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By *urvySub87 OP Woman
over a year ago
Near Wellingborough |
When your fwb/fuck buddy calls you by your first name? We've been having amazing sex for over a year and a half now but the last 2 times he's called me by my name instead of the usual cute names he gives me. It throws me a bit lol am I just being weird? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's weird the other way around to, we went to a concert and I sneakily found us better seats (naughty I know but no stewards checked) so I had to shout "JOHN" I didn't know what was funnier shouting a name I've never shouted or seeing his confused look when he went back to where we were sitting with drinks and I wasn't there  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm just more used to babygirl or princess. When he says my name I feel like I'm being told off lol"
 Yep, I get this. As soon as I get my full name I'm in trouble and not in the sexy, playful sort of trouble. |
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By *urvySub87 OP Woman
over a year ago
Near Wellingborough |
I don't think I've ever called him by his first name  I know what it is, I've just never said it. I think that I would find that a bit weird too...or worry about calling out the wrong name  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
I think their is a thin line between being called one or the other,and one brings it out of the zone of your preferred sexual side, into family side,but what was agreed at the beginning if anything that broken any rules that you continued to let it continue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When your fwb/fuck buddy calls you by your first name? We've been having amazing sex for over a year and a half now but the last 2 times he's called me by my name instead of the usual cute names he gives me. It throws me a bit lol am I just being weird?"
I just find it weird when someone uses my name because I'm so used to being called mum 1000 times a day for the past 24 years.
So an adult using my name is weird.
And I agree with the above that when someone does use it I usually think... oh crap what have I done? |
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By *urvySub87 OP Woman
over a year ago
Near Wellingborough |
"I have had the odd pet name but it is usually just my name
Are pet names more for a dom/sub type thing?
I feel like I'm missing out now "
I wouldn't have thought so. I slept with a very vanilla guy once who kept calling me darling. Not my personal choice of name but he was adorable lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it simply because the husband doesn't know!
I'm lucky mine knows everything and loves it.. lucky lady me!  "
I'm so pleased for you but cheating on here isn't a sole male perserve! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have had the odd pet name but it is usually just my name
Are pet names more for a dom/sub type thing?
I feel like I'm missing out now "
You should totally demand one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When your fwb/fuck buddy calls you by your first name? We've been having amazing sex for over a year and a half now but the last 2 times he's called me by my name instead of the usual cute names he gives me. It throws me a bit lol am I just being weird?"
My girlfriend and I both HATE being called by our respective names during sex, both in our relationship and with other people. It's really jarring. |
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By *urvySub87 OP Woman
over a year ago
Near Wellingborough |
"Once had a regular FB who liked me to say his real name during sex, problem was that it was a really unsexy name so I found it quite off putting. "
Ooooo that's interesting. So what would you class as an unsexy name? Even better, what are sexy names to call out in bed? |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I've a good friend I meet and we use each others real names .
I had a FB for a good while before and we didn't even know each others real names for over 6 months but we never used them it was always our fab names and with everyone else I met it's been just our fab names we have used or a shortened version of time . |
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