Being stared at can be uncomfortable for most people, depending on the situation. It's better and more appropriate to shift your gaze after a second or so. Stare at porn as much as you want to or hire company.
I'm OK with a whistle sometimes to me but context is everything. It's better to engage in conversation but be mindful of intimidation and frightening and harassing others. |
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I never really do either. Wolf whistling feels very archaic to me.
Staring can get a little creepy. Looking often trying to catch their eyes then smiling before looking away again is a different matter  |
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"How do woman feel about a wolf whistle and if a guy stares at them if they look hot luv to know what people's views are "
Ask your female relatives, they will tell you.
Considering many girls below the age of consent look much older, would you want your young teen objectified? How safe do you think she'd feel? Do you think that's a positive male role model she's experiencing?
Would you want her constantly on edge for fear the wolf whistler, who is always surrounded by his baying workmates, would take it further?
What is so difficult about NOT making women feel threatened?
Be a man women would walk barefoot over red coals to be with, not to flee from. |
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If a guy stares at me it make me feel creeped out can only imagine what it must be like for women.
And I've never understood why anyone would wolf whistle, what do they think its going to achieve? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why do it
They like to think they are being looked at
They don't like to be shown they are being looked at
A guy got sacked for doing it on a building site rightly so
It's definitely insalting |
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By *aul38 OP Man
over a year ago
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Some woman enjoy the attention and some don't I think a glance is ok but staring is creepy . There is a clip on the promoter Eddie Hearn at a weigh in we're a female boxer stripped down to skimpy underwear and he would not look at all . |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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Thankfully wolf whistling isnt really am issue I have to deal with nowadays, I used to hate it when I was younger though and found it really intimidating.
And staring is just downright creepy. |
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Having consulted my oracle of feminine ways (ladies in my office), it depends:
If the whistler is hot, it's nice.
If the whistler is a slob, it's creepy.
Regardless of the whistler's hotness status, if she's having a bad day, fuck off.
It's demeaning.
It's flattering.
Delete as applicable. |
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I probably wouldn’t be comfortable with a long stare, depends how long! A glance I’m ok with.
Wolf whistling belongs in the 80s although making it a criminal offence is a bit far fetched.
I haven’t seen or heard anyone wolf whistle for about 30 years anyway. |
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"It’ll probably be a criminal offensive soon enough so it’s probably best not too.
Looking at a woman could also end up the same eventually so I’d get sun glasses  "
That won't do i'm afraid. I want you in a wing bonnet like the handmaids. |
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"How do woman feel about a wolf whistle and if a guy stares at them if they look hot luv to know what people's views are "
I've wolf whistled at guys before and done the "what's up" stare (not to be confused with the bunny boiler stare)
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"Having consulted my oracle of feminine ways (ladies in my office), it depends:
If the whistler is hot, it's nice.
If the whistler is a slob, it's creepy.
Regardless of the whistler's hotness status, if she's having a bad day, fuck off.
It's demeaning.
It's flattering.
Delete as applicable."
That's bang on the money! |
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"Just don't.
Don't whistle, don't make that sound like you're calling a cat, it's creepy, intimidating and I'm just trying to go about my business without being objectified."
So much.
I've got shit to do that isn't about anyone's opinion on my appearance |
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By *aul38 OP Man
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"How do woman feel about a wolf whistle and if a guy stares at them if they look hot luv to know what people's views are
I've wolf whistled at guys before and done the "what's up" stare (not to be confused with the bunny boiler stare)
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I don't mind you using my whistle |
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