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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hope I don’t get any shitty responses to this.
I’d like to go to a club tomorrow afternoon/ evening, but never been to one. I’m not a member of one. And am a little nervous about going alone.
Question is……
If I go can I join there and then or is it online only. Also what time is best?
I have a free afternoon/ early evening so don’t want to go at the wrong time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi Holte, I imagine atm all clubs want pre-registration and membership. I'm not aware of any which open those hours but maybe post in Clubs Section and ask ? |
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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago
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"Hope I don’t get any shitty responses to this.
I’d like to go to a club tomorrow afternoon/ evening, but never been to one. I’m not a member of one. And am a little nervous about going alone.
Question is……
If I go can I join there and then or is it online only. Also what time is best?
I have a free afternoon/ early evening so don’t want to go at the wrong time. "
Find a club you like the look of, give them a call and have a chat.
Clubs are used to answering questions from people who are looking at their first visit.
Go without expectations of sex, meet people, chat and enjoy your time there.
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Hi OP some clubs do open in an afternoon but most require you to become a member before attending. Especially for single guys.
Have a look at clubs you're interested in, all the details will be on their website. There should be a link from the club page on Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi Holte, I imagine atm all clubs want pre-registration and membership. I'm not aware of any which open those hours but maybe post in Clubs Section and ask ?"
Hiya, yeah I expected it may some kind of registration and checks before arriving. Thanks for your comments, appreciated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hope I don’t get any shitty responses to this.
I’d like to go to a club tomorrow afternoon/ evening, but never been to one. I’m not a member of one. And am a little nervous about going alone.
Question is……
If I go can I join there and then or is it online only. Also what time is best?
I have a free afternoon/ early evening so don’t want to go at the wrong time. "
I'd check their websites and contact them. I think most clubs have a pretty strong filter on single guys for obvious reasons. They don't want randoms just turning up and souring the atmosphere. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hope I don’t get any shitty responses to this.
I’d like to go to a club tomorrow afternoon/ evening, but never been to one. I’m not a member of one. And am a little nervous about going alone.
Question is……
If I go can I join there and then or is it online only. Also what time is best?
I have a free afternoon/ early evening so don’t want to go at the wrong time.
Find a club you like the look of, give them a call and have a chat.
Clubs are used to answering questions from people who are looking at their first visit.
Go without expectations of sex, meet people, chat and enjoy your time there.
E"
Thank you for your comments. Yeah I will try that. My only hope is to meet like minded friends. I’d like to build that up and calm my early nerves over an instant sexual expectation |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi OP some clubs do open in an afternoon but most require you to become a member before attending. Especially for single guys.
Have a look at clubs you're interested in, all the details will be on their website. There should be a link from the club page on Fab."
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I’m not sure on which ones are best to go to. As it’s a first time thing I have no knowledge of what’s best. Hoping some local fabbers can give me hint as to which one. Thanks for commenting too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hope I don’t get any shitty responses to this.
I’d like to go to a club tomorrow afternoon/ evening, but never been to one. I’m not a member of one. And am a little nervous about going alone.
Question is……
If I go can I join there and then or is it online only. Also what time is best?
I have a free afternoon/ early evening so don’t want to go at the wrong time.
I'd check their websites and contact them. I think most clubs have a pretty strong filter on single guys for obvious reasons. They don't want randoms just turning up and souring the atmosphere. "
Thank you. Yes us guys turns everything sour lol. Thanks for advice. |
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"Hi OP some clubs do open in an afternoon but most require you to become a member before attending. Especially for single guys.
Have a look at clubs you're interested in, all the details will be on their website. There should be a link from the club page on Fab..
I’m not sure on which ones are best to go to. As it’s a first time thing I have no knowledge of what’s best. Hoping some local fabbers can give me hint as to which one. Thanks for commenting too. "
Different people like different clubs. We don't know you or what sort of club you would be interested in.
I've been to lots of clubs and found them friendly and welcoming.
When you decide, have jouned and turn up, let them know it's your first visit. You should get a tour and a reminder about etiquette.
Most importantly just be chatty and friendly, have fun with no expectations of sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi OP some clubs do open in an afternoon but most require you to become a member before attending. Especially for single guys.
Have a look at clubs you're interested in, all the details will be on their website. There should be a link from the club page on Fab..
I’m not sure on which ones are best to go to. As it’s a first time thing I have no knowledge of what’s best. Hoping some local fabbers can give me hint as to which one. Thanks for commenting too.
Different people like different clubs. We don't know you or what sort of club you would be interested in.
I've been to lots of clubs and found them friendly and welcoming.
When you decide, have jouned and turn up, let them know it's your first visit. You should get a tour and a reminder about etiquette.
Most importantly just be chatty and friendly, have fun with no expectations of sex."
Yeah totally agree with the expectation side of it. I’d be happy to have made like minded friends, male or female. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Definitely contact the club first. I know my local one isn't taking new single male members at the moment. "
Ha ok, I can only assume as lockdown restrictions have ended. The numbers of attendees is on the up. |
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"Definitely contact the club first. I know my local one isn't taking new single male members at the moment.
Ha ok, I can only assume as lockdown restrictions have ended. The numbers of attendees is on the up. "
Yeah I think they're going to assess what numbers are like now restrictions are lifting before seeing if they'll take any new single males. I guess they don't want loads of couples and women not returning and ending up with an imbalance. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Definitely contact the club first. I know my local one isn't taking new single male members at the moment.
Ha ok, I can only assume as lockdown restrictions have ended. The numbers of attendees is on the up.
Yeah I think they're going to assess what numbers are like now restrictions are lifting before seeing if they'll take any new single males. I guess they don't want loads of couples and women not returning and ending up with an imbalance. "
Yeah that makes perfect sense to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you. Yes us guys turns everything sour lol. Thanks for advice. "
Sorry, I didn't mean it to sound like finger-pointing. But you're a guy. I'm one. I've looked at local club T&Cs, and it's pretty fucking obvious why they filter single guys. Can you imagine what'd happen in a swinger club with unrestricted access for any guy who fancied strolling in? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thank you. Yes us guys turns everything sour lol. Thanks for advice.
Sorry, I didn't mean it to sound like finger-pointing. But you're a guy. I'm one. I've looked at local club T&Cs, and it's pretty fucking obvious why they filter single guys. Can you imagine what'd happen in a swinger club with unrestricted access for any guy who fancied strolling in? "
Ah it’s ok honest. I didn’t take your comments negatively. I appreciate all comments and feedback on here. |
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"Thank you. Yes us guys turns everything sour lol. Thanks for advice.
Sorry, I didn't mean it to sound like finger-pointing. But you're a guy. I'm one. I've looked at local club T&Cs, and it's pretty fucking obvious why they filter single guys. Can you imagine what'd happen in a swinger club with unrestricted access for any guy who fancied strolling in? "
Not sure it would be much fun for the straight fellas either to be in a room of 99% other men. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thank you. Yes us guys turns everything sour lol. Thanks for advice.
Sorry, I didn't mean it to sound like finger-pointing. But you're a guy. I'm one. I've looked at local club T&Cs, and it's pretty fucking obvious why they filter single guys. Can you imagine what'd happen in a swinger club with unrestricted access for any guy who fancied strolling in?
Not sure it would be much fun for the straight fellas either to be in a room of 99% other men. "
Happy to make male friends but yeah, I’m drawn to the female species lol. It would be a major let down lol. Should just stay in the pub. |
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