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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When did people start gobbing on eachother instead of using lube? Is this just a porn thing? Would it turn any of you off? It would turn me off big time.
Thank you reading installment one of 'one thousand things I don't understand about porn' |
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For the free porn you get online it’s going to be the stuff that gets them the most views….
It’s it something that stands out for me in porn but also doesn’t put me off. Using spit is more intimate/filthy than lube…depending on how it is done
However for me recently I have enjoyed a lot of spitting both for the pure filth and intimacy with a very special fabber. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For the free porn you get online it’s going to be the stuff that gets them the most views….
It’s it something that stands out for me in porn but also doesn’t put me off. Using spit is more intimate/filthy than lube…depending on how it is done
However for me recently I have enjoyed a lot of spitting both for the pure filth and intimacy with a very special fabber. "
Yeah I get that it could be someone's thing and that's totally cool. Its just so prevalent in pornography that you'd swear it was normal for everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For the free porn you get online it’s going to be the stuff that gets them the most views….
It’s it something that stands out for me in porn but also doesn’t put me off. Using spit is more intimate/filthy than lube…depending on how it is done
However for me recently I have enjoyed a lot of spitting both for the pure filth and intimacy with a very special fabber.
Yeah I get that it could be someone's thing and that's totally cool. Its just so prevalent in pornography that you'd swear it was normal for everyone. "
Maybe people like to watch things they don’t get to do in everyday life and porn makers play on those desires. It’s taboo to most maybe? 
Also keeps production costs down on lube |
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Its pretty much just porn witch isn’t glamorous if you really want to see the reality off porn
Look up bts or behind the scenes it will put you off pro porn for life pritty much |
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"When did people start gobbing on eachother instead of using lube? Is this just a porn thing? Would it turn any of you off? It would turn me off big time.
Thank you reading installment one of 'one thousand things I don't understand about porn' "
Nooooooooooo.... Just Nooooooooooo... Do they hawk it up first too? Nooooooo |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Thumbs up for spit from me  I feel it adds an extra air of filthiness to the occasion. Seeing a woman looking up at you, with spit hanging between her lips and your cock is scintillating  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thumbs up for spit from me I feel it adds an extra air of filthiness to the occasion. Seeing a woman looking up at you, with spit hanging between her lips and your cock is scintillating "
I don't mean hawking up a greeny either  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For the free porn you get online it’s going to be the stuff that gets them the most views….
**It’s it something that stands out for me in porn but also doesn’t put me off. Using spit is more intimate/filthy than lube…depending on how it is done
However for me recently I have enjoyed a lot of spitting both for the pure filth and intimacy with a very special fabber. "
*it isn’t something |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's weird. I hate spitting but i love kissing which is the same saliva. Go figure. "
I know right, it's not the saliva, it's the act of spitting. We do it as a sign of disgust or to get bad things out of our mouths. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's weird. I hate spitting but i love kissing which is the same saliva. Go figure.
I know right, it's not the saliva, it's the act of spitting. We do it as a sign of disgust or to get bad things out of our mouths. "
I don't like it because it's usually done for degrading purposes. If anyone spat on me during sex I'd walk out. |
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"When did people start gobbing on eachother instead of using lube? Is this just a porn thing? Would it turn any of you off? It would turn me off big time.
Thank you reading installment one of 'one thousand things I don't understand about porn' "
I blame porn, yeah.
Huge turn off for me.
I don't need extra wetting if I'm turned on sufficiently.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's weird. I hate spitting but i love kissing which is the same saliva. Go figure.
I know right, it's not the saliva, it's the act of spitting. We do it as a sign of disgust or to get bad things out of our mouths.
I don't like it because it's usually done for degrading purposes. If anyone spat on me during sex I'd walk out. "
I think porn maybe presents it in a degrading way often…
I guess it depends on each person experiences. Did you have a degrading experience?
But my partner spitting on my cock doesn’t make me feel degraded….it feels amazing and visually really filthy. My partner loves the feeling of me spitting on her cunt…whilst I am doing everything I can to make her feel amazing.
So whilst spitting in any other context is horrid…with her it is incredible |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thumbs up for spit from me I feel it adds an extra air of filthiness to the occasion. Seeing a woman looking up at you, with spit hanging between her lips and your cock is scintillating "
That's different, thats natural the further back your member goes then this is naturally produced by the glands |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's weird. I hate spitting but i love kissing which is the same saliva. Go figure.
I know right, it's not the saliva, it's the act of spitting. We do it as a sign of disgust or to get bad things out of our mouths.
I don't like it because it's usually done for degrading purposes. If anyone spat on me during sex I'd walk out.
I think porn maybe presents it in a degrading way often…
I guess it depends on each person experiences. Did you have a degrading experience?
But my partner spitting on my cock doesn’t make me feel degraded….it feels amazing and visually really filthy. My partner loves the feeling of me spitting on her cunt…whilst I am doing everything I can to make her feel amazing.
So whilst spitting in any other context is horrid…with her it is incredible"
I can perhaps see that in the context of oral it might be ok, when done in the way you suggest. But I've seen porn where the woman is sucking a guy and for no reason at all he just spits on her face. To me, that's degrading and I wouldn't like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's weird. I hate spitting but i love kissing which is the same saliva. Go figure. "
Not the same tho, I mean the spitting is like people who walk down the street spitting, it's a spit on the woman to get her wet, lazy, use your skills to get me wet and stoo rushing it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's weird. I hate spitting but i love kissing which is the same saliva. Go figure.
I know right, it's not the saliva, it's the act of spitting. We do it as a sign of disgust or to get bad things out of our mouths.
I don't like it because it's usually done for degrading purposes. If anyone spat on me during sex I'd walk out.
I think porn maybe presents it in a degrading way often…
I guess it depends on each person experiences. Did you have a degrading experience?
But my partner spitting on my cock doesn’t make me feel degraded….it feels amazing and visually really filthy. My partner loves the feeling of me spitting on her cunt…whilst I am doing everything I can to make her feel amazing.
So whilst spitting in any other context is horrid…with her it is incredible
I can perhaps see that in the context of oral it might be ok, when done in the way you suggest. But I've seen porn where the woman is sucking a guy and for no reason at all he just spits on her face. To me, that's degrading and I wouldn't like it."
I concur but most porn is is about power and control over the woman, that she is his play thing, there for him. I spend more time looking for good female friendly porn than watching, although there is this one guy who adores eating and you can see he's all about pleasing, it pleases him |
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It's different for women I feel. We have had eons of being deemed the weaker submissive sex, we're still slut shamed, we're still spoken to in agressive controlling ways. Men still try to coerce and manipulate sexually.
Not all obvs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's weird. I hate spitting but i love kissing which is the same saliva. Go figure.
I know right, it's not the saliva, it's the act of spitting. We do it as a sign of disgust or to get bad things out of our mouths.
I don't like it because it's usually done for degrading purposes. If anyone spat on me during sex I'd walk out.
I think porn maybe presents it in a degrading way often…
I guess it depends on each person experiences. Did you have a degrading experience?
But my partner spitting on my cock doesn’t make me feel degraded….it feels amazing and visually really filthy. My partner loves the feeling of me spitting on her cunt…whilst I am doing everything I can to make her feel amazing.
So whilst spitting in any other context is horrid…with her it is incredible
I can perhaps see that in the context of oral it might be ok, when done in the way you suggest. But I've seen porn where the woman is sucking a guy and for no reason at all he just spits on her face. To me, that's degrading and I wouldn't like it.
I concur but most porn is is about power and control over the woman, that she is his play thing, there for him. I spend more time looking for good female friendly porn than watching, although there is this one guy who adores eating and you can see he's all about pleasing, it pleases him"
It is a shame that porn can do this to us. I like Erika lust…her films are go against the trends and can be so respectfully filthy.
Although sometimes people want to be degraded so although porn shouldn’t portray it as mainstream…people who like should not feel bad about it.
It’s interesting reading all the different views on it. It’s great that we are all different |
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I would never spit on a woman, even to use it as lube, as I consider it an act of degradation, plus, if I need it as lube I'm doing something wrong 
On the other hand, they can spit or dribble on my cock as much as they like, I don't feel degraded at all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's different for women I feel. We have had eons of being deemed the weaker submissive sex, we're still slut shamed, we're still spoken to in agressive controlling ways. Men still try to coerce and manipulate sexually.
Not all obvs "
Yes it is different. And mainstream porn seems to stand still and not move forward to work against this. They are just producing what they think will get them the most views.
Should they regulate porn that is easily accessible to all? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would never spit on a woman, even to use it as lube, as I consider it an act of degradation, plus, if I need it as lube I'm doing something wrong
On the other hand, they can spit or dribble on my cock as much as they like, I don't feel degraded at all! "
Out of interest
What if a person really wanted you to? Would you still find it hard to do? Would it still feel degrading even if a person wanted it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's different for women I feel. We have had eons of being deemed the weaker submissive sex, we're still slut shamed, we're still spoken to in agressive controlling ways. Men still try to coerce and manipulate sexually.
Not all obvs
Yes it is different. And mainstream porn seems to stand still and not move forward to work against this. They are just producing what they think will get them the most views.
Should they regulate porn that is easily accessible to all?"
They produce what sells, just go on and look at whats trending most popular.
It's a buisness, many who view i suspect are the sun reading naked calender types. You see it in the language used. They would have no chance with a smart grounded confident woman, they go for the more vulnerable,complyable women, then normalise |
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"I would never spit on a woman, even to use it as lube, as I consider it an act of degradation, plus, if I need it as lube I'm doing something wrong
On the other hand, they can spit or dribble on my cock as much as they like, I don't feel degraded at all!
Out of interest
What if a person really wanted you to? Would you still find it hard to do? Would it still feel degrading even if a person wanted it? "
Id find it hard, like degrading a man, it's not in my nature, they may enjoy it but I have to live with myself. Like a strap on, I'd wear one as part of our play but i don't feel the urge to wear one from a power and control point of view. And I'd want a pretty one! |
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I like to gag on my partners cock so I get that good, slippy spit then wank him with it as lube. That does involve me spitting it out onto his cock, but it’s more that I let it pour out rather than a harsh spit. I don’t spit on any other part of him and I definitely don’t want him or anyone else to spit on me. If anyone spat in my face I think I’d punch them. I don’t like the trend for spitting in each other’s mouths either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can handle a filthy spit in the right moment. It's not that he will need it because I'm dry, but more so I like it dirty and I enjoy the feeling of being degraded with someone I trust. If I'm happy to swish tongues spit isn't a huge deal.
I don't want to do the spitting myself though. I've tried and it's not for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Spitting is filthy full stop and to be honest if it was a good lube we'd bottle it.
So full of bacteria and germs yuck.
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Totally agree. The times ive seen someone spit on a dick during a bj has totally ruined my mood. |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
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"For the free porn you get online it’s going to be the stuff that gets them the most views….
It’s it something that stands out for me in porn but also doesn’t put me off. Using spit is more intimate/filthy than lube…depending on how it is done
However for me recently I have enjoyed a lot of spitting both for the pure filth and intimacy with a very special fabber. "
I agree, I never used to be a fan but my mind has been changed with one particular person and I think that's totally because of the dynamic between us, anyone else I don't think it would have the same affect |
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"I would never spit on a woman, even to use it as lube, as I consider it an act of degradation, plus, if I need it as lube I'm doing something wrong
On the other hand, they can spit or dribble on my cock as much as they like, I don't feel degraded at all!
Out of interest
What if a person really wanted you to? Would you still find it hard to do? Would it still feel degrading even if a person wanted it? "
I still couldn't. I find it a total turn off, just not for me. |
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I once slept with a guy who did this. I wasn’t a fan. The lube is right there. I think some guys take it as a personal slight if you use lube. Not that I understand how spit makes it different if you're still adding lubrication. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For the free porn you get online it’s going to be the stuff that gets them the most views….
It’s it something that stands out for me in porn but also doesn’t put me off. Using spit is more intimate/filthy than lube…depending on how it is done
However for me recently I have enjoyed a lot of spitting both for the pure filth and intimacy with a very special fabber.
I agree, I never used to be a fan but my mind has been changed with one particular person and I think that's totally because of the dynamic between us, anyone else I don't think it would have the same affect "
Finding that connection that opens up a whole world of new dynamics is amazing isn’t it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I once slept with a guy who did this. I wasn’t a fan. The lube is right there. I think some guys take it as a personal slight if you use lube. Not that I understand how spit makes it different if you're still adding lubrication. "
Yeh spitting whilst sleeping is definitely weird |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For the free porn you get online it’s going to be the stuff that gets them the most views….
It’s it something that stands out for me in porn but also doesn’t put me off. Using spit is more intimate/filthy than lube…depending on how it is done
However for me recently I have enjoyed a lot of spitting both for the pure filth and intimacy with a very special fabber.
I agree, I never used to be a fan but my mind has been changed with one particular person and I think that's totally because of the dynamic between us, anyone else I don't think it would have the same affect "
I’m the same. It’s always been on my hard limit list, but has suddenly moved over to the yes please list |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like to gag on my partners cock so I get that good, slippy spit then wank him with it as lube. That does involve me spitting it out onto his cock, but it’s more that I let it pour out rather than a harsh spit. I don’t spit on any other part of him and I definitely don’t want him or anyone else to spit on me. If anyone spat in my face I think I’d punch them. I don’t like the trend for spitting in each other’s mouths either. "
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"I would never spit on a woman, even to use it as lube, as I consider it an act of degradation, plus, if I need it as lube I'm doing something wrong
On the other hand, they can spit or dribble on my cock as much as they like, I don't feel degraded at all!
Out of interest
What if a person really wanted you to? Would you still find it hard to do? Would it still feel degrading even if a person wanted it? "
A good question. I want to say probably, if she said that's what really turned her on, but even though I'm all about trying to make sure the woman is totally satisfied before I am, I'm not sure how I'd feel afterwards  |
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"I would never spit on a woman, even to use it as lube, as I consider it an act of degradation, plus, if I need it as lube I'm doing something wrong
On the other hand, they can spit or dribble on my cock as much as they like, I don't feel degraded at all!
Out of interest
What if a person really wanted you to? Would you still find it hard to do? Would it still feel degrading even if a person wanted it?
A good question. I want to say probably, if she said that's what really turned her on, but even though I'm all about trying to make sure the woman is totally satisfied before I am, I'm not sure how I'd feel afterwards "
Just for clarification: if we're talking she wants me to spit on her fanny because that turns her on, then not an issue. If we're talking about spitting in her face, then there would be an issue. |
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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago
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"For the free porn you get online it’s going to be the stuff that gets them the most views….
It’s it something that stands out for me in porn but also doesn’t put me off. Using spit is more intimate/filthy than lube…depending on how it is done
However for me recently I have enjoyed a lot of spitting both for the pure filth and intimacy with a very special fabber.
I agree, I never used to be a fan but my mind has been changed with one particular person and I think that's totally because of the dynamic between us, anyone else I don't think it would have the same affect
I’m the same. It’s always been on my hard limit list, but has suddenly moved over to the yes please list "
Glad to hear, it can be a kink and if the mood is right I’m happy for a lady to spit at me, especially my cock. I wouldn’t dream of doing it to the lady if we hadn’t discussed before play! |
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By *egoMan
over a year ago
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I don’t like to see people spitting on each other, (humiliation style) but I’ve no issue with using spit for lube?
Isn’t that normal?
Not the whole sound effects, just either a dribble to the fingers or ‘drop’ into the orifice. |
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"I would never spit on a woman, even to use it as lube, as I consider it an act of degradation, plus, if I need it as lube I'm doing something wrong
On the other hand, they can spit or dribble on my cock as much as they like, I don't feel degraded at all!
Out of interest
What if a person really wanted you to? Would you still find it hard to do? Would it still feel degrading even if a person wanted it?
A good question. I want to say probably, if she said that's what really turned her on, but even though I'm all about trying to make sure the woman is totally satisfied before I am, I'm not sure how I'd feel afterwards
Just for clarification: if we're talking she wants me to spit on her fanny because that turns her on, then not an issue. If we're talking about spitting in her face, then there would be an issue."
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Getting spat on is my favourite things. Degredation is my main like so they go hand in hand. The first time I got spat on it took my breath away. Some like it...some don't
Don't know why people are surprised it's in porn. It's like everything else. The more taboo the more popular it becomes
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"Getting spat on is my favourite things. Degredation is my main like so they go hand in hand. The first time I got spat on it took my breath away. Some like it...some don't
Don't know why people are surprised it's in porn. It's like everything else. The more taboo the more popular it becomes
R"
Have you ever been spat on during missionary? |
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"Getting spat on is my favourite things. Degredation is my main like so they go hand in hand. The first time I got spat on it took my breath away. Some like it...some don't
Don't know why people are surprised it's in porn. It's like everything else. The more taboo the more popular it becomes
R
Have you ever been spat on during missionary?"
Yes
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"Getting spat on is my favourite things. Degredation is my main like so they go hand in hand. The first time I got spat on it took my breath away. Some like it...some don't
Don't know why people are surprised it's in porn. It's like everything else. The more taboo the more popular it becomes
R
That’s so hot!
Have you ever been spat on during missionary?
Yes
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"When did people start gobbing on eachother instead of using lube? Is this just a porn thing? Would it turn any of you off? It would turn me off big time.
Thank you reading installment one of 'one thousand things I don't understand about porn' "
to be fair I've done that on occasion long before I knew it was a porn thing. I love to give sloppy dirty bjs. However I will kinda warn before I do it and in the only situations I play
.. its normally well recieved..
However when I play as a couple, I know that it can clear a couples room so dont do it |
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"For the free porn you get online it’s going to be the stuff that gets them the most views….
It’s it something that stands out for me in porn but also doesn’t put me off. Using spit is more intimate/filthy than lube…depending on how it is done
However for me recently I have enjoyed a lot of spitting both for the pure filth and intimacy with a very special fabber.
I agree, I never used to be a fan but my mind has been changed with one particular person and I think that's totally because of the dynamic between us, anyone else I don't think it would have the same affect
I’m the same. It’s always been on my hard limit list, but has suddenly moved over to the yes please list Glad to hear, it can be a kink and if the mood is right I’m happy for a lady to spit at me, especially my cock. I wouldn’t dream of doing it to the lady if we hadn’t discussed before play!"
Absolutely. Consent is key |
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