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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m going to have to work a lot harder to change people perceptions of me and most important my ethnicity unfortunately we all preach it's what is inside that counts but on here it looks like ethnicity Is a big question am I right |
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I don't know what people's perception of you is, so can't say whether you need to work harder on changing that. (I don't recommend changing to fit in with internet people anyway).
There are undeniably various perceptions of different ethnicities but not everyone has the same opinions. |
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"There are some cultural attitudes that are not in keeping with what i am looking for but this has nothing to do with what someone looks like. "
You are right but ( I’m both playing the sympathy card) but why is it hard to get past the first message to be honest the past 6 months I ain’t had 1 reply |
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I don't know what your messages are like but can see that your profile is a little mixed in the messages that it gives out. Maybe look at how you are presenting yourself there.
Also remember that to stand out takes a bit of work here. Ethnicity may play a part in people not replying but there may be other factors too |
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"I don't know what your messages are like but can see that your profile is a little mixed in the messages that it gives out. Maybe look at how you are presenting yourself there.
Also remember that to stand out takes a bit of work here. Ethnicity may play a part in people not replying but there may be other factors too"
What are the mixed messages on my profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you're true to yourself and happy surely that's all that matters. As for an apparent ethnicity problem, as long as they're not being abusive towards you (report them if they are) forgot them, you're obviously better than them.  |
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"I don't know what your messages are like but can see that your profile is a little mixed in the messages that it gives out. Maybe look at how you are presenting yourself there.
Also remember that to stand out takes a bit of work here. Ethnicity may play a part in people not replying but there may be other factors too
What are the mixed messages on my profile "
Not looking for guys but also looking for a man - just as an example |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't know what your messages are like but can see that your profile is a little mixed in the messages that it gives out. Maybe look at how you are presenting yourself there.
Also remember that to stand out takes a bit of work here. Ethnicity may play a part in people not replying but there may be other factors too
What are the mixed messages on my profile
Not looking for guys but also looking for a man - just as an example "
Anything else |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m going to have to work a lot harder to change people perceptions of me and most important my ethnicity unfortunately we all preach it's what is inside that counts but on here it looks like ethnicity Is a big question am I right"
No personally do not think that you are right.
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