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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How vocal are you when you're 'with' someone? Does it turn you on or off if the other person is vocal?
I'll be honest I'm quiet in bed and would rather not speak. I prefer to communicate physically. I've been put on the spot to 'talk dirty' and I struggled, like really struggled. I felt very self conscious and quite stupid.
This doesn't mean I don't find a vocal partner a turn off, quite the opposite if they say the right things, but I can think of times where I've been turned off too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Similar to you OP. I'm quiet and prefer the non-verbal communication of how someone is or isn't reacting.
If someone is vocal it can be a turn on or off depending on what they are saying. Barking orders at me would be a turn off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love dirty talks! Both saying naughty things and hearing it from guys. I’d say I’m a happy medium tho, so maybe 5/10 .. I feel comfortable saying dirty things btw
Regarding how loud I am during sex, maybe I’m
A 6/7 x x not too loud that I scream like a banshee (I personally hate it, I’m not a fan of very loud screechy noises) but loud enough people can hear me in different rooms lol x
I like my guys to be also loud on grunts and moans etc x especially when they are about to orgasm mmm x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm vocal in the sense that I moan and cry out when something feels good, but I'm not really into dirty talk. At least, I can't give it, like you I feel self conscious. I've been with a guy who was very good at it though, and it was hot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m vocal when I cum, and I love it when men are vocal too.
I love it when a man talks dirty to me, he can tip me over the edge with his words, and I’ve started to like doing it too, it’s about confidence a lot of the time for me. |
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I can't do dirty talk without laughing, but I'm vocal and noisy in terms of moans and grunts and what have you.
I like a vocal man, but not to the point that it becomes performative; I just like enough feedback to reassure me that he's enjoying whatever I'm doing. |
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Oh but I'm no good at dirty talk and cannot stand it when a guy keeps asking what I'd do to him, what I'd do to a woman, wether I'd get a woman for us..... All while I'm trying to suck his cock! It's rude to talk with your mouth full!  |
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Who can forget the famous Inbetweeners scene..."I'm going to fuck your fucking fanny off, you twat!"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ku6L8UupkG0
I think a lot will be at that level of awkward.
I do communicate verbally/audibly when it is natural. Anything else feels staged and comes out sounding moronic  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm vocal in the sense that I moan and cry out when something feels good, but I'm not really into dirty talk. At least, I can't give it, like you I feel self conscious. I've been with a guy who was very good at it though, and it was hot!"
See I don't even moan much, it's hot when a girl does it, I just sound like a bear. Although sometimes if it's very good then yeah I can't keep 100% quiet, just no words.
As stupid as I felt that one time, I did actually do very well apparantly, still felt like a twat though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There’s a time and a place for filthy talk, and the bedroom during an FFM is definitely both that time and that place."
I can only imagine.
Bastards |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Who can forget the famous Inbetweeners scene..."I'm going to fuck your fucking fanny off, you twat!"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ku6L8UupkG0
I think a lot will be at that level of awkward.
I do communicate verbally/audibly when it is natural. Anything else feels staged and comes out sounding moronic "
Fucking love that scene |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am a talker. Move here, do this, open up, don't cum ect. Aside from that I'm a bit of a heavy breather and a loud cummer"
If want someone to move I just move them them, flip them over etc. I can see how someone might enjoy telling someone to do it though, it's a different dynamic, both achieving the same end. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"I am a talker. Move here, do this, open up, don't cum ect. Aside from that I'm a bit of a heavy breather and a loud cummer
If want someone to move I just move them them, flip them over etc. I can see how someone might enjoy telling someone to do it though, it's a different dynamic, both achieving the same end. "
Yes, it’s a very different dynamic - those who enjoy giving instructions pair best with those who enjoy receiving and following them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like the audio cues that the individual I am with is enjoying it, and by how much; it's a big turn on. The deep growls from a man is quite primal and extremely arousing. Equally, the moans and groans and sighs from a woman is just as arousing.
Dirty talk at the right moment can push me over the edge, but equally knock the edge off if not. I'm not a howler but you would definitely know I was enjoying what was happening  Elle x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hate silent sex. It doesn't have to be noisy - just a bit of heavy breathing, a few moans or a gasp to let me know I'm hitting the spot. "
Sounds like me. Quiet but not silent. |
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