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By *oody281 OP Man
over a year ago
southwark |
I’m having trouble getting anything going on here whether it be chats or meets, now I know I’m no David Beckham in the looks department but I still expected a bit more “action” than what I’m getting. Does everyone know something that I don’t or am I missing something that is blatantly obvious??? Any help or advise would be truly welcomed!!!! ???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well in perspective you have only been on 5 weeks and your profile doesn’t really say much about you?
Not sure how much action you were expecting really?
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"Don’t expect anything on here. Some men have been on a year and not met anyone.
A year try 3 or 4 years and yet nothing 
Have had better luck on the likes of Tinder and other sites "
Is your profile on Tinder as generic as your profile on here ? |
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"Don’t expect anything on here. Some men have been on a year and not met anyone.
A year try 3 or 4 years and yet nothing
Have had better luck on the likes of Tinder and other sites
Is your profile on Tinder as generic as your profile on here ?"
Nope blank on their |
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"Don’t expect anything on here. Some men have been on a year and not met anyone.
A year try 3 or 4 years and yet nothing
Have had better luck on the likes of Tinder and other sites
Is your profile on Tinder as generic as your profile on here ?
Nope blank on their "
If Tinder is so much better, why are you still on here ? Just curious  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No idea mate, I’ve got fanny dropping out my pockets.
I’ve had to start & give all the women a raffle ticket for them to wait their turn.
You must be doing something wrong! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No idea mate, I’ve got fanny dropping out my pockets.
I’ve had to start & give all the women a raffle ticket for them to wait their turn.
You must be doing something wrong! "
Where is mine? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t expect anything on here. Some men have been on a year and not met anyone.
A year try 3 or 4 years and yet nothing
Have had better luck on the likes of Tinder and other sites "
You know what they say Yazz
The only way is up! |
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"Don’t expect anything on here. Some men have been on a year and not met anyone.
A year try 3 or 4 years and yet nothing
Have had better luck on the likes of Tinder and other sites
Is your profile on Tinder as generic as your profile on here ?
Nope blank on their
If Tinder is so much better, why are you still on here ? Just curious "
For the forums  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No idea mate, I’ve got fanny dropping out my pockets.
I’ve had to start & give all the women a raffle ticket for them to wait their turn.
You must be doing something wrong!
Where is mine?"
Hold on….
Blue 320  |
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"Don’t expect anything on here. Some men have been on a year and not met anyone.
A year try 3 or 4 years and yet nothing
Have had better luck on the likes of Tinder and other sites
Is your profile on Tinder as generic as your profile on here ?
Nope blank on their
If Tinder is so much better, why are you still on here ? Just curious
For the forums "
There are great I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No idea mate, I’ve got fanny dropping out my pockets.
I’ve had to start & give all the women a raffle ticket for them to wait their turn.
You must be doing something wrong! "
 nightmare ain't it!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No idea mate, I’ve got fanny dropping out my pockets.
I’ve had to start & give all the women a raffle ticket for them to wait their turn.
You must be doing something wrong!
Where is mine?
Hold on….
Blue 320 "
What number are you up to atm?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No idea mate, I’ve got fanny dropping out my pockets.
I’ve had to start & give all the women a raffle ticket for them to wait their turn.
You must be doing something wrong!
Where is mine?
Hold on….
Blue 320
What number are you up to atm? "
I’m just getting through my yellow book, then I’ve got red & green before blue, sorry I did say I was tripping over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you start going to the clubs you realise theres a secret code word to use in profiles that shows your a part of the lifestyle and not a tourist. It's a huge conspiracy to fuck over single men and make them feel unloved. ...
(Willing to share the word to unverified males if they send me a picture of their credit card, front and back) |
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You gotta remember theres probably close to a 100 guys for every few women and couples on the sight, due to this they can afford to be quite picky so unless you stand out or can offer something others cant its likely you will end up getting pushed to the side. Does suck but just how the sight is |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
You have put as your heading,
guy looking for fun with a confident lady.
But it seems like you're lacking confidence or expecting a miracle,you need to spice up your bio.
Little about yourself add things that might turn you on, even a small scenario type of ladies that tick your box, even a little bit of humour. Your bio is the key to unlock the opportunity to be able to explore, and hopefully someone finds it interesting as well as photos, for you to receive a message rather than you sending one first but even when you do send the first message she has something to read that can give her or a couple something to go on remember most of us are all strangers who don't know each other so give someone something to go on. |
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I think a huge expectation adjustment is in order.
In order to get anywhere at all you’ll need to put significantly more effort into your profile and will need to really put in the work to find someone who wants to play with you.
A good profile is witty and charming and tells the reader all they need to know to be interested in chatting with you further. We need to know what you like, what you have to offer and any other pertinent info.
Even with all that you might still not get a meet. You’ll have to reach out to people, review their profiles to see if you’re what they’re looking for and tailor your message to suit their preferences. Most won’t reply.
I’m not sure who told you about Fab, but I think they’ve misinformed you if you thought all you had to show up and the women would leap on your cock. |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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You have some kind of pictures which is great but your profile text would not interest me in responding to you. I like something witty or silly or something that can create a bit of banter. Show me you are more than just every other guy on here. But that’s just me. The next person will say something totally different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you start going to the clubs you realise theres a secret code word to use in profiles that shows your a part of the lifestyle and not a tourist. It's a huge conspiracy to fuck over single men and make them feel unloved. ...
(Willing to share the word to unverified males if they send me a picture of their credit card, front and back)"
Don’t get suckered by this scam artist folks!
The codeword is “Sidney University”
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
"No idea mate, I’ve got fanny dropping out my pockets.
I’ve had to start & give all the women a raffle ticket for them to wait their turn.
You must be doing something wrong!
Where is mine?
Hold on….
Blue 320
What number are you up to atm?
I’m just getting through my yellow book, then I’ve got red & green before blue, sorry I did say I was tripping over "
What happens if my ticket got lost??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What exactly were your expectations? 
I was expecting a lady not to leave scratches in my back  "
And he was exoecting to be wading through a sea of clunge but hey ho! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you start going to the clubs you realise theres a secret code word to use in profiles that shows your a part of the lifestyle and not a tourist. It's a huge conspiracy to fuck over single men and make them feel unloved. ...
(Willing to share the word to unverified males if they send me a picture of their credit card, front and back)
Don’t get suckered by this scam artist folks!
The codeword is “Sidney University”
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Rumbled.
I also can provide you with ways of preventing your pics being used by said university. It's a hidden Fab modification that protects you from the academic deviants. |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"I’m having trouble getting anything going on here whether it be chats or meets, now I know I’m no David Beckham in the looks department but I still expected a bit more “action” than what I’m getting. Does everyone know something that I don’t or am I missing something that is blatantly obvious??? Any help or advise would be truly welcomed!!!! ????"
Involve yourself in a few of the multiple events organized on here. You will meet like minded people and you can go from there... simple |
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"What exactly were your expectations?
I was expecting a lady not to leave scratches in my back
And he was exoecting to be wading through a sea of clunge but hey ho! "
Sea of clunge... what a phrase |
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"I’m having trouble getting anything going on here whether it be chats or meets, now I know I’m no David Beckham in the looks department but I still expected a bit more “action” than what I’m getting. Does everyone know something that I don’t or am I missing something that is blatantly obvious??? Any help or advise would be truly welcomed!!!! ????"
I’m going to put more effort into this reply then you have with your profile.
“Up for fun” isn’t really going to make you stand out from the crowd of single guys on here. You’ve been here 5 weeks. Patience is a virtue. And then I notice you’ve only been active in 4 threads in the forums. Nobody knows you, or your personality. You need to let it out in the forums. Let people get to know you.
It’s not about looking like David Beckham, I look like Steve Buscemi but my friends laugh at me cause I always seem to be meeting people on fab. |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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"I’m having trouble getting anything going on here whether it be chats or meets, now I know I’m no David Beckham in the looks department but I still expected a bit more “action” than what I’m getting. Does everyone know something that I don’t or am I missing something that is blatantly obvious??? Any help or advise would be truly welcomed!!!! ????
I’m going to put more effort into this reply then you have with your profile.
“Up for fun” isn’t really going to make you stand out from the crowd of single guys on here. You’ve been here 5 weeks. Patience is a virtue. And then I notice you’ve only been active in 4 threads in the forums. Nobody knows you, or your personality. You need to let it out in the forums. Let people get to know you.
It’s not about looking like David Beckham, I look like Steve Buscemi but my friends laugh at me cause I always seem to be meeting people on fab."
See this answer makes you interesting and I want to have a nosey at your profile…I hope OP takes note of your suggestions |
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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago
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I sometimes wonder when reading posts like this one and other posts on same subject. If males actually get a reality check. Finding that perhaps sending loads messages etc. Get no response and wonder why? People are on Fab for specific reasons. Which cannot get on sites like Tinder , dating apps. But for meeting , Tinder etc easier to meet females? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also... Keep replies to the forum
Don't send unsolicited dick pics  "
good fab tip
: always get your dick pics countersigned by a solicitor before sending. Avoids legal battles. |
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"I’m having trouble getting anything going on here whether it be chats or meets, now I know I’m no David Beckham in the looks department but I still expected a bit more “action” than what I’m getting. Does everyone know something that I don’t or am I missing something that is blatantly obvious??? Any help or advise would be truly welcomed!!!! ????
I’m going to put more effort into this reply then you have with your profile.
“Up for fun” isn’t really going to make you stand out from the crowd of single guys on here. You’ve been here 5 weeks. Patience is a virtue. And then I notice you’ve only been active in 4 threads in the forums. Nobody knows you, or your personality. You need to let it out in the forums. Let people get to know you.
It’s not about looking like David Beckham, I look like Steve Buscemi but my friends laugh at me cause I always seem to be meeting people on fab.
See this answer makes you interesting and I want to have a nosey at your profile…I hope OP takes note of your suggestions "
I’m wondering what your thoughts were about mine now x |
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"Also... Keep replies to the forum
Don't send unsolicited dick pics
Seconded. Sending me dick pics isn’t getting you anywhere, OP. "
At least we all know it’s not just his profile content letting him down  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You should be able to do backflips whilst balancing a tennis ball on your penis
I'm joking of course but as other have probably said the female to male ratio is crazy here. Be more active in the forums join in with the fun threads, the serious threads get your name out there.
Ps unpopular opinion but David Beckham's looks are nothing special |
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"You should be able to do backflips whilst balancing a tennis ball on your penis
I'm joking of course but as other have probably said the female to male ratio is crazy here. Be more active in the forums join in with the fun threads, the serious threads get your name out there.
Ps unpopular opinion but David Beckham's looks are nothing special "
Agree on the DB. Big no from me! |
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"A scratchy stubbly 4 day growth might put many girls off......
A rash wouldnt be a good look for them.
So maybe treat yourself to a clean shave and a new set of photos?  "
Shows we are all different. If a guy turned up to a meet with a clean shaven face I would honestly find it hard to hide my disappointment |
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Your expectations and approach both influence how satisfied you'll be here. Adjust both for changes.
All single men take a year or so to get established and a hell of a lot of effort. Some will take it and stick around. Generally they all have to use their profile well to sell themselves - those that didn't never found out or gave up. Going to clubs is ideal, to get to socialise. Look for tips and advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What exactly were your expectations? "
In the OP’s words…”I was expecting more action by now”
I honestly think guys join Fab and don’t see the “Swingers” part  |
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"What exactly were your expectations?
In the OP’s words…”I was expecting more action by now”
I honestly think guys join Fab and don’t see the “Swingers” part "
Not forgetting the slides and roundabouts! Though not so keen on the roundabouts cos they make me dizzy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op. You send us a friend invite without any message or effort at all.
Seriously would you go to the pub and expect sex from a random person just because you wink them accross the grotty bar! No!
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
West Mids |
"I’m having trouble getting anything going on here whether it be chats or meets, now I know I’m no David Beckham in the looks department but I still expected a bit more “action” than what I’m getting. Does everyone know something that I don’t or am I missing something that is blatantly obvious??? Any help or advise would be truly welcomed!!!! ????"
Something blatantly obvious??
A profile would be a great start! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m having trouble getting anything going on here whether it be chats or meets, now I know I’m no David Beckham in the looks department but I still expected a bit more “action” than what I’m getting. Does everyone know something that I don’t or am I missing something that is blatantly obvious??? Any help or advise would be truly welcomed!!!! ????"
No profile. But this post would put me off you regardless. Never expect anything |
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Reality bites ...and depends what you expect or were expecting when you joined up ?? and most join up expecting literaly a meet every day/night or every other day/night and that rarely happens if at all apart from in the imagination !! and like walking in to a bar/pub full of females or willing couples...every single one is going to be gagging for it and willing to do the do ?? without any..... |
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"I still expected a bit more “action” than what I’m getting."
First mistake… expected! Expectations are the mother of disappointment.
Second mistake… your profile really is garbage! If after five weeks all you can say about yourself is “up for fun” then you’re making no effort at all! So your results reflect that.
Rip it up and start again. |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
Not that we are what you are looking for but jeepers you need to improve your profile, I clicked out of it in point something of a second, I think you school report would say ‘Must try harder’ lol |
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"technically we’re all advertising ourselves on here"
This is something you said on another thread. So you know you’re advertising yourself and yet you out no effort into your profile……..nor do you reply to any feedback in here.
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By *oody281 OP Man
over a year ago
southwark |
I don’t understand how this whole forum thing works 100% yet so I don’t know if you are talking to me but I have replied to feedback on here so I don’t think you could be talking to me but I’d like to thank you for your input and interest in taking the time out ho help someone out when they have asked for help. It is truly much appreciated. ?????????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve updated my profile people. If you can be arsed check it out and tell me what you think!!!! ????"
It's better, but still crap
I have seen crapper though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve updated my profile people. If you can be arsed check it out and tell me what you think!!!! ????
It's better, but still crap
I have seen crapper though "
I've also noticed I've commented on this thread 3 or 4 times now and haven't been sent a dick pic
What am I doing wrong?
Do I need to get my tits out? |
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"I’ve updated my profile people. If you can be arsed check it out and tell me what you think!!!! ????
It's better, but still crap
I have seen crapper though
I've also noticed I've commented on this thread 3 or 4 times now and haven't been sent a dick pic
What am I doing wrong?
Do I need to get my tits out? "
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"I’m having trouble getting anything going on here whether it be chats or meets, now I know I’m no David Beckham in the looks department but I still expected a bit more “action” than what I’m getting. Does everyone know something that I don’t or am I missing something that is blatantly obvious??? Any help or advise would be truly welcomed!!!! ????"
Ask yourself this, would you buy what you are selling?
Your profile tells me nothing about who you are or what you are looking for, and only a couple of nondescript photos.
Ifs bland, nothing s_ands out, and as such is easier for someone to walk by instead of trying to find a reason to reach out. |
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"I’ve updated my profile people. If you can be arsed check it out and tell me what you think!!!! ????"
Why do we need to know about the supermodel looks of your ex wife and that the last two years of your marriage was sexless ?
Also why do you think owning 15 pairs of trainers will make women want to shag you ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve updated my profile people. If you can be arsed check it out and tell me what you think!!!! ????"
My advice would be to remove all the bits where you reference and kinda slate your ex wife. Also I don't need to know how many trainers you own x |
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"No idea mate, I’ve got fanny dropping out my pockets.
I’ve had to start & give all the women a raffle ticket for them to wait their turn.
You must be doing something wrong!
Where is mine?
Hold on….
Blue 320 "
Scuse me ?? Ticket please. |
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"I’ve updated my profile people. If you can be arsed check it out and tell me what you think!!!! ????
It's better, but still crap
I have seen crapper though
I've also noticed I've commented on this thread 3 or 4 times now and haven't been sent a dick pic
What am I doing wrong?
Do I need to get my tits out? "
Bussy ,,,,,,, don't. I want to be able to respect you in the morning! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been told by about 60 people on the forums that my old profile description of myself that was 3 words long was crap so here goes. (Feedbacks a gift!*)
I count myself as a very young 45 year old, even compared to using "man years" (which is mental age = actual age less 20)
I also class myself as a bedroom exhibitionist. Growing up I was never the confident one of the group but put me in a bedroom with a woman and I put on a show.
I don’t know exactly what I am looking for at the moment regarding a relationship but when I find it I will know!!!! Although a big smile is important ...a happy confident woman is worth a million super models in my eyes!!!!
But I think exploring is most of the fun of a holiday, so I'm jumping two feet into this lifestyle and plan to love every minute of it !
*Cock pics are on request only. Thanks forumers ! |
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"I’ve been told by about 60 people on the forums that my old profile description of myself that was 3 words long was crap so here goes. (Feedbacks a gift!*)
I count myself as a very young 45 year old, even compared to using "man years" (which is mental age = actual age less 20)
I also class myself as a bedroom exhibitionist. Growing up I was never the confident one of the group but put me in a bedroom with a woman and I put on a show.
I don’t know exactly what I am looking for at the moment regarding a relationship but when I find it I will know!!!! Although a big smile is important ...a happy confident woman is worth a million super models in my eyes!!!!
But I think exploring is most of the fun of a holiday, so I'm jumping two feet into this lifestyle and plan to love every minute of it !
*Cock pics are on request only. Thanks forumers ! "
Great response!!! OP your profile has some great improvements but look at this example. Shows confidence, humour and perfectly written. |
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