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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do people assume that just because you've got a good body that it means you'll have a good face?
I get messages talking my how how I am or your the hottest on here. It genuinely baffles me as I could have a face like an ass. Am I the only one who thinks this way ?
Have you ever been swapping pics with someone and then when you get around to seeing each others face, the face doesn't match the body?
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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Yes, OP. Many times.
I just whack my mush up these days. That way there is no surprise for them and I can assume that if they tell me I'm the most beautiful woman they've ever seen, I totally believe them.
I also believe they've lived under a bush in a male only encampment all their lives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people assume that just because you've got a good body that it means you'll have a good face?
I get messages talking my how how I am or your the hottest on here. It genuinely baffles me as I could have a face like an ass. Am I the only one who thinks this way ?
Have you ever been swapping pics with someone and then when you get around to seeing each others face, the face doesn't match the body?
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This is why God created the gimp mask ;-p |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I see it as just being a chat up line. Nothing more. It doesn't mean they think that a woman is the hottest ever (I've cried many nights over this realisation) but it sounds nice, is relatively harmless and is meant to be flattering. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I see it as just being a chat up line. Nothing more. It doesn't mean they think that a woman is the hottest ever (I've cried many nights over this realisation) but it sounds nice, is relatively harmless and is meant to be flattering. "
WTF Meli!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see it as just being a chat up line. Nothing more. It doesn't mean they think that a woman is the hottest ever (I've cried many nights over this realisation) but it sounds nice, is relatively harmless and is meant to be flattering. "
Yep I agree with this too! Although they can all see my face  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's always disappointing when the face doesn't match the body at all.
This is why we ask to exchange face pics early on as I'd feel awful if we were chatting for a while then found I wasn't attracted to them |
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"Not sure how to answer this without appearing rude about the opposite sex 
Yep, you're probably right "
I really don't want people to think I am being horrible, but no matter how I phrase it, it will sound awful. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I see it as just being a chat up line. Nothing more. It doesn't mean they think that a woman is the hottest ever (I've cried many nights over this realisation) but it sounds nice, is relatively harmless and is meant to be flattering.
WTF Meli!?"
I'm sorry NSP, I don't know what came over me! Ignore my ramblings, they don't contain any truth. You are the hottest woman on here.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For some men a hot body is enough. I mean, if you had no head at all, they would still shag you. Some men don't even need a hot body, just a warm hole. Some men are kind of odd. |
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"Why do people assume that just because you've got a good body that it means you'll have a good face?
I get messages talking my how how I am or your the hottest on here. It genuinely baffles me as I could have a face like an ass. Am I the only one who thinks this way
Have you ever been swapping pics with someone and then when you get around to seeing each others face, the face doesn't match the body?
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To be fair if your face is a tenth of the pretty easy of your body, I’m sure it’s still lush, this has got me intrigued as to what you look like. But fully understand what you mean. |
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"You don't look at the mantle piece whilst poking the fire" springs to mind
A hot body accompanied by a not so hot face is called a "butter face" in some circles. As in "She's got a great body, but her face..." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a mate that said he'd shag anyone with a fit body because he can always do it from behind. He was a good looking wee prick so he always pulled stunners anyway.
And there's always been a thing some mates call the beer scale, ie. The number of beers needed until she's good looking enough to take home "she's not bad, in 4 beers she'll be gorgeous" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loads of times.......
Lost count of the amount of men who always assume I have long dark hair too....instead of short and blonde
But any pic showing your neck doesn't show hair.  "
Exactly!!!
They can't even pick up on that massive clue ha ha ha |
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All joking aside though i don't swap facepics on here any more firstly because of a stalker issue last year and secondly because the very first facepic Friday I took part in, a couple told me I'd be hotter if I wasn't Irish.
I do agree that faces don't always fit the body though but then again i don't blow smoke up anyone's backside regardless of what their face or body looks like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's always disappointing when the face doesn't match the body at all.
This is why we ask to exchange face pics early on as I'd feel awful if we were chatting for a while then found I wasn't attracted to them "
Us too...if we are not attracted to the face it goes no further. |
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
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So I often don't know how to reply when a face pic is received. I have a good look and decide the feature I like best and comment on it.
I'll also say something like aww nice..
Purely because I don’t want to be over the top, but I feel it have an adverse affect. ? |
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"We sent face pics to someone once and they immediately deleted their profile. That's how bad we are 
Nah, they probably knew you and did the decent thing and left you in peace."
Yeah but that doesn't make for such a good story  |
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"We sent face pics to someone once and they immediately deleted their profile. That's how bad we are
Oh no, unfortunate coincidence I'm sure "
As said above they probably knew us. We weren't upset by it, we found it funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get the total opposite! I’m told all the blooming time “ you’ve got a nice face I don’t know why you can’t find a nice man”
When I say “thanks”! They say “no you have your quite pretty really” |
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"I get the total opposite! I’m told all the blooming time “ you’ve got a nice face I don’t know why you can’t find a nice man”
When I say “thanks”! They say “no you have your quite pretty really” "
they don't follow it up with "you're too pretty to be on here" do they?
It's as if people really believe looks define personality and sexual preference |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Um, they want to fuck you, not gaze into your eyes.
They arent bothered as long as they get to empty their balls.
Not all men think this way xx"
How many do you think think this way ? I’ll take the person, then definitely a bit of eye gazing, ball emptyings quite low on my list ! |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Why do people assume that just because you've got a good body that it means you'll have a good face?
I get messages talking my how how I am or your the hottest on here. It genuinely baffles me as I could have a face like an ass. Am I the only one who thinks this way ?
Have you ever been swapping pics with someone and then when you get around to seeing each others face, the face doesn't match the body?
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Because we are conditioned to believe that physical beauty is a complete package (body and face) and that only ugly people have ugly bodies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah this drives me mad! I always want to send them a pic of my face to scare them off.
I think the truth is, most men on here wouldn't give a fuck about your face as long as your body was banging. I don't know how people do it. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I see it as just being a chat up line. Nothing more. It doesn't mean they think that a woman is the hottest ever (I've cried many nights over this realisation) but it sounds nice, is relatively harmless and is meant to be flattering.
WTF Meli!?
I'm sorry NSP, I don't know what came over me! Ignore my ramblings, they don't contain any truth. You are the hottest woman on here. "
Go have a lie down Meli. I mean REALLY!  |
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"Ah this drives me mad! I always want to send them a pic of my face to scare them off.
I think the truth is, most men on here wouldn't give a fuck about your face as long as your body was banging. I don't know how people do it. "
Halloween is my favourite time, feel free to give me an early fright. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah this drives me mad! I always want to send them a pic of my face to scare them off.
I think the truth is, most men on here wouldn't give a fuck about your face as long as your body was banging. I don't know how people do it.
Halloween is my favourite time, feel free to give me an early fright. "
You'll regret it!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Um, they want to fuck you, not gaze into your eyes.
They arent bothered as long as they get to empty their balls.
Not all men think this way xx
How many do you think think this way ? I’ll take the person, then definitely a bit of eye gazing, ball emptyings quite low on my list ! "
I don't know, I try not to meet them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You cannot call somebody beautiful without not seeing the full package. Meaning face , body doesn't have to be naked but also so within communication.
Cosmetic beauty is totally different someone could look really fucking hot bodie and face, but that personality is ugly as fuck.
I know Im not a hot sud but my im not a ugly troll. But when people talk to me that is the make or break if they like me.
I like all women which dont mean I would sleep with all of them.
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I think the same...I could have a face like a bag of spanners for all they know. I presume it's just blarney, roll my eyes, and delete...it takes more than a bit of smarm to get into my pants
I have come across people (not literally) where I like their body but not their face...I'm sure that will be classed as shallow by some, but facial attraction is important to me. |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
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I really don't want people to think I am being horrible, but no matter how I phrase it, it will sound awful."
Do it! Come on, you've commented twice now without saying what it is you are thinking. Let it out, you'll feel better for it.
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"Why do people assume that just because you've got a good body that it means you'll have a good face?
I get messages talking my how how I am or your the hottest on here. It genuinely baffles me as I could have a face like an ass. Am I the only one who thinks this way ?
Have you ever been swapping pics with someone and then when you get around to seeing each others face, the face doesn't match the body?
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The exact reason I have a few face pics on my profile.. could not bare the wait after sending a face picture, would rather get this mug out in the open from the get go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One of the fab curses! Body from bay watch! Face from crime watch!
I was waiting for someone to mention BOBFOC"
or a Prawn, tasty body, shame about the head |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do people assume that just because you've got a good body that it means you'll have a good face?
I get messages talking my how how I am or your the hottest on here. It genuinely baffles me as I could have a face like an ass. Am I the only one who thinks this way ?
Have you ever been swapping pics with someone and then when you get around to seeing each others face, the face doesn't match the body?
The exact reason I have a few face pics on my profile.. could not bare the wait after sending a face picture, would rather get this mug out in the open from the get go "
I like your style  |
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"One of the fab curses! Body from bay watch! Face from crime watch!
I was waiting for someone to mention BOBFOC
or a Prawn, tasty body, shame about the head "
Hahha not heard that one before! Love it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do people assume that just because you've got a good body that it means you'll have a good face?
I get messages talking my how how I am or your the hottest on here. It genuinely baffles me as I could have a face like an ass. Am I the only one who thinks this way ?
Have you ever been swapping pics with someone and then when you get around to seeing each others face, the face doesn't match the body?
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I don’t.
If I don’t see the face in the early message exchanges then I just move on.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve come across a few women who have amazing athletic bodies, but just average or below average in the face. But really nice personalities. Does it really matter though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must admit that messages telling me I'm gorgeous or beautiful do make me chuckle. How do they know? I don't have public face photos."
Are you saying these messages aren't genuine?!?! Fuck!!! |
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Just has a friends picture where he’s wearing a cap.
People automatically assume he has hair and are surprised when they see another pic and he has a shaved head..
So much so that we put it top of our profile now.. |
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"I must admit that messages telling me I'm gorgeous or beautiful do make me chuckle. How do they know? I don't have public face photos.
Are you saying these messages aren't genuine?!?! Fuck!!! "
Yes it's very amusing. I sometimes want to reverse catfish and send them a picture of someone truly ugly. |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
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"Why do people assume that just because you've got a good body that it means you'll have a good face?
I get messages talking my how how I am or your the hottest on here. It genuinely baffles me as I could have a face like an ass. Am I the only one who thinks this way ?
Have you ever been swapping pics with someone and then when you get around to seeing each others face, the face doesn't match the body?
I don’t.
If I don’t see the face in the early message exchanges then I just move on.
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Me either I generally prefer to see faces early on, there needs to be some attraction there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do people assume that just because you've got a good body that it means you'll have a good face?...
Because we are conditioned to believe that physical beauty is a complete package (body and face) and that only ugly people have ugly bodies."
And maybe beyond this, we assume that a pretty face/body means a pretty mind and personality, and that those who are less good looking have ugly personalities and minds!
However, the opposite is often the case!
Therefore should we not try to connect mentally first, and then maybe the physical will be less important! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do people assume that just because you've got a good body that it means you'll have a good face?...
Because we are conditioned to believe that physical beauty is a complete package (body and face) and that only ugly people have ugly bodies.
And maybe beyond this, we assume that a pretty face/body means a pretty mind and personality, and that those who are less good looking have ugly personalities and minds!
However, the opposite is often the case!
Therefore should we not try to connect mentally first, and then maybe the physical will be less important! "
Isn't this the conundrum of attraction?
I knew a girl who was, at the time, the best looking girl I had known but we didn't click so it never went any further then friends.
Personality can add or subtract from attraction more than physical characteristics for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well some of us have an ugly body and an ugly face; particularly the face!
I've received planty of compliments about my body but most ignore the fact I have a face and mine us public ( when my profile isn't hidden.)
Trust me that is far worse than people assuming you have an attractive face.
I'm a realist and don't want people getting their hopes up that I'm attractive so I'll always have a public face photo.
I've had the " isn't it a shame when the face doesn't match the body " in the past and my body us a car crash ( I try and use the least offence angles) so my face really must he appalling.
Some men on here are stupid and don't know how to compliment women properly
Look for the ones who do! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A face is just a part of the body. You can be hot or gorgeous because you have a hot or gorgeous body.
But yes, the face does finish the package off and sometimes I can fancy a body but not the face, and things end there. I wouldn't say the face doesn't match the body though, it's just not my personal preference. For someone else it might be perfect! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see it as just being a chat up line. Nothing more. It doesn't mean they think that a woman is the hottest ever (I've cried many nights over this realisation) but it sounds nice, is relatively harmless and is meant to be flattering.
Yep I agree with this too! Although they can all see my face "
What a pretty face it is too |
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