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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I mean, anyone else feels like there are some very cheeky people who can be too forward too soon?
Like, first thing I get asked as a chat up line,
(for example) if I’m into being fisted? 
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and all I want to say is
HEY, hello.. how you doing? Isn’t it beautiful today?
Instead of thinking whether I do like a WHOLE fist (or two) up my bum.
I don’t know, food for thoughts and I’m rambling |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I mean, anyone else feels like there are some very cheeky people who can be too forward too soon?
Like, first thing I get asked as a chat up line,
(for example) if I’m into being fisted?
…..
and all I want to say is
HEY, hello.. how you doing? Isn’t it beautiful today?
Instead of thinking whether I do like a WHOLE fist (or two) up my bum.
I don’t know, food for thoughts and I’m rambling "
Yes there definitely are. Although now I’m wondering what the answer to the fisting question is.  |
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"I've never been asked anything like that, I feel left out 
Swap inboxes with a woman for a day, sure you'll be glad to swap back at the end of it "
I did this once… was let log on to someone’s account… it was an eye opener …. No subtlety by most  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would rather people be upfront and as forward as possible with me
That way I can make the choice if they or what they offering is for me
Way I see it no point in talking for weeks/ months on end
To find out they just want a quick bang at me or in to something I am out
Truthful is always best
If they want a one night stand bang at me say so it happen at some point 
If they want more then grate worth the talk
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
We get it all the time, today got one from a couples profile. All he wanted was to see more photos and sent messages like I want to fuck that pussy.
I pointed out the irony that he was wanting more photos when they had a magnificent total of one photo themselves. They then got the hump at which point I just blocked him. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would rather people be upfront and as forward as possible with me
That way I can make the choice if they or what they offering is for me
Way I see it no point in talking for weeks/ months on end
To find out they just want a quick bang at me or in to something I am out
Truthful is always best
If they want a one night stand bang at me say so it happen at some point
If they want more then grate worth the talk
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Yeah but I think there’s being upfront and there’s just being bang on TOO forward. Like where are the manners lol
But it’s my thought anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We get it all the time, today got one from a couples profile. All he wanted was to see more photos and sent messages like I want to fuck that pussy.
I pointed out the irony that he was wanting more photos when they had a magnificent total of one photo themselves. They then got the hump at which point I just blocked him."
The worst!!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would rather people be upfront and as forward as possible with me
That way I can make the choice if they or what they offering is for me
Way I see it no point in talking for weeks/ months on end
To find out they just want a quick bang at me or in to something I am out
Truthful is always best
If they want a one night stand bang at me say so it happen at some point
If they want more then grate worth the talk
Yeah but I think there’s being upfront and there’s just being bang on TOO forward. Like where are the manners lol
But it’s my thought anyway. "
Yes got to have manners and yes maybe could be right there has been a couple off messages I had that have made me think wtf was the person thinking sending that ha ha |
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The amount of times someone refers to my 'eating my *ussy' in their introductory message is staggering.
It always makes me delete.
I don’t know if I like you, much less fancy you. Who can get aroused by some random perve just because he claims to like oral???
(Sorry. Hate the p word!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just had this now yes the typical eating my body parts intro with the pics, gone straight to block today, normally delete but obviously don’t get message |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Think of the time you’ve saved knowing they’re a total arse trumpet in the first message, block, delete, move on. "
They just tend to go in the sea of unread messages
Im currently drowning in … |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah…
But are you into being fisted?
A classy girl never yells 
You haven’t seen the size of my fist yet  "
Was meant to say tell haha! Id probably yell after the first three knuckles lol  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
The question for me is... would you accept this in a face to face meeting , say in a pub?
If the answer is negative then I would suggest it is not acceptable in a first message.
I do get some, not too many fortunately and I delete those without response. |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
At least you can rule them out straight away. I dislike the ones where you ARE having a pleasant day to day conversation and then WHAM! Will you peg me in the middle of a field while I dress up in XYZ? Erm.... |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
But.... if you block everyone apart from friends you can save all the Fab admin and just hunt down what you want ...
Saves oodles of smut messages and unwanted pics 
...and still plenty of fun |
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"The question for me is... would you accept this in a face to face meeting , say in a pub?
If the answer is negative then I would suggest it is not acceptable in a first message.
I do get some, not too many fortunately and I delete those without response. "
The worst response to this is, 'well, a woman on the street isn’t showing me pics of her tits and *ussy! What did you expect?'.
Instant confirmation that he sees women on Fab as free whores, unworthy of courtesy.
Vile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But.... if you block everyone apart from friends you can save all the Fab admin and just hunt down what you want ...
Saves oodles of smut messages and unwanted pics
...and still plenty of fun "
Finally.
A women with common sense instead of complaining and moaning. She gets it.
You are a diamond  |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"But.... if you block everyone apart from friends you can save all the Fab admin and just hunt down what you want ...
Saves oodles of smut messages and unwanted pics
...and still plenty of fun
Finally.
A women with common sense instead of complaining and moaning. She gets it.
You are a diamond "
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"The question for me is... would you accept this in a face to face meeting , say in a pub?
If the answer is negative then I would suggest it is not acceptable in a first message.
I do get some, not too many fortunately and I delete those without response.
The worst response to this is, 'well, a woman on the street isn’t showing me pics of her tits and *ussy! What did you expect?'.
Instant confirmation that he sees women on Fab as free whores, unworthy of courtesy.
Vile."
Agree with you - it is not pleasant.
I get that this is not a site for cultural interest but then equally it is still a site where human beings meet. As such, a bit of mutual respect does not go amiss. |
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"I mean, anyone else feels like there are some very cheeky people who can be too forward too soon?
Like, first thing I get asked as a chat up line,
(for example) if I’m into being fisted?
…..
and all I want to say is
HEY, hello.. how you doing? Isn’t it beautiful today?
Instead of thinking whether I do like a WHOLE fist (or two) up my bum.
I don’t know, food for thoughts and I’m rambling "
Sorry, I thought it was a better opening than FAF
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