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Does this put you off?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes especially when there pics are BB that could be a long term partner, but as a rule, yes it does put me off" but if there claiming to be single though the pics shouldn’t be used in my view
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Say someone messages you but they have a lot of photos showing where they've been?
Such as cock in pussy and ass etc...
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If it's obviously different people and they are bareback then no.
However if it's a cute guy and he has photos of safe play with older BBWs then it makes me more likely to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Say someone messages you but they have a lot of photos showing where they've been?
Such as cock in pussy and ass etc...
If it's obviously different people and they are bareback then no.
However if it's a cute guy and he has photos of safe play with older BBWs then it makes me more likely to meet. "
By no, I mean it's a no go lol |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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Given we are not a sex meet only couple, lots of action shots wouldn’t put us off as we would be unlikely to meet anyway.
We much prefer photos that show activities that we enjoy, or that show off their bodies in such a way as to elicit our imagination.
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"Not at all. This is a sex site not facebook ot a lingerie magazine
I love your photos and so do many others as you always make the hot pics.
Thank you."
Just shows you that many like the action shots. My photos are here to make you smile and hopefully brighten up your day during these tough times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm looking for a sofa I'd not want one torn open so I can see what's inside, same on here. I know what can be done with genitals I don't need to see it in technicolour, definitely puts me off. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So glad I'm not the only one who finds it off putting! I have those kind of photos myself but they are kept private. Each to their own though, whatever floats you're boat.  |
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No I'd rather know where they have been and getting up to what, then finding out about something I dislike later on, then I can make a valued decision on whether I want to meet them this is also why I like reading veris
Plus it's also helps with suggesting something new to try  |
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I find them off putting because I am always concerned whether half the "other parties" on action pix on single profiles even know their photos are out there in public.
Photos are meant to be up with consent but how do you even prove/verify that?
It doesn't sit well with me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It puts me off yes it does, mainly if most of the photo is of another female. But it makes me a hypocrite because I have previously had a photo of me sucking my ex fwbs cock as my profile picture.x |
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"Not at all. This is a sex site not facebook ot a lingerie magazine "
I agree. If you listen to what is the tiny minority of fab members who frequent the forums (quite a lot often without any verifications at all) then you would be posting a photo with your top off and that’s it!!! Cock pics offend, Pussy pics offend, Action pics offend!!! Be yourself and present yourself how you want |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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"I find them off putting because I am always concerned whether half the "other parties" on action pix on single profiles even know their photos are out there in public.
Photos are meant to be up with consent but how do you even prove/verify that?
It doesn't sit well with me.
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Yes, I feel the same. It would definitely put me off meeting that profile, especially as I wonder if some of the people are even aware that the pictures were taken, let alone that they are posted on here. I wouldn't consent to pictures of me being taken on a meet or used on someone else's profile.
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I find it irritating if all you can see of the guy is an inch of his cock hanging out of someone - they are meant to be photos of him, after all.
If there are a range of photos where I can get a better idea of him then some attractive action shots in the mix aren't my favourite but they wouldn't stop me chatting to someone, I don't find them a huge turn off or an absolute no-no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, completely does put me off someone. I see nothing wrong with lots of sex with multiple partners but I just think it's a bit grim seeing pic after pic of intimate moments all a different woman. It's like each woman is a trophy. I dunno, think it's a bit tacky. |
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"I find them off putting because I am always concerned whether half the "other parties" on action pix on single profiles even know their photos are out there in public.
Photos are meant to be up with consent but how do you even prove/verify that?
It doesn't sit well with me.
Yes, I feel the same. It would definitely put me off meeting that profile, especially as I wonder if some of the people are even aware that the pictures were taken, let alone that they are posted on here. I wouldn't consent to pictures of me being taken on a meet or used on someone else's profile.
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We suspect that many Women are ex-girlfriends or escorts who have no idea they're on Fab, some seem to use hidden cameras too. We recently opened up our filters and only replied to one single guy. He had the best written profile we've seen from a guy, and just 2 public pics, torso front and back. Each to their own of course, but looking on this thread certainly most (not all) Women are put off by graphic profile pics and text. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find them off putting because I am always concerned whether half the "other parties" on action pix on single profiles even know their photos are out there in public.
Photos are meant to be up with consent but how do you even prove/verify that?
It doesn't sit well with me.
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Everyone I've ever asked who the other person is in the pics, they've said oh it's my ex. So clearly no consent given. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I find them off putting because I am always concerned whether half the "other parties" on action pix on single profiles even know their photos are out there in public.
Photos are meant to be up with consent but how do you even prove/verify that?
It doesn't sit well with me.
Everyone I've ever asked who the other person is in the pics, they've said oh it's my ex. So clearly no consent given. "
That's awful. |
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