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Do you still trust in people?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeh i do until they give me reason not too then theyre dropped asif ive never known them, no second chances.
I have my circle who i trust with my life.
Theres no point in paranoid suspicions i havent got time for that nonesence.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really trust people on Internet. There are probably 2 people on here who have extensive knowledge of my outside fab life atm and I shall keep it that way. Its easier if you have met someone and that holding back of trust can get some release.
In real life again I am very careful. But my gut usually whispers good things to my friends search inner tool. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe in the essential decency of human nature until proved otherwise. I've been lucky and not been damaged badly by other people so it's not hard to hold this view.
Except brummies who drive Audis way too fast in the city. They need putting down, frankly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeh i do until they give me reason not too then theyre dropped asif ive never known them, no second chances.
I have my circle who i trust with my life.
Theres no point in paranoid suspicions i havent got time for that nonesence. "
Basically this. But with some latitude on 2nd chances. We all make mistakes sometimes. Only human.
Impossible to go through life trusting absolutely nobody. A healthy dose of scepticism never dies any harm, and we all learn from experience as we ago. |
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I place my trust in people daily in small ways eg I trust the barista to make me the coffee I ask for
I trust Mr N implicitly and our children.
In many ways though I am very wary of who I place my trust with in important matters
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Living just comes with a bit of heartache. Heartache comes with a bit of young faith. Faith stays young till your heart get broken. Hope grows up to become someday. I never hurt no one and no one will ever hurt me, I believe I believe I believe I believe!
You'll never get anywhere if you stop trusting in people  |
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As they used to say on the ex files trust no one or keep friends close but keep enamies closer. I trust no one but give everyone the opertunity to hang themselvs given inough rope. Sadly 9 out of ten people ive ever met fail the test and show they canot be trusted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeh i do until they give me reason not too then theyre dropped asif ive never known them, no second chances.
I have my circle who i trust with my life.
Theres no point in paranoid suspicions i havent got time for that nonesence. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Living just comes with a bit of heartache. Heartache comes with a bit of young faith. Faith stays young till your heart get broken. Hope grows up to become someday. I never hurt no one and no one will ever hurt me, I believe I believe I believe I believe!
You'll never get anywhere if you stop trusting in people "
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Living just comes with a bit of heartache. Heartache comes with a bit of young faith. Faith stays young till your heart get broken. Hope grows up to become someday. I never hurt no one and no one will ever hurt me, I believe I believe I believe I believe!
You'll never get anywhere if you stop trusting in people "
This is a lovely way of putting it. I'm a very private person and compartmentalise most on here, only a handful know anything about me, even fewer anything more. I don't and won't stop trusting people though. It's nice when you have confirmation of that trust. |
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Trust is overrated in my opinion !
You need my trust?
Earn it and then we can talk!
I trust in a child when they say something!
But human ?...I don't know !
And you wonder what is going on in the world now !
It's because of us and our choices !
Didn't trust in eachother !
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"Living just comes with a bit of heartache. Heartache comes with a bit of young faith. Faith stays young till your heart get broken. Hope grows up to become someday. I never hurt no one and no one will ever hurt me, I believe I believe I believe I believe!
So true
You'll never get anywhere if you stop trusting in people
This is a lovely way of putting it. I'm a very private person and compartmentalise most on here, only a handful know anything about me, even fewer anything more. I don't and won't stop trusting people though. It's nice when you have confirmation of that trust."
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"I find it hard to trust now due to some bad experiences. I have to get to know the person first. "
Like I said trust needs to be earned!
Just because you don't say anything ..that doesn't mean you're stupid and you don't say anything! |
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"I trust people to act in what they believe to be their own best interest. Sometimes that aligns with mine, sometimes it acts in opposition."
Sometimes I get that with following their own interests!
But there are some people wich theill step on dead bodies to reach were they want! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trust is earned, and there's a wide spectrum of things within "trust". I give people basic trust initially - then as I get to know them, I might give them more, or less.
For example, after a social meet in a public place, I might trust someone not to murder me on the next meet, so I'd go somewhere private with them. But would I trust them with my most intimate life details? Definitely not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Recent experiences have showed me that trust is alive and very well out there in the big world.
I’ve been trusted which in turn has encouraged me to return it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I trust no one
Animals over humans all day!  "
I hear this a lot, like there's no such thing as a bad dog, just bad owners etc. Personally I don't agree. I have shared my life with 5 dogs now and every single one had an utterly different personality- just like people do which is hardly surprising given that we are animals. Of course being treated badly, a bad upbringing and traumatic events affect animals - exactly as they do humans but I'm sure that just like humans some are nasty little shits for no other reason than that is the genes they have.
I trust people to be people. We all make mistakes and all screw up, we're also good at some things and not others. My best mate is a guy I'd trust with my life holding my ropes while I climb (a trust well earned). This is a job I would only trust her ladyship with to a very slight degree, not because I think she wants me dead but because I know her level of expertise. On the other hand, I trust her with my heart. I guess trusting others ultimately comes down to trusting yourself. If you don't trust your own assessment of another person you don't know whether you can trust them, whether that's your assessment of their ability to do a particular job or your assessment of their ability to deserve your trust.
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
I'm very wary as my trust has been broken by people I love throughout my life.
I do however give people the benefit of the doubt when i meet them and don't let past experiences mar my relationships with other people |
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"Trust is earned, and there's a wide spectrum of things within "trust". I give people basic trust initially - then as I get to know them, I might give them more, or less.
For example, after a social meet in a public place, I might trust someone not to murder me on the next meet, so I'd go somewhere private with them. But would I trust them with my most intimate life details? Definitely not."
But if you choose to give a second chance to a meet wich you're not entirely sure is worth it!
Would you be able to go more private?
For example a girl give me a chance after six months lol !
She said you're crazy
And now we are like best friends !
Noo
I still think trust needs to be earned! |
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There is very few people I trust. It is not something that comes easily and relies on me letting people near in the first place, which is rare. It’s a lot easier and safer to keep your own counsel.
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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Relationships / friendships are like bridges. In the early days they can be a bit rickety and I’ll trust it for trivial things but the stronger they get the more I will trust it with important stuff. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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People would throw you under a bus for a shag and would happily share your most intimate details with others, so no, I don’t trust on here.
Away from here I have my very few closest special people. I keep my circle very small but they are smothered with love  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do trust in people, that doesn't make me naive or a fool though. There are many levels of trust I guess. It takes a lot time to build and can be shattered in seconds. |
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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago
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Everybody trusts someone. That’s my answer to the question. No I don’t trust my ex wife or the mate that fucked off with her and will never sleep with anyone ever again, which is a lie, I believe it’s yourself you do not trust not others. |
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I do but in a controlled way, I don't like putting a trust responsibility on a fledgling friendship, let alone put that sort of pressure on a sexual relationship.
Real life trust is kept for real life friends as we are family |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
I trust people until they show me they can’t be trusted. I don’t listen to other people’s opinions of people either, people can be different depending on how you treat them, generally most people are decent
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I trust very few people now, I've had it used and abused too often by people who should never harm that trust so if I trust you then you've earned it.
I fully trust one person other than my mum and I met her on here so there is hope that trust can still be given when it's deserved |
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I still try to trust people. Unfit it seems whenever I trust someone they abuse that trust and hurt me. So I don't know. I don't want to become closed off as I'm caring and kind, but it's getting harder!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m a great people watcher and trust is given from the outset… it’s up to them to keep the trust going. As once it’s broken it’s gone.
There’s a true friend on here that knows more about me than some of my closet friends I’ve served with. And some of those guys are so much in my life they have keys to my house and I’d tryst them with my daughters life.
This fab friend will always be in my circle, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never trusted people generally until I've got to know them and done my due diligence. I would probably never take anything at face value"
Just to say i think my distrust comes from growing up with an alcoholic... I'm not a superbitch  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I try to until they trigger the warning bells.
My last relationship I went into saying I’d hold back but I fell for him so deeply I still have a broken heart two years on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I trust people until they show me they can’t be trusted. I don’t listen to other people’s opinions of people either, people can be different depending on how you treat them, generally most people are decent
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Tuesday revived my faith in people, but also dented it and that was within a 5 min period. Without nice people, I'd have been sat in a live lane of traffic as a sitting duck. I hope the van driver who shouted at me and refused to help is pleased with himself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeh i do until they give me reason not too then theyre dropped asif ive never known them, no second chances.
I have my circle who i trust with my life.
Theres no point in paranoid suspicions i havent got time for that nonesence. "
Totally agree with Gatsby ... I treat everyone as I like to be treated. That means I trust everyone who I meet, and like, to a point equally ... trust can be built on in time or can be taken away where necessary. But you have to have a starting point! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once flew to a foreign country, hired a car and drove to a train station to meet someone. I didn't know their surname or where they lived, just had a phone number....
Sometimes you have to take a leap, albeit a calculated one. It turned out pretty well by the way and continues to improve on a daily basis..... Sometimes you just "know" you can trust someone. |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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Trust has to be earned, but experience is without doubt the greatest measure. Seen the worst of people, and the best.
But society as a whole is broken, people have too much self interest, with self interest comes the unlikelihood of any trust.
How could you possibly trust anyone who would gladly throw someone under the bus if they though it would get them somewhere. Don't have to look far ......  |
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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago
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"Yeh i do until they give me reason not too then theyre dropped asif ive never known them, no second chances.
I have my circle who i trust with my life.
Theres no point in paranoid suspicions i havent got time for that nonesence. "
Exactly this |
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