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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it something men do too?
It seems it’s the norm in ffm and fmfm for women but what about the men?
If you’re a bicurious/bisexual guy do you kiss the other guy?
Do women want to see this in their group play and is it a turn on for you?
I’ve never kissed a guy but I don’t think I’d have a problem with it in a group scenario, I enjoy it when the women are all kissy and natural so maybe it’s something that would heighten the experience for all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would be a turn off for me, but then I'd never do a bi mmf, or bi mfmf. I think of everyone had signed up for it being a bi session then everyone should be able to kiss! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you to those few that gave their views and experiences.
It does seem that men’s bisexuality and subjects on it are not spoken about very openly here on the forums, had this been a thread about women kissing women started by a woman I’d wager it would be overflowing with responses.
What’s funny is that since I’ve changed my sexuality listing on my profile to curious I get lots of mail about scenarios in private and even mail from some male forum posters so what causes people to be so cagey about discussing it on the forum?
I think there’s still much stigma around men being honest about it even here on the forum which i find rather sad as a man that has a genuine interest and wants to learn more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you to those few that gave their views and experiences.
It does seem that men’s bisexuality and subjects on it are not spoken about very openly here on the forums, had this been a thread about women kissing women started by a woman I’d wager it would be overflowing with responses.
What’s funny is that since I’ve changed my sexuality listing on my profile to curious I get lots of mail about scenarios in private and even mail from some male forum posters so what causes people to be so cagey about discussing it on the forum?
I think there’s still much stigma around men being honest about it even here on the forum which i find rather sad as a man that has a genuine interest and wants to learn more."
Oh absolutely there would be a full thread. I don’t know why it’s not openly talked about especially on here. Quite sad really  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you to those few that gave their views and experiences.
It does seem that men’s bisexuality and subjects on it are not spoken about very openly here on the forums, had this been a thread about women kissing women started by a woman I’d wager it would be overflowing with responses.
What’s funny is that since I’ve changed my sexuality listing on my profile to curious I get lots of mail about scenarios in private and even mail from some male forum posters so what causes people to be so cagey about discussing it on the forum?
I think there’s still much stigma around men being honest about it even here on the forum which i find rather sad as a man that has a genuine interest and wants to learn more."
What causes people to be so cagey??
SOCIAL STIGMA! Sadly as it’s 2021…not 1792 |
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I think personally that people should do what they want and feel is right. In a group dynamic when there are more than 2 people it's natural to presume that some might find certain things more of a turn on than others.
And I agree there is some weird stigma about being open and honest. Curiosity is after all curiosity people should be free to explore it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it something men do too?
It seems it’s the norm in ffm and fmfm for women but what about the men?
If you’re a bicurious/bisexual guy do you kiss the other guy?
Do women want to see this in their group play and is it a turn on for you?
I’ve never kissed a guy but I don’t think I’d have a problem with it in a group scenario, I enjoy it when the women are all kissy and natural so maybe it’s something that would heighten the experience for all."
It’s a huuuge turn on for me, but then we love the softer side of play within a bi mmf
We’ve chatted to a few men who would happily say they are orally bi but baulk at the idea of kissing which seemed odd to me (each to their own obviously I’m not knocking them I was just surprised) … it’s still fun but it’s oh so much more with a friend who likes to kiss too
I was hoping your thread would get lots of response too OP I was very interested to read others replies
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you can’t talk about it here, where can you talk about it ? "
In a lead lined coal bunker at the bottom of your garden at night with hushed voices and wearing ex president masks it would seem.
Is that yurt of yours lead lined? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it something men do too?
It seems it’s the norm in ffm and fmfm for women but what about the men?
If you’re a bicurious/bisexual guy do you kiss the other guy?
Do women want to see this in their group play and is it a turn on for you?
I’ve never kissed a guy but I don’t think I’d have a problem with it in a group scenario, I enjoy it when the women are all kissy and natural so maybe it’s something that would heighten the experience for all.
It’s a huuuge turn on for me, but then we love the softer side of play within a bi mmf
We’ve chatted to a few men who would happily say they are orally bi but baulk at the idea of kissing which seemed odd to me (each to their own obviously I’m not knocking them I was just surprised) … it’s still fun but it’s oh so much more with a friend who likes to kiss too
I was hoping your thread would get lots of response too OP I was very interested to read others replies
Kx"
Excellent response and just the sort of thing I was hoping for  |
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Hi Sam.
I’ve just been to Cupid’s (near Manchester) and funnily enough it came up (sort of) there. One of the play beds was set aside for female only play. When I joined there were 4 of us - with a fairly large audience.
When I went back to the bar we remarked that, sadly, bisexuality between men is rarely encouraged in clubs - in fact in many clubs I’ve been to it’s very much frowned upon. Sad and totally unfair.
If I ever see a ‘men only bed’ in a club I’ll be a very happy peachy.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it something men do too?
It seems it’s the norm in ffm and fmfm for women but what about the men?
If you’re a bicurious/bisexual guy do you kiss the other guy?
Do women want to see this in their group play and is it a turn on for you?
I’ve never kissed a guy but I don’t think I’d have a problem with it in a group scenario, I enjoy it when the women are all kissy and natural so maybe it’s something that would heighten the experience for all."
Huge turn on for me. I’m not into women so I’ve not had a FMF (and probably never will) but I’d expect MM kissing in a MMF. Just love to see pretty boys putting on a show  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I definitely enjoy kissing guys, and to be honest I have had some great reactions from the female partner when kissing guys.
I would say though this is ideally something I would always try and check before starting play. I have definitely had some people that keep kissing as a romantic thing between them and have that as a limit.
It's never good to cause a argument mid play! |
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I have always been a fan of kissing women, but for me is a M A S S I V E turn on kissing a fit guy dunno if its the fact that technically its "wrong" or what but for me its HORNY AF! Im cool with kissing a M in 1on1 or MMF. meets, however I only kiss clean shaven guys, dunno if for me its the association with women not having facial hair, but If the guy has facial hair its a no from me, and I dont generally meet guys with beards |
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You see it time and time again on here when men are happy to sexually play with another male, but draw the line at intimacy with another guy, I guess a lot of men just see bisexual play as just having a sexual encounter rather than a intimate romantic act, I wonder if it is only the very bisexual men who kiss Intimately |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"however I only kiss clean shaven guys, dunno if for me its the association with women not having facial hair, but If the guy has facial hair its a no from me, and I dont generally meet guys with beards"
Ha, yes totally found out about stubble rash the hard way!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You see it time and time again on here when men are happy to sexually play with another male, but draw the line at intimacy with another guy, I guess a lot of men just see bisexual play as just having a sexual encounter rather than a intimate romantic act, I wonder if it is only the very bisexual men who kiss Intimately "
On a tangent, I wonder if there are any bi women who don’t kiss women? I get the stereotype that women are just too gorgeous to resist but the reluctance of many bi men to kiss makes me wonder |
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"You see it time and time again on here when men are happy to sexually play with another male, but draw the line at intimacy with another guy, I guess a lot of men just see bisexual play as just having a sexual encounter rather than a intimate romantic act, I wonder if it is only the very bisexual men who kiss Intimately
On a tangent, I wonder if there are any bi women who don’t kiss women? I get the stereotype that women are just too gorgeous to resist but the reluctance of many bi men to kiss makes me wonder "
I do but I don’t find it as much as a turn on as when kissing a man |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it something men do too?
It seems it’s the norm in ffm and fmfm for women but what about the men?
If you’re a bicurious/bisexual guy do you kiss the other guy?
Do women want to see this in their group play and is it a turn on for you?
I’ve never kissed a guy but I don’t think I’d have a problem with it in a group scenario, I enjoy it when the women are all kissy and natural so maybe it’s something that would heighten the experience for all.
It’s a huuuge turn on for me, but then we love the softer side of play within a bi mmf
We’ve chatted to a few men who would happily say they are orally bi but baulk at the idea of kissing which seemed odd to me (each to their own obviously I’m not knocking them I was just surprised) … it’s still fun but it’s oh so much more with a friend who likes to kiss too
I was hoping your thread would get lots of response too OP I was very interested to read others replies
Kx
Excellent response and just the sort of thing I was hoping for "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love a good snog, guy or woman or even a three way snog mmf is even better.
It strikes me as odd that guys won't kiss other guys, especially in front of women.
Why this is I cannot answer.
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We state we’d be looking to kiss when discussing what we’d like to do in a meet as we think kissing between all parties is a must. Honestly can’t imagine meeting someone and not kissing. Plus seeing two guys make out is hot  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve recently started to entertain a LOT the idea that I’d really love to kiss another woman in a group scenario…
I think people should just do whatever in groups, see what feels right in the moment
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We state we’d be looking to kiss when discussing what we’d like to do in a meet as we think kissing between all parties is a must. Honestly can’t imagine meeting someone and not kissing. Plus seeing two guys make out is hot "
I think this is key, actually making it clear that kissing is on the agenda, and that actually it is a must for you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots of bisexual or curious men are quite happy to suck, be sucked, rim and be rimmed and do anal give or take but absolutely balk at kissing another man. Totally ridiculous lol"
Yes I do see that it can seem like madness when you put it like that. I think that a lot of guys aren't 100% comfortable in their sexuality, perhaps a product of a lot of historical homophobia. Kissing can seem like a more intimate thing, so I can understand that sometime why this might be were the line lies with some people.
Hopefully in the future more guys will feel more comfortable in their sexuality!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love kissing, girls, guys does not matter, really gets me going.
But I get it that some guys feel it's a step too far, and respect that.
I just look at kissing as another part of foreplay. Yes, it is a very intimate act, but I find sex so much more fulfilling if my partner(s) embrace that feeling. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes...please carry on the idea is for all to enjoy... and I’d happily watch...and get involved 
The more people are opens about their curiosities and wants the more accepted and norm it is..
Getting carried away in the moment and allowing your self to do what you want is sexy as heck |
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Male on male sexuality tends to lean more to the raw animalistic acts of oral or sex than the sensual in general. I think gay guys and true bisexual guys will kiss but most in the 'orally' bi range of bicurious will never kiss a guy but have no issues taking his cock in their mouth for example. For us older guys who lived through the 80s/90s we still remember decades of headlines of tabloids calling gay/bi people weird or abnormal. The word 'p**f' was thrown around like candy, perhaps on some subconscious level that plays a part on why some hold back still and wont let go fully. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m OK with kissing a guy provided the guy doesn’t immediately try to eat my face. That just puts me off, and in a group scenario would disrupt the flow of things somewhat. "
I’m interested in this… do you think men trying to kiss women also try to “eat their faces” and disrupt the flow? |
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"I’m OK with kissing a guy provided the guy doesn’t immediately try to eat my face. That just puts me off, and in a group scenario would disrupt the flow of things somewhat.
I’m interested in this… do you think men trying to kiss women also try to “eat their faces” and disrupt the flow?"
I think it depends on the guy. For me there’s a difference between a good kiss, even a passionate one, and a guy planting his open mouth onto my face and jamming his tongue halfway down my throat. I love kissing and kissing passionately, but going for that straight off the bat is what I find off-putting. My experience is that men tend to do that more than women, but I’ve also had amazing kisses from both men and women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m OK with kissing a guy provided the guy doesn’t immediately try to eat my face. That just puts me off, and in a group scenario would disrupt the flow of things somewhat.
I’m interested in this… do you think men trying to kiss women also try to “eat their faces” and disrupt the flow?
I think it depends on the guy. For me there’s a difference between a good kiss, even a passionate one, and a guy planting his open mouth onto my face and jamming his tongue halfway down my throat. I love kissing and kissing passionately, but going for that straight off the bat is what I find off-putting. My experience is that men tend to do that more than women, but I’ve also had amazing kisses from both men and women."
Ah fair enough if you’ve had it from both sexes!
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes...please carry on the idea is for all to enjoy... and I’d happily watch...and get involved
The more people are opens about their curiosities and wants the more accepted and norm it is..
Getting carried away in the moment and allowing your self to do what you want is sexy as heck"
This!^^ |
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"Thank you to those few that gave their views and experiences.
It does seem that men’s bisexuality and subjects on it are not spoken about very openly here on the forums, had this been a thread about women kissing women started by a woman I’d wager it would be overflowing with responses.
What’s funny is that since I’ve changed my sexuality listing on my profile to curious I get lots of mail about scenarios in private and even mail from some male forum posters so what causes people to be so cagey about discussing it on the forum?
I think there’s still much stigma around men being honest about it even here on the forum which i find rather sad as a man that has a genuine interest and wants to learn more.
What causes people to be so cagey??
SOCIAL STIGMA! Sadly as it’s 2021…not 1792"
I'm not cagey, nor does social stigma bother me.
I'm straight, not Fab straight, not bi or bi curious, I'm simply not attracted to men, so kissing another man has no interest or appeal.
I can appreciate a handsome man, Sam is a gorgeous bastard, but I've no desire to snog his face off.
Sorry Sam. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you to those few that gave their views and experiences.
It does seem that men’s bisexuality and subjects on it are not spoken about very openly here on the forums, had this been a thread about women kissing women started by a woman I’d wager it would be overflowing with responses.
What’s funny is that since I’ve changed my sexuality listing on my profile to curious I get lots of mail about scenarios in private and even mail from some male forum posters so what causes people to be so cagey about discussing it on the forum?
I think there’s still much stigma around men being honest about it even here on the forum which i find rather sad as a man that has a genuine interest and wants to learn more.
What causes people to be so cagey??
SOCIAL STIGMA! Sadly as it’s 2021…not 1792
I'm not cagey, nor does social stigma bother me.
I'm straight, not Fab straight, not bi or bi curious, I'm simply not attracted to men, so kissing another man has no interest or appeal.
I can appreciate a handsome man, Sam is a gorgeous bastard, but I've no desire to snog his face off.
Sorry Sam. "
The cagey-ness was meant for guys who do kiss guys on certain conditions (like during group sex when basically almost anything goes, I assume…)
And even tho they do, they feel the need to be cagey about it and keep it super secret because of the social stigma around it
Was Not meant for people who don’t have any attraction towards the same sex
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm firmly in the do what feels good camp all kiss or just the woman kisses, my to do list includes a bi mmf and I do love seeing men kissing."
Same for me too! A bit of MMF is the only group play I’m interested in atm |
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I'm relatively new to all this, having never been to a club or had group play. I'm completely straight but I quite like the idea of bi guys kissing each other - even better if I can join in. Having watched it on porn, it's beautiful.
I love to kiss. It's sensual, delicate, hard, hungry & makes me want the person I'm kissing even more. Why wouldn't a bi guy do that? I mean, surely if you're going to get down & dirty, you'd need a snog first. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thank you to those few that gave their views and experiences.
It does seem that men’s bisexuality and subjects on it are not spoken about very openly here on the forums, had this been a thread about women kissing women started by a woman I’d wager it would be overflowing with responses.
What’s funny is that since I’ve changed my sexuality listing on my profile to curious I get lots of mail about scenarios in private and even mail from some male forum posters so what causes people to be so cagey about discussing it on the forum?
I think there’s still much stigma around men being honest about it even here on the forum which i find rather sad as a man that has a genuine interest and wants to learn more.
What causes people to be so cagey??
SOCIAL STIGMA! Sadly as it’s 2021…not 1792
I'm not cagey, nor does social stigma bother me.
I'm straight, not Fab straight, not bi or bi curious, I'm simply not attracted to men, so kissing another man has no interest or appeal.
I can appreciate a handsome man, Sam is a gorgeous bastard, but I've no desire to snog his face off.
Sorry Sam. "
You still owe me a beer!
Now pucker up you big stud  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No way could I ever kiss a man and the thought of anal sex does nothing for me at all. However recently I have been fantasising about kissing a woman after she has sucked a cock.
So what does this make me? I don't know |
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"Thank you to those few that gave their views and experiences.
It does seem that men’s bisexuality and subjects on it are not spoken about very openly here on the forums, had this been a thread about women kissing women started by a woman I’d wager it would be overflowing with responses.
What’s funny is that since I’ve changed my sexuality listing on my profile to curious I get lots of mail about scenarios in private and even mail from some male forum posters so what causes people to be so cagey about discussing it on the forum?
I think there’s still much stigma around men being honest about it even here on the forum which i find rather sad as a man that has a genuine interest and wants to learn more.
What causes people to be so cagey??
SOCIAL STIGMA! Sadly as it’s 2021…not 1792
I'm not cagey, nor does social stigma bother me.
I'm straight, not Fab straight, not bi or bi curious, I'm simply not attracted to men, so kissing another man has no interest or appeal.
I can appreciate a handsome man, Sam is a gorgeous bastard, but I've no desire to snog his face off.
Sorry Sam.
You still owe me a beer!
Now pucker up you big stud "
No tongues though, you know the rules.  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I've never been involved in group play (as in more than three) or had a mmf but I think a person comfortable and confident enough in themselves to explore their sexuality? That's hot. Seriously hot. I'd perv on anyone doing something they enjoy, that's not harming others etc. I'm not going to get in to the male gaze and the popularity of female bisexuality because that's a whole other thread buuut... there's definitely a stigma surrounding male bisexuality, you only have to look at some comments on threads to understand why men aren't posting and would rather send private mail.
I think kissing is natural, it's fun and playful and arousing. Why shouldn't two men enjoy that? We put so much emphasis on doing what is socially acceptable, on doing and not doing certain things but at the end of the day sex (as in, incorporating anything sexual with another being) is fun. Should be fun. And if your todger will get that bit stiffer and you're curious about it? Explore and enjoy it Sam. Life is too short to not kiss an attractive man, to not delve into that box of curiosity of your mind and tell your associate all about it.
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By *wentMan
over a year ago
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"No way could I ever kiss a man and the thought of anal sex does nothing for me at all. However recently I have been fantasising about kissing a woman after she has sucked a cock.
So what does this make me? I don't know "
I like the thought of two men making love to a woman or women but don’t like men or feel attracted to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've seen it yes. It's hot as fuck. "
Indeed
A woman enjoying you both orally whilst you share one of those erotic, breathy, open mouthed kisses with the other bloke is simply delicious |
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It's not something I've seen but it's something I'd like to see. I find it incredibly erotic being with people who are just lost in enjoying each other's bodies. It's what sex and by extension swinging is all about for me. Hedonistic pleasure seeking.
Why don't men talk about it? Probably because the term "fab straight" is considered hilarious. It really saddens me that this stigma towards bi men still exists.
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