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should married men.....

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

who are on this site without wifes knowledge....shut the fuck up and stop complaining about your partner and how its her fault she doesn't fuck you anymore...or you need more sex then what she can give you.....but you still love her while your hanging out of another woman's fanny!! be honest with her and yourself and say....me coming is more important that someone i fake love with....

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By *erfectman122Man over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Well said op never a true word said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"who are on this site without wifes knowledge....shut the fuck up and stop complaining about your partner and how its her fault she doesn't fuck you anymore...or you need more sex then what she can give you.....but you still love her while your hanging out of another woman's fanny!! be honest with her and yourself and say....me coming is more important that someone i fake love with...."

Nope. There's less of them than the "why won't they reply?, I've been here 35 years without a meet, rate my meat" posts. I'm loving the rich variety this site gives. Post more I say

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

Wow. Seeing as they don’t affect you in any way I’d say leave them be and mind your own.

There are many things in relationships nobody sees outside of it.

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By *yron69Man over a year ago

Fareham

This is hardly the place to seek perfect behaviour

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

WOW, OP, someone is a little OTT today, what's wrong, did she turn you down ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm coming round with the sweet trolley

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm coming round with the sweet trolley

Wham bar please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm coming round with the sweet trolley

Can I get som humbugs please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think they have as much right to moan about their situation as the rest of us

The deal isn't pay a fiver and then say nothing unless you fit a demographic that suits a majority value

The deal is pay a fiver and use the site how you like with common guidelines

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course boys

Don't touch the sour jellies, the OPs had them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *erfectman122Man over a year ago

from somewhere nice

May I have a Mars bar

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Of course boys

Don't touch the sour jellies, the OPs had them

Thanks hun. I'll suck quietly in the corner

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

"May I have a Mars bar

Yes share with you

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By *erfectman122Man over a year ago

from somewhere nice

"May I have a Mars bar

Yes share with you "
your more than welcome

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

"Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

He’s obviously bored or frustrated or both

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My question to them is always is it ok for your wife to go out to a club bar or web site and get sexy with some random 75% off the time I don’t get a answer to this question

24% off the time I get no it wouldn’t be ok to them I say well why it is ok for you to

And there’s the odd 1% that come back and say god I wish she would

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm coming round with the sweet trolley

Curly Wurly please

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By *iss MaverickWoman over a year ago

Porthcawl

Don't be such a judgy judger!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ll have the Bounty. There’s always a Bounty left as no one else seems to like them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

Well he has a point from some of the posts. It's not uncommon to see blokes moaning about not getting any off the Mrs but apparently not making much effort with her either.

It'd probably have been better targeted at lazy entitled pricks with their brains in their boxers than specifically at married guys on the downlow.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm coming round with the sweet trolley

Wham bar please

My teeth ache at the mere mention!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

I always read threads like this as attempts to curry favour amongst the womenfolk

An attempt to divide & conquer

It's a low blow

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By *on-snowedMan over a year ago

harlow

Some couples are more friends than sexual.

Personally I get that of its been a long time and the stress of life has barricaded your mojo.

Sex isn't important to everyone especially if its rubbish.

Personally couldn't be in a relationship like that and would be looking else where.

Only human all have needs.

Take away 80% of feelings away from a relationship cos, if you really think about it... its just someone you want to spend your life with.

big changes can happen at the drop of a hat its horrible being on edge all the time.

I'll be single for the rest of my days i really think that.

Just added unnecessary drama

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

"Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

Well he has a point from some of the posts. It's not uncommon to see blokes moaning about not getting any off the Mrs but apparently not making much effort with her either.

It'd probably have been better targeted at lazy entitled pricks with their brains in their boxers than specifically at married guys on the downlow. "

It is another form of lazy shaming though in a very transparent attempt to gain acceptance from a small minority of the site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not touching this with a barge pole lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

Well he has a point from some of the posts. It's not uncommon to see blokes moaning about not getting any off the Mrs but apparently not making much effort with her either.

It'd probably have been better targeted at lazy entitled pricks with their brains in their boxers than specifically at married guys on the downlow.

It is another form of lazy shaming though in a very transparent attempt to gain acceptance from a small minority of the site. "

No shame can I ask why ever marred man I ask this question to who’s on here without wife knowing shys away from it

Question is. Is it ok for your wife to go out and have sex with a random she meet at a bar work web site seems this question is ducked ever time do you know why

Because I all ready know the answer that would be a no people need to start looking in words if they wouldn’t like they wife doing it then they shouldn’t be

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't see why the Women on here even give Married Guys the time of day.

They obviously can't even satisfy their Wives never mind any of the Women on here.

In fact their Wives are probably coming to a single guy like me to get satisfied.

Half there Wives are probably on here too.

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

I always read threads like this as attempts to curry favour amongst the womenfolk

An attempt to divide & conquer

It's a low blow "

Yup. Exactly that!! White knighting in its worst form.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone’s issues are valid.

It just be absolutely horrendous to be married to someone and love them, but not get any intimacy or affection.

I’m not defending people’s right to be unfaithful, but it’s really not that simple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

not shaming anyone....enjoy the site and have fun....but stop saying its somebody else fault that your looking on here

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By *on-snowedMan over a year ago

harlow

"Everyone’s issues are valid.

It just be absolutely horrendous to be married to someone and love them, but not get any intimacy or affection.

I’m not defending people’s right to be unfaithful, but it’s really not that simple. "

My point put a lot better.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not touching this with a barge pole lol "

You just did!

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

not shaming anyone....enjoy the site and have fun....but stop saying its somebody else fault that your looking on here"

That’s not what you wrote.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Excuse me, can someone point me in the direction of the tool department, please?

Oh its ok, found a big one!

I'll be on my way now x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

not shaming anyone....enjoy the site and have fun....but stop saying its somebody else fault that your looking on here

That’s not what you wrote.

yes it is....i said stop blaming your partners

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

not shaming anyone....enjoy the site and have fun....but stop saying its somebody else fault that your looking on here

That’s not what you wrote.

yes it is....i said stop blaming your partners "

And a whole lot more….

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By *elshkinkyMan over a year ago

south wales

Honestly dont give two hoots to what people think of my relationship status… I’m honest about it, I never hide it. Some people don’t mind it, some people avoid me because of it and some people like it due to the less complicated nature of things… oh and believe it or not… some women are married on here without their partners knowledge too, I know as I have chatted to a few… I am sure if you had a chance with them you’d turn them down flat as they dropped to their knees OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why should it be fake love? Are love and sex intertwined such that you can't have one without the other?

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By *ave1963BarnsleyMan over a year ago

Barnsley

"Wow. Seeing as they don’t affect you in any way I’d say leave them be and mind your own.

There are many things in relationships nobody sees outside of it. "

This ^. Only those in the relationship have a full picture of what's gone on and it isn't for others to judge.

I don't moralise, especially as the decisions made by others are not my responsibility.

I personally don't knowingly play with those who are playing away without their partner's knowledge, but the fact they may be doing so is their business and not for me to concern myself with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as they don’t hide it from potential meets and allow others to decide if they want to meet someone married or not, can’t say fairer than that.

As someone who has been cheated on, I’d never meet anyone married. It destroys lives and I find it despicable to be honest.

Having said that, I was in a long term relationship with no sexual contact for 7 years, I didn’t cheat but it was very damaging to my self confidence and quite frustrating at times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

my point was....dont blame others

if you want to be on a site then be on that site but dont say your here because of someone else

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

I can read your post perfectly well on here thanks OP. Please do not message me.

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

"Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

not shaming anyone....enjoy the site and have fun....but stop saying its somebody else fault that your looking on here"

I’m not married mate but your thinly vailed attempt to shame a group of people for their reasons for being on here is so transparently obvious.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Ooooh another let’s stick our nose in and slate a group of people we know nothing about. Great stuff

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By *erfectman122Man over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Op may I ask a question does this go for married women to….

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Op may I ask a question does this go for married women to….

To be fair you don’t get many married women doing threads moaning

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is hardly the place to seek perfect behaviour "

Really? Do you care to explain your comment a little more?

It comes across as your judging people who swing / swinging as something that's wrong, to be ashamed of, poor behaviour or akin to cheating?

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

If it doesn't concern me then I don't concern myself with it.

Life isn't black and white..I don't think you should attempt to tar people with the same brush.

And whilst trying to do so be so very mean about it!

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By *isteaMan over a year ago

Around

"Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

not shaming anyone....enjoy the site and have fun....but stop saying its somebody else fault that your looking on here

I’m not married mate but your thinly vailed attempt to shame a group of people for their reasons for being on here is so transparently obvious. "

True, I feel like he has been bested and has little luck so far. I ain't married either but if I do get married, we having fun together

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Op may I ask a question does this go for married women to….

its not about the cheating....

its the blaming of someone else because your to scared to otherwise

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By *elshkinkyMan over a year ago

south wales

"my point was....dont blame others

if you want to be on a site then be on that site but dont say your here because of someone else"

Unless you own this site… people can say what the hell they like. Not sure why you still continue to say what people can and can’t do… if you don’t like it then ignore it…

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Op may I ask a question does this go for married women to….

its not about the cheating....

its the blaming of someone else because your to scared to otherwise"

Wtf do you know about anyone’s relationship?!

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By *ougie321Man over a year ago

Milford Haven

There’s better ways to get noticed/look at me tactics this being the wtf it’s got to do with you one.

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Op may I ask a question does this go for married women to….

its not about the cheating....

its the blaming of someone else because your to scared to otherwise"

Clearly…..

..but you still love her while your hanging out of another woman's fanny!! be honest with her and yourself and say....me coming is more important that someone i fake love with....

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By *etcplCouple over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

No. They have as much right to use fab and post as anyone else. We are not forced to read or respond to everything, and while some threads may be repetitive or irritating just igore and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Op may I ask a question does this go for married women to….

its not about the cheating....

its the blaming of someone else because your to scared to otherwise"

You didn’t answer the question.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *assing Fancies xCouple over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

"Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

not shaming anyone....enjoy the site and have fun....but stop saying its somebody else fault that your looking on here"
again like with many of your threads... It most certainly does not come across like you are not shaming anyone

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By *lex D.Man over a year ago

London

I personally think it is nobody's business.

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

Why don’t you stop moaning about the moaners and mind your own boring business

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m more concerned about single men who wear sunglasses indoors.

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By *etcplCouple over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I’m more concerned about single men who wear sunglasses indoors. "

I told you they are prescription!! I am not, repeat not, trying to live my Top Gun life....

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"my point was....dont blame others

if you want to be on a site then be on that site but dont say your here because of someone else

Unless you own this site… people can say what the hell they like. Not sure why you still continue to say what people can and can’t do… if you don’t like it then ignore it… "

Mmm good advice, oh you didn’t follow it.

I suspect, and it is only “suspect” it is more about the deeper projection of self onto others/forums and not the surface structure of the question and how it manifests itself.

However, I’m not a mind reader. Plus I suspect that was a mental projection.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't see why the Women on here even give Married Guys the time of day.

They obviously can't even satisfy their Wives never mind any of the Women on here.

In fact their Wives are probably coming to a single guy like me to get satisfied.

Half there Wives are probably on here too.

Hang on let me get my head around that...

It's ok for you to give married wives your time, but with the ladies doing the same with married men, you can't understand why they do?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love and sex are a completely different thing ask any swingers lol

Somebody tired OP hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Excuse me, can someone point me in the direction of the tool department, please?

Oh its ok, found a big one!

I'll be on my way now x "

Still bring another tool - let's finish the job properly

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I don't see why the Women on here even give Married Guys the time of day.

They obviously can't even satisfy their Wives never mind any of the Women on here.

In fact their Wives are probably coming to a single guy like me to get satisfied.

Half there Wives are probably on here too.

I prefer married men. A lot less hassle and a lot more respectful than single men in my personal experience

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By *atnip make me purrWoman over a year ago

Reading

The irony being shown on this thread is making my head explode.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Love and sex are a completely different thing ask any swingers lol

Somebody tired OP hahaha"

i post my opinion some like some don't but a lot of people on the thread have made me see them in a different light...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just a thought but for some married men are a better option. Less likely to get jealous when you meet other people, often better and more considerate in bed than single men too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Forgot to answer you OP....

If a married woman dropped to her knees would you say 'get up woman, go home to your husband, what type of man do you take me for'...

Please answer honestly!

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By *agic.MMan over a year ago

Orpington

Plenty of married women that do the same here (they are not as vocal in the forums, but very much vocal in their messages)...and guess what, just like with them, it's no one's fucking business! You don't know the ins and outs of their relationship, or their partners, so shaming them on the forums is ...well, a bitch ass move. Oh and why should they not talk about it on the forums? Maybe it is the only place they can express themselves, maybe they have tried repeatedly to speak to their partners but with no conclusions, maybe financially they are forced to stay togheter, maybe their children need both of them in the same house...MEN ARE ALLOWED TO TALK ABIUT THEIR FEELINGS TOO! So mate, it's none of your business!

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Love and sex are a completely different thing ask any swingers lol

Somebody tired OP hahaha

i post my opinion some like some don't but a lot of people on the thread have made me see them in a different light..."

Absolutely. That’s one good thing about threads like these

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Just a thought but for some married men are a better option. Less likely to get jealous when you meet other people, often better and more considerate in bed than single men too "

And usually just looking for one person which is just the way I like it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The irony being shown on this thread is making my head explode. "

Probably best to log out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ok poncherello

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Love and sex are a completely different thing ask any swingers lol

Somebody tired OP hahaha

i post my opinion some like some don't but a lot of people on the thread have made me see them in a different light...

Absolutely. That’s one good thing about threads like these

aint that the truth

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

"Love and sex are a completely different thing ask any swingers lol

Somebody tired OP hahaha

i post my opinion some like some don't but a lot of people on the thread have made me see them in a different light...

Absolutely. That’s one good thing about threads like these

aint that the truth

You also learn who you don’t want to meet. Ever!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just a thought but for some married men are a better option. Less likely to get jealous when you meet other people, often better and more considerate in bed than single men too "

^ what this lady said.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"my point was....dont blame others

if you want to be on a site then be on that site but dont say your here because of someone else"

Or join a site specifically for cheaters so you don't need to give anyone an explanation.

The second I spot the word "discreet" on here I think cheater.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm still won't be eating pussy.

Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well said noochie

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just a thought but for some married men are a better option. Less likely to get jealous when you meet other people, often better and more considerate in bed than single men too "

But can really trust them though, I mean if they’re happy to cheat on the love of their life what else are they willing to do ?!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

Assumptions, assumptions. Everyone has their reasons for being here, each to their own, no one can judge another unless in their shoes and their particular set of circumstances.

As for your last sentence ‘my coming is more important than fake love’, you do know you can love someone and not be having sex with them, it doesn’t make it fake.

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By *erfectman122Man over a year ago

from somewhere nice

"Just a thought but for some married men are a better option. Less likely to get jealous when you meet other people, often better and more considerate in bed than single men too

But can really trust them though, I mean if they’re happy to cheat on the love of their life what else are they willing to do ?!"
this is true

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Just a thought but for some married men are a better option. Less likely to get jealous when you meet other people, often better and more considerate in bed than single men too

But can really trust them though, I mean if they’re happy to cheat on the love of their life what else are they willing to do ?!"

Can you trust anyone though?

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Forgot to answer you OP....

If a married woman dropped to her knees would you say 'get up woman, go home to your husband, what type of man do you take me for'...

Please answer honestly!"

hard to say because if i knew she was married i wouldnt message her....dont know if i could say the same if revealed later

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh for fucks sake.

I could have sat there bitching about how I didn't get sex in my last relationship and bitching about how much effort I made but to no avail.

It's not just men that do this. And not just married people either.

What harm is it doing you? Their choice, their life, profile etc, can't you just scroll past like a good boy?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just a thought but for some married men are a better option. Less likely to get jealous when you meet other people, often better and more considerate in bed than single men too

But can really trust them though, I mean if they’re happy to cheat on the love of their life what else are they willing to do ?!

Can you trust anyone though?

Nope "

I think you can trust some people more than others, if someone lacks scruples, then I’d obviously trust them a lot less.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just a thought but for some married men are a better option. Less likely to get jealous when you meet other people, often better and more considerate in bed than single men too

But can really trust them though, I mean if they’re happy to cheat on the love of their life what else are they willing to do ?!"

Give us the best orgasms ever - well for me anyway

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By *rHotNottsMan over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Nope. There's less of them than the "why won't they reply?, I've been here 35 years without a meet, rate my meat" posts. I'm loving the rich variety this site gives. Post more I say"

Agreed…. And less of them than the women crying that they they joined an anonymous and free sex site primarily full of frustrated pubescent boys who send a million messages per hour saying they want to do really bad things to them….. and they don’t even say please.

Cheater whiners are okay, let them be

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By *edantic SheilaWoman over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I'm coming round with the sweet trolley

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You got popcorn?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Oh for fucks sake.

I could have sat there bitching about how I didn't get sex in my last relationship and bitching about how much effort I made but to no avail.

It's not just men that do this. And not just married people either.

What harm is it doing you? Their choice, their life, profile etc, can't you just scroll past like a good boy? "

doing me no harm...the same as this thread with you

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By *assing Fancies xCouple over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

"Oh for fucks sake.

I could have sat there bitching about how I didn't get sex in my last relationship and bitching about how much effort I made but to no avail.

It's not just men that do this. And not just married people either.

What harm is it doing you? Their choice, their life, profile etc, can't you just scroll past like a good boy? "
couldn't have put it better ourselves

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

He’s obviously bored or frustrated or both "
but aren’t they supposed to sort it out between their selves & not take the easy way & get a lay from another woman if either partner isn’t happy anymore with one another you leave

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

Well he has a point from some of the posts. It's not uncommon to see blokes moaning about not getting any off the Mrs but apparently not making much effort with her either.

It'd probably have been better targeted at lazy entitled pricks with their brains in their boxers than specifically at married guys on the downlow.

It is another form of lazy shaming though in a very transparent attempt to gain acceptance from a small minority of the site.

No shame can I ask why ever marred man I ask this question to who’s on here without wife knowing shys away from it

Question is. Is it ok for your wife to go out and have sex with a random she meet at a bar work web site seems this question is ducked ever time do you know why

Because I all ready know the answer that would be a no people need to start looking in words if they wouldn’t like they wife doing it then they shouldn’t be "

If it made her happy, yes. I wouldnt have a problem.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm coming round with the sweet trolley

You got popcorn?

Sorry

Only bananas left - hurry before the OP gets them

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm coming round with the sweet trolley

You got popcorn?

Sorry

Only bananas left - hurry before the OP gets them

have you seen my video? lol

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By *ugRollersCouple over a year ago

Newcastle

Sometimes even if the sex is fantastic at home the thrill of doing something without anyone’s knowledge is exciting …. It’s the thrill seeking which gets people off … which is in us all… you can’t blame married men… you can’t blame married women… it’s nature …. But I do think if things are totally off at home and you aren’t happy then it’s more than just sex it’s being intimate etc and if either party isn’t providing so much as a hug or kiss … well … maybe that needs exploring more but I’m not a marriage counsellor or sex therapist

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you alright, OP? You sound a little bit on edge.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

This didn't go down very well, OP, did it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm coming round with the sweet trolley

You got popcorn?

Sorry

Only bananas left - hurry before the OP gets them

have you seen my video? lol"

Correct

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By *unandfriendship4uMan over a year ago

sheffield

If im honest op... usually those who shout the most. Habe nothing to say and they saying it to loud..

Fabswingers not judge judy.

Have cup tea and refresh .

Feel the love mwah xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This didn't go down very well, OP, did it?

do mine ever....im enjoying your gloat lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm coming round with the sweet trolley

You got popcorn?

Sorry

Only bananas left - hurry before the OP gets them

have you seen my video? lol

Correct

its funnier with a bigger one lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Are you alright, OP? You sound a little bit on edge."

im alright now lol thanks for the concern x

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"This didn't go down very well, OP, did it?

do mine ever....im enjoying your gloat lol x"

I'm not gloating (she says crossing her fingers!) I just don't know why you keep doing this to yourself?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This didn't go down very well, OP, did it?

do mine ever....im enjoying your gloat lol x

I'm not gloating (she says crossing her fingers!) I just don't know why you keep doing this to yourself?

no you can gloat.....i do really well on the forums then.....i have a thought and i dont always think that thought through....but please gloat away its deserved x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm coming round with the sweet trolley

double lolly for me please!

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"This didn't go down very well, OP, did it?

do mine ever....im enjoying your gloat lol x

I'm not gloating (she says crossing her fingers!) I just don't know why you keep doing this to yourself?

no you can gloat.....i do really well on the forums then.....i have a thought and i dont always think that thought through....but please gloat away its deserved x"

Nah, I'm starting to warm to you, against my better judgement!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I really would like to know how married men complaining and laying the blame at someone else’s door is affecting you OP?

In every aspect of life there is blame and victim mindsets why should fab be any different?

If you don’t like or agree with someone voicing their opinions or feelings then just scroll on. That is the choice you have.

Often blame or victim mindsets come from a place where someone feels life isn’t fair to them so blasting them on a thread isn’t really going to help

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This didn't go down very well, OP, did it?

do mine ever....im enjoying your gloat lol x

I'm not gloating (she says crossing her fingers!) I just don't know why you keep doing this to yourself?

no you can gloat.....i do really well on the forums then.....i have a thought and i dont always think that thought through....but please gloat away its deserved x

Nah, I'm starting to warm to you, against my better judgement!

really? lol

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By *hocCock1Man over a year ago

Southampton

Let them do as they see fit, im not them,I've no idea of their situation, as long as they're honest about marital status

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ll have the Bounty. There’s always a Bounty left as no one else seems to like them. "

Not in my house ! fight your for it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I really would like to know how married men complaining and laying the blame at someone else’s door is affecting you OP?

In every aspect of life there is blame and victim mindsets why should fab be any different?

If you don’t like or agree with someone voicing their opinions or feelings then just scroll on. That is the choice you have.

Often blame or victim mindsets come from a place where someone feels life isn’t fair to them so blasting them on a thread isn’t really going to help"

your right its not affecting me....but sometimes...just sometimes i like to say my opinion good or bad because i like a good debate on the forums..just a break from the other nice threads...get angry at me for what ive said then go and enjoy the nicer threads..thats what i will be doing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really would like to know how married men complaining and laying the blame at someone else’s door is affecting you OP?

In every aspect of life there is blame and victim mindsets why should fab be any different?

If you don’t like or agree with someone voicing their opinions or feelings then just scroll on. That is the choice you have.

Often blame or victim mindsets come from a place where someone feels life isn’t fair to them so blasting them on a thread isn’t really going to help

I’m still looking for the question you asked to start a debate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ll have the Bounty. There’s always a Bounty left as no one else seems to like them.

Not in my house ! fight your for it!

Milk chocolate or dark? If it's dark it's mine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really would like to know how married men complaining and laying the blame at someone else’s door is affecting you OP?

In every aspect of life there is blame and victim mindsets why should fab be any different?

If you don’t like or agree with someone voicing their opinions or feelings then just scroll on. That is the choice you have.

Often blame or victim mindsets come from a place where someone feels life isn’t fair to them so blasting them on a thread isn’t really going to help"

So you don’t like his opinion, but you didn’t scroll on, you voiced your opinion, if you’re not going to follow your own advice then why should he ?

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

I never thought I'd read a thread where the vast majority were in support of married people.

It's been amusing to read a thread different to the snog, marry avoid sort.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I really would like to know how married men complaining and laying the blame at someone else’s door is affecting you OP?

In every aspect of life there is blame and victim mindsets why should fab be any different?

If you don’t like or agree with someone voicing their opinions or feelings then just scroll on. That is the choice you have.

Often blame or victim mindsets come from a place where someone feels life isn’t fair to them so blasting them on a thread isn’t really going to help

I’m still looking for the question you asked to start a debate

did i say question? sorry i meant opinion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really would like to know how married men complaining and laying the blame at someone else’s door is affecting you OP?

In every aspect of life there is blame and victim mindsets why should fab be any different?

If you don’t like or agree with someone voicing their opinions or feelings then just scroll on. That is the choice you have.

Often blame or victim mindsets come from a place where someone feels life isn’t fair to them so blasting them on a thread isn’t really going to help

So you don’t like his opinion, but you didn’t scroll on, you voiced your opinion, if you’re not going to follow your own advice then why should he ? "

Because I’m not creating a post complaining about something that doesn’t affect me

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"I really would like to know how married men complaining and laying the blame at someone else’s door is affecting you OP?

In every aspect of life there is blame and victim mindsets why should fab be any different?

If you don’t like or agree with someone voicing their opinions or feelings then just scroll on. That is the choice you have.

Often blame or victim mindsets come from a place where someone feels life isn’t fair to them so blasting them on a thread isn’t really going to help

I’m still looking for the question you asked to start a debate

did i say question? sorry i meant opinion"

You did ask a question- you said “should married men …” you just didn’t have a “?”

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really would like to know how married men complaining and laying the blame at someone else’s door is affecting you OP?

In every aspect of life there is blame and victim mindsets why should fab be any different?

If you don’t like or agree with someone voicing their opinions or feelings then just scroll on. That is the choice you have.

Often blame or victim mindsets come from a place where someone feels life isn’t fair to them so blasting them on a thread isn’t really going to help

So you don’t like his opinion, but you didn’t scroll on, you voiced your opinion, if you’re not going to follow your own advice then why should he ?

Because I’m not creating a post complaining about something that doesn’t affect me"

Which you could have avoided by scrolling on by, as was your advice to him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I really would like to know how married men complaining and laying the blame at someone else’s door is affecting you OP?

In every aspect of life there is blame and victim mindsets why should fab be any different?

If you don’t like or agree with someone voicing their opinions or feelings then just scroll on. That is the choice you have.

Often blame or victim mindsets come from a place where someone feels life isn’t fair to them so blasting them on a thread isn’t really going to help

I’m still looking for the question you asked to start a debate

did i say question? sorry i meant opinion

You did ask a question- you said “should married men …” you just didn’t have a “?”

oh so it was a question? it was the headline of the thread wasnt it?

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"I really would like to know how married men complaining and laying the blame at someone else’s door is affecting you OP?

In every aspect of life there is blame and victim mindsets why should fab be any different?

If you don’t like or agree with someone voicing their opinions or feelings then just scroll on. That is the choice you have.

Often blame or victim mindsets come from a place where someone feels life isn’t fair to them so blasting them on a thread isn’t really going to help

I’m still looking for the question you asked to start a debate

did i say question? sorry i meant opinion

You did ask a question- you said “should married men …” you just didn’t have a “?”

oh so it was a question? it was the headline of the thread wasnt it? "

Yes

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By *ovetlpleaseTV/TS over a year ago

Holt Pound Nr Farnham.

Bet you're single!!!

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By *imi_RougeWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

They been chatting you up too?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm coming round with the sweet trolley

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By *imi_RougeWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

I always read threads like this as attempts to curry favour amongst the womenfolk

An attempt to divide & conquer

It's a low blow "

Yep

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I really would like to know how married men complaining and laying the blame at someone else’s door is affecting you OP?

In every aspect of life there is blame and victim mindsets why should fab be any different?

If you don’t like or agree with someone voicing their opinions or feelings then just scroll on. That is the choice you have.

Often blame or victim mindsets come from a place where someone feels life isn’t fair to them so blasting them on a thread isn’t really going to help

I’m still looking for the question you asked to start a debate

did i say question? sorry i meant opinion

You did ask a question- you said “should married men …” you just didn’t have a “?”

oh so it was a question? it was the headline of the thread wasnt it?

Yes

sorry the tread got out of control i forgot what i had typed

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"They been chatting you up too?!"

certainly not me to you

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By *ohohoWoman over a year ago

Up North

Think your title should be. “Should married people “. Married women are treated a lot differently on this site to married men. But to me, they are the same.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really would like to know how married men complaining and laying the blame at someone else’s door is affecting you OP?

In every aspect of life there is blame and victim mindsets why should fab be any different?

If you don’t like or agree with someone voicing their opinions or feelings then just scroll on. That is the choice you have.

Often blame or victim mindsets come from a place where someone feels life isn’t fair to them so blasting them on a thread isn’t really going to help

So you don’t like his opinion, but you didn’t scroll on, you voiced your opinion, if you’re not going to follow your own advice then why should he ?

Because I’m not creating a post complaining about something that doesn’t affect me

Which you could have avoided by scrolling on by, as was your advice to him. "

No my advice was there is no need to lambast someone else

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow. Seeing as they don’t affect you in any way I’d say leave them be and mind your own.

There are many things in relationships nobody sees outside of it. "

Amen to this and it’s not just men who might be in that situation! There’s females who are cheating too. Don’t judge what you don’t understand and also if you’ve nothing nice to say don’t say anything.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

And so we should.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

"Just a thought but for some married men are a better option. Less likely to get jealous when you meet other people, often better and more considerate in bed than single men too

But can really trust them though, I mean if they’re happy to cheat on the love of their life what else are they willing to do ?!"

Exactly!! X

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By *erfectman122Man over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Think your title should be. “Should married people “. Married women are treated a lot differently on this site to married men. But to me, they are the same. "
was thinking this

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

"Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

And so we should. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ll have the Bounty. There’s always a Bounty left as no one else seems to like them.

Not in my house ! fight your for it!

Milk chocolate or dark? If it's dark it's mine. "

Red ones are all yours

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple over a year ago

Newport (just for today/tonight)

How we see Married dishonest members on here is that if they haven't got any respect for their partner (obviously they haven't) then they are hardly going to have any respect for random people they hope to meet on here.

Avoid like the plague is our advice!

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

I took the OP as saying meet who you want but please don’t complain about your partner at home who probably has no idea you are on this site meeting outside of your marriage.

Many times I’ve seen “cheats” called out and told to go sort their marriage/partnership out, many times we’ve seen posts about finding out the person you’ve met several times has a spouse at home with no idea what’s going but for some reason that’s seems ok now, weird right?

Maybe the OP didn’t express himself very well but that’s my take on it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't have an issue with married men snd women being here, but I do agree they should keep their mouth shut about their partner. I hate seeing posts where they'll share her details with a bunch of strangers and she's not even around to defend herself. It's a bit grim.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"I took the OP as saying meet who you want but please don’t complain about your partner at home who probably has no idea you are on this site meeting outside of your marriage.

Maybe the OP didn’t express himself very well but that’s my take on it

I agree

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

Exactly! That’s how I see it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m not a fan of the OP, but I have to say I agree with him on this issue. I think he’s touched a nerve, which usually hints at a truth.

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

Op many people are on here for whatever reason, and still maintaining or trying to maintain a healthy relationship.is this wrong ? I wouldn't think so if one party is unable to keep up with what keeps a relationship flowing,I wouldn't agree with it but I'm not one to judge.

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

"I’m not a fan of the OP, but I have to say I agree with him on this issue. I think he’s touched a nerve, which usually hints at a truth."

Yeah, cheats are usually lambasted but today it’s ok coz Noochie said it’s not cool to bad mouth an innocent party! You couldn’t make it up

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By *erfectman122Man over a year ago

from somewhere nice

It’s been emotional… he has a point and certainly made my Sunday op

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m not a fan of the OP, but I have to say I agree with him on this issue. I think he’s touched a nerve, which usually hints at a truth.

Yeah, cheats are usually lambasted but today it’s ok coz Noochie said it’s not cool to bad mouth an innocent party! You couldn’t make it up

Yeah, I think a few people need to check their moral compass.

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

"Op many people are on here for whatever reason, and still maintaining or trying to maintain a healthy relationship.is this wrong ? I wouldn't think so if one party is unable to keep up with what keeps a relationship flowing,I wouldn't agree with it but I'm not one to judge."

That’s not his point, his point is don’t bad mouth the person at home who has no idea what you’re doing on here

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

"Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

And so we should. "

Surley no woman knowingly meets a married man? X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

And so we should.

Surley no woman knowingly meets a married man? X"

Of course they do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tbh

There are certain mods who wont put up with that - it is frowned upon.

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

That’s not his point, his point is don’t bad mouth the person at home who has no idea what you’re doing on here

Oh but it's similar and I always assumed that when a person was hanging, was in her fanny.and hanging out would be arse

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

"Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

And so we should.

Surley no woman knowingly meets a married man? X"

Of course they do, same as men will meet a married woman

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well said!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm cool to have met married guys in the past.

Who the fk has the balls to tell me what I shouldn't do!

It's my life!

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

That’s not his point, his point is don’t bad mouth the person at home who has no idea what you’re doing on here

Oh but it's similar and I always assumed that when a person was hanging, was in her fanny.and hanging out would be arse

I have no idea that that means

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m not a fan of the OP, but I have to say I agree with him on this issue. I think he’s touched a nerve, which usually hints at a truth.

Yeah, cheats are usually lambasted but today it’s ok coz Noochie said it’s not cool to bad mouth an innocent party! You couldn’t make it up

Noochie has definitely had a hard time today. Tbh I don't think he's made any friends....

I'll DM to see if he's ok....

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Always amazes how many people are so

Interested in what other folk do on here. Why can’t you just all be happy doing your thing. I honestly couldn’t give a toss who meets who and why as long as it doesn’t affect me.

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

That’s not his point, his point is don’t bad mouth the person at home who has no idea what you’re doing on here

Oh but it's similar and I always assumed that when a person was hanging, was in her fanny.and hanging out would be arse

I have no idea that that means

Also I don't think the op has realised. it's ok or not ok, but to just point the finger at one human species and not understand that both sexes do this

Hence me not judging

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m not a fan of the OP, but I have to say I agree with him on this issue. I think he’s touched a nerve, which usually hints at a truth."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wait until it happens to you, or a close friend. Then see if you are or are not "one to judge". Cheating destroys people. Destroys families. End of.

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

Wait until it happens to you, or a close friend. Then see if you are or are not "one to judge". Cheating destroys people. Destroys families. End of. "

Hmmm already happened before fab, hence single. been single 7 years.

Whilst it may destroy! Surely this is something they have thought about.i don't agree it's right to cheat, but it's something I'd never consider and something they must learn one way or another.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

"Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

And so we should.

Surley no woman knowingly meets a married man? X

Of course they do"

Really?

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Oh dear, we’re shaming married men now I see. Great work OP

And so we should.

Surley no woman knowingly meets a married man? X

Of course they do

Really?

Yes

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

I really fancy getting married now

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By * and R cple4Couple over a year ago

swansea

"I don't have an issue with married men snd women being here, but I do agree they should keep their mouth shut about their partner. I hate seeing posts where they'll share her details with a bunch of strangers and she's not even around to defend herself. It's a bit grim."
Totally agree I don’t really give a shit what others choose to do but have some respect for your wife when your telling strangers over the internet how shit your sex life is etc etc .And the majority is probably bullshit anyway.I say wife as I’m yet to see a post from a woman whose cheating saying how shit her husband is .

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By *on-snowedMan over a year ago

harlow

Wait until it happens to you, or a close friend. Then see if you are or are not "one to judge". Cheating destroys people. Destroys families. End of. "

Being deceitful is shit yes, but if someone does cheat its for a reason. Your not giving that person enough of what they need.

And this is coming from a guy who was with a lady for 10 plus years 2 kids and found out she was screwing my best mate.

If she's that special you'd talk about things and work it out.

They only didn't tell you because they knew how you'd react at the time I'd of be in jail for murder im sure

Its only bothers you if you let it.

Half the couples on here go out fucking other people and gladly love watching it.

Is that a reflection of them being inadequate?

No...

Not much difference to be honest the couples in here spice things up so the negative shot dont happen and I massively respect that.

Took me a long to think like this blaming her or blaming myself its pointless. What ever happens in life we get over it.

Its just the way you think of things she wanted to do it because she did.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yep that’s disgusting. I agree with this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Part 2 coming up!

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By * and R cple4Couple over a year ago

swansea

"Part 2 coming up!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be continued

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bless

Who upset Andrew llyod webber here

She or he must of said no never mind.

You just flash them bright eye of yours and make some like you.

When I want your opinion I'll give it to you

You should have let the rabbit live

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you looking to meet married men OP? If not why is it an issue? If you don't like it then pass it by instead of starting a charged thread seeking validation

Men get a rough deal around here and it's horrible to see each and every time.

People cheat for all kinds of reasons and people should not be judged or vilified for it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wait until it happens to you, or a close friend. Then see if you are or are not "one to judge". Cheating destroys people. Destroys families. End of. "

I tend to agree with this.

It's not for me to tell folks how to live their lives, but at the same time I'd avoid getting involved in a situation that involved this, if I could help it.

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