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over a year ago
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"How awkward would you feel if you saw a profile and realised it's someone you know "
Well, I had a previous boss send a first message to me, two weeks ago. Not awkward, just very funny!!  |
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By *ames-77 OP Man
over a year ago
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"How awkward would you feel if you saw a profile and realised it's someone you know
Well, I had a previous boss send a first message to me, two weeks ago. Not awkward, just very funny!! "
He knew it was you yeah? Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I found a cousin on here.
Super fucking awkward since I am friends with his girlfriend.
I saw a cousin too .. so it was awkward because your friends with his gf lol "
It has affected our friendship, which is a blow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I found a cousin on here.
Super fucking awkward since I am friends with his girlfriend.
I saw a cousin too .. so it was awkward because your friends with his gf lol
It has affected our friendship, which is a blow."
So you didn’t mention it to her ?
Tricky situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About 10 years ago I was seeing a Woman but she was two timing me with another Guy . I split up with her n she split up with the other Guy n we all moved on.
Anyway a few months ago that Guy sent us a message on Fab with face pictures. I said straight away to the Girlfriend I know him n told her how I know him n then I shown her his Facebook profile.
Needless to say I didn't message him back , also I've seen two other different Guys on here I know from school. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I found a cousin on here.
Super fucking awkward since I am friends with his girlfriend.
I saw a cousin too .. so it was awkward because your friends with his gf lol
It has affected our friendship, which is a blow.
So you didn’t mention it to her ?
Tricky situation "
Not yet. It is a very difficult situation to be in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I found a cousin on here.
Super fucking awkward since I am friends with his girlfriend.
I saw a cousin too .. so it was awkward because your friends with his gf lol
It has affected our friendship, which is a blow.
So you didn’t mention it to her ?
Tricky situation
Not yet. It is a very difficult situation to be in."
Yeah your definitely in a rock and a hard place with this one !
Been in this situation not because of here but very similar!
I chose to say nothing cause I’m friends with them both |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How awkward would you feel if you saw a profile and realised it's someone you know
Well, I had a previous boss send a first message to me, two weeks ago. Not awkward, just very funny!!
He knew it was you yeah? Haha"
He didn’t until I say hey xxxx remember me hahaha! We had a laugh! |
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By *ames-77 OP Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"How awkward would you feel if you saw a profile and realised it's someone you know
Well, I had a previous boss send a first message to me, two weeks ago. Not awkward, just very funny!!
He knew it was you yeah? Haha
He didn’t until I say hey xxxx remember me hahaha! We had a laugh!"
meet him ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How awkward would you feel if you saw a profile and realised it's someone you know
Well, I had a previous boss send a first message to me, two weeks ago. Not awkward, just very funny!!
He knew it was you yeah? Haha
He didn’t until I say hey xxxx remember me hahaha! We had a laugh! meet him ?"
I couldn’t go through with it lol |
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By *ames-77 OP Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"How awkward would you feel if you saw a profile and realised it's someone you know
Well, I had a previous boss send a first message to me, two weeks ago. Not awkward, just very funny!!
He knew it was you yeah? Haha
He didn’t until I say hey xxxx remember me hahaha! We had a laugh! meet him ?
I couldn’t go through with it lol "
Why |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How awkward would you feel if you saw a profile and realised it's someone you know
Well, I had a previous boss send a first message to me, two weeks ago. Not awkward, just very funny!!
He knew it was you yeah? Haha
He didn’t until I say hey xxxx remember me hahaha! We had a laugh! meet him ?
I couldn’t go through with it lol
Why "
Wasn’t for me! Enough of the questions now! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How awkward would you feel if you saw a profile and realised it's someone you know
Well, I had a previous boss send a first message to me, two weeks ago. Not awkward, just very funny!!
He knew it was you yeah? Haha
He didn’t until I say hey xxxx remember me hahaha! We had a laugh! meet him ?
I couldn’t go through with it lol
Why
Wasn’t for me! Enough of the questions now! "
You can’t do that ? Cmon we’r all friends here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How awkward would you feel if you saw a profile and realised it's someone you know
Well, I had a previous boss send a first message to me, two weeks ago. Not awkward, just very funny!!
He knew it was you yeah? Haha
He didn’t until I say hey xxxx remember me hahaha! We had a laugh! meet him ?
I couldn’t go through with it lol
Why
Wasn’t for me! Enough of the questions now!
You can’t do that ? Cmon we’r all friends here "
Would you want me to tell everyone about you?! Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How awkward would you feel if you saw a profile and realised it's someone you know
Well, I had a previous boss send a first message to me, two weeks ago. Not awkward, just very funny!!
He knew it was you yeah? Haha
He didn’t until I say hey xxxx remember me hahaha! We had a laugh! meet him ?
I couldn’t go through with it lol
Why
Wasn’t for me! Enough of the questions now!
You can’t do that ? Cmon we’r all friends here
Would you want me to tell everyone about you?! Haha"
You saying I’m not for you ? You want to go there ? Really ?
Na I’m kidding I got the message the first time you blocked me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How awkward would you feel if you saw a profile and realised it's someone you know
Well, I had a previous boss send a first message to me, two weeks ago. Not awkward, just very funny!!
He knew it was you yeah? Haha
He didn’t until I say hey xxxx remember me hahaha! We had a laugh! meet him ?
I couldn’t go through with it lol
Why
Wasn’t for me! Enough of the questions now!
You can’t do that ? Cmon we’r all friends here
Would you want me to tell everyone about you?! Haha
You saying I’m not for you ? You want to go there ? Really ?
Na I’m kidding I got the message the first time you blocked me "
Now you’re just somebody who I used to know…. Somebodyyyyyy  |
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By *ames-77 OP Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"How awkward would you feel if you saw a profile and realised it's someone you know
Well, I had a previous boss send a first message to me, two weeks ago. Not awkward, just very funny!!
He knew it was you yeah? Haha
Hahahahha
He didn’t until I say hey xxxx remember me hahaha! We had a laugh! meet him ?
I couldn’t go through with it lol
Why
Wasn’t for me! Enough of the questions now!
You can’t do that ? Cmon we’r all friends here
Would you want me to tell everyone about you?! Haha
You saying I’m not for you ? You want to go there ? Really ?
Na I’m kidding I got the message the first time you blocked me
Now you’re just somebody who I used to know…. Somebodyyyyyy "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wouldn't bother me most of us are here for the same reason, plus I believe in discretion and respect "
^ This. I have discovered people I know on here and known them either via work establishment or social connections and/or friends. Some I've just blocked and some I've chatted with and mentioned that I know them (on occasion they've not known who I was though). Had a giggle on occasion. I'm a believer in 6 degree separation... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Luckily I don’t think I’ve ever seen anyone I know on here … again, luckily.
But I always wondered if someone spotted me because of how some of my pics end up on hot page, so there might be a chance, I just have no clue  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see lots of people I know, I either block them or chat and agree to keep each others secrets.
It's like having a group of 'sub friends/secret friends' the tricky part is when you see them out
with mutual friends and you say hi, often to get asked "do you two know each other" Urm
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How awkward would you feel if you saw a profile and realised it's someone you know "
I have noticed someone who works in my building on here! I can’t say it would be awkward as everyone on this site is looking for the same kind of thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’ve both seen people we know through work and even family, we’ve just not approached the family members have been blocked right away haha but otherwise we’ve not thought much about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see people I know often on here. We are all on fab for the same reasons so I just leave them be unless I see them in a club or a social event "
^^^ yep! |
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By *ames-77 OP Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"The opposite of awkward (unless mum or dad) it's something new to talk about!
Oh, unless it was a friends cheating partner, then a little awkward. Not sure what I'd do there. "
So apart from them anyone else is ok |
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It wouldn't bother me in the slightest. I don't broadcast the fact that I swing but if I'm asked straight out I'm happy to say I do.
So if I discovered someone on here that I know or if they discovered me I'd have to assume we're here for the same reason so it wouldn't be any big deal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've had it the other way around. Eg spotted someone irl that was on fab. Tricky part is our paths will likely keep.crissing so not sure whether to say say I know or leave it be... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It happened to me. We have an understanding. If I blow her “cover” by implication I blow mine. Her secret is safe with me and visa versa. "
Exactly, I have the same understanding with someone that I know. We're all grown ups, how spiteful could a person be to "fab out" someone  |
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By *ames-77 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I had 2 guys very local to me message me via faceache. They knew I'd just block them on here. I have no idea whether they still look at my pics etc - but at the time it creeped me out"
Bet they were younger lads |
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I got into work one day after a trip to chams and one of my team members sidled up to me and said 'bust at chams last night, wasn't it?!'
I said I hadn't seen him there and his reply was 'no, you were..... Busy..... At the time!'
Just laughed and said no more of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never felt awkward seeing a profile of someone I know. I have seen colleagues and family members, I just block them and forget about them.
I give people discretion, I also want discretion and for us all to enjoy our own Fab experiences in our individual ways.
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I've seen 4 people I know or have met on here over the years. Never told them or messaged them. No idea if anyone has done the same with me. Given that we keep it to ourselves there could be people on here that know us and are keeping quiet.  |
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"I had 2 guys very local to me message me via faceache. They knew I'd just block them on here. I have no idea whether they still look at my pics etc - but at the time it creeped me out
Bet they were younger lads "
Bingo! |
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By *ames-77 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I had 2 guys very local to me message me via faceache. They knew I'd just block them on here. I have no idea whether they still look at my pics etc - but at the time it creeped me out
Bet they were younger lads
Bingo!"
How did I guess haha |
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I recently recognised a customer at work from his profile pic on here.
Oh and back when I didn't have any public face pics, an ex of mine from about 10 years ago messaged me not realising who I was. He was using a fake name, and pooped his pants when I replied saying "Hi *realname*" as he shouldn't really have been on here  |
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By *ames-77 OP Man
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"I recently recognised a customer at work from his profile pic on here.
Oh and back when I didn't have any public face pics, an ex of mine from about 10 years ago messaged me not realising who I was. He was using a fake name, and pooped his pants when I replied saying "Hi *realname*" as he shouldn't really have been on here "
What did you think about the customer? |
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"What did you think about the customer?"
It amused me that I'd spotted a fellow Fabber 'in the wild'. I checked his profile and saw he had winked me a few months previously, I messaged him asking if he knew we interacted in real life on a regular basis. He did not, and then guessed a few different venues where we might have met, eventually getting it right after I gave him a clue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Wouldn't bother us, as if they know we are on here, they only know because they are on here too (and vice versa) so no one should feel awkward lol.
Danish x |
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I've met quite a few people in everyday life who I've connected with on here, always pleasant, and if they are with others, nothing said out of place. One fantastic couple on here had their first swinging meet with myself. He actually does some specialist work for me. We are great friends, and play together. Nothing awkward about the situation whatsoever. However, when I was blocked by two local couples that I'd never even messaged, I got one of the boys to find out who they were. One is a neighbour down the road who may be a little uncomfortable with me knowing that he is a cuck and a sub, and the other was a client who is a struck off medical health professional, and on here with his wife. He is trying to get reinstated, and perhaps not wanting the relevant authorities knowing about his alternative lifestyle. I always smirk and wave when I see them, and come up with comments like, "How are you, anything exciting happening in wide and wicked world?" So I guess I'm outside their comfort zone. It's different strokes for different folks. |
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I’ve had it happen to me and I’ve also recognised people from my old job when they messaged me, I replied and said that I knew them in real life and therefore didn’t want to continue the conversation and that I wouldn’t mention it to anyone else (their profile was quite closed) |
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