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I'm not particularly concerned about vaccination status (unless they believe the whole tracker thing).
I tend to have quite a lot of conversation with someone before I meet them anyway so I'd probably gauge their attitude towards risk from that more than from their vaccination status.
I wouldn't be in any way offended if someone I was meeting asked the question of me or asked when I'd last taken a test. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I wouldn't, during lock down and no meeting I got blocked because I wouldn't meet for a definite play meet so I wouldn't find it embarrassing or unacceptable to ask.  |
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
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Yes I would happily ask. I think at the moment covid comes into conversation naturally with people sharing experiences. A lot talk about the issues with the vaccination as in how it made them ill.
So you'd get a pretty good idea anyway without asking outright. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't ask. We've both been double vaccinated, we've protected ourselves as much as we can, if the people we play with haven't had theirs then that's up to them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would defo ask... Whether they'll be truthful is something different and also don't forget they (and you) could still transmit /have /catch have the virus  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah, I think by now it's one those things you can mention in casual conversation. If they go full conspiracy mode on me though, that might make me a little uncomfortable  |
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"I would defo ask... Whether they'll be truthful is something different and also don't forget they (and you) could still transmit /have /catch have the virus "
Could always ask to see their covid passport. But yes a lot of people don't realise that it can still be transmitted or caught. |
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I don't really see what difference it makes, people can still catch it, carry it and transmit it once vaccinated...but if you're jabbed and believe it protects you, then logic, to me anyway, dictates that it shouldn't matter if the other person is jabbed or not because you're protected. |
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"Would you feel comfortable asking if a potential meet has had both vaccines or are you not bothered?? "
its one of the reasons I will only be attending clubs asking for proof of either vaccine status and more importantly a recent negative test.
To be honest It I were meeting privately I'd be wanting them to have proof of the test more than proof of both vaccines |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldnt ask. I’m more interested in the the person being overall healthy: no cough or cold, no sti’s, hydrated etc. I get people would want to know especially if they cannot be vaccinated themselves. |
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I saw on some program earlier that a guy who had set up a date with a woman both did LFT half an hour before meeting... I personally wouldn't trust those unless I actually saw them stick the swab in their throat and up their nose  |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Would you feel comfortable asking if a potential meet has had both vaccines or are you not bothered?? "
Personal responsibility is key.
Even if you ask they could lie, so just take what precautions you feel are appropriate.
I wouldn’t ask, but I wouldn’t be bothered if someone asked. |
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"Would you feel comfortable asking if a potential meet has had both vaccines or are you not bothered??
Personal responsibility is key.
Even if you ask they could lie, so just take what precautions you feel are appropriate.
I wouldn’t ask, but I wouldn’t be bothered if someone asked."
I suppose if you have no-one else to worry about apart from yourself then all good. Unfortunately in my job I do have to be careful fully knowing that even though I have had both I could still catch and pass it on. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"No. It makes no difference to transmission. It's not my business if they have or haven't chosen to vaccinate against anything.
I'm more interested in sexual health transparency.
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I dont see it makes a difference as someone with double vaccine can get it and pass it on just the same. Its personal protection at the end of the day.
Ps. Youd soon find out if you go to a club or bar and they cant get in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would be more concerned with a LFT than their vaccination status. They can still carry it but I’m double jabbed so it would be them at risk more than me if they are not jabbed.
However I’ve asked friends to do a LFT - I have friends visiting Sunday (non swingers) and have asked that they do one as I’m having my baby next week and want to be as careful as possible |
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I would want the conversation before meeting. For me it's not primarily about the specifics of what type of jabs when, and not being vaccinated would not be a deal breaker. It's more about the social attitude and understanding of the situation.
If there was somebody that had not been vaccinated and had good rational reasons for that, and we found a mutual attraction, then of course I would still meet up. However I'm sure that (being of similar mind) we would be careful in other ways to minimise any danger to either of us.
Conversely, if it transpired that we had very different attitudes towards vaccination and covid, the conversation would help prevent a disastrous meeting. I'm sure that any anti-vax or covid-denying person would want to avoid me, as much as I would want to avoid them, purely on the grounds of emotional incompatibility. |
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"I don't think i could bear to have sex with anyone who spouted any conspiracy theories.
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Depends what the theory was. If someone told me the moon was made out of Wensleydale cheese, I'm sure we could have a good natter about Wallace and Gromit... |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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"Would you feel comfortable asking if a potential meet has had both vaccines or are you not bothered?? "
If it bothered us then we would ask but we work on the principle that there is a risk regardless of whether we are vaccinated or not. We know the risk and if meeting clearly prepared to run them. |
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