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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it norm to get a thrill when taking pics of yourself. Like it's all my body but there is something arosing about it.
Maybe it's the thought of someone else seeing them or maybe I'm an undiagnosed narcissist?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s absolutely normal  it’s a major boost for a lot of people including myself. You see yourself from another perspective. It’s not narcissistic in my eyes at all that’s completely different.  |
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By *vriderMan
over a year ago
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One of my favourite things about this site is that you can upload taboo pictures and it's not seen as seedy or anything.
I normally hate having my picture taken but if I've got no clothes on it's a different matter |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"One of my favourite things about this site is that you can upload taboo pictures and it's not seen as seedy or anything.
I normally hate having my picture taken but if I've got no clothes on it's a different matter "
I actually think there's some psychological confidence boost in it so really, it's good for mental health. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't say I get turned on taking them unless they are the private ones that a certain person asks to see."
Can I have a picture of your sandwich toaster? The one at the back of your cupboard that you forgot to clean when you last used it two years ago? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate photos of me. I don't think it's bad that you like yours though, why not? We're all told to love ourselves more and also a narcisist, narcasest, narsici..... a self centered person wouldn't ask the question in the first place so I think you're good |
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"Can't say I get turned on taking them unless they are the private ones that a certain person asks to see.
Can I have a picture of your sandwich toaster? The one at the back of your cupboard that you forgot to clean when you last used it two years ago? "
Oh you pervert  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here's something interesting, if you haven't heard before..
'Autosexuality' - People are more attracted to themselves than to others and may prefer masturbation to sex with a partner. It doesn't mean that someone who is autosexual will never have sexual relationships with other people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never used to take pictures of myself before I joined Fab as I was really self-conscious about my body. But now I really enjoy coming up with new ideas and seeing the result in photo form.
Oh, and the compliments are always nice too  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love taking pics, it turns me on, probably because of my exhibitionist side.
If you like it, that’s awesome "
Glad I'm not alone. I think you would find it gmhard to locate anyone who doesnt like your photos though lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I never used to take pictures of myself before I joined Fab as I was really self-conscious about my body. But now I really enjoy coming up with new ideas and seeing the result in photo form.
Oh, and the compliments are always nice too "
Deffs is good to help with confidence |
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"Is it norm to get a thrill when taking pics of yourself. Like it's all my body but there is something arosing about it.
Maybe it's the thought of someone else seeing them or maybe I'm an undiagnosed narcissist? "
Mrs hadn’t taken any pics of herself until we joined fab, she was massively body conscious prior to this but taking pics and sharing them has given her loads more confidence so if it makes you happy why not.
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you take many photos before you decide on one to post??
Yea, is that not what we all do? Haha. Maybe 2 of mine are first timer snaps haha"
Glad I'm not the only one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get horny taking photos. Not so much from looking at them myself, but the exhibitionist in me really gets a buzz!"
Same here x it’s really fun as well x and it makes me feel sexy  |
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I used to like taking pics of myself - and in some of them I actually thought I looked really attractive.
Then the menopause hit - and the weight piled on - and now, though I don’t actively hate the way I look (as in it hasn’t affected my mental health or anything) - I certainly don’t feel inclined to take photos as I no longer think I’m particularly attractive.
To take pictures of yourself on a regular basis (as I used to do) there has to be an element of self love and self confidence. In all honesty I no longer have that - not in my appearance anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't say I get turned on taking them unless they are the private ones that a certain person asks to see.
Can I have a picture of your sandwich toaster? The one at the back of your cupboard that you forgot to clean when you last used it two years ago?
Oh you pervert "
You love it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you take many photos before you decide on one to post??
Yea, is that not what we all do? Haha. Maybe 2 of mine are first timer snaps haha
Glad I'm not the only one "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get horny taking photos. Not so much from looking at them myself, but the exhibitionist in me really gets a buzz!
Same here x it’s really fun as well x and it makes me feel sexy "
Yours are sexy BTW |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Gives me a bit of a boost as I see myself how others see me and not what I think in my head "
Great point actually. I like that. Takes away the horrible thoughts we might have of ourselves |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I used to like taking pics of myself - and in some of them I actually thought I looked really attractive.
Then the menopause hit - and the weight piled on - and now, though I don’t actively hate the way I look (as in it hasn’t affected my mental health or anything) - I certainly don’t feel inclined to take photos as I no longer think I’m particularly attractive.
To take pictures of yourself on a regular basis (as I used to do) there has to be an element of self love and self confidence. In all honesty I no longer have that - not in my appearance anyway. "
Yea it's not so much I like taking loads, tbh of it wasn't for this site and not wanting to be a blank profile I wouldn't post and still have some eliment of paranoia.
For what it's worth, I think your photos are great |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A few times with a few guys ive liked it when he suggested something for a pic and have him decide the one I use.
They werent random blokes tho, so dont even bother asking lol
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I protest that you think I would be so rude as to ask lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a rule I hate pictures of myself, but if I take a good one for on here and I think it looks hot then i enjoy it. And I like knowing that people have seen me looking hot. "
We should all learn to be more confident in ourselves. Everyone has a hot quality x |
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