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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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To find so many amazing and lovely friends on here?
I’ve had so much love and support from the amazing people on here 
What did you expect to find? Did the expectation match the reality? |
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Absolutely not. I’ve had a few false ones over the years who befriended me for their own benefit but hell I have found some of my best friends on here. In fact more friends than anything else. Some that are way way beyond anything fab now x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100% agree. Especially during Covid times, I can’t explain how much I appreciate the close friends and connections I’ve made on here.
People will always tell you “it’s a sex site” but it’s more than that and I am thankful and grateful for the friends I’ve made. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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Always expect the unexpected…having had previous profiles on here before using the forums this time around I didn’t think finding friendships would be something this site had to offer.
Since using the forums I have connected with some amazing people, both males and females, those who check in each day and ask how you are, those who you can rant with and those who I enjoy some harmless flirtation with, it’s a great distraction to what’s going on in the world and restores faith that there are good people out there xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No expectations, stumbled in here during lockdown, but have had made fantastic connections with huge range of people. Definitely a positive experience.  "
And you make the forum a brighter place |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes the friendships surprised me actually, I really wasn't expecting it, but there are so many lovely people who genuinely care."
You’re one of those lovely people |
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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago
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Well, it was hard to get through the initial restrictions on being new.. and trying not to compare experiences with my partners experiences which you can imagine is insanely busy compared to mine. Girl compared to guy....
But I've started to get to know one or two people. Green shoots. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I didn't have any preconceived notions about what I'd find on here, minus an eager penis or two.
I found my fiancé, some brilliant friends who transpose Fab and mean the world to me, even if we do occasionally bicker. I'm incredibly lucky to have them in my life and it would be considerably duller without them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Absolutely not. I’ve had a few false ones over the years who befriended me for their own benefit but hell I have found some of my best friends on here. In fact more friends than anything else. Some that are way way beyond anything fab now x"
Me too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well, it was hard to get through the initial restrictions on being new.. and trying not to compare experiences with my partners experiences which you can imagine is insanely busy compared to mine. Girl compared to guy....
But I've started to get to know one or two people. Green shoots."
Especially with it being that fabulous awesome woman of yours |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I didn't have any preconceived notions about what I'd find on here, minus an eager penis or two.
I found my fiancé, some brilliant friends who transpose Fab and mean the world to me, even if we do occasionally bicker. I'm incredibly lucky to have them in my life and it would be considerably duller without them. "
Lovely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No not in my life, especially in the forums as the first time I was here it seemed a closed group. But I ventured in and I’m glad I did. There’s lots of lovely and genuinely caring people on here. And a few I’d call friends that know about my life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing on here is to be expected at worst the most I can hope for is one night stands
And at best find someone who excepteds me for me and when I say me for me I mean the real me ie natalie and the other hafe off me
Also serves as a grate purpose if I am ever on a vanilla date I can look closely at the person
I not trying to get just sex or mmmm the dates not going well but I want sex type thing
As I can get that realtivle easy here so it alows me to set that aside and look at the person as a whole person if you get what I mean
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd had a previous profile and got back into it during the first lockdown. I'd never used the forums before then and my anxiety was through the roof RE putting myself out there. But once I found my feet and gained some confidence I'm glad I took the plunge. I've spoken to/still speak to some beautiful people and I'm content with my little corner of fab
Everyone's on their own journey and if I can be a part of it (however fleeting) by making someone smile or squirt along the way then that will do for me   |
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I've been bowled over by the support I've had from people this last year. I've been lucky enough so far to meet one of the lovely ladies of the forum, despite covid. And there are more I can't wait to meet for the first time.
They've really got me through this last year, and I appreciate them all  |
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Despite being on fab now for 304 years , the last year or so has been an amazing journey .
I've made some truly amazing and hopefully life long friends , and each of them in their own way , have helped me in some way or another, and I them I hope.
Some have now left fab but are still great friends .
So to everyone here who I've made connections with and can call friends, thankyou |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I didn't expect to find her ladyship. This place should have a warning notice 
Mr
Love how you call her her ladyship. Does she make you call her that  x"
She gets called lots of things tbh, most are variations of her actual name so I keep them off of here. I can reveal that her name works just fine with "ita" "ostomy" and "roony" added to the end .
Mr |
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"I didn't expect to find her ladyship. This place should have a warning notice
Mr
Love how you call her her ladyship. Does she make you call her that x
She gets called lots of things tbh, most are variations of her actual name so I keep them off of here. I can reveal that her name works just fine with "ita" "ostomy" and "roony" added to the end .
Mr"
How the heck do you get away with that!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I didn't expect to find her ladyship. This place should have a warning notice
Mr
Love how you call her her ladyship. Does she make you call her that x
She gets called lots of things tbh, most are variations of her actual name so I keep them off of here. I can reveal that her name works just fine with "ita" "ostomy" and "roony" added to the end .
Mr"
I didn't expect to find you either gorgeous man but so glad I did.... thank you Fab.
I have met some absolutely fantastic people over the years, and have some wonderful friends on here who I can't wait to see again.
I have only used the forums for the past 3 or 4 years and I also didn't expect to become so addicted to it. You are all so much fun, so enticing and wonderfully different.
NBVN x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I didn't expect to find her ladyship. This place should have a warning notice
Mr
Love how you call her her ladyship. Does she make you call her that x
She gets called lots of things tbh, most are variations of her actual name so I keep them off of here. I can reveal that her name works just fine with "ita" "ostomy" and "roony" added to the end .
Mr
How the heck do you get away with that!!! "
I told him you would be working out my nicknames... they are so ridiculous that I love them
NBVN x |
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"To find so many amazing and lovely friends on here?
I’ve had so much love and support from the amazing people on here
What did you expect to find? Did the expectation match the reality? "
The same as you my dear. Thank you to those of you who understand and tolerate me, you’re lovely to me. |
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"I didn't expect to find her ladyship. This place should have a warning notice
Mr
Love how you call her her ladyship. Does she make you call her that x
She gets called lots of things tbh, most are variations of her actual name so I keep them off of here. I can reveal that her name works just fine with "ita" "ostomy" and "roony" added to the end .
Mr
How the heck do you get away with that!!!
I told him you would be working out my nicknames... they are so ridiculous that I love them
NBVN x"
He's a brave man fair play, you two are too cute mind |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To find so many amazing and lovely friends on here?
I’ve had so much love and support from the amazing people on here
What did you expect to find? Did the expectation match the reality?
The same as you my dear. Thank you to those of you who understand and tolerate me, you’re lovely to me. "
I don’t tolerate you at all, I actively like you |
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"To find so many amazing and lovely friends on here?
I’ve had so much love and support from the amazing people on here
What did you expect to find? Did the expectation match the reality? "
We had no expectations other than to meet people we got along with and have sex with them. It's pretty much lived up to that.
When I asked for help about my situation with my parents people were very kind on the forum. Two people messaged privately.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To find so many amazing and lovely friends on here?
I’ve had so much love and support from the amazing people on here
What did you expect to find? Did the expectation match the reality?
We had no expectations other than to meet people we got along with and have sex with them. It's pretty much lived up to that.
When I asked for help about my situation with my parents people were very kind on the forum. Two people messaged privately.
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I’ve found a lot of support too, it’s lovely isn’t it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To find so many amazing and lovely friends on here?
I’ve had so much love and support from the amazing people on here
What did you expect to find? Did the expectation match the reality?
We had no expectations other than to meet people we got along with and have sex with them. It's pretty much lived up to that.
When I asked for help about my situation with my parents people were very kind on the forum. Two people messaged privately.
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I guess being a mod will inevitably affect the way you interact with others on the forums, but just wanted to say that I for one like your contributions, always thoughtful well balanced and kind.
Mr |
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"To find so many amazing and lovely friends on here?
I’ve had so much love and support from the amazing people on here
What did you expect to find? Did the expectation match the reality?
We had no expectations other than to meet people we got along with and have sex with them. It's pretty much lived up to that.
When I asked for help about my situation with my parents people were very kind on the forum. Two people messaged privately.
I guess being a mod will inevitably affect the way you interact with others on the forums, but just wanted to say that I for one like your contributions, always thoughtful well balanced and kind.
Mr"
Yes it's only natural and thank you . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Absolutely not. Got a lot more than I bargained for. There are many people here I adore. Several I call close friends. They are the reason I come back "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know a hand full of people on here only meet one person and she has come off here for a bit. The other I know before I come on here.
Most of my mates are in the music industry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have found some amazing friends and one in particular who is now part of my daily life and I would struggle without her!
There are a few men who I chat to a lot as friends now and are there when I need them.
Have to take the rough with the smooth, as many horrors as there are goodies |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"Absolutely not. I’ve had a few false ones over the years who befriended me for their own benefit but hell I have found some of my best friends on here. In fact more friends than anything else. Some that are way way beyond anything fab now x"
Absolutely this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From one extreme to another really OP 
I wasn’t expecting to find a community, but I did "
Jolly hockey sticks for you
I have fab friends now, and I am now aware of the warning signs, I guess you have to learn the ‘in written rules’ of the game  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No expectations, stumbled in here during lockdown, but have had made fantastic connections with huge range of people. Definitely a positive experience.
And you make the forum a brighter place "
Ah, thank you so much ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had no expectations but i love fab. Way way too much.
Haha! Me too "
I love it, too. I didn’t expect to meet so many like minded, genuine and honest people! I didn’t know this site existed until March this year. I’m glad a fwb recommended it to me xx |
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"To find so many amazing and lovely friends on here?
I’ve had so much love and support from the amazing people on here
What did you expect to find? Did the expectation match the reality? "
I had no expectations
Just came to see how it might change things for me when I was widowed
Fab bought me love, and marriage once more, and a couple of friends so it's been good for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To find so many amazing and lovely friends on here?
I’ve had so much love and support from the amazing people on here
What did you expect to find? Did the expectation match the reality?
I had no expectations
Just came to see how it might change things for me when I was widowed
Fab bought me love, and marriage once more, and a couple of friends so it's been good for me. "
LOVE this 3 |
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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago
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I've met 3 of the loveliest men from here, they are true life friends. Over the last 2.5 years, they've been super supportive and been there for me, when I've been at some low points and we've also shared some amazing times. |
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"Did the expectation match the reality?
I had no expectations
Just came to see how it might change things for me when I was widowed
Fab bought me love, and marriage once more, and a couple of friends so it's been good for me.
LOVE this 3 "
Thank you x |
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I found some great new friends here and stayed in touch with some that are no longer on the site
There are some very handsome, sexy guys here when you look for them.
It’s a great mix of personalities too |
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I’ve met some genuinely lovely people from here. As someone else said when you approach with no expectations, you can’t help but be taken back by the sincerity and loveliness of some of the people on here.
I often get told that I’m a bit of a closed book which is probably somewhat true, but I’ve definitely met some people on here I can talk to, and vent to, when needed and it’s very much appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve met some genuinely lovely people from here. As someone else said when you approach with no expectations, you can’t help but be taken back by the sincerity and loveliness of some of the people on here.
I often get told that I’m a bit of a closed book which is probably somewhat true, but I’ve definitely met some people on here I can talk to, and vent to, when needed and it’s very much appreciated "
I agree, lots of lovely people, who genuinely care |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t think I did expect anything … especially when I first joined!
I am well and truly happy though with the friends I’ve made & met… very special people x |
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