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I was just trying on a new piece of lingerie and it is quite flattering on my body in a lot of ways however it is very high cut down below and shows off my love handles below my belly/ top of my thighs. This is a part of my body that I prefer to keep hidden.
I’ve seen some pics on here of other ladies who have theirs on display and I find them really sexy but like most of us I can’t see that in myself.
So my question is Ladies, do you flaunt your love handles or prefer to cover them up. Would you be happy to walk around a club with them on display.
Do people find them sexy or a turn off or not even notice them at all?
Thanks
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From a male perspective, I wear these tight quick drying T-shirt’s when I run or cycle which high light my muffins Mrs B. Trust me on a lady curves are sensual and alluring, on a man …… not so xx |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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For the most part I don't notice them on others. Sometimes I'm very aware of them on myself and others I don't think about it.
I think they can look really erotic and feminine and soft, like you know the photos where the woman is wearing a pair of knickers that are definitely giving her a wedgie and a yeast infection because they are pulled sooo high? If she has love handles I find it hotter than if she is toned and flat. No idea why. |
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"From a male perspective, I wear these tight quick drying T-shirt’s when I run or cycle which high light my muffins Mrs B. Trust me on a lady curves are sensual and alluring, on a man …… not so xx"
Hello you. When did you appear again? 
I bet you rock the Lycra! |
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"For the most part I don't notice them on others. Sometimes I'm very aware of them on myself and others I don't think about it.
I think they can look really erotic and feminine and soft, like you know the photos where the woman is wearing a pair of knickers that are definitely giving her a wedgie and a yeast infection because they are pulled sooo high? If she has love handles I find it hotter than if she is toned and flat. No idea why. "
Yes that’s exactly the kind of pics I mean! They look sexy and alluring. I tried taking a pic like that but did not get that effect at all  |
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"I was just trying on a new piece of lingerie and it is quite flattering on my body in a lot of ways however it is very high cut down below and shows off my love handles below my belly/ top of my thighs. This is a part of my body that I prefer to keep hidden.
I’ve seen some pics on here of other ladies who have theirs on display and I find them really sexy but like most of us I can’t see that in myself.
So my question is Ladies, do you flaunt your love handles or prefer to cover them up. Would you be happy to walk around a club with them on display.
Do people find them sexy or a turn off or not even notice them at all?
Thanks
Kx"
I would love to embrace your love handles.   |
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I have huge love handles due to the fact I have pcos so my weight stays round my middle. I find that most lingerie seems to cling in all the wrong places now I find body stockings my go to cos they don’t exaggerate any unflattering areas just show of curves.
I have very little confidence but I guess what you see is what you get with me. So put that new lingerie on girl feel fabulous look fabulous and smile. Confidence is sexy!
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I hear what you are saying, I nearly didn't post today's picture because of the way the knickers emphasize my roll. But if I think of it logically I suspect most people don't notice it. It's my own super critical eye.
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"I was just trying on a new piece of lingerie and it is quite flattering on my body in a lot of ways however it is very high cut down below and shows off my love handles below my belly/ top of my thighs. This is a part of my body that I prefer to keep hidden.
I’ve seen some pics on here of other ladies who have theirs on display and I find them really sexy but like most of us I can’t see that in myself.
So my question is Ladies, do you flaunt your love handles or prefer to cover them up. Would you be happy to walk around a club with them on display.
Do people find them sexy or a turn off or not even notice them at all?
Thanks
Kx
I would love to embrace your love handles. "
Fiddles you always say the loveliest things  |
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"Honestly on other women I don't even notice usually.
On me.... love handles and a muffin top are the least of my issues...  "
You’ve been posting some very sexy pics lately and look great. We are all our own worse critics though x |
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"I hear what you are saying, I nearly didn't post today's picture because of the way the knickers emphasize my roll. But if I think of it logically I suspect most people don't notice it. It's my own super critical eye.
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Nope, wouldn’t have noticed it if you hadn’t pointed it out. It’s ridiculous how many pics I take trying to hide those rolls discreetly You always take beautiful, honest pics x |
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"I hear what you are saying, I nearly didn't post today's picture because of the way the knickers emphasize my roll. But if I think of it logically I suspect most people don't notice it. It's my own super critical eye.
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I wish I had your confidence. You are beautiful lady and a fellow redhead with pale skin. Love it. X |
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"I think we mind our mum tums and wobbly bits way more them men do. I'm sure you look fabulous so post away. "
So true! We are our own worse critics. If you wouldn’t say it to your best friend don’t say it to yourself but I’m crap at taking my own advice lol. X |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"Honestly on other women I don't even notice usually.
On me.... love handles and a muffin top are the least of my issues...
You’ve been posting some very sexy pics lately and look great. We are all our own worse critics though x"
Thank you K.... you're too kind to me xx |
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By *eliWoman
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"For the most part I don't notice them on others. Sometimes I'm very aware of them on myself and others I don't think about it.
I think they can look really erotic and feminine and soft, like you know the photos where the woman is wearing a pair of knickers that are definitely giving her a wedgie and a yeast infection because they are pulled sooo high? If she has love handles I find it hotter than if she is toned and flat. No idea why.
Yes that’s exactly the kind of pics I mean! They look sexy and alluring. I tried taking a pic like that but did not get that effect at all "
That's because you look for the negative rather than embracing the whole image which is what we do to others (that we like). Try taking them again and seeing yourself as others do. Or ask opinions from others. I'm sure you'll look fantastic OP, you've just got to be kinder to yourself. |
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"I hear what you are saying, I nearly didn't post today's picture because of the way the knickers emphasize my roll. But if I think of it logically I suspect most people don't notice it. It's my own super critical eye.
Nope, wouldn’t have noticed it if you hadn’t pointed it out. It’s ridiculous how many pics I take trying to hide those rolls discreetly You always take beautiful, honest pics x"
Yep that's why one arm is in front of me. Somehow in my brain the roll was less obvious if only one side was showing 
But we're our own worst critics. I just try to push myself gradually out of my comfort zone (because I want to) and take baby steps, because I want to be body confident  |
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"I hear what you are saying, I nearly didn't post today's picture because of the way the knickers emphasize my roll. But if I think of it logically I suspect most people don't notice it. It's my own super critical eye.
I wish I had your confidence. You are beautiful lady and a fellow redhead with pale skin. Love it. X"
I'm not as confident as you'd imagine. I'm consciously trying to push myself. And yay to being redheaded and pale |
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How do you feel in them?
Somoetimes so of our clothes are unflattering on us, I've got my own bits and bobs on my body that I'm mot bothered by but a piece of clothing or underwear pushes or manipulated in a way i dont like, males it look worse than it really is.some panties do this, often I'll get a bigger size so the elastic isn't so taught meaning it lays on the skin rather than in the skin. For me it's about how I feel.not all styles suit my body and thats ok. I just go witn a style that does. |
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"I hear what you are saying, I nearly didn't post today's picture because of the way the knickers emphasize my roll. But if I think of it logically I suspect most people don't notice it. It's my own super critical eye.
I wish I had your confidence. You are beautiful lady and a fellow redhead with pale skin. Love it. X
I'm not as confident as you'd imagine. I'm consciously trying to push myself. And yay to being redheaded and pale "
You’re beautiful. X |
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By *not123Couple
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"I hear what you are saying, I nearly didn't post today's picture because of the way the knickers emphasize my roll. But if I think of it logically I suspect most people don't notice it. It's my own super critical eye. .
Your pics are amazing
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"From a male perspective, I wear these tight quick drying T-shirt’s when I run or cycle which high light my muffins Mrs B. Trust me on a lady curves are sensual and alluring, on a man …… not so xx
Hello you. When did you appear again?
I bet you rock the Lycra!"
Hello you to MrsB. Been back about 9 days (cannot post for the first 7 days) . Went off to improve myself as it was all a bit silly on here (male ratio’s etc). As for Lycra ….. there is a reason why men of a certain age should know better than to wear it and I am the reason!!
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"How do you feel in them?
Somoetimes so of our clothes are unflattering on us, I've got my own bits and bobs on my body that I'm mot bothered by but a piece of clothing or underwear pushes or manipulated in a way i dont like, males it look worse than it really is.some panties do this, often I'll get a bigger size so the elastic isn't so taught meaning it lays on the skin rather than in the skin. For me it's about how I feel.not all styles suit my body and thats ok. I just go witn a style that does."
I actually feel ok in it as I like the way the rest of my body looks. I guess it’s more to do with it being ingrained in me that my wobbly bits should be covered up x |
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"I hear what you are saying, I nearly didn't post today's picture because of the way the knickers emphasize my roll. But if I think of it logically I suspect most people don't notice it. It's my own super critical eye.
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We really don't notice it Frida, cos you look amazing. I tried that pose & I just look horrendous & fat, whereas you just look voluptuous & beautiful.
I guess I need to take some lessons in self love 
(Not for one minute saying your "roll" is anywhere near as big as mine, by the way xx) |
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"I was just trying on a new piece of lingerie and it is quite flattering on my body in a lot of ways however it is very high cut down below and shows off my love handles below my belly/ top of my thighs. This is a part of my body that I prefer to keep hidden.
I’ve seen some pics on here of other ladies who have theirs on display and I find them really sexy but like most of us I can’t see that in myself.
So my question is Ladies, do you flaunt your love handles or prefer to cover them up. Would you be happy to walk around a club with them on display.
Do people find them sexy or a turn off or not even notice them at all?
Thanks
Kx"
Well, in my opinion only, I adore all shapes & sizes because that individuality is sexy. If we all looked the same it would be boring. I may of had a peek at your photos and your body is beautifully voluptuous. Body confidence is where your self love will start, compliments from others will help but you have to love yourself first x |
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Got braver and some outfits are good to help disguise this area, but yes still conscience of it but not as much nowadays.
I do admire others think they look stunning we are all human and should be proud yes |
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"I was just trying on a new piece of lingerie and it is quite flattering on my body in a lot of ways however it is very high cut down below and shows off my love handles below my belly/ top of my thighs. This is a part of my body that I prefer to keep hidden.
I’ve seen some pics on here of other ladies who have theirs on display and I find them really sexy but like most of us I can’t see that in myself.
So my question is Ladies, do you flaunt your love handles or prefer to cover them up. Would you be happy to walk around a club with them on display.
Do people find them sexy or a turn off or not even notice them at all?
Thanks
Kx
Well, in my opinion only, I adore all shapes & sizes because that individuality is sexy. If we all looked the same it would be boring. I may of had a peek at your photos and your body is beautifully voluptuous. Body confidence is where your self love will start, compliments from others will help but you have to love yourself first x "
I hate saying it to a man but you are right I get plenty of compliments but they don’t change how I feel. |
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"I hear what you are saying, I nearly didn't post today's picture because of the way the knickers emphasize my roll. But if I think of it logically I suspect most people don't notice it. It's my own super critical eye.
We really don't notice it Frida, cos you look amazing. I tried that pose & I just look horrendous & fat, whereas you just look voluptuous & beautiful.
I guess I need to take some lessons in self love
(Not for one minute saying your "roll" is anywhere near as big as mine, by the way xx)"
Aw Red you really are my best cheerleader on here seriously. You're stonkingly beautiful and never would I use the words horrendous and fat in the same breath as describing you
I think self acceptance is journey we're all on xxx |
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Honestly I adore love handles! I think they're feminine and quite pleasing to look at. I have huge hips and pretty much wear my thongs up over my handles as you can see in my latest pics. 
I know there's plenty of men and women who don't find them attractive, but it's good to remember you're never going to be the perfect cup of tea for everyone so just embrace what you have because I guarantee someone will look at your body and love the way your hips are showing.
As the years pass by I'm growing very fond of all the parts of our bodies that are often looked down on. Cellulite, soft body rolls and jiggly parts add something imo.
I say wear the bodysuit and show off those love handles! |
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"I was just trying on a new piece of lingerie and it is quite flattering on my body in a lot of ways however it is very high cut down below and shows off my love handles below my belly/ top of my thighs. This is a part of my body that I prefer to keep hidden.
I’ve seen some pics on here of other ladies who have theirs on display and I find them really sexy but like most of us I can’t see that in myself.
So my question is Ladies, do you flaunt your love handles or prefer to cover them up. Would you be happy to walk around a club with them on display.
Do people find them sexy or a turn off or not even notice them at all?
Thanks
Kx
Well, in my opinion only, I adore all shapes & sizes because that individuality is sexy. If we all looked the same it would be boring. I may of had a peek at your photos and your body is beautifully voluptuous. Body confidence is where your self love will start, compliments from others will help but you have to love yourself first x
I hate saying it to a man but you are right I get plenty of compliments but they don’t change how I feel. "
She said I’m right wooo hooo haha 
But no seriously, admire yourself more often…look in the mirror more while naked, smile at yourself as you do it…. The nakedness and smile will link then it will become natural |
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"How do you feel in them?
Somoetimes so of our clothes are unflattering on us, I've got my own bits and bobs on my body that I'm mot bothered by but a piece of clothing or underwear pushes or manipulated in a way i dont like, males it look worse than it really is.some panties do this, often I'll get a bigger size so the elastic isn't so taught meaning it lays on the skin rather than in the skin. For me it's about how I feel.not all styles suit my body and thats ok. I just go witn a style that does.
I actually feel ok in it as I like the way the rest of my body looks. I guess it’s more to do with it being ingrained in me that my wobbly bits should be covered up x"
In that case flaunt it! Too many unrealistic images of womem. If you feel good that's all that matters x |
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"I was just trying on a new piece of lingerie and it is quite flattering on my body in a lot of ways however it is very high cut down below and shows off my love handles below my belly/ top of my thighs. This is a part of my body that I prefer to keep hidden.
I’ve seen some pics on here of other ladies who have theirs on display and I find them really sexy but like most of us I can’t see that in myself.
So my question is Ladies, do you flaunt your love handles or prefer to cover them up. Would you be happy to walk around a club with them on display.
Do people find them sexy or a turn off or not even notice them at all?
Thanks
Kx"
The most flattering outfits I see anyone wear is confidence and a smile; own it, flaunt it, strut it, enjoy it Elle x |
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I try to cover them up but it's futile. I have huge hips and big old love handles to go with them. I can never seem to get my knickers to sit in a place that makes them look sexy, they just look like my knickers are too small |
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I cover mine. I envy those who have the confidence to rock them. As it stands i hate mine and starting the process of eliminating them. I felt a lot more confident in myself when i was thinner so the journey begins once again. |
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"I was just trying on a new piece of lingerie and it is quite flattering on my body in a lot of ways however it is very high cut down below and shows off my love handles below my belly/ top of my thighs. This is a part of my body that I prefer to keep hidden.
I’ve seen some pics on here of other ladies who have theirs on display and I find them really sexy but like most of us I can’t see that in myself.
So my question is Ladies, do you flaunt your love handles or prefer to cover them up. Would you be happy to walk around a club with them on display.
Do people find them sexy or a turn off or not even notice them at all?
Thanks
Kx
Well, in my opinion only, I adore all shapes & sizes because that individuality is sexy. If we all looked the same it would be boring. I may of had a peek at your photos and your body is beautifully voluptuous. Body confidence is where your self love will start, compliments from others will help but you have to love yourself first x
I hate saying it to a man but you are right I get plenty of compliments but they don’t change how I feel.
She said I’m right wooo hooo haha
But no seriously, admire yourself more often…look in the mirror more while naked, smile at yourself as you do it…. The nakedness and smile will link then it will become natural "
I won’t say it again so enjoy it |
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"I was just trying on a new piece of lingerie and it is quite flattering on my body in a lot of ways however it is very high cut down below and shows off my love handles below my belly/ top of my thighs. This is a part of my body that I prefer to keep hidden.
I’ve seen some pics on here of other ladies who have theirs on display and I find them really sexy but like most of us I can’t see that in myself.
So my question is Ladies, do you flaunt your love handles or prefer to cover them up. Would you be happy to walk around a club with them on display.
Do people find them sexy or a turn off or not even notice them at all?
Thanks
Kx
Well, in my opinion only, I adore all shapes & sizes because that individuality is sexy. If we all looked the same it would be boring. I may of had a peek at your photos and your body is beautifully voluptuous. Body confidence is where your self love will start, compliments from others will help but you have to love yourself first x
I hate saying it to a man but you are right I get plenty of compliments but they don’t change how I feel.
She said I’m right wooo hooo haha
But no seriously, admire yourself more often…look in the mirror more while naked, smile at yourself as you do it…. The nakedness and smile will link then it will become natural
I won’t say it again so enjoy it "
I’ve been dancing naked in the street with the enjoyment of being right haha |
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"I try to cover them up but it's futile. I have huge hips and big old love handles to go with them. I can never seem to get my knickers to sit in a place that makes them look sexy, they just look like my knickers are too small "
I don't think your hips look huge at all. You're beautiful.
I used to hate my wide hips but embracing them more the older I get. I have a friend who is super slim and she is jealous of my hips, we always want what we don't have.
I just hate when lingerie is a one piece cause usually if it fits my hips and arse it will be way too big for my itty bitty titties |
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"I hear what you are saying, I nearly didn't post today's picture because of the way the knickers emphasize my roll. But if I think of it logically I suspect most people don't notice it. It's my own super critical eye.
We really don't notice it Frida, cos you look amazing. I tried that pose & I just look horrendous & fat, whereas you just look voluptuous & beautiful.
I guess I need to take some lessons in self love
(Not for one minute saying your "roll" is anywhere near as big as mine, by the way xx)
Aw Red you really are my best cheerleader on here seriously. You're stonkingly beautiful and never would I use the words horrendous and fat in the same breath as describing you
I think self acceptance is journey we're all on xxx"
Thanks beautiful. x |
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