Absolutely shitting myself I think. I'd realise I'd been a cunt and there was a chance my secrecy and cuntness could get exposed. At that point I'd probably think I didn't deserve them as my partner coz they clearly are more honest and open than I am, and braver too coz they've got the balls to talk about it whereas I didn't, and I didn't trust them either, coz if I did I'd have trusted their reaction to me bringing it up. It would show me I was a coward and my lack of trust in their reaction was nothing more than a manifestation and deflection of lack of trust in myself. |
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"Absolutely shitting myself I think. I'd realise I'd been a cunt and there was a chance my secrecy and cuntness could get exposed. At that point I'd probably think I didn't deserve them as my partner coz they clearly are more honest and open than I am, and braver too coz they've got the balls to talk about it whereas I didn't, and I didn't trust them either, coz if I did I'd have trusted their reaction to me bringing it up. It would show me I was a coward and my lack of trust in their reaction was nothing more than a manifestation and deflection of lack of trust in myself."
Was that from the book of jobs (3:16) lol.  |
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I'd be panicking and definitely delete my profile  this is probably the first place she will come looking and she's gonna recognise your dick and floor tiles!!
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"talks about taking up 'swinging'
But (he or she) is oblivious to know that you are already on a 'swinging' site, lol
What would your reaction be?"
I'd probably feel guilty. I probably wouldn't lol. |
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"Absolutely shitting myself I think. I'd realise I'd been a cunt and there was a chance my secrecy and cuntness could get exposed. At that point I'd probably think I didn't deserve them as my partner coz they clearly are more honest and open than I am, and braver too coz they've got the balls to talk about it whereas I didn't, and I didn't trust them either, coz if I did I'd have trusted their reaction to me bringing it up. It would show me I was a coward and my lack of trust in their reaction was nothing more than a manifestation and deflection of lack of trust in myself."
As always perfectly said. |
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I’d feel a bit of a cunt to be honest. Knowing that I had been having my cake and eating it whilst controlling my partners behaviour making her believe that all was okay in our relationship
I think I would take a good long hard look at myself and resolve to not be so selfish in the future. I would then probably tell them the truth and give them something which I had denied them for so long; choice. |
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"talks about taking up 'swinging'
But (he or she) is oblivious to know that you are already on a 'swinging' site, lol
What would your reaction be?"
I wonder if one of her friends has "found" you on here and told her |
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"talks about taking up 'swinging'
But (he or she) is oblivious to know that you are already on a 'swinging' site, lol
What would your reaction be?"
Great. I have a green light  |
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