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How many messages do female and couple profile gets?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The last few days I've hardly got any but the ones I have are from unverified accounts with no photos or people saying "I'm not what you're looking for but....." |
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We have single men blocked as we're only looking for couples, we don't get v many tbh
Ours are mainly from people we already know
Some women do get loads, but there are filters available to use to stop this
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I first joined, I had about 50 in the first 25 minutes, before I had put up any pictures or done my profile text... If I came online, I would read one message and come back to at least 2 more. I could get at least a few huundred in a day if I posted pics or got a new verification... It was relentless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It varies depending on whether I've posted a new photo. If I have, then I would estimate between 300-400 messages on that day. But if I don't post anything it's more like 50-100 in a day, which is a lot more manageable. |
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"My question to you ladys do you read them all? 
It does make me laugh thoigh the comparisons are horrendous ladys can and always will be more picky "
And? What makes you think we wouldn't be? Would you shag someone just because they wanted to? |
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"My question to you ladys do you read them all?
It does make me laugh thoigh the comparisons are horrendous ladys can and always will be more picky
And? What makes you think we wouldn't be? Would you shag someone just because they wanted to?"
Its not a bad thing.
Women will always be more desirable. |
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"My question to you ladys do you read them all?
It does make me laugh thoigh the comparisons are horrendous ladys can and always will be more picky
And? What makes you think we wouldn't be? Would you shag someone just because they wanted to?
Its not a bad thing.
Women will always be more desirable. "
What's not a bad thing? Women having preferences about who they want to get naked with?
Why accuse us of being picky then, are you saying you'd shag anything or do you have preferences? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am curious to know how many message couples and female profile receives. One of the member mentioned 120 in a day. "
On average we get 2 messages per month
One friend request ( picture hunters ) per month
3-4 winks per month, we message back but mostly fizzle out after a conversation
9-40 views per day , depending if a new picture is uploaded. |
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"My question to you ladys do you read them all?
It does make me laugh thoigh the comparisons are horrendous ladys can and always will be more picky
And? What makes you think we wouldn't be? Would you shag someone just because they wanted to?
Its not a bad thing.
Women will always be more desirable.
What's not a bad thing? Women having preferences about who they want to get naked with?
Why accuse us of being picky then, are you saying you'd shag anything or do you have preferences?"
Everyone has preferences.
And no you've completely blown it out of context.
Its not a bad thing to be picky if most men struggle to get 5 messages where as women get up to 1000's its pretty obvious.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My question to you ladys do you read them all?
It does make me laugh thoigh the comparisons are horrendous ladys can and always will be more picky "
I'm no more picky on here than in normal circumstances... And tbf you can read most of them without even opening them |
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"My question to you ladys do you read them all?
It does make me laugh thoigh the comparisons are horrendous ladys can and always will be more picky
I'm no more picky on here than in normal circumstances... And tbf you can read most of them without even opening them "
I can only imagine.
Clearly stated im straight uet got a lot of messages from guys myself. Had to block it in the end.
Maybe my hair and make up do me no favours
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I've had none today and I think about 3 over the weekend but I keep my filters really tight as I don't want a load of mail that I won't have time to read or answer for me it seems pointless and too time consuming if you try to clear them .And having a load of unread messages lighting up my inbox just gets to me.I prefer to keep it tidy.
It could be tight filters that stops them or a profile that people wouldn't message anyhow either way it works for me  |
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"It varies depending on whether I've posted a new photo. If I have, then I would estimate between 300-400 messages on that day. But if I don't post anything it's more like 50-100 in a day, which is a lot more manageable. "
Wow! I’ve had about 5 messages today and about 15 views, that’s a good day. Looking at your numbers I feel flattered! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had none today and I think about 3 over the weekend but I keep my filters really tight as I don't want a load of mail that I won't have time to read or answer for me it seems pointless and too time consuming if you try to clear them .And having a load of unread messages lighting up my inbox just gets to me.I prefer to keep it tidy.
It could be tight filters that stops them or a profile that people wouldn't message anyhow either way it works for me "
Agreed filters are a wonderful little option x |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
It varies quite a bit, we get more if we post a pic or get a verification rather than laying low and I’d say 90% are from guys, they are definitely the most chatty on this site. |
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It honestly depends how many messages couples/singles want to get.
We have our filters set very tight indeed as we’re here to meet people rather than chat. So with that in mind we exclude those we’re not interested in. (Outside our age, non site supporters, newbies, no public pictures).
This massively cut down on our messages and made our account actually manageable.
If you exclude messages from people we’re already chatting to, then I’d say it varies from 0-2 new contacts a day on a regular day.
If we post a status it can be 3-5 new messages.
If we post a new photo it can be 5-20 new messages a day.
Again these numbers aren’t counting folk we’re already talking to or have met before.
If we are visiting a different area and are active we get more messages as we obviously pop up on different peoples feeds. I dread to think how many messages we’d get if we went to London, posted a status and a new Picture!
- John
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Vastly depends on how active you are, how many friends you have, if you post new pictures....what day of the week or is, what's on the tele, what you had for dinner, the list is f endless tbh
Jo x |
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