conclusion to this little saga. It is with a heavy heart that I must say that the outcome I desired was not to be. It is worth noting that the woman in question did ask me to send the letter, once she was aware of its existence, it wasn’t unsolicited. And 12 days ago she sent a message saying the letter had been received and that she “will digest”. To which I simply replied “okay” Since then all has been quiet and no, I have not chased. Today I have decided that enough time has passed and that there will not be a response, I accept that with both grace and, of course, a little sadness. However one cannot dwell or wallow. To me, at least, it was worth the risk. And that I have an answer of sorts to my sleepless nights. Many would say I was foolish and that I have lost a friend, and yes, I will mourn that loss, but being true to yourself, being “brave” is sometimes the only way to quiet the nagging questions, and turn thumping heart back to stoic beat, ready, perhaps one day, to roar again. This is not meant to be a sad post, a part of my is proud to once again have put my heart on my sleeve, to give in to hope and know the a part of me, is still a daft old romantic sod, that still believes in fairy tales. Have a great Saturday you lovely people x" A non patronising well done to you. I see too many people saying they regret not putting themselves out there and refering to "the one that got away". You've done it, it didn't work out you are now free (in a sense) to move forward unencumbered by doubt. | |||
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"Well since some of you were so nice and supportive I thought I would give you an update, or rather, if I am honest, the conclusion to this little saga. It is with a heavy heart that I must say that the outcome I desired was not to be. It is worth noting that the woman in question did ask me to send the letter, once she was aware of its existence, it wasn’t unsolicited. And 12 days ago she sent a message saying the letter had been received and that she “will digest”. To which I simply replied “okay” Since then all has been quiet and no, I have not chased. Today I have decided that enough time has passed and that there will not be a response, I accept that with both grace and, of course, a little sadness. However one cannot dwell or wallow. To me, at least, it was worth the risk. And that I have an answer of sorts to my sleepless nights. Many would say I was foolish and that I have lost a friend, and yes, I will mourn that loss, but being true to yourself, being “brave” is sometimes the only way to quiet the nagging questions, and turn thumping heart back to stoic beat, ready, perhaps one day, to roar again. This is not meant to be a sad post, a part of my is proud to once again have put my heart on my sleeve, to give in to hope and know the a part of me, is still a daft old romantic sod, that still believes in fairy tales. Have a great Saturday you lovely people x" You did the right thing. It's best to try & get an answer even if it's not the answer you desire. If you hadn't there would always have been that nagging "what if?" thought sitting at the back of your mind. Trust me you don't want that... Be proud OP of having been brave enough to take the risk. Feelings will change over time and brighter days are just over the horizon | |||
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"Well since some of you were so nice and supportive I thought I would give you an update, or rather, if I am honest, the conclusion to this little saga. It is with a heavy heart that I must say that the outcome I desired was not to be. It is worth noting that the woman in question did ask me to send the letter, once she was aware of its existence, it wasn’t unsolicited. And 12 days ago she sent a message saying the letter had been received and that she “will digest”. To which I simply replied “okay” Since then all has been quiet and no, I have not chased. Today I have decided that enough time has passed and that there will not be a response, I accept that with both grace and, of course, a little sadness. However one cannot dwell or wallow. To me, at least, it was worth the risk. And that I have an answer of sorts to my sleepless nights. Many would say I was foolish and that I have lost a friend, and yes, I will mourn that loss, but being true to yourself, being “brave” is sometimes the only way to quiet the nagging questions, and turn thumping heart back to stoic beat, ready, perhaps one day, to roar again. This is not meant to be a sad post, a part of my is proud to once again have put my heart on my sleeve, to give in to hope and know the a part of me, is still a daft old romantic sod, that still believes in fairy tales. Have a great Saturday you lovely people x" Awww op  my hart gose out to you at least you tryed keep your chin up | |||
"Well since some of you were so nice and supportive I thought I would give you an update, or rather, if I am honest, the conclusion to this little saga. It is with a heavy heart that I must say that the outcome I desired was not to be. It is worth noting that the woman in question did ask me to send the letter, once she was aware of its existence, it wasn’t unsolicited. And 12 days ago she sent a message saying the letter had been received and that she “will digest”. To which I simply replied “okay” Since then all has been quiet and no, I have not chased. Today I have decided that enough time has passed and that there will not be a response, I accept that with both grace and, of course, a little sadness. However one cannot dwell or wallow. To me, at least, it was worth the risk. And that I have an answer of sorts to my sleepless nights. Many would say I was foolish and that I have lost a friend, and yes, I will mourn that loss, but being true to yourself, being “brave” is sometimes the only way to quiet the nagging questions, and turn thumping heart back to stoic beat, ready, perhaps one day, to roar again. This is not meant to be a sad post, a part of my is proud to once again have put my heart on my sleeve, to give in to hope and know the a part of me, is still a daft old romantic sod, that still believes in fairy tales. Have a great Saturday you lovely people x" Good on you OP, you have conducted yourself like a gentleman, the world needs more people like you | |||
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"You have made no mistake OP. The biggest mistake you could of made was to not send it when she asked for it. Life is about taking chances and you have taken what could be a life changing one for you. I love the fact you write a letter rather than a long text or email. Thank you for showing us all that romance isn’t dead. Please let us know how this progresses " This really. Wishing you all the look in the world op! | |||
"Well since some of you were so nice and supportive I thought I would give you an update, or rather, if I am honest, the conclusion to this little saga. It is with a heavy heart that I must say that the outcome I desired was not to be. It is worth noting that the woman in question did ask me to send the letter, once she was aware of its existence, it wasn’t unsolicited. And 12 days ago she sent a message saying the letter had been received and that she “will digest”. To which I simply replied “okay” Since then all has been quiet and no, I have not chased. Today I have decided that enough time has passed and that there will not be a response, I accept that with both grace and, of course, a little sadness. However one cannot dwell or wallow. To me, at least, it was worth the risk. And that I have an answer of sorts to my sleepless nights. Many would say I was foolish and that I have lost a friend, and yes, I will mourn that loss, but being true to yourself, being “brave” is sometimes the only way to quiet the nagging questions, and turn thumping heart back to stoic beat, ready, perhaps one day, to roar again. This is not meant to be a sad post, a part of my is proud to once again have put my heart on my sleeve, to give in to hope and know the a part of me, is still a daft old romantic sod, that still believes in fairy tales. Have a great Saturday you lovely people x" Brave and honest, at least you know | |||
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"Never stop being a romantic sod. The world needs more romance in it. " awww so true  | |||
