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If you’re attracted to someone’s face does their body shape/ size matter at all ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope, I wouldn't say so. I probably wouldn't be attracted to someone who was severely overweight/underweight as it really shows in the face and I'm not too strict when it comes to bodies bodies though I might have preferences.
What about you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope, I wouldn't say so. I probably wouldn't be attracted to someone who was severely overweight/underweight as it really shows in the face and I'm not too strict when it comes to bodies bodies though I might have preferences.
What about you? "
Who me ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, I wouldn't say so. I probably wouldn't be attracted to someone who was severely overweight/underweight as it really shows in the face and I'm not too strict when it comes to bodies bodies though I might have preferences.
What about you?
Who me ?
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Obviously not you. I was asking your mum! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Nope, I wouldn't say so. I probably wouldn't be attracted to someone who was severely overweight/underweight as it really shows in the face and I'm not too strict when it comes to bodies bodies though I might have preferences.
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I'm the same as Lemmy but without the preferences as such.
P.S OP you have such a type! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, I wouldn't say so. I probably wouldn't be attracted to someone who was severely overweight/underweight as it really shows in the face and I'm not too strict when it comes to bodies bodies though I might have preferences.
I'm the same as Lemmy but without the preferences as such.
P.S OP you have such a type!"
What is his type? It's something I can't quite figure out.
If I had to guess, I would say slim, petite and a very pretty face. It's just the vibes I get.
I want to know now! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope, I wouldn't say so. I probably wouldn't be attracted to someone who was severely overweight/underweight as it really shows in the face and I'm not too strict when it comes to bodies bodies though I might have preferences.
I'm the same as Lemmy but without the preferences as such.
P.S OP you have such a type!"
You’re the second person to tell me that recently, I didn’t think I did. |
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Body isn't as Important as face for me. Id go face over body any day. But it all comes down to personality, I don't care if you look like gods gift if you've got an ugly personality it's a massive no! X |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Nope, I wouldn't say so. I probably wouldn't be attracted to someone who was severely overweight/underweight as it really shows in the face and I'm not too strict when it comes to bodies bodies though I might have preferences.
I'm the same as Lemmy but without the preferences as such.
P.S OP you have such a type!
What is his type? It's something I can't quite figure out.
If I had to guess, I would say slim, petite and a very pretty face. It's just the vibes I get.
I want to know now! "
 You never reveal a man's type on the forum, that could lead to a drop in his cockappeal. I like CJ too much to do that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope, I wouldn't say so. I probably wouldn't be attracted to someone who was severely overweight/underweight as it really shows in the face and I'm not too strict when it comes to bodies bodies though I might have preferences.
I'm the same as Lemmy but without the preferences as such.
P.S OP you have such a type!
What is his type? It's something I can't quite figure out.
If I had to guess, I would say slim, petite and a very pretty face. It's just the vibes I get.
I want to know now!
You never reveal a man's type on the forum, that could lead to a drop in his cockappeal. I like CJ too much to do that."
She’s bluffing, she knows nothing, I have a very eclectic taste, or is that in music, I always get the two mixed up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Attraction for me starts with the face. I might be attracted to someone's body if I haven't seen their face yet, but seeing the face will be make or break.
If I see a face I like, I'm not hugely fussed about the body (within limits) so long as he's taller or a similar height to me. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"Attraction for me starts with the face. I might be attracted to someone's body if I haven't seen their face yet, but seeing the face will be make or break.
If I see a face I like, I'm not hugely fussed about the body (within limits) so long as he's taller or a similar height to me."
Exactly this for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Attraction for me starts with the face. I might be attracted to someone's body if I haven't seen their face yet, but seeing the face will be make or break.
If I see a face I like, I'm not hugely fussed about the body (within limits) so long as he's taller or a similar height to me."
*Checks height*  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, I wouldn't say so. I probably wouldn't be attracted to someone who was severely overweight/underweight as it really shows in the face and I'm not too strict when it comes to bodies bodies though I might have preferences.
I'm the same as Lemmy but without the preferences as such.
P.S OP you have such a type!
What is his type? It's something I can't quite figure out.
If I had to guess, I would say slim, petite and a very pretty face. It's just the vibes I get.
I want to know now!
You never reveal a man's type on the forum, that could lead to a drop in his cockappeal. I like CJ too much to do that.
She’s bluffing, she knows nothing, I have a very eclectic taste, or is that in music, I always get the two mixed up. "
I'm very upset now. I'm too nosy to be left in the dark.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Attraction for me starts with the face. I might be attracted to someone's body if I haven't seen their face yet, but seeing the face will be make or break.
If I see a face I like, I'm not hugely fussed about the body (within limits) so long as he's taller or a similar height to me."
I've never noticed how tall you were before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You don’t look at the mantelpiece when you’re poking the fire 
I'd make you look at the mantlepiece
I’d give yours a little polish  "
 
I deserved that tbh mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Attraction for me starts with the face. I might be attracted to someone's body if I haven't seen their face yet, but seeing the face will be make or break.
If I see a face I like, I'm not hugely fussed about the body (within limits) so long as he's taller or a similar height to me.
I've never noticed how tall you were before."
That's because you've never stood next to me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes to a certain degree, I think if most people are honest they do have limits to what they find attractive or not.
For me height is one of them I like them to be taller than me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Attraction for me starts with the face. I might be attracted to someone's body if I haven't seen their face yet, but seeing the face will be make or break.
If I see a face I like, I'm not hugely fussed about the body (within limits) so long as he's taller or a similar height to me.
I've never noticed how tall you were before.
That's because you've never stood next to me "
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I don't know if it sounds a little shallow but for us we have to be attracted to the whole package, face , body and personality. That being said neither of us has a "type" so to speak in terms of looks and body we have in the past have great fun with smaller girls to larger girls but the on sticking point has always been personality... you could be everything we've ever wanted looks and body wise but if your personality isn't there or stinks then then our red light comes on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You don’t look at the mantelpiece when you’re poking the fire
My mum says that."
I love the thought of you sat having a cup of tea with your mum discussing it. |
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On visuals, I tend to go for 5’ 9” to 6’ 2” guys, with hair, no beard (stubble is ok), smiling eyes and lips, ordinary build - not gym bunnies, but not beer bunnies either.
But whoever it is in real life, they have to be able to smile & chat. If I like them, then all of the above could vary! Who called me contrary |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm curvy (chubby!) and normally prefer a chunky man because of this but I have a "friend" who is reaaaally slim, someone I'd never normally go for, but he has such a cute face and a massive dick so I'm now a changed woman and have learned not to be so shallow 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, it matters if you're talking about a sexual attraction or desire. If I'm not physically, and therefore mentally attracted to who I'm with it will not matter what their face looks like. The same is true both sides of the coin. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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It's part of the total package, the importance of each component changing, depending on the circumstances.
Face is probably the first point of attraction, but height, body shape (morphology) size and shape of breasts, ass, cameltoe,personality in general terms, specific traits, attitudes in general, prejudices, loyalty, faithfulness, and so on.
For example, the expression on one's partner's face as she is DP'd or DVP'd in reverse cowgirl is a joy to behold! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As said upthread.. hot body but Shrek face is a no for me as the face is the main attraction. However whilst the face is top of the list wrt to attraction I’m not attracted to overweight or super skinny.
Big built is fine but I can’t go with legs thinner than mine.. |
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I am a sucker for a pretty face.
I like a bit of meat on a lady
Not keen on to skinny or to pale.
Maybe my essex genes kicking in indo think people relate paleness to illness.
Bit of a belly is fine stretch marks tattoo and all that I dont even notice.
To be fair my main attraction is sexy. Yoy can look horrendous but still be really sexy.
But with the face your always looking at it for me its quite important. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think it's an overall package: looks, body, personality. However, too little of one cannot be compensated by one of the others. You could probably represent it well in a spiderweb diagram. |
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I'm going to be really shallow and say yes.
No matter how cute they were, if they're over weight/obese then it would be a no from me.
Mainly because I wouldn't want to be squashed underneath them.
And partly due to my own physical restrictions. |
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I have a wide range of body type attraction, slim women, curvy women, larger women, muscle bound women! I don't have set in stone preferences, so in my case, a pretty face would get me whatever the body.
Sorry if that sounds a bit face sittery.
I saw a porn star interview years ago, and they asked how he has sex with all these women, surely he can't be attracted to them all, and he said he finds at least one thing attractive about everyone and I agree with that.
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"I have a wide range of body type attraction, slim women, curvy women, larger women, muscle bound women! I don't have set in stone preferences, so in my case, a pretty face would get me whatever the body.
Sorry if that sounds a bit face sittery.
I saw a porn star interview years ago, and they asked how he has sex with all these women, surely he can't be attracted to them all, and he said he finds at least one thing attractive about everyone and I agree with that.
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*Fence sittery.
Too much fab...
Yep, too much fab... |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
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It's a combo for me.. I might find someone physically attractive but if chemistry isn't there I'm not attracted to them in a sexual way.
I like how people embody themselves with their energy regardless of face or body attractiveness. Its hard to measure attraction in such a black n white way. |
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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago
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I do appreciate on a woman a strong pair of thighs and a peachy bottom.
I'm quite interested how she walks (it's a martial arts thing - hard to explain!) It can tell you quite a lot....
I'm more interested in her personality. What she's got to say. Gentleness. Inner strength. Intelligence. A good heart. The body after all is just a shell.
I'm not sure I have even expressed myself adequately?  |
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"I do appreciate on a woman a strong pair of thighs and a peachy bottom.
I'm quite interested how she walks (it's a martial arts thing - hard to explain!) It can tell you quite a lot....
I'm more interested in her personality. What she's got to say. Gentleness. Inner strength. Intelligence. A good heart. The body after all is just a shell.
I'm not sure I have even expressed myself adequately? "
Adequately for me… perfectly so… |
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Body shape is something that is important to me to a degree. Being a fat bird myself there are certain body shapes that just aren't going to work for me and I wouldn't want to put someone in an embarrassing position of not physically being able to work things out between us.
Aside from that extreme case no, size and shape isn't the most important factor. If I like someone I tend to find them attractive. |
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I like when I see a pretty face!
But not so much if you're beautiful and a pain in the ass!
Personally I would love to speak with the person and leave behind the face
Talk and understand the person behind the face!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s a lot worse things to run from, bad breath and so on
But there has to be some sort of attraction although I have had my knickers laughed off a few times by the unexpected haha |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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Initially an attractive face will always draw me in, I appreciate someone who looks after themselves and carries themselves well, it’s all down to confidence, owing what you’ve got - that’s attractive in itself.
Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s all of it that matters.. and balances everything. Personality is key to anything for me
A nice body and face is great don’t get time wrong.. but nice face and an ok or great body and no personality… no chance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No point having a body off baywatch if your face is off crime watch
Face everytime especially eyes and good teeth and I would be happy with the woman's body if it weren't to extreme from my personal ideal body type
But end of the day all this is irrelevant if you've got the personality of a brick and an arrogant person.....(see some of the women on love Island) |
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