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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was wondering the same?
were couples - couples b4 Fab?
Or have they meet on Fab?
Are all single people wanting to stay single?
would people date?
what do singles want from fab, as lots of people seem to say they not been getting meets  |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
Lincoln |
"I was wondering the same?
were couples - couples b4 Fab?
Or have they meet on Fab?
Are all single people wanting to stay single?
would people date?
what do singles want from fab, as lots of people seem to say they not been getting meets "
Neither of us were looking for any more than casual but it just clicked.
Everyone is very different on here as to what they are looking for, as they are with how they do swinging.
TB |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Not all single people on here want to stay single or are opposed to finding someone on here.
I met my fiance on here in a dungeon thanks to a forum social and we're getting married in two years. It's definitely possible to find that connection with someone but (and this is cliche as fuck), it often happens when you're not looking for it. Being open to what happens works if that's what you want.  |
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We were singles on here and stayed casual for months but it was during lockdown, so we formed a bubble.
Then we realised we both couldn’t lose what we had built up and we’ve been a couple since and decided we wanted to enjoy more fantasies and so set up this profile.
Now we are loving this lifestyle and having the time of our lives 
K |
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"I still have a chest full of heart break so no, no dating for me, damaged goods. "
I here you I still pull back when getting too serious and always put my foot in my mouth but truly believe if it's meant to be they will least try to understand x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I still have a chest full of heart break so no, no dating for me, damaged goods.
I here you I still pull back when getting too serious and always put my foot in my mouth but truly believe if it's meant to be they will least try to understand x "
I'm looking for the goldilocks zone I think, I don't want my sex life to be void of emotion or warmth or friendship, but I don't want a girlfriend either. The last one didn't treat me so nicely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The thought of it being called dating makes me shiver, but I like the idea of what dating brings, days and nights out to places, sex, sharing things. I havnt got time to devote to anyone really ( I like a good devotion) so will just meander on as I am for a while, not having sex or dates or sharing anything   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I still have a chest full of heart break so no, no dating for me, damaged goods. "
I said that once but now I'm engaged. I genuinely thought I was too damaged but it turns out I'm not. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had all kinds of meets over the years OP, clubs, parties etc…. The social aspect can be there depending on the person. I have been recently enjoying hotel meets with my fab friends. Lots of naughtiness in the room , then onto dinner and drinks enjoying one another’s company. I guess it’s kind of a date , but I would never date someone from fab from a relationship point of view |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s not why I came on Fab but if I really hit it off with someone and we were both open to trying the whole dating thing, I wouldn’t rule it out. I haven’t had a long term relationship in years though so they’d have to be very patient and very worth it! |
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"I still have a chest full of heart break so no, no dating for me, damaged goods.
I said that once but now I'm engaged. I genuinely thought I was too damaged but it turns out I'm not. X"
There is hope for me yet then  |
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Think the problem with me is i fight myself too much had a shit childhood shit boyfriends family and friends who are never there so rely on myself too much so when I have a good thing going I seem to fk it up ... but NO ONE seems to care to ask why ... so I walk away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We met as singles, had a month or two of keeping it casual then got together properly. Should’ve been getting married next week  but will be next year instead.
Hopefully that’s a success story!
TB"
I love this. Congratulations to both of you. Fingers crossed your wedding happens soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We met as singles, had a month or two of keeping it casual then got together properly. Should’ve been getting married next week but will be next year instead.
Hopefully that’s a success story!
TB"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met my fiancee right here in the forums 2 years ago and we're getting married early next year so yes there are positive stories and its possible. "
congratulations x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That seems a good mix. The site seems to have a mixture of people with different needs & agenda’s - I guess its a case of finding, what works for you! and may find someone who likes what you like |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
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"I still have a chest full of heart break so no, no dating for me, damaged goods.
I here you I still pull back when getting too serious and always put my foot in my mouth but truly believe if it's meant to be they will least try to understand x
I'm looking for the goldilocks zone I think, I don't want my sex life to be void of emotion or warmth or friendship, but I don't want a girlfriend either. The last one didn't treat me so nicely. "
What you've described is exactly how I feel about things. |
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This time last year the thought of a proper relationship would have made me run a mile. Since then i've had a massive shift in the way i think, mostly due to a health issue (from which i am now on the mend).
During the time i was ill i went from being on here on an old profile, enjoying meets ect to now where i only really came back for the forums. Now i think maybe it's time to find someone that wants to hang around after they've cum |
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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago
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I feel happy here... even without racking up the meets and so very much open minded to the whatever may happen resolve.
At least if something came from meeting here, their'd be plenty to talk about and I'd hope a little more openness than might be found in something more vanilla 
And to be honest, part of me does yearn for that bit more but circumstances don't make things easy and most of that from being screwed over previously.
So all told, think I sit in the middle camp but wouldn't rule anything out, although can be a fool to myself and wear my heart on my sleeve... |
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I’m looking for more, I’d like to have more than just someone text me because it’s Friday and they want an easy shag. I’d like to have an open and honest sex life with a bit of swinging as a side order and have someone that is interested in more than just my boobs. Here I can be more honest than on the dating sites and I am not prepared to settle for a vanilla relationship anymore so I’ll patiently wait here and enjoy a little bit of fun along the way if the opportunity arises |
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"I’m looking for more, I’d like to have more than just someone text me because it’s Friday and they want an easy shag. I’d like to have an open and honest sex life with a bit of swinging as a side order and have someone that is interested in more than just my boobs. Here I can be more honest than on the dating sites and I am not prepared to settle for a vanilla relationship anymore so I’ll patiently wait here and enjoy a little bit of fun along the way if the opportunity arises "
Absolutely this for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think the problem with me is i fight myself too much had a shit childhood shit boyfriends family and friends who are never there so rely on myself too much so when I have a good thing going I seem to fk it up ... but NO ONE seems to care to ask why ... so I walk away "
My PM box is open if you would like to chat sometime  Can't say too much on here but I have some idea where you are coming from with what you are saying here xx |
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"Be good if there an option on profiles to say you are swinging but also looking for a long term relationship swinging partner "
That could go either way though, put people off or have people trying to just get meets by saying they want the same.
I know people who have married after meeting here but it's not what they were looking for, it just happened. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We met as singles, had a month or two of keeping it casual then got together properly. Should’ve been getting married next week but will be next year instead.
Hopefully that’s a success story!
Congrats guys hope next year's more doable
TB"
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I think I’m like the majority of ‘genuine’ singles on here - definitely not actively seeking a relationship - but if I happen to fall head over heels with someone who falls head over heels for me - then fine.
I can’t imagine myself ever getting married again or living with someone 24/7 though. X |
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"Once bitten.
I know some people have found it but having had ny heart broken, its safely tucked away now."
As long as you're enjoying life... Mine was tucked away too - K just breezed in to my life and encouraged me to open the door 
C |
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By *ofdiamondsMan
over a year ago
Between wisbech & Kings lynn |
I'm single and started my fab journey to explore my sexual preferences and develop my sense of self worth.
If I did meet someone here and we really clicked I'd happily give a relationship a try but it's not the end goal |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
Fab relationship is like any other believe it or not. You can click and be happy or fall out over silly shit but can honestly say Fab relationships are way better .. just my opinion |
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"Think the problem with me is i fight myself too much had a shit childhood shit boyfriends family and friends who are never there so rely on myself too much so when I have a good thing going I seem to fk it up ... but NO ONE seems to care to ask why ... so I walk away "
My wife had two terrible marriages before we met, I showed her what a loving relationship felt like and we had some blissful years. She found it tough at first to say “ I love you” but she got there in the end, we were soulmates. She sadly died suddenly last year. Don’t give up x |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"Think the problem with me is i fight myself too much had a shit childhood shit boyfriends family and friends who are never there so rely on myself too much so when I have a good thing going I seem to fk it up ... but NO ONE seems to care to ask why ... so I walk away
My wife had two terrible marriages before we met, I showed her what a loving relationship felt like and we had some blissful years. She found it tough at first to say “ I love you” but she got there in the end, we were soulmates. She sadly died suddenly last year. Don’t give up x "
You had both happy times to remember so
do understand please that you both were proud and happy and you made her happy ?? |
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I'm just going to paste what I said on a similar thread 2 days ago:
"We know lots of couples that are together as a result of meeting on here, us being one of them. To some it's a dating site, to some it's a sex site*, to others it's a chat site, but you know what? If it works for your needs, then it works for your needs.
Frank
*This is how I treated it and look where I've ended up! " |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"I'm just going to paste what I said on a similar thread 2 days ago:
"We know lots of couples that are together as a result of meeting on here, us being one of them. To some it's a dating site, to some it's a sex site*, to others it's a chat site, but you know what? If it works for your needs, then it works for your needs.
Frank
*This is how I treated it and look where I've ended up! ""
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A forumite used to run a dating thread every Sunday (remember those lol).
Six years ago a chap messaged me and three and a half years ago we got married, now we have a house and a kitten (plus 5 kids between us lol).
So yes, you can date someone from fab, you never know you might just marry them!
Danish x |
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