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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's how we became a couple.
Met here. Had lots of fun. Caught feels. Now we're a couple here.
Works for us! And I know at least one other couple that is the same. X |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't think it's good or bad primarily. It just is. If everyone is happy with that then that's fair enough.
It's not that common but I think because it's more likely to be spoken about it might seem that way? |
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By *olmate OP Man
over a year ago
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"I don't think it's good or bad primarily. It just is. If everyone is happy with that then that's fair enough.
It's not that common but I think because it's more likely to be spoken about it might seem that way? "
You are right!
Communication is the key. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely it depends if you're open to more than meeting for sex? And that will be unique to individuals and their situations. For me as a married woman catching feelings isn't what I'm looking for. I have my guard up and won't get that close to anyone. Its worked so far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know plenty couples on here that met on fab . The feelings can develop if you are spending time with each other. I also have a couple of single female friends that have a strict 3 meet only rule. It saves them getting hurt as they are not looking for a relationship. It works for them and it's a good way to protect themselves from getting hurt. Each to their own I guess. It all depends what you're looking for. Sometimes you can meet the right person when you least expect it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on how deep the feelings go OP. I know I won’t meet anyone I don’t like.
It’s liking someone as a friend catching feelings?"
I don't think so. I'd say when romantic feelings are involved. |
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I think it would be easy to develop feelings if you are regularly meeting the same person all the time like the fwb thing …. I think one of the only ways to avoid that would be to not keep going with the same person/people and then you don’t get caught up in any drama etc  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on how deep the feelings go OP. I know I won’t meet anyone I don’t like.
It’s liking someone as a friend catching feelings?
I don't think so. I'd say when romantic feelings are involved. "
Thats a relief for me  |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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I wouldn’t really want to keep seeing someone I had no feelings for. I need to like someone if I’m going to see them. That might (and has) developed into liking someone a lot. But I know where the boundaries are. It’s a bubble. |
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"Ew feelings
Not as bad as gingernuts! 
Ooohhh ginger nuts 
I'll assume you mean the biscuits and are taking my side on this
I mean both!!!!! "
Just to clarify I obviously meant the biscuits! From the other thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ew feelings
Not as bad as gingernuts!
Ooohhh ginger nuts
I'll assume you mean the biscuits and are taking my side on this
I mean both!!!!!
Just to clarify I obviously meant the biscuits! From the other thread "
I get strong feels from gingernuts, and you will not take that away from me! |
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"Ew feelings
Not as bad as gingernuts!
Ooohhh ginger nuts
I'll assume you mean the biscuits and are taking my side on this
I mean both!!!!!
Just to clarify I obviously meant the biscuits! From the other thread
I get strong feels from gingernuts, and you will not take that away from me! "
. We can’t take over every thread with our gingernut disagreement |
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"Ew feelings
Not as bad as gingernuts!
Ooohhh ginger nuts
I'll assume you mean the biscuits and are taking my side on this
I mean both!!!!!
Just to clarify I obviously meant the biscuits! From the other thread "
Lies…. |
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I think you have to have some degree of feeling for a person you meet, it depends how you deal with the situation if you feel more then they do, it doesn’t have to develop into love, a great friendship can be enough at times   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ew feelings
Not as bad as gingernuts!
Ooohhh ginger nuts
I'll assume you mean the biscuits and are taking my side on this
I mean both!!!!!
Just to clarify I obviously meant the biscuits! From the other thread
I get strong feels from gingernuts, and you will not take that away from me!
. We can’t take over every thread with our gingernut disagreement "
Food derails are totally standard on a certain other kinky website I may have visited. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you have to have some degree of feeling for a person you meet, it depends how you deal with the situation if you feel more then they do, it doesn’t have to develop into love, a great friendship can be enough at times "
The mythical connection  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was warned about catching feelings on here and had my boundaries up as totally friends only casual zone.
But as we know, no prophylactics are 100% effective |
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"I think you have to have some degree of feeling for a person you meet, it depends how you deal with the situation if you feel more then they do, it doesn’t have to develop into love, a great friendship can be enough at times
The mythical connection "
You can find it, several times if you’re lucky  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are these feelings you speak of?
It’s where your brain is looking forward to seeing someone rather than just your winky "
Pffft, my dinkle doesn't even care these days. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are these feelings you speak of?
It’s where your brain is looking forward to seeing someone rather than just your winky
Pffft, my dinkle doesn't even care these days."
Dinkle! That's what my mum called mine when I was little. Never ever heard it used by anyone else before. I just assumed my mum was a weirdo |
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"Depends on how deep the feelings go OP. I know I won’t meet anyone I don’t like.
It’s liking someone as a friend catching feelings?"
I become very fond of my fwbs. But its not romantic. I feel no jealousy. I am happy with what we have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met my now wife through fab what was meant to be a one off meet had us meeting socially for months long story short now married living together know our boundaries and still have fun with others works for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of you seem to think that liking someone equates to feelings. That isn't what I take it to mean. I'm perfectly capable of liking those I meet I just don't want any romantic involvement. There's no room for those sorts of feelings. I assume that's what the OP meant. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"I think you have to have some degree of feeling for a person you meet, it depends how you deal with the situation if you feel more then they do, it doesn’t have to develop into love, a great friendship can be enough at times
The mythical connection "
It’s not a myth, but it is rare. You both have to be just the right amount of messed up to still have some feelings , but not too many |
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Its something I need to have in poly relationships, I cannot practice tantra without serious feelings for that person, do I act in society's norms on those feelings no. I embrace and bask in them in our playtime, nothing more  |
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By *olmate OP Man
over a year ago
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"Some of you seem to think that liking someone equates to feelings. That isn't what I take it to mean. I'm perfectly capable of liking those I meet I just don't want any romantic involvement. There's no room for those sorts of feelings. I assume that's what the OP meant. "
Well explained...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think you have to have some degree of feeling for a person you meet, it depends how you deal with the situation if you feel more then they do, it doesn’t have to develop into love, a great friendship can be enough at times
The mythical connection
It’s not a myth, but it is rare. You both have to be just the right amount of messed up to still have some feelings , but not too many "
Not sure if that sounds like a gift or a curse. and how many is too many. And why nobody is concerned about not enough but too much is more thought provoking. |
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