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If someone is trying to tune into you what things can they do or say that really don't impress you?
I am definitely not impressed by those who flaunt how much money or cars and such like ...in fact it has the opposite effect!
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"If someone is trying to tune into you what things can they do or say that really don't impress you?
I am definitely not impressed by those who flaunt how much money or cars and such like ...in fact it has the opposite effect!
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Pretty much the same, also those who name drop A LOT, and they seem the only ones to know everyone and everyone who matters… and they try to live off the shining reflection … 
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"If someone is trying to tune into you what things can they do or say that really don't impress you?
I am definitely not impressed by those who flaunt how much money or cars and such like ...in fact it has the opposite effect!
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Same hate people who look down on others like they are better than them, it's nice to be nice  |
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"If someone is trying to tune into you what things can they do or say that really don't impress you?
I am definitely not impressed by those who flaunt how much money or cars and such like ...in fact it has the opposite effect!
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I’ve not experienced women flaunting money, cars possessions etc. and guess it’s probably much more common with men doing this. I agree, that it’d really put me off. Our personal worth isn’t measured by wealth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t like double standards .. don’t treat someone like shit and expect the opposite .. just not happening ! "
I don't like any sort of double standards  |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I like men with a bit of get up and go. If they suggest cuddling up on the sofa with a film (which seems to be THE chat up line on dating sites) I always think that sounds a bit dull. Plenty of time to do that once a relationship progresses, in the meantime I like a bit of oomph.
Doesn’t mean I want to jump out of a helicopter though, I have my limits. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Material things mean nothing if your attitude completely sucks, I’ve zero issues with people who have worked hard to achieve luxuries in life but if they want to wax lyrical about money/cars/expensive houses and what not I’ll switch off, what you have on the inside appeals way more to me than the clothes on your back or the car you drive x |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"If someone is trying to tune into you what things can they do or say that really don't impress you?
I am definitely not impressed by those who flaunt how much money or cars and such like ...in fact it has the opposite effect!
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So you don't want to see my stamp collection then?  |
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over a year ago
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"The whole 'lads, lads, lads' thing, bragging about anything, including money and possessions. It makes me screw my face up "
The whole lads lads lads also rub me the wrong way too …. Thanks for mentioning it |
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"If someone is trying to tune into you what things can they do or say that really don't impress you?
I am definitely not impressed by those who flaunt how much money or cars and such like ...in fact it has the opposite effect!
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All of this and an over abundance of compliments, it starts to sound disingenuous |
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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago
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"If someone is trying to tune into you what things can they do or say that really don't impress you?
I am definitely not impressed by those who flaunt how much money or cars and such like ...in fact it has the opposite effect!
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People who state they don't like one liners and then only converse with you with one liners. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think someone who talks 99% about themselves. If you're not interested in someone else and their lives, thoughts etc then why are you trying to get with them?
(and yes, I know the answer to that ! ) |
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Guys telling us how well endowed they are. How they can lick for hours. Believing C is a single girl and ignoring me.
People who can’t make conversation - always answer your replies with nothing to forward the conversation on - is it really that hard to think of something to ask?! 
Instant turn off.
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There are a few things that don't really impress me but mainly it's people *trying" to impress me. Just be you and I'll decide if I like you or not.
I'm happy for people to talk to me about cars, money, possessions, status etc etc I'm interested to know about their life. I get a bit fed up if they don't want to hear about my life in return though. |
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"When I'm told I'm gorgeous and they haven't even seen a face pic.
That makes me think they'd be happy putting a bag over my head!
Totally agree with this "
I know right!....I should send a face pic of my dad |
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"Don't get me wrong ...I'm pleased for people if they have nice things and can completely understand people being proud of their achievements.
But..it isn't going to make my knickers fall off!"
 I want a friend with an indoor pool who would like me to use it daily just to keep it going. It's not much to ask and I would be very impressed  |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Don't get me wrong ...I'm pleased for people if they have nice things and can completely understand people being proud of their achievements.
But..it isn't going to make my knickers fall off!"
Probably not, but i have scissors for that. |
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"Don't get me wrong ...I'm pleased for people if they have nice things and can completely understand people being proud of their achievements.
But..it isn't going to make my knickers fall off!
I want a friend with an indoor pool who would like me to use it daily just to keep it going. It's not much to ask and I would be very impressed "
That level of 'impressiveness' should be admired by 2  |
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"Don't get me wrong ...I'm pleased for people if they have nice things and can completely understand people being proud of their achievements.
But..it isn't going to make my knickers fall off!
Probably not, but i have scissors for that. "
And ruin a good pair of blue undies! |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Don't get me wrong ...I'm pleased for people if they have nice things and can completely understand people being proud of their achievements.
But..it isn't going to make my knickers fall off!
Probably not, but i have scissors for that.
And ruin a good pair of blue undies! "
I'd replace them.  |
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"I like men with a bit of get up and go. If they suggest cuddling up on the sofa with a film (which seems to be THE chat up line on dating sites) I always think that sounds a bit dull. Plenty of time to do that once a relationship progresses, in the meantime I like a bit of oomph.
Doesn’t mean I want to jump out of a helicopter though, I have my limits."
Always do something different ton first dates! Go try something new or different to the normal. Iv taken dates ice skating, rock climbing, go karting and to the summit of mountains... much more memorable |
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"Don't get me wrong ...I'm pleased for people if they have nice things and can completely understand people being proud of their achievements.
But..it isn't going to make my knickers fall off!
I want a friend with an indoor pool who would like me to use it daily just to keep it going. It's not much to ask and I would be very impressed
That level of 'impressiveness' should be admired by 2 "
If I find such a person I'll let you know |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"Cars. Some people spend more on a car than their house. Madness.
To be fair they were a very successful band."
They were
My kids asked that when they were young. I said to some people image is very important and like to present themselves in a certain way - people only see the car they don't see the house. |
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Material things don't really mean much to me. I mean I want everyone to be comfortably off. But it doesn't impresses me if you have a better car than me or some Louboutin shoes.
I'm more likely to be impressed if you showed me the tapestry your gran made. Or some naff art you did as a kid your mam has kept. |
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"Cars. Some people spend more on a car than their house. Madness.
To be fair they were a very successful band.
They were
My kids asked that when they were young. I said to some people image is very important and like to present themselves in a certain way - people only see the car they don't see the house. "
That's very true.
I think everyone likes to present themselves a certain way. The thing is what you believe you're presenting I'd frequently not what other people see. It's often interesting to note the difference in self image and the image other people have of you. I've frequently been surprised. |
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"Don't get me wrong ...I'm pleased for people if they have nice things and can completely understand people being proud of their achievements.
But..it isn't going to make my knickers fall off!
I want a friend with an indoor pool who would like me to use it daily just to keep it going. It's not much to ask and I would be very impressed
That level of 'impressiveness' should be admired by 2
If I find such a person I'll let you know "
I've got a indoor swimming pool..... ok it's a bath and you can't swim in it but it's indoors at least |
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"If someone is trying to tune into you what things can they do or say that really don't impress you?
I am definitely not impressed by those who flaunt how much money or cars and such like ...in fact it has the opposite effect!
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Was there not a lad on here used to brag about his Maserati all the time? I mean, out of all the italian sportscars, surely the Maserati is the ugliest and probably the cheapest? Like a poor mans Ferrari |
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"Don't get me wrong ...I'm pleased for people if they have nice things and can completely understand people being proud of their achievements.
But..it isn't going to make my knickers fall off!
I want a friend with an indoor pool who would like me to use it daily just to keep it going. It's not much to ask and I would be very impressed
That level of 'impressiveness' should be admired by 2
If I find such a person I'll let you know
I've got a indoor swimming pool..... ok it's a bath and you can't swim in it but it's indoors at least "
well it's a start, we only have a shower |
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"Don't get me wrong ...I'm pleased for people if they have nice things and can completely understand people being proud of their achievements.
But..it isn't going to make my knickers fall off!
I want a friend with an indoor pool who would like me to use it daily just to keep it going. It's not much to ask and I would be very impressed
That level of 'impressiveness' should be admired by 2
If I find such a person I'll let you know
I've got a indoor swimming pool..... ok it's a bath and you can't swim in it but it's indoors at least
well it's a start, we only have a shower "
Don't want to brag but it's got a waterfall too...... well a shower over the bath but I thought that sounded better |
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"Don't get me wrong ...I'm pleased for people if they have nice things and can completely understand people being proud of their achievements.
But..it isn't going to make my knickers fall off!
I want a friend with an indoor pool who would like me to use it daily just to keep it going. It's not much to ask and I would be very impressed
That level of 'impressiveness' should be admired by 2
If I find such a person I'll let you know
I've got a indoor swimming pool..... ok it's a bath and you can't swim in it but it's indoors at least
well it's a start, we only have a shower
Don't want to brag but it's got a waterfall too...... well a shower over the bath but I thought that sounded better "
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We've got a library. Well it's a room with books in it |
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"Don't get me wrong ...I'm pleased for people if they have nice things and can completely understand people being proud of their achievements.
But..it isn't going to make my knickers fall off!
I want a friend with an indoor pool who would like me to use it daily just to keep it going. It's not much to ask and I would be very impressed
That level of 'impressiveness' should be admired by 2
If I find such a person I'll let you know
I've got a indoor swimming pool..... ok it's a bath and you can't swim in it but it's indoors at least
well it's a start, we only have a shower
Don't want to brag but it's got a waterfall too...... well a shower over the bath but I thought that sounded better
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We've got a library. Well it's a room with books in it "
Bloody show off |
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"If someone is trying to tune into you what things can they do or say that really don't impress you?
I am definitely not impressed by those who flaunt how much money or cars and such like ...in fact it has the opposite effect!
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Same for me too! |
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"Don't get me wrong ...I'm pleased for people if they have nice things and can completely understand people being proud of their achievements.
But..it isn't going to make my knickers fall off!
I want a friend with an indoor pool who would like me to use it daily just to keep it going. It's not much to ask and I would be very impressed
That level of 'impressiveness' should be admired by 2
If I find such a person I'll let you know
I've got a indoor swimming pool..... ok it's a bath and you can't swim in it but it's indoors at least
well it's a start, we only have a shower "
And me and broke 2 days ago...off to spray more deodorant  |
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Just be themselves is the simplest way, I’ll soon know if click or not. Those that put on false airs & graces and alike, always end up showing their true selves as they can’t keep the masquerade up forever.
I have no interest in what people own, drive, do for a living, how much they earn, etc, it’s irrelevant as it’s the person, their character/manners I choose to spend time with not their possessions or bank balance. |
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"Don't get me wrong ...I'm pleased for people if they have nice things and can completely understand people being proud of their achievements.
But..it isn't going to make my knickers fall off!
I want a friend with an indoor pool who would like me to use it daily just to keep it going. It's not much to ask and I would be very impressed
That level of 'impressiveness' should be admired by 2
If I find such a person I'll let you know
I've got a indoor swimming pool..... ok it's a bath and you can't swim in it but it's indoors at least
well it's a start, we only have a shower
And me and broke 2 days ago...off to spray more deodorant "
You're more than welcome to shower at mine..... I can't promise if the lock works on the door though  |
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over a year ago
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Sorry but I have to what a awesome song
Oh-oo-oh, you think you're special
Oh-oo-oh, you think you're something else
Okay, so you're Brad Pitt
That don't impress me much
So you got the looks, but have you got the touch
Now don't get me wrong, yeah, I think you're alright
But that won't keep me warm in the middle of the night
That don't impress me much
Yeah! |
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"Sorry but I have to what a awesome song
Oh-oo-oh, you think you're special
Oh-oo-oh, you think you're something else
Okay, so you're Brad Pitt
That don't impress me much
So you got the looks, but have you got the touch
Now don't get me wrong, yeah, I think you're alright
But that won't keep me warm in the middle of the night
That don't impress me much
Yeah!"
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"Don't get me wrong ...I'm pleased for people if they have nice things and can completely understand people being proud of their achievements.
But..it isn't going to make my knickers fall off!
I want a friend with an indoor pool who would like me to use it daily just to keep it going. It's not much to ask and I would be very impressed
That level of 'impressiveness' should be admired by 2
If I find such a person I'll let you know
I've got a indoor swimming pool..... ok it's a bath and you can't swim in it but it's indoors at least
well it's a start, we only have a shower
And me and broke 2 days ago...off to spray more deodorant
You're more than welcome to shower at mine..... I can't promise if the lock works on the door though "
It's OK..I always come prepared, ill bring a wedge |
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Someone who treats service workers like shit, especially in hospitality.
We've all had meals that weren't right. Someone who creates a massive stink to make themselves look important rather than just explaining the issue and agreeing a solution makes me cringe, there's no need. |
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"Honesty, genuine and authentic communication, and a sense of humour would get me, money/job/status are totally unimportant. "
What she said ^
I'm not bothered who you are or what you've got. Just be yourself and if we get on then happy days. If not then it's no drama, no need to force anything. Anyone down to earth, who can hold a conversation and I can have a laugh with suits me perfectly |
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"When I'm told I'm gorgeous and they haven't even seen a face pic.
That makes me think they'd be happy putting a bag over my head!"
There are fave pics on your profile and I tend to agree with them the gorgeous part not the paper bag part |
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"If someone is trying to tune into you what things can they do or say that really don't impress you?
I am definitely not impressed by those who flaunt how much money or cars and such like ...in fact it has the opposite effect!
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My car or back account won’t impress anyone plus of it did I knew they weren’t for me |
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"Sorry but I have to what a awesome song
Oh-oo-oh, you think you're special
Oh-oo-oh, you think you're something else
Okay, so you're Brad Pitt
That don't impress me much
So you got the looks, but have you got the touch
Now don't get me wrong, yeah, I think you're alright
But that won't keep me warm in the middle of the night
That don't impress me much
Yeah!
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"Honesty, genuine and authentic communication, and a sense of humour would get me, money/job/status are totally unimportant. "
Good job I have a great sense of humour then |
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I’ve never struggled but equally I don’t act like a prick either.
I never really keep what I earn.. I’m like a big kid and I like to enjoy buying things and sharing what I have.
Having money stops a lot of worries but it’s not the answer to everything
I’d be happy with a woman with little as long as she made me smile, |
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"I’ve never struggled but equally I don’t act like a prick either.
I never really keep what I earn.. I’m like a big kid and I like to enjoy buying things and sharing what I have.
Having money stops a lot of worries but it’s not the answer to everything
I’d be happy with a woman with little as long as she made me smile, "
That’s rather sweet |
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"If someone is trying to tune into you what things can they do or say that really don't impress you?
I am definitely not impressed by those who flaunt how much money or cars and such like ...in fact it has the opposite effect!
All of this and an over abundance of compliments, it starts to sound disingenuous "
Ok I will stop then  |
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Cars? Nope. I have car blindness and really don't give a toss what someone drives as long as it gets from a to b.
Watches? Really? Not for me unless they plan to leave it to me in their will!
Heavy cummer? Nah.I get my wallpaper paste from Wilco
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"I’ve never struggled but equally I don’t act like a prick either.
I never really keep what I earn.. I’m like a big kid and I like to enjoy buying things and sharing what I have.
Having money stops a lot of worries but it’s not the answer to everything
I’d be happy with a woman with little as long as she made me smile, "
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"Some are rich, some are wealthy, I think there is big difference between the two.
I'm not rich but consider myself wealthy. "
I've seen the bike at Loomies (drawl) x |
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There's a lot to be said for non-cocky confidence
Confidence in themselves, confidence in their abilities and skills, confidence with their looks
When it turns into cockiness, bravado and ego, however, they've lost the game with me
I can't be doing with 'Billy Big Balls' types |
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"If someone is trying to tune into you what things can they do or say that really don't impress you?
I am definitely not impressed by those who flaunt how much money or cars and such like ...in fact it has the opposite effect!
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If you're looking for a Mazda driver who's mortgaged up to the fkin eyeballs I might just know someone |
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Had a guy send an opening message once, with a picture of his boat. No pic of him, just his boat. I asked him if he really thought I'd be impressed enough that my knickers would just fall off. He thought it was worth a try apparently
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And the entitled approach, like they deserve attention and I should be impressed why?
I want to be with someone for who they are, not what they think they should be 