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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"It's all a smoke screen"
 This is true. Op, you're not the only one.
That being said, sometimes people like Fab because it's a cherry on top of a very delicious cupcake and it enriches an already rich life. You can be very happy in your relationship but enjoy additional people, sexual experiences. Not everyone is monogamous and more power to those who are comfortable in not being so and are ethically non-monogamous. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think I've ever been totally sexually satisfied. For more than a few hours anyway . And who's got the time to keep that up!? "
You'd be fucked, simple as that really
The energy you had would be gone  |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
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"I don't think I've ever been totally sexually satisfied. For more than a few hours anyway . And who's got the time to keep that up!?
You'd be fucked, simple as that really
The energy you had would be gone "
I feel more drained with no sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single who works afternoon shifts and has his children 3 weekends out of 4 its hard to find a woman who will accept that ( been told before I have my children too much. Christ they are my children ) so that being said like most adults I still have a need/urge for sex. Fab, meets that need for me, although it's a great outlet and I do enjoy it would i trade it all in for someone to miss while I'm in work and cuddle up to when I get home ? In a heartbeat, sadly the hypocrisy of me accepting a womans kids being around but not them mine dictates that the ever elusive " soul mate " still remains elusive. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a single who works afternoon shifts and has his children 3 weekends out of 4 its hard to find a woman who will accept that ( been told before I have my children too much. Christ they are my children ) so that being said like most adults I still have a need/urge for sex. Fab, meets that need for me, although it's a great outlet and I do enjoy it would i trade it all in for someone to miss while I'm in work and cuddle up to when I get home ? In a heartbeat, sadly the hypocrisy of me accepting a womans kids being around but not them mine dictates that the ever elusive " soul mate " still remains elusive."
Totally get your points
I like to think it says alot about women ( not all ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I the only forumite that don't feel sexually satisfied ?
You all appear to have such fantastic sex lives and relationships
Why fab ?
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It was put to me once as follows:
Pizza - there may be one pizza from one brand/shop with a particular topping made in a particular way that will always be your favourite and stay in your mind forever. However, every now and then you might want to try a different topping, maybe still have your fave but add another pizza too, or even get a side. You're still getting a bloody good pizza, but your fave is still your fave
Not saying this is what I think, but I did laugh pretty hard when this was conveyed to me  Elle x |
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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago
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"As a single who works afternoon shifts and has his children 3 weekends out of 4 its hard to find a woman who will accept that ( been told before I have my children too much. Christ they are my children ) so that being said like most adults I still have a need/urge for sex. Fab, meets that need for me, although it's a great outlet and I do enjoy it would i trade it all in for someone to miss while I'm in work and cuddle up to when I get home ? In a heartbeat, sadly the hypocrisy of me accepting a womans kids being around but not them mine dictates that the ever elusive " soul mate " still remains elusive.
Totally get your points
I like to think it says alot about women ( not all ) "
I love my children they will always come first and accept the same from a women. That’s honesty and to be truthful if somebody does not like this then move on. |
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"Am I the only forumite that don't feel sexually satisfied ?
You all appear to have such fantastic sex lives and relationships
Why fab ?
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No nope no no no no nooooooo
Not the only one
Ooooh golly gosh no
No!
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"As a single who works afternoon shifts and has his children 3 weekends out of 4 its hard to find a woman who will accept that ( been told before I have my children too much. Christ they are my children ) so that being said like most adults I still have a need/urge for sex. Fab, meets that need for me, although it's a great outlet and I do enjoy it would i trade it all in for someone to miss while I'm in work and cuddle up to when I get home ? In a heartbeat, sadly the hypocrisy of me accepting a womans kids being around but not them mine dictates that the ever elusive " soul mate " still remains elusive."
There's nothing sexier than a good Dad imo. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a single who works afternoon shifts and has his children 3 weekends out of 4 its hard to find a woman who will accept that ( been told before I have my children too much. Christ they are my children ) so that being said like most adults I still have a need/urge for sex. Fab, meets that need for me, although it's a great outlet and I do enjoy it would i trade it all in for someone to miss while I'm in work and cuddle up to when I get home ? In a heartbeat, sadly the hypocrisy of me accepting a womans kids being around but not them mine dictates that the ever elusive " soul mate " still remains elusive.
Totally get your points
I like to think it says alot about women ( not all )
I love my children they will always come first and accept the same from a women. That’s honesty and to be truthful if somebody does not like this then move on."
Recently had a women I'd never even met before sending me abuse on social media telling me who comes first
She got told to politely fuck off |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a single who works afternoon shifts and has his children 3 weekends out of 4 its hard to find a woman who will accept that ( been told before I have my children too much. Christ they are my children ) so that being said like most adults I still have a need/urge for sex. Fab, meets that need for me, although it's a great outlet and I do enjoy it would i trade it all in for someone to miss while I'm in work and cuddle up to when I get home ? In a heartbeat, sadly the hypocrisy of me accepting a womans kids being around but not them mine dictates that the ever elusive " soul mate " still remains elusive."
This is (mostly) why I’m single and will remain so. My children come first, I don’t want a man in their life that isn’t their dad (he passed away) and they are my priority |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex life  what’s that ??
I’ve won the lottery the same amount of times as I’ve had sex this year …. ZERO
However despite this I won’t settle for a tenner I want something worth while  keep smiling and being myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a single who works afternoon shifts and has his children 3 weekends out of 4 its hard to find a woman who will accept that ( been told before I have my children too much. Christ they are my children ) so that being said like most adults I still have a need/urge for sex. Fab, meets that need for me, although it's a great outlet and I do enjoy it would i trade it all in for someone to miss while I'm in work and cuddle up to when I get home ? In a heartbeat, sadly the hypocrisy of me accepting a womans kids being around but not them mine dictates that the ever elusive " soul mate " still remains elusive."
I'd think less of anyone (regardless of gender) if they chose to spend their time with me, over their own children. I'm pretty sure I'm not alone in my thoughts on that one either.
It appears you have been unlucky and I'm sorry to hear that has been your experience. Good luck Elle x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a single who works afternoon shifts and has his children 3 weekends out of 4 its hard to find a woman who will accept that ( been told before I have my children too much. Christ they are my children ) so that being said like most adults I still have a need/urge for sex. Fab, meets that need for me, although it's a great outlet and I do enjoy it would i trade it all in for someone to miss while I'm in work and cuddle up to when I get home ? In a heartbeat, sadly the hypocrisy of me accepting a womans kids being around but not them mine dictates that the ever elusive " soul mate " still remains elusive.
There's nothing sexier than a good Dad imo."
Thank you, sadly the irony of it all is i get dumped for being the kind of father that they bitch about their ex not being. Catch 22 really but hey my children will always come first and thats a given. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a single who works afternoon shifts and has his children 3 weekends out of 4 its hard to find a woman who will accept that ( been told before I have my children too much. Christ they are my children ) so that being said like most adults I still have a need/urge for sex. Fab, meets that need for me, although it's a great outlet and I do enjoy it would i trade it all in for someone to miss while I'm in work and cuddle up to when I get home ? In a heartbeat, sadly the hypocrisy of me accepting a womans kids being around but not them mine dictates that the ever elusive " soul mate " still remains elusive.
This is (mostly) why I’m single and will remain so. My children come first, I don’t want a man in their life that isn’t their dad (he passed away) and they are my priority "
My heart actually sank a little reading this sending you a virtual hug x |
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"As a single who works afternoon shifts and has his children 3 weekends out of 4 its hard to find a woman who will accept that ( been told before I have my children too much. Christ they are my children ) so that being said like most adults I still have a need/urge for sex. Fab, meets that need for me, although it's a great outlet and I do enjoy it would i trade it all in for someone to miss while I'm in work and cuddle up to when I get home ? In a heartbeat, sadly the hypocrisy of me accepting a womans kids being around but not them mine dictates that the ever elusive " soul mate " still remains elusive.
I'd think less of anyone (regardless of gender) if they chose to spend their time with me, over their own children. I'm pretty sure I'm not alone in my thoughts on that one either.
It appears you have been unlucky and I'm sorry to hear that has been your experience. Good luck Elle x"
Absolutely 100%. I know not everyone feels the same though. I've witnessed men and women unable to accept a partner putting their children first. If someone ever put me before their children I would totally lose interest in them. I appreciate parents need time for themselves too though, that's different. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As a single who works afternoon shifts and has his children 3 weekends out of 4 its hard to find a woman who will accept that ( been told before I have my children too much. Christ they are my children ) so that being said like most adults I still have a need/urge for sex. Fab, meets that need for me, although it's a great outlet and I do enjoy it would i trade it all in for someone to miss while I'm in work and cuddle up to when I get home ? In a heartbeat, sadly the hypocrisy of me accepting a womans kids being around but not them mine dictates that the ever elusive " soul mate " still remains elusive.
This is (mostly) why I’m single and will remain so. My children come first, I don’t want a man in their life that isn’t their dad (he passed away) and they are my priority "
Was only the other day I'd told there mother, regardless of how we feel towards one another, regardless of who put the kids first when it mattered the most, you will always be there mother and something bad happening to you is 1 of my worst nightmares, it hurts me that the opposite parent can't feel those things |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As a single who works afternoon shifts and has his children 3 weekends out of 4 its hard to find a woman who will accept that ( been told before I have my children too much. Christ they are my children ) so that being said like most adults I still have a need/urge for sex. Fab, meets that need for me, although it's a great outlet and I do enjoy it would i trade it all in for someone to miss while I'm in work and cuddle up to when I get home ? In a heartbeat, sadly the hypocrisy of me accepting a womans kids being around but not them mine dictates that the ever elusive " soul mate " still remains elusive.
This is (mostly) why I’m single and will remain so. My children come first, I don’t want a man in their life that isn’t their dad (he passed away) and they are my priority "
Sorry for yours and your children's loss |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a single who works afternoon shifts and has his children 3 weekends out of 4 its hard to find a woman who will accept that ( been told before I have my children too much. Christ they are my children ) so that being said like most adults I still have a need/urge for sex. Fab, meets that need for me, although it's a great outlet and I do enjoy it would i trade it all in for someone to miss while I'm in work and cuddle up to when I get home ? In a heartbeat, sadly the hypocrisy of me accepting a womans kids being around but not them mine dictates that the ever elusive " soul mate " still remains elusive.
This is (mostly) why I’m single and will remain so. My children come first, I don’t want a man in their life that isn’t their dad (he passed away) and they are my priority
Was only the other day I'd told there mother, regardless of how we feel towards one another, regardless of who put the kids first when it mattered the most, you will always be there mother and something bad happening to you is 1 of my worst nightmares, it hurts me that the opposite parent can't feel those things"
Been there, was told at the outset of my marriage breaking down and her living with her boyfriend that her life would be so much easier if I would just die !
What a horrible thing to say to your children's parent, yes hers may have been easier but the impact on my children having to deal with that on top of the break up just doesn't bare thinking about. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a single who works afternoon shifts and has his children 3 weekends out of 4 its hard to find a woman who will accept that ( been told before I have my children too much. Christ they are my children ) so that being said like most adults I still have a need/urge for sex. Fab, meets that need for me, although it's a great outlet and I do enjoy it would i trade it all in for someone to miss while I'm in work and cuddle up to when I get home ? In a heartbeat, sadly the hypocrisy of me accepting a womans kids being around but not them mine dictates that the ever elusive " soul mate " still remains elusive.
This is (mostly) why I’m single and will remain so. My children come first, I don’t want a man in their life that isn’t their dad (he passed away) and they are my priority
Was only the other day I'd told there mother, regardless of how we feel towards one another, regardless of who put the kids first when it mattered the most, you will always be there mother and something bad happening to you is 1 of my worst nightmares, it hurts me that the opposite parent can't feel those things
Been there, was told at the outset of my marriage breaking down and her living with her boyfriend that her life would be so much easier if I would just die !
What a horrible thing to say to your children's parent, yes hers may have been easier but the impact on my children having to deal with that on top of the break up just doesn't bare thinking about."
Been there a few times |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a single who works afternoon shifts and has his children 3 weekends out of 4 its hard to find a woman who will accept that ( been told before I have my children too much. Christ they are my children ) so that being said like most adults I still have a need/urge for sex. Fab, meets that need for me, although it's a great outlet and I do enjoy it would i trade it all in for someone to miss while I'm in work and cuddle up to when I get home ? In a heartbeat, sadly the hypocrisy of me accepting a womans kids being around but not them mine dictates that the ever elusive " soul mate " still remains elusive.
I'd think less of anyone (regardless of gender) if they chose to spend their time with me, over their own children. I'm pretty sure I'm not alone in my thoughts on that one either.
It appears you have been unlucky and I'm sorry to hear that has been your experience. Good luck Elle x
Absolutely 100%. I know not everyone feels the same though. I've witnessed men and women unable to accept a partner putting their children first. If someone ever put me before their children I would totally lose interest in them. I appreciate parents need time for themselves too though, that's different. "
Agreed, time for yourself is one thing the other unfortunately is something else entirely. Not to bring a downer on this but probably my next comment will
Pretty much all the child abuse cases which make the top stories are where the mother/father cared more about their own sex life and partner than their own children and their needs. I'll leave that there as I find it all far too distressing and have made myself a little sad 
Selfishness I find to be a very unattractive trait  Elle x |
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"I'm on this site purely because I'm single and don't want a relationship. "
Me too. I can't claim to be sexually satisfied but that's due to frequency more than anything - the sex I do have is great! |
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over a year ago
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"It’s okay OP. I am not sexually satisfied, maybe we can help each other out?  "
That would be a no thanks
Not just in this life or the next but also in the previous |
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"It’s okay OP. I am not sexually satisfied, maybe we can help each other out?
That would be a no thanks
Not just in this life or the next but also in the previous
Ah well. "
Sorry just not for me, I'm 100% into women |
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"It’s okay OP. I am not sexually satisfied, maybe we can help each other out?
That would be a no thanks
Not just in this life or the next but also in the previous
Ah well.
Sorry just not for me, I'm 100% into women "
No it’s cool. Honestly. Cool. |
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"It’s okay OP. I am not sexually satisfied, maybe we can help each other out?
That would be a no thanks
Not just in this life or the next but also in the previous
Ah well.
Sorry just not for me, I'm 100% into women
No it’s cool. Honestly. Cool. "
Back to watermelons |
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"It’s okay OP. I am not sexually satisfied, maybe we can help each other out?
That would be a no thanks
Not just in this life or the next but also in the previous
Ah well.
Sorry just not for me, I'm 100% into women
No it’s cool. Honestly. Cool.
Back to watermelons "
Look I know that she has big tits, but that is no way to talk about Doris. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Am I the only forumite that don't feel sexually satisfied ?
You all appear to have such fantastic sex lives and relationships
Why fab ?
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Is it like cake , just can’t resist another little piece ? And before you know it you’re stuffed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s okay OP. I am not sexually satisfied, maybe we can help each other out?
That would be a no thanks
Not just in this life or the next but also in the previous
Ah well.
Sorry just not for me, I'm 100% into women
No it’s cool. Honestly. Cool.
Back to watermelons
Look I know that she has big tits, but that is no way to talk about Doris. "
sorry Doris |
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"It’s okay OP. I am not sexually satisfied, maybe we can help each other out?
That would be a no thanks
Not just in this life or the next but also in the previous
Ah well.
Sorry just not for me, I'm 100% into women
No it’s cool. Honestly. Cool.
Back to watermelons
Look I know that she has big tits, but that is no way to talk about Doris.
sorry Doris"
You will be. She’s the all England champion facesitter for the last 3 years running. |
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"It’s okay OP. I am not sexually satisfied, maybe we can help each other out?
That would be a no thanks
Not just in this life or the next but also in the previous
Ah well.
Sorry just not for me, I'm 100% into women
No it’s cool. Honestly. Cool.
Back to watermelons
Look I know that she has big tits, but that is no way to talk about Doris.
sorry Doris
You will be. She’s the all England champion facesitter for the last 3 years running. "
I can breathe through my ears! I may just make it. Phew |
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"It’s okay OP. I am not sexually satisfied, maybe we can help each other out?
That would be a no thanks
Not just in this life or the next but also in the previous
Ah well.
Sorry just not for me, I'm 100% into women
No it’s cool. Honestly. Cool.
Back to watermelons
Look I know that she has big tits, but that is no way to talk about Doris.
sorry Doris
You will be. She’s the all England champion facesitter for the last 3 years running.
I can breathe through my ears! I may just make it. Phew "
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