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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"and just HOW do you make yours? Slowly and sensuously or fast and furiously?
Gut instinct is seldom wrong "
Very true - but what kind of a decision maker are you - do you think about all the consequences, plan the next steps like in a game of chess with all ifs and buts... or do you just go for it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im pretty impulsive and do tend to go with my gut.
I've been wrong and have kicked myself for not taking a step back but do not overly beat myself up over it as at the time i truly felt it was the right thing to do |
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"and just HOW do you make yours? Slowly and sensuously or fast and furiously?
Gut instinct is seldom wrong Very true - but what kind of a decision maker are you - do you think about all the consequences, plan the next steps like in a game of chess with all ifs and buts... or do you just go for it? "
If it feels right then do it - never look back and wish you had - life is too short for regrets! |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Im pretty impulsive and do tend to go with my gut.
I've been wrong and have kicked myself for not taking a step back but do not overly beat myself up over it as at the time i truly felt it was the right thing to do"
I can be very impulsive even with bigger decisions like buying a car, some of the time I reflect back and think that perhaps I should have taken more time for my decision but mostyly I am happy with them. Anyway, once they are done.. they are done and no point beating myself up about them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I take time to deliberate over important decisions but deep down I know what I want to do and go with that. In relation to my careers I am quite ambitious and I like to do and achieve different things, but I won't do this impulsively, ill think deeply about it. I like learning and have studied in order to achieve a whole new career path.
In other things, namely purchasing items, I'm impulsive, which is why ive ended up with the amount of clothes and shoes I have.
In relation to swinging I took my time and a considered approach to decide on whether I could do this. I looked at various clubs, joined a site to gain knowledge before we decided to join chams. I took my time before deciding to indulge in sexual activity with strangers to ensure I was mature enough to deal with it.
In relation to house hunting and the kids schools again I studied and looked at all the options, gained information and came to an informed choice.
So for me I guess in non important things I'm frivolous and impulsive but for the important things in life I'm quite serious
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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago
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"im very decisive cant stand ditherers I am struggling with ditherers when they dither on small issues...I can understand dithering on the largeer issues."
even for major decisions i tend to just make a decision,must say though iv been wrong a few times,but i usually find a wrong decision has never caused major problems just a different rd to walk down
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