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Why is it so hard to meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I've been here about 10 months and I'm yet to meet anyone, surely it's not that difficult?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been here about 10 months and I'm yet to meet anyone, surely it's not that difficult? "

Corona Virus, might be in the mix

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By *ynecplCouple over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Clearly it is that difficult have you not noticed the other couple of hundred threads all saying similar things.

It take time, effort and patience.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ok well you asked. Your public photos are not flattering. You have written hardly anything in your bio and you mention a partner who for all anyone knows has no idea

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By *nSeeNMan over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

"I've been here about 10 months and I'm yet to meet anyone, surely it's not that difficult? "

Yes it is, it us possible that you could be here another 10 months and still not get a meet. That's just the way the cookie crumbles.

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

Take q good look at how you have portrayed yourself (pics and bio) and see if you'd be interested in meeting you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Expect nothing, be your self ( because you will always be someones cup of tea) Enjoy your self on the site, have a chat. Have a laugh, and If anything happens it is a bounce , good luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been here about 10 months and I'm yet to meet anyone, surely it's not that difficult? "

10months? Pretty sure that means you joined during the pandemic. Does that answer your question?

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By *ablo minibar123Woman over a year ago

Well you can't travel and you can't accommodate these things don't help. I'm the same but then I know that the site never comes with any guarantees, it's what you make of it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been here about 10 months and I'm yet to meet anyone, surely it's not that difficult? "

Dude I've been here 10 years and had the same people just don't reply to me I've been nice, flirty, dirty and tried just making friends and no reply that's why I just use forum makes me feel like I have used this site and at least spoke to someone

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By *orth_hantscplCouple over a year ago

camberley

You can’t accommodate or travel, so assume you’re only looking to go dogging?

You appear to have made little effort so you’re getting back what you’ve put in?

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By *ustanhonestblokeMan over a year ago

northampton

Use the forums to find local socials. I'm going to the Northampton one tonight. Looks like being busy. A great way of meeting new people. Stop the " poor me " stuff, its not a good image.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman over a year ago

"Use the forums to find local socials. I'm going to the Northampton one tonight. Looks like being busy. A great way of meeting new people. Stop the " poor me " stuff, its not a good image."

Good advice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been here about 10 months and I'm yet to meet anyone, surely it's not that difficult? "

Some people will be along shortly to tell you patience is key, even though patience is Irrelevant to attracting women, they will also mention covid even though all restrictions have been lifted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lose the thong. On second thoughts, burn it. If you lose it you might find it again.

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By *asycouple1971Couple over a year ago

midlands

I must have missed the small print about guaranteed meets when I joined.

Just enjoy the fakes and timewasters on here and you wil be fine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You live in a market town of 70,000 people

You seek women & couples

I live in a city of over half a million

I seek guys - in a city with a huge LGBT population

We have been here a similar amount of time

I haven't met anyone during that time either

I think adjustments to both expectation and entitlement are required

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because you have a crap profile. And you're a single man.

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By *exy Black JenWoman over a year ago

London/Eastbourne weekends

Have you tried socials?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

EFFORT (noun)

i) exertion of physical or mental power:

ii) an earnest or strenuous attempt:

iii)something done by exertion or hard work:

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lose the thong. On second thoughts, burn it. If you lose it you might find it again."

Now that is humour but alas imho also very true!!!

Best of luck op.

Tony

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been here about 10 months and I'm yet to meet anyone, surely it's not that difficult? "

Try and wank it off before you get blue balls. Not healthy to be so hard to meet all the time.

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Tip - relax into the forums.

Show your personality.

Have fun and bring cake.

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By *angero3aMan over a year ago

swords

hard impossible . getting a reply nearly as hard.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We can't be everyone's cup of tea.

Be yourself have a laugh and enjoy the site.

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By *op bash ashMan over a year ago

chatham

Try spicing up your profile a bit. Give some more info on who you are and what you want. Also like most have said, if you can’t accom or travel your limiting the market you are trying to appeal to. Maybe have a look at other male profiles and get some ideas. All In all though it’s hard for everyone, but if you genuinely put in effort and show genuine character and interest you will Stand a better chance.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the biggest issue on here is its so easy to fall for those with huge ego's that need constant attention, which lulls you into a false sense of anticipation, untill u realise its all they needed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks to everyone who's commented so far, I have made some adjustments to my profile, went for the honest and simple approach with the offer of answering any question via inbox if required. I've also made changes to my pictures and wardrobe, that is all

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