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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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when does swinging move from a fun hobby to something more sinister or an addiction or are you addicted to shagging others??
not shaming anyone as everyone is free to live their life how they want and do what they want and what they get up to is none of my business etc etc but just in general i see some local people that seem to have sex sex sex on the brain all the time
every weekend at sex clubs get a day off work off to a nudey spa the sun comes out and theyre off to nudist beaches for sex with strangers in the dunes etc etc it seems like every spare moment is dedicated to having sex with strangers haha
like I say up to them and each to their own and all that but do you think youre addicted to shagging strangers or do you think it can cross the line to an addiction like some have with fags alcohol gambling or drugs etc etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can see the attraction if you've got the game to do it. After my divorce I did a fair bit of dating and a lesser but reasonable amount of sex with a few nice people, and the allure of the new, finding out what turns a given individual on, it's exciting.
I never did full on casual fucks though, even though there was some first date sex. I was still in the headspace that if you slept with somebody it was with a longer term relationship in mind, even if it didn't turn out that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When it interferes with your life much like other addictions.
Otherwise it's a 'lifestyle'."
Yeah this. It's when it starts negatively impacting the other aspects of your life I guess! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thanks everyone for the replies
Yea theres certainly a buzz to it so I can understand being keen on the lifestyle as long as it doesnt overtake everything else in your life |
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